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How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

Holiness

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

No sex. Except she's a virgin. And even if she is I will be using my cap to test the hymen 3x every week so that make another weyrey no go use agbari shift her pant knack am something. If she go lose guard with anyone let it be me. And if she's not a virgin she can take herself somewhere else cos i nor go gree.

You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.

Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.

And d thing go rotten under ur leg

If she has brain, you can get it

purples25:
You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.

Just the same way ladies see *"no money"* relationship as no relationship

JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.

Well, back in the days!


When rape accusation was negligible. You go just invite her, seduce her and she would plead for it! Nowadays, any hint of *"non-consensual sex"* abeg run! Any chat that she can use to back up her stating she won't be involved sexually with you; please fleeeeee.


For the sex to occur,she must verbally, whatsappically, and completely agree

stanvesco:
Just the same way ladies see *"no money"* relationship as no relationship

Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

stanvesco:
Well, back in the days!


When rape accusation was negligible. You go just invite her, seduce her and she would plead for it! Nowadays, any hint of *"non-consensual sex"* abeg run! Any chat that she can use to back up her stating she won't be involved sexually with you; please fleeeeee.


For the sex to occur,she must verbally, whatsappically, and completely agree

Na only poor girls deh carry this kind mentality around.

Go after ladies with vision and absolute intelligence and you will be amazed...

No too much drama.

if she hasn't had it before and you confirmed it, then you should wait. but if not , you should run

purples25:
Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

This is already happening ma'am.

This is the reason for the boom in the hookup industry!


Hello babe. How r u. How much. When are you coming. Slam bam boom. Thanks for coming. Alert sent. We see again.




Since Many women rely on men for money; many innocent otherwise faithful girlfriends have joined the hookup lane

Nlfpmod

Firstly, the guy should also put no money in the relationship. If the lady refuses and thinks she needed to be given money then understand she is a manipulator who wants your resources only and nothing else.

If she accepts no money in the relationship then she is good to go and has a clear thought process. You guys can go ahead in studying your personality and leave money and sex out of the relationship. That's a win win for the both of you since more than 90% of ladies think it's not their duty to spend money during relationship.

The only exception to this rule is when the lady is a generous spender who is ready to equally spend on the guy just as the guy spends on her meaning their spending power should be equivalent and it's verified that the lady is a virgin, I don't mean secondary and tertiary virgins else the relationship shouldn't take place in the first place.

stanvesco:
Well, back in the days!


When rape accusation was negligible. You go just invite her, seduce her and she would plead for it! Nowadays, any hint of *"non-consensual sex"* abeg run! Any chat that she can use to back up her stating she won't be involved sexually with you; please fleeeeee.


For the sex to occur,she must verbally, whatsappically, and completely agree

If not, wetyn go happen?

sexy74:
Holiness

It's not about holiness, it's about how to woodwink the guy into marrying them with zero commitment from her. Same girl tell her to Express her love by buying gifts for her partner she will say it's not her duty so which holiness are you talking about? Someone that is holy will know that love is do unto others as u like others do unto you

How do you completely rule out money spending from a relationship?

One way or the other, money must be spent. Dont be naive about that.

Even your airtime and data na money you take dey buy am.

purples25:
You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.

U know the answer already, it's because you ladies don't offer anything else apart sex. For a man he offers sex and money and other stuff in relationships but most women don't.

You think a girl who offers money like her man and says no sex will be rejected? Nope
Any lady who says that to me I will say no money in relationships also because they usually don't bring money in relationships. If money and sex is out and she accepts the relationship then we are cool.

How will a tertiary virgin tell me no sex relationship and I'm not a fool to know she is manipulating and expect me to bring my resources for someone that may have done 3 to 8 abortions.

JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.

Na mumu girl. Me wetin I dey do is to reverse the equation by telling them no money or any obligation in the relationship. No sex and no money in the relationship. See how ladies who have probably done abortions giving men conditions. Na just manipulation and nothing else

idahme:
Na mumu girl. Me wetin I dey do is to reverse the equation by telling them no money or any obligation in the relationship. No sex and no money in the relationship. See how ladies who have probably done abortions giving men conditions. Na just manipulation and nothing else

Yeah, quite a Manipulation.

.....So relationship is nw transactional?.....

Heaven

DiskJokeyManic:
.....So relationship is nw transactional?.....

DP means Dey Play

DiskJokeyManic:
.....So relationship is nw transactional?.....

Even your relationship with God, is it not transactional?

Your offerings and tithes, is it not you giving God money, in hope that he gives you Blessings, and whatever other things you expect from Him?

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

If she stops suddenly having sex and says no sex, then there is a problem, other than that you can choose to walk away and save yourselves the drama.

Collecting secret dickson

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

You only feel this way because you prioritize sex. Guys who are open to other benefits don’t have issues dating virgins or celibate ladies.

This is one of the reasons virgins and celibate ladies are quite picky. They might like a guy and still decline him when he approaches because they perceive that he is the type who would prioritize sex in a relationship.

Simply don't date a virgin or a celibate lady. If you are dating one, make it clear to her that you can't stand a relationship without sex. I am sure she will let you go easily; she is probably used to it by now and must have met a lot of guys like you.

I have no problem with that, as far as the girl in question is not getting it from out.

purples25:
Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

Quite shameful for you as a lady