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essentialone:
If not, wetyn go happen?

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

purples25:
You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.

JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

purples25:
Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

essentialone:
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

essentialone:
How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him, when she suddenly says 'No sex' in the relationship?
What else will the guy gain from dating her?
Since relationship is mutual, and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her?

idahme:
Firstly, the guy should also put no money in the relationship. If the lady refuses and thinks she needed to be given money then understand she is a manipulator who wants your resources only and nothing else.

If she accepts no money in the relationship then she is good to go and has a clear thought process. You guys can go ahead in studying your personality and leave money and sex out of the relationship. That's a win win for the both of you since more than 90% of ladies think it's not their duty to spend money during relationship.

The only exception to this rule is when the lady is a generous spender who is ready to equally spend on the guy just as the guy spends on her meaning their spending power should be equivalent and it's verified that the lady is a virgin, I don't mean secondary and tertiary virgins else the relationship shouldn't take place in the first place.

purples25:
Exactly, then nobody should ask anybody for anything again. Let's just get to know each other. Keep your hands off my body, I too will keep off your money.

essentialone:
How do you completely rule out money spending from a relationship?

One way or the other, money must be spent. Dont be naive about that.

Even your airtime and data na money you take dey buy am.

essentialone:
Your offerings and tithes, is it not you giving God money, in hope that he gives you Blessings, and whatever other things you expect from Him?

koladata:
if she hasn't had it before and you confirmed it, then you should wait. but if not , you should run

dominique:
These same guys will be groaning about a woman's body counts yet they expect her to open her legs to every man that indicates interest in her. Very unstable sets of people

sexy74:
Holiness

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"