₦airaland Forum

DeepSight:
Dont listen to anyone, you are spot on right on this one, especially the bold.
The brother is a disgrace.

With your comments, I would advise your dad to go for the DNA

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe.

Look at what this one is capping?
truly i shame on your behalf

EmperorCaesar:


That kin family

What kinda value are they trying to instill in their children with this kinda action taken to punish a 'righteous' brother

How Bible take talk am sef. This one has lost his family for the sake of truth, hin go get another families in 10 folds

That kin family plenty for dis contri

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe.

Say what now?

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe.

There is no diplomacy in righteousness, now answer this, if the poor husband was your brother would you say this?

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe.

That's the problem we have as Nigerians , we love to see people hurt as long as they are not our family members

You are a wicked person for not been wicked when you are supposed to be wicked.

The guy did the right thing.
Shame on those that think otherwise.

God bless you man, you are a righteous person, God is with you, you are with the majority

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe.

its mindset like this that got us here in this country. Good is Good. Evil is Evil.
There are consequences for things.
Everyone trying to conceal problem and cut corners only to backfire in the future.
Cheating with family support wat do u call that.

CJStarz:
No Igbo man would do this to his family.
He could have found other ways of halting or correcting the sister.
Las las, family above all.

Why are you speaking on behalf of igbo men here ?

Normal

aswani:
Why should you be wary if you don't cheat or plan to?

Its absolutely nothing to do with whether I cheat or not. I am your sibling and you are not policeman or policewoman over my marriage - at best your role is to render positive advise to me. It is not, and can never be your role to expose my fvuck-ups to my significant other. Family is like a cult, the levels of loyalty expected are intense. Somone, MadamVanessa said up there quite as much, and so many sanctimous unthinking iidiots have been insulting her. She said it right - family covers alot - and I could not agree more. If our families were all so sanctimonous and felt it to be thier duty to expose our wrongdoings to our partners because they are oh so principled, very few families will hold up in this world.

Coming to your question, u should be wary of any sibling that you see betraying or exposing his or her sibling in that manner. It tells alot about the snitch, and you should be afraid of that person at once. That person has shown that he or she is a snake, is destructive, has no restraint or wisdom, etc.

For heavens sake many friends will be far more loyal than this silly "brother."

He knows nothing about life. He refers to the man as his "destiny helper" as though he fell from the sky and was not brought into that family by that sister he is throwing under the bus. Why does he presume that that man has not cheated and does he think the man's own family will be so sanctimonous? Later in life, when things get hard for him, he will look for his family, and will be very lucky to find them.

He is just immature and so are 99 per cent of the posters on this topic.

This situation is morally grey. While your actions reflect integrity toward someone who greatly benefited you, they also reveal a willingness to prioritize external loyalty over familial bonds. Whether or not this was the "right" thing to do depends on your values and the outcomes you are willing to accept. Reconciliation with your family may take time, but staying true to your principles is important.

Finally, just stay safe both physically and spiritually

RodgersAkpafu:
If he caught his brother cheating
would he have snitched to the wife?


Some men are just irredeemable stupid

Are you sure you understand the story?

Good one, its unfortunate some parents are complicit in encouraging promiscuous women.

I invite you to read Esther Vilar's book '' The manipulated man''.

Gandrova:
With your comments, I would advise your dad to go for the DNA

I am not worried because the chances that most of you commenting here are under 25 (just as the OP is) - is very high.
So you guys know nothing about life.

princepee:
so you snitched on your sister?
Did you speak with her before telling her husband
Now that she and the family have lost everything what's your gain??

Family first.
I still believe you should have spoken to her to change before going to her husband to make yourself a hero.

He said the first time she cheated she got pregnant and aborted it , I believe he spoke to her during that period but she didn't stop she continued after that

ArcFresky:
Dude did right.

People just like making nice people feel like mugu.

In Nigeria, good/kind people are described and treated like fools but the bad/wicked people are described or treated as smart.

Guess what! From my experience, the said "fools" always laugh last while the said smarties and their fans always end up disappointed or disgraced. Just that it takes time but being good remains the right thing but you need to equally be vigilant/observant.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will use that to taunt and ridicule you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

I see your point. But please expatiate on the "consequences" you have in mind.

Reporting her misdeeds to the husband was in a bid to save his life

Mrfeel:
Are you sure you understand the story?

I do
brother snitched on the sis

RodgersAkpafu:
I do
brother snitched on the sis

And your question was ?

Perfect job. Let those she was cheating with take over her responsibility.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

It's a cheat dt always defend a cheat...means you're cheating on dt innocent man at home if you really have a man in ur life...

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will use that to taunt and ridicule you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

Madam forget about your so called self-righteous tag! All I want to tell you is that what you just said is the reason we are messed up today as a country. Aiding and abetting evil!!!

EmperorCaesar:


That kin family

What kinda value are they trying to instill in their children with this kinda action taken to punish a 'righteous' brother

How Bible take talk am sef. This one has lost his family for the sake of truth, hin go get another families in 10 folds

Is how foolish the lady is for allowing her family use her for their selfish reasons. Eventually when it will backfire, they will turn against her That lady is the biggest shediot of the century

I really cherished the courage of the guy spilling beans of her sister dark secret to her sister's husband...

We are highly in this Nation but very very unGodly.

God is The Most Patience, The Most Merciful.

May forgive us all our knowingly and unknowingly sins that we commit every seconds.

lol

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

Mrfeel:
And your question was ?

reversing the roles
If it was his brother, not sister

Where is everybody just so dark hearted I don't even understand the society we all live in anymore,people would just turn a blind eye to what's right and defend what's not right with full chest knowing fully that what they are defending is bad, without eveb caring for the later impact.
I just tire.
Honestly am just tired of humans lately.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

What consequences are you talking about please?
The dude did just right, I will do the same thing certainly.