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Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Rearealki(op): 5:25pm On Nov 30, 2024
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Sonnobax15(m): 5:26pm On Nov 30, 2024
lipsrsealed
Don't be too desperate bro.....

For sure there are still good bannies out there... Just that it's very unfortunate and saddening that the wayward ones exceed the good ones...And that's just the sad reality about relationship of nowadays....

Na why I still dey manage my own be that,cuz leaving her,and thinking I'd find someone better than her is a riisk I don't wanna take....
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Mrwhite09: 5:28pm On Nov 30, 2024
80% probability that u broke or struggling guy. if you are financially okay 80% of Nigerian girls are single
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Nazgul: 5:29pm On Nov 30, 2024
Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Sonnobax15(m):
Mrwhite09:
80% probability that u broke or struggling guy. if you are financially okay 80% of Nigerian girls are single
. You're so damn right bro........A rich guy will definitely meet single bannies who are definitely in serious relationships grin
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by psucc(m): 5:32pm On Nov 30, 2024
You must meet your match!
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Sonnobax15(m): 5:33pm On Nov 30, 2024
Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.
. Nah bruh......In most cases,I ask especially if I have a "thingy" for you....At least,so that I won't end up wasting my time on another man's serious GF undecided
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Nazgul: 5:37pm On Nov 30, 2024
Sonnobax15:
. Nah bruh......In most cases,I ask especially if I have a "thingy" for you....At least,so that I don't end up wasting my time on another man's serious GF undecided
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Sonnobax15(m): 5:39pm On Nov 30, 2024
Nazgul:
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.
. You're right bro...
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Zonefree(m): 6:13pm On Nov 30, 2024
Nazgul:
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.
I want to believe your last line is a joke, right?

Planning to build a future with someone because he has a nice house and sustainable job is the highest form of stupidity.
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by helinues: 6:17pm On Nov 30, 2024
The question is are you a good guy. It's very easy to yes but you need to think deeply before answering
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by helinues: 6:18pm On Nov 30, 2024
Nazgul:
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.
Which planet are you from bro

grin
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Nkupu(f): 6:19pm On Nov 30, 2024
helinues:
Which planet are you from bro

grin
Arguing yet?
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Rearealki(op): 7:10pm On Nov 30, 2024
helinues:
The question is are you a good guy. It's very easy to yes but you need to think deeply before answering
I know I am not a bad guy
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by BigDawsNet: 7:15pm On Nov 30, 2024
Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.
Whats your financial status?

When a lady you met said shes into relationship.. most times she thinks you aint capable financially s they tell you that so you ca backoff

But when u loaded u... even if they are really in a relationship... they will still give you some attention
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by 1Sharon(f): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2024
Check your character.
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by wunmi590(m): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2024
huh

Don't limit your search to only your area, there are alot of women out there more than men, some guys even date 10 women at the same time...
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by helinues: 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2024
Rearealki:
I know I am not a bad guy
Like I said, that's very easy to say

Ladies are just so easy to get, with or without money. I am not talking of al this I never chop girls oo

As long as you can tell them what they have not been hearing before ( not talking about lying oo). Most guys conversation is mostly about sex, if you made yours different and do normal talking, they should be attracted to you

Same ladies that some of us stopped going out because na him someone no even dey get.

This life no balance oo
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by olukaygold(m): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2024
Keep calm bro! Work on yourself,Your self esteem, work on your finances, try to be financially Okay, and the right one will locate You, just don't be in a rush.
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Raxxye(m): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2024
E go hard o. There's no wife material among Gen Z's!
Try single mothers!
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Carndidlaydid(f): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2024
angry


All men want to date or marry a good girl but fvck with the bad ones

Dead gender like this being oyewale0001
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Oluwafemi1990: 7:17pm On Nov 30, 2024
Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.
Op, we dey the same shoe oooooo!
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by FreeStuffsNG: 7:19pm On Nov 30, 2024
Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.
One of the qualities to get great girls is patience wink Be patient
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by AirBere: 7:19pm On Nov 30, 2024
Mrwhite09:
80% probability that u broke or struggling guy. if you are financially okay 80% of Nigerian girls are single
99% are single. Have money that's all
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by DeeScan: 7:20pm On Nov 30, 2024
Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.
👍👍👍

never would i be ever committed to a girl ..
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by illicit(m):
Nazgul:
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.
Bros u are funny...

😂
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Ishilove: 7:21pm On Nov 30, 2024
Na because you get bad character. Change your character, or go to Shiloh
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Righthussle:
How can you be looking for girls when they're in churches praying for you to come their way.
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by johnog4sure: 7:21pm On Nov 30, 2024
while married men like me keep meeting single ladies, before I even finish toasting they already tell me they are single, somebody must be lieing
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Tayorshd87(m): 7:23pm On Nov 30, 2024
No one is married or hooked up with someone is probably because u are not financially bouyant or have a good job 👏

After that nothing else again bro .


So the end of the story is that double your hustle to enjoy life or fu*k any banny d way I want
..

Enjoy bro
Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Rearealki(op): 7:23pm On Nov 30, 2024
Ishilove:
Na because you get bad character. Change your character, or go to Shiloh
😂 It's not even like a character thing sha. I am not meeting single ladies na only married or engaged ladies
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