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Stolen:
GO AND CHECK ALL THIS MUMU THREAD, IT IS USUALLY YORUBA MEN.


IN THOSE PARTS DONT THEY GET MARRIED EVERYDAY?



OR MARRIAGE DON STOP BECAUSE OF BRIDE PRICE?



BRIDE PRICE IS WHERE WE SHOW OFF TO OUR INLAW, THEY GAIN CONFIDENCE IN A=OUR ABULITY TO LOOK AFTER THEIR DAUGHTER AND GRANDCHILDREN.


THEY KNOW WE WORK HARD AND EARN A WAGE SUFFICIENT FOR THE TASK.


MARRIAGE IS NOT FREE, IT IS NOT FOR THE UNEMPLYED OR BROKE TO CREATE NUSISANCE IN SOCIETY THAT WILL BE ON THE STREET BEGGING.


IT IS FOR COMPETENT ESTABLISHED MEN

You need to calm the Bleep down.
Typing in all caps doesn't make your voice heard, nor make your point more valid that anyone else on here.

luminouz:
At least I fûcked her for free and your cousin paid 1.5M for that. Did I tell you at one time my diick slipped out and she put it back, in her ass?🤣🤣

continue funking for free jare while we continue getting richer. I wish you what you wish yourself.

TheBillyonaire:
I consider the fact that bride price is supposed to be up to 50 million naira. Marriage is worth more than the price of a tokunbo Prado.

But I know your family will give out your sister for 100K and a pack of indomie to show she is not for sale. You all are myopic for not seeing that the money is basically for consumables. The drinks and food is meant for guests and some cloths for parents.

Poverty should not have companion, cos its suicidal these days if one does not have cash in this era.

Label your own children and siblings for 200mil ok 😂, they will grow old in their father’s compound. A family truly blessed doesn’t have your kind of mindset that sees marriage as an escape route from poverty

Taich:
. It doesn’t work that way, when those villagers about to get married, they give what they have, sale crops, bring goats, sale farm lands. Bride price is not static, you negotiate, come to a compromise. Like I said earlier, bride price is test. How u go through shows your character.

You guys sell farm lands to pay bride price? That's insanity. Bride prize is meant to be symbolic and hence just a token. The other wedding expenses should be cost of entertainment and the wedding proper. Now in most societies cost of entertaining guests is borne by the brides family. That's because its the brides family that is receiving and entertaining guests. The bridegroom, family and friends come to the bride's family to ask for her hand in marriage. I can understand if the brides family is dirt poor and the bridegroom decides to help in entertaining guests, but I have never understood the culture of the bridegroom not only paying to entertaining his own family and friends in his bride's house, but also to entertaining the whole village.

The young is not ready to get Married. My marriage list over 6yeara ago is much more than #3.5m , how much more now 2024. He should remain single Biko, marriage isn't by force. Besides, this amount is TOTAL , not just bride price only, Overall total bill from list, it's a small money.

He should rush and pay that money or else another sharp Man will take his place.

Kellymario:
The young is not ready to get Married. My marriage list over 6yeara ago is much more than #3.5m , how much more now 2024. He should remain single Biko, marriage isn't by force. Besides, this amount is TOTAL , not just bride price only, Overall total bill from list, it's a small money.

He should rush and pay that money or else another sharp Man will take his place.

How much do you project a young man starting life, just out of school and probably working for about 5 years to be making in order to be ready for marriage?
If your traditional marriage 6 years ago was more than N6 million, how much did you spend for the total marriage - including religious and court weddings? How much did you use to start your family - housing, feeding, bills, etc.? How did you earn as a bachelor? How do you make your money (hussle) - legitimately or criminally?

TheBillyonaire:
That is the fact. If he is complaining of 3.5m, how much does think wedding costs? No woman deserves to meet such unfortunate man. They are looking for girls to sleep with at a cost of bread.

He should be gay.

This one just be opening wide stinking mouth shouting he should be gay like say women don finish for this world. Rubbish. Let the illiterate greedy family keep their stupid daughter until the highest bidder comes by to buy her like a bag of rice. After all marriage ain't free like you earlier insinuated, it's business.

Villa12:
continue funking for free jare while we continue getting richer. I wish you what you wish yourself.

this one thinks it's only poor people who have s*x

Rich people f*ck more than poor people if you don't know, and guess what, the even get richer. Dey there dey f*ol yourself

Villa12:
continue funking for free jare while we continue getting richer. I wish you what you wish yourself.

Lol...nah...she will still fûck me in your cousin's house...and also give me his money and take care of the bastards I give her too, using his money.

Let's put his money to good use😉

ednut1:
He was prepared to sponsor her education in uk which costs over 40m naira but cant pay 3.5m? If you love her just carry am go court and promise to come back for the list. Then run 😂

You wicked pass me o!

GboyegaD:
You are the one not reading my message right. Please, take a back step and read it again.

Your message asserts that people from same ethnicity means they are kinsmen that's what I'm trying to correct which you seem not to understand.

wirinet:
You guys sell farm lands to pay bride price? That's insanity. Bride prize is meant to be symbolic and hence just a token. The other wedding expenses should be cost of entertainment and the wedding proper. Now in most societies cost of entertaining guests is borne by the brides family. That's because its the brides family that is receiving and entertaining guests. The bridegroom, family and friends come to the bride's family to ask for her hand in marriage. I can understand if the brides family is dirt poor and the bridegroom decides to help in entertaining guests, but I have never understood the culture of the bridegroom not only paying to entertaining his own family and friends in his bride's house, but also to entertaining the whole village.

Like I suggested, if you feel you are been extorted, please live the lady alone and marry from families u are comfortable with the ways. Don degenerate people’s way of life because you have a false feeling that yours is superior.

MrPresidon:
this one thinks it's only poor people who have s*x

Rich people f*ck more than poor people if you don't know, and guess what, the even get richer. Dey there dey f*ol yourself

another poor man spotted

Sonnobax15:

How person go sell family land just to marry burden put for house

God abeg oh.

ednut1:
He was prepared to sponsor her education in uk which costs over 40m naira but cant pay 3.5m? If you love her just carry am go court and promise to come back for the list. Then run 😂

The guy wasn't interested in her. If he was, he would have done exactly that to get his lady.

idahme:
Free sex? I guess they should all turn osho so as to please you. You have sex with the man , just as you offered your body he also offered his body too so what is the fuse? After all pleasure the man will still carry all liabilities on his head? If you like you all should not learn how to be responsible. Join your men and help him carry the liabilities you all bring.

sex always have more repercussions on the female than on the male .stop typing nonsense...she is being deflowered and disvirgined and on the male child nothing is being noticed there cos they have a pole not a hole...and as for responsibility it should be on the male child cos they are the head of the house....pride price is a criteria to know the man's worth...I am sure you wouldn't want any of your female relatives to marry a poor man

Dynoz01:
sex always have more repercussions on the female than on the male .stop typing nonsense...she is being deflowered and disvirgined and on the male child nothing is being noticed there cos they have a pole not a hole...and as for responsibility it should be on the male child cos they are the head of the house....pride price is a criteria to know the man's worth...I am sure you wouldn't want any of your female relatives to marry a poor man

I don't exchange words with people ofow critical thinking skills. Enjoy

Taich:
. It doesn’t work that way, when those villagers about to get married, they give what they have, sale crops, bring goats, sale farm lands. Bride price is not static, you negotiate, come to a compromise. Like I said earlier, bride price is test. How u go through shows your character.

Different locations

luminouz:
A fair deal?
So the daughter is a used vehicle!!!

You clowns are hilarious....so the dude is a red flag for refusing to pay that much on a woman he is still gonna sponsor to the UK?
Una no go kee me with una mumu analysis🤣🤣🤣👋

It's not bay force to marry their daughter na.
Why not dash him your own sister for free?

ClitRaider:
It's not bay force to marry their daughter na.
Why not dash him your own sister for free?

He is not marrying her again....so why are you still crying?

Clown

TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.

If just bride price is costing 3.5 mil, what would the wine carrying cost? What would the trad wedding cost. Oh sorry did I forget the white wedding?
All cost on the youngman. What is best for the family, that they marry their daughter themselves or that she is married off and in extension less responsibility for the family?
We should think very well, that is not the way