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Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by nautybride: 9:38pm On Dec 02, 2024
huh
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by luminouz(m): 9:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
Dittodat:
grin
No mind that one forming Margaret Thatcher

If she sees any man now, she go rape am
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by nautybride: 9:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
huh
Woman matter no dey tire these men.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by peterboro: 9:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
Matters arising!!!
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Softmirror: 9:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
No wonder you are always displaying your frustration on NL.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by 46arcadez(m): 9:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Time will tell
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Dittodat: 9:40pm On Dec 02, 2024
luminouz:
No mind that one forming Margaret Thatcher

If she sees any man now, she go rape am
grin
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Adakintroy: 9:40pm On Dec 02, 2024
Na way one man one wife even us all out. Its just naturally impossible.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by lereinter(m): 9:41pm On Dec 02, 2024
RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
You just stated the fact
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by casualobserver: 9:43pm On Dec 02, 2024
Women control the key to sex, men have the key to wedding
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by adams123: 9:44pm On Dec 02, 2024
PerfectStranger:
Ah even pastor dey laugh
Did u call this one a pastor? Is unfortunate!
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Okwyjesus(m): 9:45pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Stop talking rubbish. Marriage is good and beautiful.

Feminist mindset and independency won't help you in older age when companion will be treasured than ever
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Bar1941(m): 9:45pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Men don show this one shege!
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Oshin56(m): 9:51pm On Dec 02, 2024
illicit:
Exactly

It's same for every gender

To date no be big problem, but to marry hard o
girls dey plenty but when the time to settle down come that's when you will know that wife material are not much
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by stagger: 9:52pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Those that feel it is overrated either had unrealistic expectations about it, or got married to someone who did not bring value to the union.
Some of us got married to women that brought and added heavy value to the union, while also getting it back in multiple fold from us. But again, I am an older Gen X guy. Na my children wey I dey fear for with the kind of mentality the Gen Zs have.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Loveenthed: 9:52pm On Dec 02, 2024
Dittodat:
No wonder 🤔
Pele, hope you still dey find someone to help you out from time to time. I mean a good hard stiff one grin
Make una leave the lady alone nagrin

Person talk say she no do again, Una dey disturb her. Na by Force niiigrin
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by drehdinho(m): 9:52pm On Dec 02, 2024
I laugh when I read somewhere in this thread that the same is applicable to men.

A man doesn't have any problem getting a woman to marry. In fact, he can always drop one and move to another. The society won't count it as anything.

A lady can't do that. Is either she goes into a marriage where she's broken for the rest of her life or get it right.

The Op is saying the truth.

A lady that confuses men admiration to acceptance will end up being damaged.

A lot of men would want to sleep with you but are never ready to take you serious as a woman. And if care is not taking if such lady fails to discipline herself, she may end up in Shiloh just as the Op has rightly stated.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Hemanwel(m): 9:54pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Stop discouraging the younger and upcoming generation from going into marriage. It didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by idahme(m): 9:56pm On Dec 02, 2024
RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
It's not worse, the condition is both parties are already dating but one is willing to get married because basically whether she has something or nothing it doesn't affect her willingness to get married while for men it's usually not so that is why commitment is harder for guys than ladies. If the reverse is the case commitment will be harder for ladies than the guy.

The person who needs little or no finance is more prone to look for commitment because little is at stake while the person who has the money is more prone not to commit because a lot is at stake.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by hotwax: 9:58pm On Dec 02, 2024
Oshin56:
girls dey plenty but when the time to settle down come that's when you will know that wife material are not much
Madam, I don use promise of marriage fck many girls. Omooor girls are desperate for marriage. Forget about the online debate. Shilloh and holygost convention don see shege
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by mastermaestro(m): 9:58pm On Dec 02, 2024
illicit:
Exactly

It's same for every gender

To date no be big problem, but to marry hard o
Yours truly found this out recently. cheesy Dating is easy o, but come marry. Then you will realise that you just entered an advanced examination hall. grin Almost gave up the idea all together. Na just GOD give me psychological strength to sustain the search. I been don tire. grin
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Nobody: 9:59pm On Dec 02, 2024
illicit:
Exactly

It's same for every gender

To date no be big problem, but to marry hard o
Big lie. For a man to marry it's easy. Na we dey select.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Harddiskng(m): 10:04pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Oga stop capping.

Nobody is happy to be single and lonely most especially when you are woman pass 30 years of age.

The feeling that it seems no man wants “you”, definitely adds to your depression undecided
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Nobody: 10:06pm On Dec 02, 2024
46arcadez:
Time will tell
Which time again. Time done taya for that one. She's just saving face here. Person that cries to sleep every night. intimacy gadgets and cucumbers have suffered terribly.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by ruffhandu: 10:08pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
you mean you used to be married but not anymore?
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by BarrElChapo(m): 10:12pm On Dec 02, 2024
Tell ‘em’
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by omooba05: 10:14pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Which independence and freedom.. u are consoling yourself.. dey play
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Seunomobo: 10:18pm On Dec 02, 2024
Wealthoptulent:
So have you toiled to get one ?
You can check TEMU or Ali Express grin
Jokes aside, have you bought any item on Temu before, and do they ship to Nigeria?
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by femi4: 10:19pm On Dec 02, 2024
Gistmedia10:
Social media user ThatBlessedGirl stirred online conversations with her post:

"Girls will think men are easy and cheap to get. Until it’s time to get married. You’ll realise that commitment from men might even require you to go to Shiloh." shocked

This statement highlights the challenges women face when seeking long-term commitment from men, particularly in the context of marriage. The mention of Shiloh, a well-known annual Christian prayer retreat, implies the level of spiritual dedication some may feel is necessary to secure a serious commitment. shocked

Netizens flooded the comment section with divided opinions. Some agreed, sharing personal experiences of how men often hesitate to commit, while others felt it unfairly placed blame on women.
Boy friend n girl friend commitments na child's play compare to that of husband n wife
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by boxypane: 10:21pm On Dec 02, 2024
Truth. Likewise the other way round. Na hookup full everywhere now.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by omooba05: 10:22pm On Dec 02, 2024
LegeMiami is a sure plug in this aspect.. Just be ready for curse and swear.. as your head no wan correct.. You dey look for cheap husband and wife.. just holla lege.. you must collect
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Maeve7: 10:25pm On Dec 02, 2024
G0Oodharddick:
Men are easy to get abi? Oya go and get Elon musk, Cristano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi na let's see, abi are they not men?

Dear Women,

The earlier you understand that men have the key to commitment in relationship and marriage, the better for you!

A girl can say she wants to get married before 24, 25, but once a man doesn't show commitment in marrying her, she'll be single till 30! That's to tell you that men are the prize!
You are the biggest prize. grin
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