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Nigerian guys go dey shout marriage up and down like it has any tangible benefits to them asides having kids.

Every Saturday they make themselves the retirement plans of these spent, overfûcked sluts and later, wonder why Nigeria ranks very high in paternity fraud. Bunch of sex-starved, ignorant fools who think they know women.

The-make-money-first-and-women-would-be-loyal-to-you, division of Nigerian SIMPs don't know that there is a level of comfortability that you give to a woman that makes them bored, begin to resent the comfort you gave her, and go cheat on you with men much lesser than you in financial worth and social status, while finding a way of placing the blame on you.

Having tons of women swarm you every now and then, is a sweet feeling, especially when your money and social status improves, but the stuff of great men is having a high level of control and discipline over your sexual urges and instincts. If you fail to develop this, the risk of setting up yourself for future disasters is high.

The ladies that you see in the society who are rich and influential like the Alakijas (not your flashy, fake instagram celebrities who give an illusion of wealth. I'm talking about those with multi-million dollars assets. Celebrity flashiness is a lot different from true wealth) are women who either inherited wealth from their very wealthy families or who use their femininity in getting wealthier men to sponsor their business or career without throwing pusssy around excessively (some nollywood "actresses" who build businesses and are successful without being talented lol, fall into this category despite being also flashy).

u tink say, dat hooker for Quilox (and other bars, Nightclub), instamessage etc, wey dey hustle different dicks every weekends and manage to get iPhone, use some costly hair extensions and buy some flashy dresses, come post for social media, don finally make money? Use your 6. Na street u dey.

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Oloshos are usually broke

JESHAL007:
Most women lure men into commitment with the illusion that they would get unlimited supply of endless enthusiastic sex

Yes. That's the number 1 reason most men marry these days: the Fantasy of lifetime access to pussy.

Truth be told, on a different scale, a lot of these ladies use these fake enhancements to appeal to the vanity of their rich simp cucks.

As we blame these ladies, these rich simps have a portion in it too because they love and encourage these self-hating behaviours in women which reflects their inherent shitty personalities too.

Ladies knowing this have now taken it beyond fake hair extensions into skin bleaching, breast enhancement and butt lift surgeries which these rich but empty men find appealing. It's crazy.

Women can never find you attractive when they don't respect you.

Men in love and men who have the hope of love illusion are the ones that are the most difficult to discuss the red pill with, except they are open minded and receptive of new information. They learn best at heartbreak and other nonsense that comes with long term relationships.

It's nothing to worry about, Chief. Men that have always rejected the red pill often get driven back to it, by the women that they worship. This is the only thing that I appreciate in women.

If as a man, na only your diick, u dey think with, woman go reset ur foolishness wen dem show u shege.

emmaodet:
I have a God-son who i do send errands regularly and also do give advice occasionally.
Due to scarcity and struggling, he ended up dating a single mother of 1....A young man that was changing girls during his active days when still collecting money from parent and elder ones abroad to flex but after graduation, everything stopped.
Rather than calling family members for help and regular finance, now they scold him of being lazy and should be the one working and atleast giving back to his mother.
Life starts at the end of our comfort zone.......Going forward, his life started spiraling downward.
From a guy dating young hot girls to a man struggling and begging to tame down a single mother of 1.
Red flag 1...............................relocated to lagos for job search and staying with the lady.
On no condition should you pack to a lady's house to be feeding you and housing you.
Things started smoothly initially but as time goes on and he was struggling with a 30k private school teaching in lagos while lady selling okirika in market, she started drawing back.
Became moody, occasional mood swings, followed by closing legs ....no more sex followed by occasional outburst, insults, quarrels etc
I know how many times he has called me with tears, how he has sacrificed alot for the lady. How the lady was crying and begging for him not to dump her at their initial dating stage because she is a single mother and now, the lady went for a 3 months course in home care and working in Lekki as a house girl with her own BQ earning 150k per month.
Now lady is tired of him and says she is no more interested. He is lazy and unambitious blah blah blah
I just pity him

Why did the single mother dated him to start with? Why is she now complaining about things she saw from the beginning?

Was she just using him for sex?

When a woman give you the "no marriage no sex" rule and as a simp you start making plans for marriage (probably because of sex) then your life is FINISHED.

After marriage is when the scales will fall off the simp's eyes. When a woman gives you a first condition/request/commandment and you oblige, expect 1001 more unreasonable conditions from her grin

You need to get out there and see how miserable, sexually frustrated and desperate a lot of young and old men out there are for women's attention.

A lady, Bella Thorne earned 2 million dollars on her OnlyFans account in a week (all payed by SIMPs) bases in her promise to post her nudes. The nudes were never posted.

If our economy got better and we had better spending power, Nigeria will have the highest number of simps in Africa and may rival the US in the world.

All over Africa, Nigerian guys are known to be the only set of men who foolishly spend money to attract the attention of women. Then, broke-shame themselves and other men to get ahead. From South Africa, Zambia to Kenya.

Nigerian guys dey simp like hopeless fools too but poor economy makes them have low spending power.

Even with that, a lot of guys here know a guy (they could be the ones too), who has spent his school fees in higher institution to take care of a girl who has parents/guardian taking care of her.

. Most of these hoes that guys wife up, every saturday aren't cut out for marriage.

If you think money is the only thing to keep a woman, you are the biggest fool in the world. With money, you'll attract women but they will only eat your money and still treat you like crap. Stories of ladies cheating on very rich men and even divorcing them abounds everywhere.

emmaodet:
Case 2 -

A close church member who was doing fine during jonathan's era but things tumbled when buhari entered.
Started struggling financially and as if that is not enough, the inevitable of wife wahala in the absence of money followed.
Have experienced like 2 occasions where they were arguing furiously in my sitting room and almost beat each other.
The man always complain about little to no sex in the marriage.
Example, last year, he told me he can count how many times he slept with his wife which was just 4 times in a 365 days calendar year.
Not that he is not active or his dick not raising but his wife is just not interested in the sex.
She married him because he was doing fine then and not because she love him. Even when he was doing fine, she only gives him sex grudgingly and occasional after begging, begging and talking.
last year, they hard little quarrel as usual and instead of woman to beg so as to get weekly feeding money, she called a married man where she sells things at mechanic village to help her out.
Husband got to know later and it escalated......ever since, the marriage has gone south.
Husband took the case to pastor, called his family for meeting, called wife family for meeting, called neighbors, we friends to attend to the issue yet both husband and wife are not shifting their ground. No one ones to agree he or she is at fault.
To cut the story short, the wife has been receiving serious lashing from the outside man, infact she has gone haywire.
For a woman that always complain about not liking sex, now sleeping around and dem dey fork shege commot for her body.
The huband has been crying up and down. Always posting on whatsapp about how a good woman should respect her husband, a good woman should cherish her family and what she has blah blah blah..
I don't blame him though, he is suffering from self esteem due to being a bot handicapped...legs not balanced so he believes no woman will fancy him outside that he is even lucky iya Bola choosed him
Inside life

What would you do in the place of the handicapped man?

JESHAL007:
Nigerian guys go dey shout marriage up and down like it has any tangible benefits to them asides having kids.

Every Saturday they make themselves the retirement plans of these spent, overfûcked sluts and later, wonder why Nigeria ranks very high in paternity fraud. Bunch of sex-starved, ignorant fools who think they know women.

There is no reason a reasonable young man wither poor, average or rich should marry a prostitute. There are many decent ladies out there who are not greedy and are ready to settle down with a man. Is it so hard to find a decent girl to marry you.
Even a mechanic can marry a decent girl. At least a decent girl of his status maybe a hair dresser who is from a good home.
Why do you think some men find it difficult to get a decent girl who loves them to marry them. It's not hard.
I heard some rich men even wife prostitutes and I am shocked

Philosopher1979:
There is no reason a reasonable young man wither poor, average or rich should marry a prostitute. There are many decent ladies out there who are not greedy and are ready to settle down with a man. Is it so hard to find a decent girl to marry you.
Even a mechanic can marry a decent girl. At least a decent girl of his status maybe a hair dresser who is from a good home.
Why do you think some men find it difficult to get a decent girl who loves them to marry them. It's not hard.
I heard some rich men even wife prostitutes and I am shocked

Mentioning decent women is forbidden here.
We only focus on harl0ts.
Please be thus guided.

I’m probably going to be called “misogynist” or labelled with other unprintable names for dare having an opinion about women who, supposedly, are the rock of life that we must all worship and adore.

Nonetheless, it just baffles me that 95% of scholarships and juicy jobs today goes to women. More executive positions are filled today by women just to fulfill the gender quota and to show the world that we’re now very much progressive in this century than the people that came before us. It doesn’t matter whether these women are capable or not, what matter is the 21st century man just want to be led by a woman. also noticed that a woman who probably just finished university last year will be comparing herself to a director who has worked for 20yrs in a firm and be angry that men are in a position of authority and she deserve the man’s position simply because she is a woman.

So many supports and associations built for women to navigate this world. Same can’t be said of the boy child.

Alakoriomo:
I’m probably going to be called “misogynist” or labelled with other unprintable names for dare having an opinion about women who, supposedly, are the rock of life that we must all worship and adore.

Nonetheless, it just baffles me that 95% of scholarships and juicy jobs today goes to women. More executive positions are filled today by women just to fulfill the gender quota and to show the world that we’re now very much progressive in this century than the people that came before us. It doesn’t matter whether these women are capable or not, what matter is the 21st century man just want to be led by a woman. also noticed that a woman who probably just finished university last year will be comparing herself to a director who has worked for 20yrs in a firm and be angry that men are in a position of authority and she deserve the man’s position simply because she is a woman.

So many supports and associations built for women to navigate this world. Same can’t be said of the boy child.

I also don't want to sound like a misogynist. But it won't work because we men have innate creativity. We can initiate things from the ground up. Women only do things men have founded.
Fir example, the wright brothers with their invention of the plane created the aviation industry. Zuckerberg started facebook from scratch.
Psychology as a discipline was created from scratch by men. Women do not have this sort of fundamental creativity. Even elon misk did everything in a new way.
This is why all that bias has limitations. Let a woman discover the cure for cancer or create a brand new version of the computer or create a milti billion naira business from scratch.
I'm not against Women but they do t seems to have that ability to start things from scratch

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luminouz:
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Karlifate:
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Kipaji:
What would you do in the place of the handicapped man?

You don't stay where you are not celebrated bro.
That is self-esteem and self-integrity.
No one can rubbish you unless you allow them to.
If am in his shoes, i would have taken a walk rather than keep disgracing myself.
If your friends feel they are doing better than you and start giving you attitude, rubbishing you, will you keep going to such friend house?

luminouz:
I thank my stars for the redpill.

I am normally a die-hard hustler on a norm but the redpill made me an independent dude. There is no how I'd stay with such a woman and not hustle harder and make more money or I'd rather not stay with her at all. The moment a man leaves his goals and dreams because a woman asks him not to leave her or whatever, just know that man is finished and the woman will punish him severely. I can count many men who had opportunities to travel out and because of love and mumu tears, they stayed behind and soon enough either the girls dumped them or traveled out without telling their loving boyfriends 🤣🤣🤣.

Weird right? Here is how a woman thinks:

If he can leave his success and progress to stay with me, then he is weak and easily controlled. Who but a fool will leave his path to succeed and rather be swayed by my tears, instead of PRIORTIZING HIMSELF. if he can be swayed by me, then other girls can sway him and he is thus not special.

A woman would cry and beg for forgiveness after cheating but if you forgive her, she will cheat again and again...why? Because she knows she shouldn't ever be forgiven for that and will think you foolish for not prioritizing yourself as the male, the alpha and the boss. Same as the guy who stayed with this single mama for love. Women don't reason like that for long. I once said it here that most men will see the hidden side of their wives if they provide nothing for a year and the wives pay all the bills. Women are not made to carry such burdens for long and their so-called love will evaporate like iso-ewa (beans scented fart).
The girl already saw him as a leech the moment he couldn't provide and she had more money. Lol...God forgive me but it is just 150k she dey earn now oh...what if it's one million? She go dey shiit on his head na.

Let me share my story.

In 2021... One nurse dey on my case. She begged me to marry her and give her belle. But I had reservations because I wasn't so buoyant and she had major character issues. This lady can abuse the dead for any little thing and abused her own mother in front of me. She got a job in the UK as a nurse and promised to bring me along...if I am ready to marry her. I bluntly refused and said I'm not marrying her. She went to the UK and came after 3 months to beg me again. I said NOPE. I knew that SHEGE PRO MAX awaited me if I ever let her sponsor me. I will not only suffer her emotional abuse but I will be disrespecting my own ancestors by thinking my destiny is only tied to her help and I couldn't make it without her. She went back angry that I refused. I thank God for where I am today which is 1000 times better than 2021.
It would have been a death sentence to move in with her, marry her, impregnate her..when I had no job. In Naija, she had only Nursing School certification but will keeping saying no man can control her and she can't cook on some days and I will follow her to the UK with that mindset? Or her fiery temper that makes her abuse even her mother?

So redpillers, hustle harder. If you have no option at all....you can consider her help but always hustle and keep hustling till you save enough to move out of her house. Women have very long memories of real and imaginary help they render. They will never forget every kobo spent on you but will ask you 'what have you even done for me' even if you had spent a million dollars.

I rest my case

You are really really strong and discipline bro.
I admire your courage.
Only few men will decline such offer.
If you had taken it, you would have really regretted it.

emmaodet:
You are really really strong and discipline bro.
I admire your courage.
Only few men will decline such offer.
If you had taken it, you would have really regretted it.

Thanks boss.

That time, I preferred to starve rather than take her offer. She just wanted a man to give her belle and be under her thumb and the UK offer was the lure. I'm sure she would either divorce me or turn me into a slave. She was raised by a single mom and had no fatherly influence.

Philosopher1979:
There is no reason a reasonable young man wither poor, average or rich should marry a prostitute. There are many decent ladies out there who are not greedy and are ready to settle down with a man. Is it so hard to find a decent girl to marry you.
Even a mechanic can marry a decent girl. At least a decent girl of his status maybe a hair dresser who is from a good home.
Why do you think some men find it difficult to get a decent girl who loves them to marry them. It's not hard.
I heard some rich men even wife prostitutes and I am shocked

That's because most of those decent women are not their spece,men want big yansh, beautiful face and so on

Dear [gentle] men,


IDGAF what she thinks your love language is...


Her love language is a wanting a powerful, idgaf man who is on his own time...

He can be a broke, jobless, living in his parent's one room apartment, etc...


She can't help but gravitate to him because "he's different than the rest" 💯

Dear [gentle] men,


Women flock to problematic men:::

••• Men who stir up the pot.

••• Men who DGAF

••• Men who slap her a$$ in public.

••• Men who flirty with other women.


Women love drama. 👌


If u aren't creating it she will find someone else that will. 💯

Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,


Women flock to problematic men:::

••• Men who stir up the pot.

••• Men who DGAF

••• Men who slap her a$$ in public.

••• Men who flirty with other women.


Women love drama. 👌


If u aren't creating it she will find someone else that will. 💯

In sequel:::


••• Women like men who are mean to them.

••• Women like men who are a bit toxic.

••• Women like men who can walk away.

••• Women love men who DGAF.


It is what it is. 💯