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Dear [gentle] men,

The fewer sexual partners a woman has had in the past, the more intensely she will pairbond with a new sexual partner.

If a woman has slept with many men before you, getting her to become emotionally attached to you & maintaining a relationship with her will be difficult or impossible.

If a woman has slept with few men before you, getting her to become emotionally attached to you & maintaining a relationship with her will be easy.

The ideal number of previous sexual partners for her is zero. 👌

Dear [gentle] men,


The True Character of a Man is tested by a Woman.

Most men lack character around women...

...because most men rather throw you under, just to impress a woman with their alpha status. 😂

Dear [gentle] men,


Only the women who desire you, deserve your attention, not the ones giving you a hard time.

💯

CaveAdullam:
Omo.

Back to back, I'm always on guard. Jeez!

Womanly sweetness is intoxicating. It's that which makes men simp. Especially if she's a feminine woman. Those women will use their wholesomeness to hoodwink you.

The girl I'm dating currently scores high on the board. However, I'm still watchful and vigilant. Women can turn to anything anytime any day.

The Redpill works. You must always put it into practice at all times.

Sometimes you may fall. But the ability to quickly retrace your steps and make corrections makes you better.

Redpill intersexual dynamics is like the word of God: "It shall not depart from your heart. You must meditate on it day and night".

And to my Redpill brothers...

NEVER EVER IN YOUR LIFE DATE A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T HAVE GENUINE INTEREST IN YOU.

Only then can she be able to bend herself to suit your taste.

Better to die single than to be with a woman who doesn't see your happiness as her joy.

A woman must know that you have options. You don't need to rub it on her face. Your actions and words will say it.

A woman must know that your vision and goal come first before her.

A woman must know that with or without her, you can still stand strong.

Well done, big Chief.

Authority: Be strong.

bro please mention some youth churches someone can go to, to find babes

JESHAL007:
@CaveAdullam pls I need your advice, we collect gals number whether from social events, cold approaching, placing ourselves where women are in abundance, yet no genuine desire, the chat is boring, Na we dey find ways to make chat interesting, infact we do our bests no to behave thirsty for sex, so that during the chat we appear as if we are trying to know the gal, we call her more, chat her more, create fun more, but no reciprocation, and it's not just one gal, it's almost all the gals we game, is it because of their abundance of options, is it because of our low status, why?

It might be that she doesn't have genuine desire for you but it's very likely that your chat is boring and you didn't create much spark with her before you collected her number.

Sorry this is coming late.

dontrulee:
The modern Nigerian girls are bad with communication. They hardly message or call guys because they believe that guys should be the one doing the calling.

I've gone through most girls phone and what I saw was appalling. I mean, different guys sending multiple messages without the girl replying and many unread messages. I use to think before that the natural answers girls gives to guy is usually monosyllabic and all this 'kk' things until I encounter girls who 'claim' to love me and they started bombarding my phone with messages and calls, some became so annoying that I have to ghost some of them because it's looking that they've become desperate. I have understood that girls can also be desperate, and any girl that I reply her message typically replies within two minutes and is trying to book a call appointment with me. Girls can be funny and interesting creatures

I used to get frustrated about Nigerian girls attitude before but I realized something after soaking myself into game content

"Don't wish for the game to be better. Wish to be better"

In a sense, we, Naija guys don't know the blessing Naija girls are to us.

That's why after going through the stress of gaming Nigerian girls when a Naija guy travels outside he becomes a hot cake because he has dealt with the worst of the worst.

Any Nigerian guy that is good at gaming multitudes of Nigerian girls without money. I am very confident to say there is nobody on this earth that he cannot get. Let him just fly out.

So don't complain just try to get better. Gold is not made from passing it through pillows...abi how they take talk am. Anyway you get my point.

My 2 cents tho.

Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,


The True Character of a Man is tested by a Woman.

Most men lack character around women...

...because most men rather throw you under, just to impress a woman with their alpha status. 😂

I detest this like mad and always change it for the men.

You see men talking shiit to you or pulling you down once a woman is around and they say 'but na joke na' and I wonder why I am not fûcking laughing.

How I handle such men? I stare at them fixedly and just walk away, ignoring them and the girl they so desperately want to impress. Guys will snitch on their friends to get pussy or act tough so the girl can say yes.

Most times, the girls always tell me such men disgust them.

luminouz:
I detest this like mad and always change it for the men.

You see men talking shiit to you or pulling you down once a woman is around and they say 'but na joke na' and I wonder why I am not fûcking laughing.

How I handle such men? I stare at them fixedly and just walk away, ignoring them and the girl they so desperately want to impress. Guys will snitch on their friends to get pussy or act tough so the girl can say yes.

Most times, the girls always tell me such men disgust them.

These are the simps of the world
And very dangerous,be careful around them.
They're worse than women.

Genuine men are hard to find these days.

The good thing is that it's too easy to spot these weak effeminate guys.
They're so proud of their effeminate nature. In their mind,they know how to roll with women.
I personally find them very pitiable because they have no idea what they're in for.

Smartb0y:
These are the simps of the world
And very dangerous,be careful around them.
They're worse than women.

Genuine men are hard to find these days.

The good thing is that it's too easy to spot these weak effeminate guys.
They're so proud of their effeminate nature. In their mind,they know how to roll with women.
I personally find them very pitiable because they have no idea what they're in for.

Bro...you said it all....

I avoid such men like a plague. I give them a piece of my mind and if they still don't change(which most won't) I just ignore them and move on.

Such men are not only dangerous as friends but also may poison your food or drink.

luminouz:
I detest this like mad and always change it for the men.

You see men talking shiit to you or pulling you down once a woman is around and they say 'but na joke na' and I wonder why I am not fûcking laughing.

How I handle such men? I stare at them fixedly and just walk away, ignoring them and the girl they so desperately want to impress. Guys will snitch on their friends to get pussy or act tough so the girl can say yes.

Most times, the girls always tell me such men disgust them.

It's quite funny & annoying watching some dudes throwing their fellow bros(es) under the bus to impress women, especially with the promise of s3x as a reward.

Women don’t have hobbies like Men do.

Men are their primary hobby, then kids, then Men again.


It’s all they think about...

Finding a Man...
Pursuing Men...
Fukking Men...
Hiding Men from each other...
Competing with girls for Men...
Locking a Man down...
Getting a proposal from Men...
Getting the Man through the wedding...
Making him into the Man you want him to be...

Children arrive & that all stops.

Karlifate:
It's quite funny & annoying watching some dudes throwing their fellow bros(es) under the bus to impress women, especially with the promise of s3x as a reward.

promise ke
There's no promise.

These weak effeminate guys are just as delusional as women if not more.
They think pulling down another guy earns them extra points.
They're the type that'll hate and jealous their fellow man simply because women find him attractive.
You know those categories of guys when you pass by ,they give you that funny face
Na them be that

Male rape is when you give a woman money without sex. The woman has rape you

Women are logical in an illogical manner.
That is to say the rudimentaries behind their objective is masked in inversion and manipulation.
Keeping up with all their whims can be tiring.
All you simply need to do is understand why they're interested in you and what they what from you.
If you comprehend this basic concept,all their tantrums,shit test and whatnot would be a walk in the park simply because you already know what they're getting at.

A girl giving you green light,red light,purple light even brown sef(undefined signals)clearly shows that she wants to get you invested emotionally in order to capitalize on it.
Adding to the fact that their State of mind is always on a constant flux.
Understand that if a woman finds you attractive you cannot convince her otherwise . Same applies vise versa.
You cannot make her do what she already wants to do.
She just wants you to think you convinced her to do it so she doesn't come off as easy.

Thing is most women want to eat their cake and still have it.
They want sex constantly but want to be rewarded for it.

The biggest lie ever told is that men are hornier, which has added to the already inflated state of the female sexual dynamic.

Women want sex always, they're are never satisfied.

All in all :

If you want less headache,let them chose you.
Simply groom your mind and your appearance to be worthy of attraction.

Anenehi:
Male rape is when you give a woman money without sex. The woman has rape you

Okay, let's follow this logic by saying female rape is when a man has sex with a woman without giving her money?

Anenehi:
Male rape is when you give a woman money without sex. The woman has rape you

I get what you are trying to say, but this isn't practical or sensible. If we go with your definition of male rape, what will you then call the instances of boys being sexually molested by catholic priests, aunties, uncles, or some strange individual/acquaintance? What about instances of men being overpowered and raped by a group of women? What about the instances of men drugged and then sexually molested? We even have instances of men being blackmailed or held at knifepoint or gunpoint (by even women) to engage in sexual acts.

Your definition of male rape isn't as grievous as the instances I pointed out. To many, your definition may seem to trivialise actual male rape, or imply that actual male rape isn't rape since it doesn't conform to your idea of male rape. Perhaps, you are one of those who thinks a male can't be raped by a female, and it's all enjoyment no matter what.

Wouldn't it have been better to use another term like "scam" ? Even the term "divorce rape" isn't trying to supercede actual male rape, no matter horrible it gets.

Just my two cents.

Being nice will get you no women and this is nothing but the truth. And same with being gentle or intelligent. Pvssy only cares about roughness and toughness.

JESHAL007:
Being nice will get you no women and this is nothing but the truth. And same with being gentle or intelligent. Pvssy only cares about roughness and toughness.

Nah! Not true sir

Karlifate:
Women don’t have hobbies like Men do.

Men are their primary hobby, then kids, then Men again.


It’s all they think about...

Finding a Man...
Pursuing Men...
Fukking Men...
Hiding Men from each other...
Competing with girls for Men...
Locking a Man down...
Getting a proposal from Men...
Getting the Man through the wedding...
Making him into the Man you want him to be...

Children arrive & that all stops.

The same applied for men, their main hobby is fckng different girls

Smartb0y:
A girl giving you green light,red light,purple light even brown sef(undefined signals)clearly shows that she wants to get you invested emotionally in order to capitalize on it.
Adding to the fact that their State of mind is always on a constant flux.
Understand that if a woman finds you attractive you cannot convince her otherwise . Same applies vise versa.

I agree with everything you said bro except from this.

Fundamentally you can't make anybody like you. It's up to them. Which is why Rollo said "Genuine desire can never be negotiated" but you can influence their decision sometimes.

For example you can see a very pretty girl you might be attracted to but if she has very bad mouth odor, your attraction for her reduces. That's her negatively influencing your decision.

Another example most of your friends before you got to know them, you didn't know if you wanted a relationship with them or not, but you like them now because they show as much interest in you as you show them. They positively influenced your decision.

Same thing with a woman's genuine desire. Understand a woman's genuine desire is also rooted in hypergamy.

She thinks that you are capable of attracting women that are more attractive or as attractive as she is. A woman can't have genuine desire for you if she doesn't think this.

Forget Hollywood script of hot models falling in love with nerds with bad posture.

When a woman figures out that this isn't true, her attraction for you falls. If she finds out that it is true, her attraction for you goes up. This is also what goes on in preselection.

And it also explains why, in this era, most handsome men end up with ugly or average looking women while ugly or average looking men end up with very attractive women.

Those women think because the guy is handsome he can get girls better than her. While the attractive women think the men they are with can attract someone better than them based off his attitude, resources or she has seen him do it before.

JESHAL007:
Being nice will get you no women and this is nothing but the truth. And same with being gentle or intelligent. Pvssy only cares about roughness and toughness.

Being nice will get you many women only if your being nice is not built with getting women in mind.

Being a truly nice means being good without expecting anything in return.

1sherlockHolmes:
The same applied for men, their main hobby is fckng different girls

Women get bored easily. 💯

Women, especially the ones in relationships, get bored easily when their emotions are not constantly stimulated.

The guy becomes predictable, hence the novelty wears off.


Men on the other hand, might even be bae-less, but won't go about creating drama out of nowhere (just to get attention), instead would channel his passion towards whatever he finds interesting...

...might be spending time with his bros(es), playing multi-level video games, perfecting his craft and/or skills, etc...



Men & Women are not the same. 💯

Women: "always patient & sweet"

Translation: a very dude I can manipulate, but won't let my son be like him

In summary: oneitis is a disaster.

In summary:

Mother Nature is Women's bestie

Father Time is Men's Best Friend.

Dear [gentle] men,

Until married, most women don't consider themselves taken, even when in a relationship.

They are ruthlessly keeping their options open.

This is why, as a man, you must put yourself first

Always. 💯

Karlifate:
In summary: oneitis is a disaster.

To be honest, I really wonder what it's like in the minds of guys like this to be so obsessed over a girl that they can't forget or stop loving her, despite her dishing out mean and poor treatment to them. Voodoo believers will say there is a charm at work. Smh.

Karlifate:
Women get bored easily. 💯

Women, especially the ones in relationships, get bored easily when their emotions are not constantly stimulated.

The guy becomes predictable, hence the novelty wears off.


Men on the other hand, might even be bae-less, but won't go about creating drama out of nowhere (just to get attention), instead would channel his passion towards whatever he finds interesting...

...might be spending time with his bros(es), playing multi-level video games, perfecting his craft and/or skills, etc...



Men & Women are not the same. 💯

In sequel: see attached image 👇

Martinez39s:
To be honest, I really wonder what it's like in the minds of guys like this to be so obsessed over a girl that they can't forget or stop loving her, despite her dishing out mean and poor treatment to them. Voodoo believers will say there is a charm at work. Smh.

Some were not loved @ home, hence they seek the lost mother's love from another daughter of Eve.