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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 9:46pm On Dec 05, 2024
Dear [gentle] men,

A man who prioritises a woman over his mission will lose both.

Better for her to miss you & complain she doesn't see you enough, than to grow sick of you & complain you're always around.


💯
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 9:50pm On Dec 05, 2024
Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,

A man who prioritises a woman over his mission will lose both.

Better for her to miss you & complain she doesn't see you enough, than to grow sick of you & complain you're always around.


💯
In sequel:::

Law 16 of The 48 Laws of Power: Use absence to increase strength and honor
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 11:57pm On Dec 05, 2024
ElasmoBranchii:
And it also explains why, in this era, most handsome men end up with ugly or average looking women while ugly or average looking men end up with very attractive women.

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How did you come about this stats?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 1:11am On Dec 06, 2024
imustsaymymindo:
How did you come about this stats?
Mr statistician. A mad man told me 😂

Alright now, jokes apart: Before I answer your question. I'd like you to tell me who did the statistics for redpill quotes like
"All women are the same"
"Alpha Bleep beta buck - Duality of female mating strategy"
"Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way
that a man expects to be loved by a woman."
etc.

You already know that many redpill concepts aren't got from statistics but from observations.

I'm not even the one that came up with that. Just a simple search on nairaland will show you multiple threads where people have talked about this. I believe it's true and I just offered my opinion as to why I think it's so.

You can even Google it to see this is not a new topic but if from your observations or experience you haven't noticed this then please you have my permission to take what I said and fling it into the dust bin lol.

Before you do that though, I'd like to know why you beg to differ, my dear statistician.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 3:21am On Dec 06, 2024
ElasmoBranchii:
You already know that many redpill concepts aren't got from statistics but from observations.
This is why we do need to go back to the books.

I don't think there is any chapter in the 5 books of one of the fav authors you quote that is not backed up by data. Either being a protagonist or an antagonist of the data including all the concepts you just outlined. In fact, all chapters start with demystifying popular data.

SoSuave was typically a data debate hub. That's why we are men. We favor metrics over feelings and value content over context.

I asked the question because the assertion you made was interesting and now you have given me the answer to where you made your premise from - which is observation. I can't debate you on your observations, Boss. Na your eye you take see am.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fiscus105(m):
dontrulee:
The modern Nigerian girls are bad with communication. They hardly message or call guys because they believe that guys should be the one doing the calling.

I've gone through most girls phone and what I saw was appalling. I mean, different guys sending multiple messages without the girl replying and many unread messages. I use to think before that the natural answers girls gives to guy is usually monosyllabic and all this 'kk' things until I encounter girls who 'claim' to love me and they started bombarding my phone with messages and calls, some became so annoying that I have to ghost some of them because it's looking that they've become desperate. I have understood that girls can also be desperate, and any girl that I reply her message typically replies within two minutes and is trying to book a call appointment with me. Girls can be funny and interesting creatures
At ur bolded, the way you ghosted some because they are now constituting nuisance to you, is exactly many guys constituting nuisance to some girls on social media.
Even here on nairaland, 8/10 of guys contributing NONSENSE of every post that hit the front pages, is that type of guys would girls reply?

Not until men know, every girl would not like/date you, no matter your status, looks or games.

Girls that really into you would be replying you like jet and will initiate chat/calls with you.

When a girl is receiving like 50 chats with different men on Facebook and all of them are going towards the same things, (Romantic) . Why won't she ignored/frustrated many of them?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:48am On Dec 06, 2024
Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:49am On Dec 06, 2024
You cannot buy a woman's love with money.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 6:55am On Dec 06, 2024
A woman is valued and respected even when she has nothing, but a man without money is often seen as a liability, even by his own family. Society is brutal to broke men.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:17am On Dec 06, 2024
Who noticed during their university days that beautiful girls got into romantic entanglements with bad boys/unserious students. And kept the intelligent males as pets. grin
What those bad guys got daily, the good ones never had a taste. grin
Most of them had that brilliant friend who would help them with their tests and school assignments, while they hung out with crazy dudes. grin
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 7:43am On Dec 06, 2024
When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

Majority of them get severely fvcked and have several abortions in between their tertiary education to working class period, it’s a wise decision when men only want to associate with virgins(who are needles in a haystack) alone for a serious thing and this notion really hurt these damaged women so much, but who cares..
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 7:48am On Dec 06, 2024
Lust makes you a slave to the woman you lust over
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 7:48am On Dec 06, 2024
Lust makes you simp and waste money
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 7:52am On Dec 06, 2024
Lust is a powerful urge that few men have control over

Men of substance have the capacity to control their urge around women

This is a vetting process of a man. Men of integrity make no sacrifices in the presence of women. They certainly don’t put other men down to impress them
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 7:54am On Dec 06, 2024
A man who has found his purpose and generated enough motivation, can NEVER attain said purpose,

if his lust constantly aims to attain sexual pleasures by putting him in places that seek out women.

This is the essence of shadow integration, keeping your other selves in check.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 8:45am On Dec 06, 2024
rich women cheat for sex
Poor women cheat for money

That's the summary.

A poor man's greatest opponent is that rich man who can throw money at his wife and unlock her legs.

A rich man's greatest opponent is that broke jobless gym rat who has time, experience and the body to fucc his bougie wife
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 9:21am On Dec 06, 2024
When women become obsessed with you and respect you a lot, they want to go out of their way to please you, this is the highest form of love they are capable of — being servile. But they are only like this when you meet a high standard. It‘s utterly conditional and ungodly.

Men on the flipside don‘t even need to respect a woman to love her. They don‘t need to admire her or look up to her to love her. She doesn‘t need to be better than him. He chooses to take care of something weaker than him, why? Because he finds her sweet childishness charming.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAdviser: 9:29am On Dec 06, 2024
Martinez39s:
Kai. At that point, you lacked some red pill. As I have always said, it is not by decent dressing, nice gestures, wearing christain cover shoes or hijab, speaking in tougues, good character in many aspects, attending Deeper Life church, saying that they are not after your money etc. As usual, a woman can do all these and still be a big hòe and gold digging viper (all women are gold diggers anyway, survival tinz).

The flaw of men is that we look at the outward appearance and make assumptions upon it; making big and hasty assumptions with no room for doubt and suspicion is one of men biggest enemies. This is why men who take the red pill to the fullest are always suspecting and taking all moves a woman makes at the moment with a grain of salt. They play the game and enjoy the flow, but they don't trust or place their full hope on women.


True. We've said this before. However, you missed a red flag. Let me explain.

The Chosen Principle capitalises on LUST (aka genuine desire). A girl that has genuine desire wants to fùck you and get freaky in bed with you, not date you. A grown girl that lusts after you won't tell you that she wants to date you. Dating and serious relationships are reserved for men (blue pill or red pill) that she perceives has the resources; the moment she mentioned "date", you should have known that you were sized financially by her and her friends. You should have known that it was about the cash, not you.

Women will also try to secure rich men, but that is not the "chosen" the Chosen Principle is talking about.

If a girl lusts after you and whats to fuçk you, she will do the following:
(a) make herself readily available,
(b) make it very easy for you to fùck her (she won't stress you at all), and
(c) she will be ready to try many sexual stuffs with you and give her sexual best without you spending a dime.

If a girl you think is choosing you is doing the opposite of these, bounce. Make sure you bring the issue of sex first (as Ubunja would say); if she is not down for it or doing the opposite of the above, bounce. Sex first; you can't know the red pill, think a girl is choosing you and then try to take things slow and look for something serious... sex first! In fact, within a short time of playing the field and digesting red pills, we men should be able to tell when a girl lusts after us from the signs she is giving.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 10:25am On Dec 06, 2024
If you ever find yourself complaining about the things women do ,or about how they act towards bad boys and so on I have news for you , you are a victim 🤣🤣😂 and you’re still suffering from ptsd based on the facts that women have done those things to you, they caught you unawares and you’re hurt by that fact , Have you not realised that when something favours you you don’t complain about it 🤔 think about it, You’re either a victim of a woman’s bad side or you’re the beneficiary of all her Good side has to offer, So Bro ask yourself are a victim or a beneficiary?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 10:29am On Dec 06, 2024
A lot of men cannot relate to the fact that women spend their money on men shamelessly, when the men who are beneficiaries of such Tell other men it sounds like fairytales , I promise you bro if she’s feeling you that much she will literally sell herself to buy you anything you want, you just have to be that guy and stay being that guy 😎
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by monerozi5590: 10:33am On Dec 06, 2024
jayAjoku:
A lot of men cannot relate to the fact that women spend their money on men shamelessly, when the men who are beneficiaries of such Tell other men it sounds like fairytales , I promise you bro if she’s feeling you that much [b]she will literally sell herself [/b]to buy you anything you want, you just have to be that guy and stay being that guy 😎
Like sleeping with men?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 10:46am On Dec 06, 2024
monerozi5590:
Like sleeping with men?
if na there your mind go no wahala
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by monerozi5590: 10:59am On Dec 06, 2024
jayAjoku:
if na there your mind go no wahala
Just a question. What do you mean by her selling herself.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by virginboy1(m): 11:15am On Dec 06, 2024
Martinez39s:
Wow! Long time, bro. Where have you been? Indeed, the earlier days of this thread will always be missed by those who were there. Those days preceding the invasion and subversive attempts by pathetic and childish nuisances.

As for Ubunja, he has gone like many others. As I have said before, everyone won't be here forever. Even CaveAdullam rarely drops posts again. BLOODYSPERM, nerostealth01, hedgefunds, saviolamemphix, SOZINN etc. are really missed. grin
And CAPSLOCKED, the red font man. I missed him too on this platform.A very stoic redpiller... He was the reason i took gyming and excercise very serious.Now i am a gym rat and i am proud of my current physique.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 12:30pm On Dec 06, 2024
monerozi5590:
Just a question. What do you mean by her selling herself.
what I mean is how you read it but what I’m saying in that sentence is ,if that’s her only option she will do it for you, talking from a pîmp’s perspective
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:46pm On Dec 06, 2024
virginboy1:
And CAPSLOCKED, the red font man. I missed him too on this platform.A very stoic redpiller... He was the reason i took gyming and excercise very serious.Now i am a gym rat and i am proud of my current physique.
Yeah. I miss CAPSLOCKED.

MZBOLT, I think, was the guy who wrote in green caps or whatever, and his texts were horizontally aligned to the right. Then we have sajmark, ichidodo (a poetic folk and one of Ubunja's biggest fan), ilekokonit, etc.

Well, nothing lasts for forever. Good to see you have taken your fitness seriously. Believe me, down the line, it will dawn on you that it was one of the best decisions you made. Kudos!
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 1:15pm On Dec 06, 2024
imustsaymymindo:
This is why we do need to go back to the books.

I don't think there is any chapter in the 5 books of one of the fav authors you quote that is not backed up by data. Either being a protagonist or an antagonist of the data including all the concepts you just outlined. In fact, all chapters start with demystifying popular data.

SoSuave was typically a data debate hub. That's why we are men. We favor metrics over feelings and value content over context.
To tell you the truth, I really racked my brain to understand what you were trying to say here.

When you said stats I thought you meant numbers and figures like 80% of men... etc for all I know there isn't any statistical study done on any redpill concept.

Everything is based on observation and hypothesis. Which is left for you test out in the field of life. If it works for you, you keep it. If it doesn't work, you leave it.

The redpill is not as strict as the 10 commandments, in the sense that people are always exchanging ideas on how to look at things. It's left for you to test it and see if it works.

Maybe if you had used facts instead of stats, I would have understood you better. Peace
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by virginboy1(m): 1:32pm On Dec 06, 2024
Martinez39s:
Yeah. I miss CAPSLOCKED.

MZBOLT, I think, was the guy who wrote in green caps or whatever, and his texts were horizontally aligned to the right. Then we have sajmark, ichidodo (a poetic folk and one of Ubunja's biggest fan), ilekokonit, etc.

Well, nothing lasts for forever. Good to see you have taken your fitness seriously. Believe me, down the line, it will dawn on you that it was one of the best decisions you made. Kudos!
"Bro, going to the gym is one of the best decision I made this year ooo!!! . After encountering CAPSLOCKED redpilled comment on this platform about keeping fit few years ago, I'd wanted to start working out, but my addiction to FIFA Video game and alcohol (Desperado and trophy beer) held me back. The thought of going to the gym would fill me with anxiety and stress. cry

But in May, I hit rock bottom. I looked in the mirror and barely recognized myself. My stomach was huge (like python that swallowed 2 goats). grin That's when I decided to take control. I started going to the gym regularly, despite my initial mind resistance.

It wasn't easy, but I persisted. And slowly, I began to notice changes. My addiction to video games and alcohol started to fade, replaced by a new passion for fitness. Today, I'm proud to say that I'm looking and feeling healthier than ever.

Redpill is life!!!! cheesy
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 1:50pm On Dec 06, 2024
Deep.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:00pm On Dec 06, 2024
virginboy1:
"Bro, going to the gym is one of the best decision I made this year ooo!!! . After encountering CAPSLOCKED redpilled comment on this platform about keeping fit few years ago, I'd wanted to start working out, but my addiction to FIFA Video game and alcohol (Desperado and trophy beer) held me back. The thought of going to the gym would fill me with anxiety and stress. cry

But in May, I hit rock bottom. I looked in the mirror and barely recognized myself. My stomach was huge (like python that swallowed 2 goats). grin That's when I decided to take control. I started going to the gym regularly, despite my initial mind resistance.

It wasn't easy, but I persisted. And slowly, I began to notice changes. My addiction to video games and alcohol started to fade, replaced by a new passion for fitness. Today, I'm proud to say that I'm looking and feeling healthier than ever.

Redpill is life!!!! cheesy
Lmaooooo @ the python joke
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dmg1:
I controls my girl's FB account, she's operating two accounts, I monitors them constantly and she isn't away, I noticed that some men/boys are doomed. Especially this simp. Below...

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