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To get over a first love can be quite challenging especially when expectation had been built. Just like every other thing in life, first attempt is usually an experimental stage.There are possibilities of not achieving success, but then the pain associated with that can be excruciating, but why it should be? After all, you ain't the first to encounter failure or difficulty while pursuing something for the first time?A lot of person's had gone through that stage and yet survived, and even willing to try more. But yours feels like it's the end of the world, you don't even want to be consoled, or have someone inspire you with the assurance that you can do better when you make subsequent attempt.As a matter of fact, the mention of "subsequent attempts" dreads you. Why must there be a second attempt? Why can't everything go on as planned with this first attempt.All these feelings and thoughts usually enacts from "over confidence". There's this excitement and ecstasy that comes with new exploration.Relating that with "relationship". The experience seems to be similar. Falling in love for the first time can be intoxicating. You just can't help but get obsessed over the relationship and your new partner every now and then. With this feelings, there won't be any expectation of disappointments or betrayals. However, just like the saying goes, change is the only constant thing in life. The most exciting relationship can eventually turn out to be soar, and when it does, you're expected to mourn and get over it, the last stage which is to get over it is where the challenge begins. Why is it taking so hard?


https://loveonet.com/10-reasons-why-you-cant-get-over-a-first-love/

No love lost, No love Found

It's not like I've not gotten over my first love per se. 100% I've gotten over him, cause I was the one that broke his heart. The thing is he has succeeded in raising a standard through which I measure any other man coming afterwards.

First, you have to be tall, 6 feet and beyond.

You have to be kind and thoughtful and treat people with respect, not just me alone.

You have to be exceptionally caring and be a provider.

You need to have a sense of humour.

You should be a family oriented person.

You should speak good English, be handsome and be well put together.

I've looked constantly for these qualities because my first love had them all.


Why did I leave despite all these? Story for another day.

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placeofallure:
It's not like I've not gotten over my first love per se. 100% I've gotten over him, cause I was the one that broke his heart. The thing is he has succeeded in raising a standard through which I measure any other man coming afterwards.

First, you have to be tall, 6 feet and beyond.

You have to be kind and thoughtful and treat people with respect, not just me alone.

You have to be exceptionally caring and be a provider.

You need to have a sense of humour.

You should be a family oriented person.

You should speak good English, be handsome and be well put together.

I've looked constantly for these qualities because my first love had them all.


Why did I leave despite all these? Story for another day.

what state was ur kpekus when u left him
and what is the current state of the kpekus now?

placeofallure:
It's not like I've not gotten over my first love per se. 100% I've gotten over him, cause I was the one that broke his heart. The thing is he has succeeded in raising a standard through which I measure any other man coming afterwards.

First, you have to be tall, 6 feet and beyond.

You have to be kind and thoughtful and treat people with respect, not just me alone.

You have to be exceptionally caring and be a provider.

You need to have a sense of humour.

You should be a family oriented person.

You should speak good English, be handsome and be well put together.

I've looked constantly for these qualities because my first love had them all.


Why did I leave despite all these? Story for another day.

Sweet darling, if a man has to be all these to get your attention, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have golds adorned round your waist?

Maybe because of the Naivety, Innocence and Childishness attached to it.

Like me, My First love Afoke in Primary school, I was giving her my Homework every morning to copy.

If I get Okpor (zero) and she get same Okpor, our teacher will flog everyone that got zero, I go come dey Cry bitterly for her.

Even With my sacrifices, she left me when one Big Man Pikin
called Bobby became our Classmate and started buying her FishRoll and Jammy Yoghurt every break.

placeofallure:
It's not like I've not gotten over my first love per se. 100% I've gotten over him, cause I was the one that broke his heart. The thing is he has succeeded in raising a standard through which I measure any other man coming afterwards.

First, you have to be tall, 6 feet and beyond.

You have to be kind and thoughtful and treat people with respect, not just me alone.

You have to be exceptionally caring and be a provider.

You need to have a sense of humour.

You should be a family oriented person.

You should speak good English, be handsome and be well put together.

I've looked constantly for these qualities because my first love had them all.


Why did I leave despite all these? Story for another day.

lol I have 80% of these qualities but she still left anyways. Similar situation

Zonefree:
Sweet darling, if a man has to be all these to get your attention, what are you bringing to the table? Do you have golds adorned round your waist?

Honestly, more than gold. I don't just have beauty; I have brains, too. I work, and I earn good money. My posts here will throw a little light on my personality. Reason why my husband doesn't joke with me.

placeofallure:
Honestly, more than gold. I don't just have beauty; I have brains, too. I work, and I earn good money. My posts here will throw a little light on my personality. Reason why my husband doesn't joke with me.

The husband wey u dey manage.

If not you for no dey cap the trash about first love.

You are a joke already.

Yiur husband for don discover am

Yugoslavia247:
The husband wey u dey manage.

If not you for no dey cap the trash about first love.

You are a joke already.

Yiur husband for don discover am

Thank you. You can help make him discover all he needs to discover.

blessingnenye:
To get over a first love can be quite challenging especially when expectation had been built. Just like every other thing in life, first attempt is usually an experimental stage.There are possibilities of not achieving success, but then the pain associated with that can be excruciating, but why it should be? After all, you ain't the first to encounter failure or difficulty while pursuing something for the first time?A lot of person's had gone through that stage and yet survived, and even willing to try more. But yours feels like it's the end of the world, you don't even want to be consoled, or have someone inspire you with the assurance that you can do better when you make subsequent attempt.As a matter of fact, the mention of "subsequent attempts" dreads you. Why must there be a second attempt? Why can't everything go on as planned with this first attempt.All these feelings and thoughts usually enacts from "over confidence". There's this excitement and ecstasy that comes with new exploration.Relating that with "relationship". The experience seems to be similar. Falling in love for the first time can be intoxicating. You just can't help but get obsessed over the relationship and your new partner every now and then. With this feelings, there won't be any expectation of disappointments or betrayals. However, just like the saying goes, change is the only constant thing in life. The most exciting relationship can eventually turn out to be soar, and when it does, you're expected to mourn and get over it, the last stage which is to get over it is where the challenge begins. Why is it taking so hard?


https://loveonet.com/10-reasons-why-you-cant-get-over-a-first-love/

Lack of job dey worry una

placeofallure:
It's not like I've not gotten over my first love per se. 100% I've gotten over him, cause I was the one that broke his heart. The thing is he has succeeded in raising a standard through which I measure any other man coming afterwards.

First, you have to be tall, 6 feet and beyond.

You have to be kind and thoughtful and treat people with respect, not just me alone.

You have to be exceptionally caring and be a provider.

You need to have a sense of humour.

You should be a family oriented person.

You should speak good English, be handsome and be well put together.

I've looked constantly for these qualities because my first love had them all.


Why did I leave despite all these? Story for another day.

U be snow white

Craze dey worry una

Lordbinsmar:
U be snow white

Craze dey worry una

Well it may look like fairy tale to you, I got what I wanted. There is no crime in making a request and getting what you wished for. Go and make your own.

placeofallure:
Well it may look like fairy tale to you, I got what I wanted. There is no crime in making a request and getting what you wished for. Go and make your own.

Epeelee maa

If you are that special, una ex no go use and dump una.

Persin wey no reach 1 wey dey form 100

Lordbinsmar:
Epeelee maa

If you are that special, una ex no go use and dump una.

Persin wey no reach 1 wey dey form 100

Thank you

placeofallure:
Honestly, more than gold. I don't just have beauty; I have brains, too. I work, and I earn good money. My posts here will throw a little light on my personality. Reason why my husband doesn't joke with me.

It's pathetic and quite unfortunate that most men end up with leftovers like you. I sympathise with your husband, cus he's clearly not your prime option.

OgunjimiFengxi:
It's pathetic and quite unfortunate that most men end up with leftovers like you. I sympathise with your husband, cus he's clearly not your prime option.

I know what your pain is. You and your likes don't like to hear that a woman is independent and makes her own money. She immediately becomes a threat to your chauvinistic depraved mental health. The person you are currently with is somebody's leftover, just like you are a leftover. You have not died. You still carry your mangled, overused, dilapidated, overstretched body about. So it's no big deal if many leftovers parade the streets. Deal with your issue and stop hiding under the facade of i am woke to exhibit your tomfoolery. You and your opinion are inconsequential as far I am concerned. Rádaràda!

It’s honestly sad and quite telling how some men unknowingly settle for women who treat them as second option. I can’t help but feel sorry for your husband, he’s clearly not the one you truly wanted, just the one you ended up with. It’s a shame how easily some people disguise their regrets as love.

Up there you're, claiming to have brains, yet it’s clear your head is filled with nothing but air. Sure, you might be beautiful on the outside, but beauty without substance is like a house built on sand, empty, shallow, and destined to collapse.

Intelligence isn’t about looks or words; it’s about depth, wisdom, and character. qualities you clearly lack. It’s a pity how you think your face and brain can compensate for what your mind fails to deliver.