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If you think you are the only man in your woman's life, you are a big joker and a very unserious person.

As long as you are not yet married to her, you are part of the men under her audition.

You are just part of her screening program, and when the time comes, she will pick the man that best suits her taste, and it may not be you.

It's foolish for you to think you are the only man in her life; she probably gets a lot of toasters everywhere: streets, dm, workplace, etc.

You would be stupid to think she's not considering some of those toasters.

She will only tell you about the toasters she doesn't love but then hide those she's interested in.

The only reason why you think she's faithful and think that you are the one is because you have not caught her yet.

Be wise.

As a man learn to keep your options open.

90% of unmarried women are doing this.

We have seen them visit prayer houses to ask the men of God to pray and show them the right man for them out of many men.

Itz true.

When you go close to ladies and hear them talk, you will understand that every unmarried woman always has extra men somewhere; you don't just know it yet.

Do I blame them for this?

No.

But my problem is with men who have refused to adopt this system and be this wise.

A serious man planning to get married in the next 4 to 5 years should have at least 4 women under his audition lists to choose a wife from.

The best win, and you send the loser home.

It's simple.

Let this wisdom abide.

Learn not to put all your eggs in one basket just like women.

💯 reality

But why is it that most of you men wait for a lady to get into a relationship and then start looking her way?

Like I'm speaking from experience... There was a time I was single for years and no guy looked my way despite having a crush on some of them... But immediately I got into a relationship, different guys started coming my way, including this one guy whom I've begging his mother for his number for almost an entire year.

One day the woman called me and asked me to quickly come to her workplace and she presented her hunky son to me and left us in the boardroom to have some alone time... My husband and I had just gotten back together and the temptation was too much... But in the end, I developed the courage to tell him I was in a new relationship.

Samantha125:
But why is it that most of you men wait for a lady to get into a relationship and then start looking her way?

Like I'm speaking from experience... There was a time I was single for years and no guy looked my way despite having a crush on some of them... But immediately I got into a relationship, different guys started coming my way, including this one guy whom I've begging his mother for his number for almost an entire year.

One day the woman called me and asked me to quickly come to her workplace and she presented her hunky son to me and left us in the boardroom to have some alone time... My husband and I had just gotten back together and the temptation was too much... But in the end, I developed the courage to tell him I was in a new relationship.

All lies. You were busy spreading your legs everywhere, jumping from one man unto another. so sorry for your husband. Madam, stop sleeping around. Your husband isn't the father of your daughter. Tell him the truth.

Okay.

Holybee001:
All lies. You were busy spreading your legs everywhere, jumping from one man unto another. so sorry for your husband. Madam, stop sleeping around. Your husband isn't the father of your daughter. Tell him the truth.

Samantha125:
But why is it that most of you men wait for a lady to get into a relationship and then start looking her way?

Like I'm speaking from experience... There was a time I was single for years and no guy looked my way despite having a crush on some of them... But immediately I got into a relationship, different guys started coming my way, including this one guy whom I've begging his mother for his number for almost an entire year.

One day the woman called me and asked me to quickly come to her workplace and she presented her hunky son to me and left us in the boardroom to have some alone time... My husband and I had just gotten back together and the temptation was too much... But in the end, I developed the courage to tell him I was in a new relationship.

Is not like men are waiting , it's mostly natural occurrence but when one is married or taken it all then false down to self control and discipline because you'll mostly meet people more handsome,rich, caring , friendly , masculine or friendlier than your partner but discipline and commitment is what keeps one faithful, so I understand where you're speaking from.

But I think some of you guys are also part of the problem because it seems like you'd prefer ladies who are already in relationships than single ones... I don't know if you like being competitive or what.

You'd tell a guy that you're in a relationship and he'd pretend as if he didn't hear anything and still ask for your number... He'd give you various reasons as to why he's asking for your number when deep down he just wants to smash.

And we ladies are only humans like you guys, some of us don't have strong self control and can easily fall into temptation... So until the law introduces death penalty for cheating on both genders, we just need to make peace with the fact that we're still gonna be heartbroken from being cheated on by our partners.

6ixpaq:
Is not like men are waiting , it's mostly natural occurrence but when one is married or taken it all then false down to self control and discipline because you'll mostly meet people more handsome,rich, caring , friendly , masculine or friendlier than your partner but discipline and commitment is what keeps one faithful, so I understand where you're speaking from.

Samantha125:
But I think some of you guys are also part of the problem because it seems like you'd prefer ladies who are already in relationships than single ones... I don't know if you like being competitive or what.

You'd tell a guy that you're in a relationship and he'd pretend as if he didn't hear anything and still ask for your number... He'd give you various reasons as to why he's asking for your number when deep down he just wants to smash.

And we ladies are only humans like you guys, some of us don't have strong self control and can easily fall into temptation... So until the law introduces death penalty for cheating on both genders, we just need to make peace with the fact that we're still gonna be heartbroken from being cheated on by our partners.

More than half of humanity would die if such law is introduced

They'd have asked for it by disobeying the law...🤣🤣🤣

Good riddance...😅😅😅

6ixpaq:
More than half of humanity would die if such law is introduced

Samantha125:
But why is it that most of you men wait for a lady to get into a relationship and then start looking her way?

Like I'm speaking from experience... There was a time I was single for years and no guy looked my way despite having a crush on some of them... But immediately I got into a relationship, different guys started coming my way, including this one guy whom I've begging his mother for his number for almost an entire year.

One day the woman called me and asked me to quickly come to her workplace and she presented her hunky son to me and left us in the boardroom to have some alone time... My husband and I had just gotten back together and the temptation was too much... But in the end, I developed the courage to tell him I was in a new relationship.

Wow, are you still in relationships now Samantha?

Samantha125:
But I think some of you guys are also part of the problem because it seems like you'd prefer ladies who are already in relationships than single ones... I don't know if you like being competitive or what.

You'd tell a guy that you're in a relationship and he'd pretend as if he didn't hear anything and still ask for your number... He'd give you various reasons as to why he's asking for your number when deep down he just wants to smash.

And we ladies are only humans like you guys, some of us don't have strong self control and can easily fall into temptation... So until the law introduces death penalty for cheating on both genders, we just need to make peace with the fact that we're still gonna be heartbroken from being cheated on by our partners.

Do you guys wear a name tag or something to let us know you're single?

I've upgraded...

Ibkay32:
Wow, are you still in relationships now Samantha?

No, we don't, but it's like there's this certain aura that attracts you guys to women in relationships.

Even if we tell you guys that we're not available, most of you would still not listen.

Ibkay32:
Do you guys wear a name tag or something to let us know you're single?

Samantha125:
I've upgraded...

Upgraded in what way
Samantha please tell us so that we that have been eyeing you for long we know

I've upgraded from Ms to Mrs...

You can now eye somewhere else...

Ibkay32:
Upgraded in what way
Samantha please tell us so that we that have been eyeing you for long we know

Samantha125:
I've upgraded from Ms to Mrs...

You can now eye somewhere else...

Oh I get that now... Congrats
I will be there someday too

Samantha125:
But why is it that most of you men wait for a lady to get into a relationship and then start looking her way?

Like I'm speaking from experience... There was a time I was single for years and no guy looked my way despite having a crush on some of them... But immediately I got into a relationship, different guys started coming my way, including this one guy whom I've begging his mother for his number for almost an entire year.

One day the woman called me and asked me to quickly come to her workplace and she presented her hunky son to me and left us in the boardroom to have some alone time... My husband and I had just gotten back together and the temptation was too much... But in the end, I developed the courage to tell him I was in a new relationship.

Yes it happens. Vice versa A guy will ask a giri out for a long and vehemently refuse but the moment he moves on with another woman he becomes attractive .. na una own worse.

This is not red piller . It's a common sense.

We are all worse... Stop trying to be biased by causing an unnecessary gender war...

Everydaylove:
Yes it happens. Vice versa A guy will ask a giri out for a long and vehemently refuse but the moment he moves on with another woman he becomes attractive .. na una own worse.

Samantha125:
We are all worse... Stop trying to be biased by causing an unnecessary gender war...

Lol.. no vex o. It's my opinion though