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Men don't joke with their mothers; the love and respect men have for their mothers cannot be quantified and qualified.
The best way into a man's heart in totality is to be a very good daughter-in-law to his mother, whether you are a potential wife-to-be or you are already a wife.
Be good to his mother, respect her, care for her like you will do for your mother, and don't be harsh on her.
Don't be that daughter-in-law that wants to compete with her over her son. The idea of owning her son and shifting her son's focus away from her makes her scared and insecure.
You must understand that no woman will want to suffer and raise her son to become the man you love, and at the point where she's supposed to be enjoying him, another woman who knows nothing about how much suffering she has been through will want to take him away from her.
You will argue with me now until when you become a mother and be in her shoes; it's only then that you will understand.
The only way you don't want to turn your home into a war ground is to simply make your mother-in-law feel safe; you need to make her feel that you don't want to steal her son from her; you are there to support her in taking care of her son.
Be wise.
She's the only woman that can easily talk to her son and he will listen when he starts misbehaving.
Men love their mother, if you lose the love of his mother, you will lose him.

Be wise.

Most of those women just harbour hatred towards their daughters in law regardless of how respectful the daughters in law may be.

They always want to be competitive with them.

Good talk

Samantha125:
Most of those women just harbour hatred towards their daughters in law regardless of how respectful the daughters in law may be.

They always want to be competitive with them.

Are you speaking from your personal experience or from what you read on internet and movies.

I think we all know how most guys' mothers just harbour hatred towards their sons' girlfriends and wives for no reason.

Like you said, we women are very emotional and immediately those mothers see their sons paying attention to another woman, they'd see the other woman as a competition.

6ixpaq:
Are you speaking from your personal experience or from what you read on internet and movies.

All them girls would disapprove of this ..but the write up is apt as fck ..

After God, na my mama, followed by my papa, followed by my brothers/sisters and kids, wife is secondary ( not that I won't love my wife).
The biggest mistake a woman can make In her husband's house is to be an enemy to the man's mom, be you girlfriend or potential wife to be or wife. Many women fail to understand that, you can never compete with the love a man has for his mother. Why do you think that, before getting married to the man's family, they usually ask "are you in good terms with his mother?" If the man mama no like you, better avoid that marriage, except say na juju you go use turn the guy man head comot for house.

6ixpaq:
Men don't joke with their mothers; the love and respect men have for their mothers cannot be quantified and qualified.
The best way into a man's heart in totality is to be a very good daughter-in-law to his mother, whether you are a potential wife-to-be or you are already a wife.
Be good to his mother, respect her, care for her like you will do for your mother, and don't be harsh on her.
Don't be that daughter-in-law that wants to compete with her over her son. The idea of owning her son and shifting her son's focus away from her makes her scared and insecure.
You must understand that no woman will want to suffer and raise her son to become the man you love, and at the point where she's supposed to be enjoying him, another woman who knows nothing about how much suffering she has been through will want to take him away from her.
You will argue with me now until when you become a mother and be in her shoes; it's only then that you will understand.
The only way you don't want to turn your home into a war ground is to simply make your mother-in-law feel safe; you need to make her feel that you don't want to steal her son from her; you are there to support her in taking care of her son.
Be wise.
She's the only woman that can easily talk to her son and he will listen when he starts misbehaving.
Men love their mother, if you lose the love of his mother, you will lose him.

Be wise.

So true. I immediately ended a relationship with a lady I loved so much because she disrespected my mum. You don't try that shit with me. Even in marriage, I go divorce any morrafucker that disrespects my mum.