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Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by ukaface(f): 10:04am On Dec 11, 2024
Silentgroper:
if you sit in mine .. do you know it will not stand, do you care to know why??
Because you no get D!ck na

Because your thing Dey like toothpick, e no mature.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Silentgroper(m): 10:10am On Dec 11, 2024
ukaface:
Because you no get D!ck na

Because your thing Dey like toothpick, e no mature.
lmao ..

But but but 🥴🥴 . You sef no get nyash nw ..

The nyash no mature, e flat like the surface of drawing board ...

As my thing dey like , e still get the kind nyash wey go make am rise gidigba ... 😋😋😋
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by ukaface(f): 10:41am On Dec 11, 2024
Silentgroper:
lmao ..

But but but 🥴🥴 . You sef no get nyash nw ..

The nyash no mature, e flat like the surface of drawing board ...

As my thing dey like , e still get the kind nyash wey go make am rise gidigba ... 😋😋😋
Are you obsessed with me?
Did I mention your name in my comment?

Carry your d!ckless self out of my mention this cold Wednesday morning

Even the ladies wey get big nyash go wash you
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Silentgroper(m): 10:46am On Dec 11, 2024
ukaface:
Are you obsessed with me?
Did I mention your name in my comment?

Carry your d!ckless self out of my mention this cold Wednesday morning

Even the ladies wey get big nyash go wash you
Hahahaha .. now you can't take a joke ..

You joked about mine, I joked about yours ..


Now you're getting worked up .

Hahahaha 😂😂😂 ..

These girls sef .. They can't take what they dish out .. 🤣🤣🤣


Aunty, na joke i dey oo .. before you go smashing your head on the wall.. 😂😂
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by CodeTemplar: 12:19pm On Dec 11, 2024
Be following gods of the land like mumu there.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Blitzking: 3:15pm On Dec 11, 2024
Gistmedia10:
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law's lap multiple times. shocked This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her.

While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, "Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is." shocked

Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, "This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family."

The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaxtYs0Q7Yg
Not correct it should be on the grooms lap not his father.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Makunahatata: 4:10pm On Dec 11, 2024
Their tradition, their life, their cup of tea ... mtchew!
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by ShenTeh(m): 4:11pm On Dec 11, 2024
Dem go still vote governor wey budget figures go dey confuse.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by 2RightHands1Coc(m): 4:11pm On Dec 11, 2024
1 Gig downloaded grin
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by kentokay71: 4:19pm On Dec 11, 2024
Gistmedia10:
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law's lap multiple times. shocked This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her.

While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, "Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is." shocked

Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, "This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family."

The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaxtYs0Q7Yg
NA WAH OH
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by blaise26abj(m): 4:20pm On Dec 11, 2024
Would have made sense if after the7 times sitting, the FIL gbola stand on close inspection by the bride’s family , they should call off the wedding as a sign that they don’t have self control in that family .
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Sirchiboy: 4:22pm On Dec 11, 2024
The thing rise abi e no rise
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by prodigyevans(m): 4:23pm On Dec 11, 2024
It is very funny how Halloween makes sense to us but this doesn't......make una continue
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by AirBere: 4:23pm On Dec 11, 2024
jmoore:
This op like to create yeye content with ridiculous commentary. And they will move it to frontpage so he can get traffic to youtube to earn dollars.
That guy's voice eh, almost like he's trying to force it.

I've told him severally to just upload the videos and he'll have more subscribers. Or better still, get a girl or someone with a better voice coordination to do a voice over for him. Believe me he'll have more subscribers if he goes that route because his voice is terrible.

Why should I subscribe to listen to such voice man....lol

Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Kukutente23: 4:30pm On Dec 11, 2024
blaise26abj:
Would have made sense if after the7 times sitting, the FIL gbola stand on close inspection by the bride’s family , they should call off the wedding as a sign that they don’t have self control in that family .
cheesy cheesy cheesy
You're not Nigerian right?
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by yemmit90: 4:30pm On Dec 11, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
Foolish tradition, see as the man rush, that lady get soft ass
You all pervert should work on your mindsets. I am sure you will get hard if you sit behind a lady on a bike or lap her during the rush hours.

Eveythjng starts from your brain, if your mind is not there, you will never get erect even at the sight of a naked woman.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by VanuatuWycombe: 4:31pm On Dec 11, 2024
Make the baba dey try think of the day em get police case and ebin dey tort ure behind counter.
E fit dey try remember co sin tangent of a Pythagoras theorem. Im this thing no go rise.

😝😝😝
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by GracieX3(f): 4:32pm On Dec 11, 2024
Ishilove, defender of Nigerian culture, come and defend this one!
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Ringstonermasks: 4:33pm On Dec 11, 2024
imagine
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by olawooro: 4:35pm On Dec 11, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
See as the father in-law just rush grab her waist with full alacrity cheesy

Omoh,in as much as I'm a respecter of tradition,but I think some of our traditions and practices are due for abolishment undecided. Cuz what is this na? undecided
You think everybody is a pervert like you?
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by BigYash: 4:36pm On Dec 11, 2024
Na so we dey run am.

If you wan hit head for wall,you are free. Na everything your pa .pa preek dey raise for.

If your pa .pa dick can rise for his daughter in-law,e mean say e fit rise for his daughter too.. And that's shows the kind of background you coming from.

You ,yes na you I dey talk to.. Ozuor!
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Okortor: 4:45pm On Dec 11, 2024
During my time, my wife na from esan Edo State. nA my laps Dem do am 7 times not my papa own o..he only paid the bride price on my behalf as tradition demands.......gaskiya
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by tnerro1(m): 4:46pm On Dec 11, 2024
I think it means the woman is being put under the care of the father of the family to be treated as his own, he will be held responsible for her, it’s common in okpella
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by greatseed: 4:46pm On Dec 11, 2024
Gistmedia10:
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law's lap multiple times. shocked This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her. Any odd tradition emanates from Africa! Why ?

Must she sit on the father in law's laps to be accepted! Africans cause too many issues for themselves all in the name of tradition

While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, "Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is." shocked

Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, "This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family."

The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaxtYs0Q7Yg
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by greatseed: 4:49pm On Dec 11, 2024
Gistmedia10:
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law's lap multiple times. shocked This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her.

While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, "Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is." shocked

Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, "This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family."

The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaxtYs0Q7Yg
Any odd tradition emanates from Africa! Why ?

Must she sit on the father in law's laps to be accepted! Africans cause too many issues for themselves all in the name of tradition
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by brownbib(m): 4:53pm On Dec 11, 2024
NO WONDER MONEY DEY CONFUSE THEIR GOVERNOR...ENOUGH LAP DANCE THE PREVIOUS DAY...
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by SAMBARRY: 4:55pm On Dec 11, 2024
GOFRONT:
See Perversion in the name of Tradition....

A woman with soft BBL is made to sit ontop of the laps of a full fledged Agile man with blood flowing thru his veins.....And u expect some Electromagnetic flux not to radiate......Isnt it??

Make una kukuma allow the bride to give the FIL better Bløwjóbb 7 times..

Hahahahaaa......Nairaland sha!!.....I write Blőwjöbb..........Una change am to Mouth Gig.

I tell una say i wan write Gigabyte??
abeg grin grin grin
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by kuntash: 4:56pm On Dec 11, 2024
If this is done as a tradition in other climes, same people posting ignorant posts without caring to ask or know the reason for it would be the first to start hailing such foreign acts and probably say we have lost our own culture....


what a people cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Foodqueen(f): 5:03pm On Dec 11, 2024
Na una sabi.

Na part of wetin we like pass for our traditional marriage ceremony be that.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Bahamas95(m): 5:05pm On Dec 11, 2024
It's their tradition, my wife is from Benin.



She did it during our marriage.
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Goingwell: 5:06pm On Dec 11, 2024
Useless and shameful tradition
Re: Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos) by Osanoghodua1: 5:14pm On Dec 11, 2024
People can be stupid, your daughter in-law is your daughter. You marry a daughter for your son, that is the implication here. In Benin culture, family helps the groom to marry the bride for him. He hides behind his father and all the elders in the family and the father will then hand over the wife to his son.
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