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Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by BigYash(op): 6:21pm On Dec 13, 2024
I was watching this lady's pop the balloon show.. Nons Miraj match making show on YouTube.

So she always ask what the guys will be giving the ladies monthly,if they should start a relationship.

Is that a good question to ask? Because I feel relationship is supposed to be a love thing,and not employment..

You can give your partner money when you feel she needs it,and not how much will you be giving her monthly.. Na love I say make we do,I no dey employ you to come do relationship.. If I wan to pay for services monthly or daily,hookup girls dey nau..
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by immortalcrown(m): 6:25pm On Dec 13, 2024
For those who fan such shows and rely on the shows' teachings to get partners, the question is 100% right.

Your topic is like asking whether it is right to promote drugs. Those who are against drug abuse will tell you no, while drug addicts will answer yes. Do you now understand why I said that the question is 100% right for those who fan such shows?
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by BigYash(op): 6:29pm On Dec 13, 2024
immortalcrown:
For those who fan such shows and rely on such shows to get partners, the question is 100% right.

Your topic is like asking whether it is right to promote drugs. Those who are against drug abuse will tell you no, while drug addicts. Do you know understand why I said that the question is 100% right for those who fans such shows?
Outside that show,ladies do worst than asking that question these days when you try to start a relationship with them. Except for a few who doesn't "follow crowd"
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by guobe: 6:40pm On Dec 13, 2024
BigYash:
I was watching this lady's pop the balloon show.. Nons Miraj match making show on YouTube.

So she always ask what the guys will be giving the ladies monthly,if they should start a relationship.

Is that a good question to ask? Because I feel relationship is supposed to be a love thing,and not employment..

You can give your partner money when you feel she needs it,and not how much will you be giving her monthly.. Na love I say make we do,I no dey employ you to come do relationship.. If I wan to pay for services monthly or daily,hookup girls dey nau..
Nigerian girls love those types of questions so she is speaking from their point of view
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by BigYash(op): 6:45pm On Dec 13, 2024
guobe:
Nigerian girls love those types of questions so she is speaking from their point of view
Walai. And that is why players will always use lies to use and dump them. You will now hear them saying men are scum, meanwhile na them act foolish. How will you be asking a man you want to date,how much he go dey give you monthly,as if relationship na employment..
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by MadamVanessa(f): 7:04pm On Dec 13, 2024
shocked


First of all, Nons miraj match making is utterly nonsense. The insults in the show is something else. While others deployed civility in approach, Nons Miraj own is all about dishing insults and throwing tantrums.


Second of all, I am not surprised about this question, because no reasonable being will go to Nons miraj pop the Ballon match making, only fools with nothing to offer will be there. So the question fits the type of show and the kinds of people it attracts.
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by BigYash(op): 7:16pm On Dec 13, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked


First of all, Nons miraj match making is utterly nonsense. The insults in the show is something else. While others deployed civility in approach, Nons Miraj own is all about dishing insults and throwing tantrums.


Second of all, I am not surprised about this question, because no reasonable being will go to Nons miraj pop the Ballon match making, only fools with nothing to offer will be there. So the question fits the type of show and the kinds of people it attracts.
I actually see it as a comedy show. But that question bulshit.. For the guys I am sure they all came for cruise and business promotion,but some of those ladies came to sell their businesses,and some came to find sponsors of their lives..
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by Solofresh2: 7:19pm On Dec 13, 2024
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this, as it depends on the dynamics of the relationship, cultural expectations, and personal agreements.
Ultimately, it should come down to communication and mutual respect. If either party feels obligated or taken advantage of, it may not be a healthy arrangement.
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 7:19pm On Dec 13, 2024
zero. I will never pay for a relationship and never attract broke ladies.
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by guobe: 7:38pm On Dec 13, 2024
BigYash:
Walai. And that is why players will always use lies to use and dump them. You will now hear them saying men are scum, meanwhile na them act foolish. How will you be asking a man you want to date,how much he go dey give you monthly,as if relationship na employment..
Really terrible
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by helinues: 8:18pm On Dec 13, 2024
Why would you also date a disabled lady that can't earn her own money
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by BigYash(op): 8:26pm On Dec 13, 2024
helinues:
Why would you also date a disabled lady that can't earn her own money
Your case dey always different grin. Na really disabled lady 😂😂😂😂
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by helinues: 8:50pm On Dec 13, 2024
BigYash:
Your case dey always different grin. Na really disabled lady 😂😂😂😂
If they are not disabled why should they be waiting for a guy to pay their bills?
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by Tallesty1(m): 6:00am On Dec 14, 2024
Nigeria men have suffered
Re: Is This Question Right To Ask Before Starting A Relationship? by Baronthecelebri(m): 6:24am On Dec 14, 2024
That's a foolish question
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