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Sonnobax15:

The native hens are always fond of calling it a mood swing .

But op,lemme be brutal to you here by telling you nothing but the obvious truth--"Bro, she's only keeping you as an option B Incase when her main option didn't work well,so that she can easily manipulate you into her heart again

But don't worry bro....most of us have been there once.....in fact,mine is currently showing me similar signs but I no send her papa......na how to put my life in order be the main koko right now..

Bro,move on with your life cuz these native cockerels don't worth the stress we put ourselves through because of them...

Nonexisting1:
May the Lord not let me fall into the temptation of trying to save who doesn't need to be saved.
Brother, just continue calling and chatting her and hopefully, she will take some time off the dick she rides daily to respond to you. God bless your union simping.

brain54:
I think people are different...

Not everyone is all mushy mushy showing their emotions. Or want to be all over the place doing lovey lovey dovey.

I like to speak from personal experiences.

I had this friend one time that could date her boyfriend for months without communicating with him. She even hardly went to see him. She just wanted to be on her own. The guy kept complaining about the issue until he finally got fed up and broke up with her.

Now always had the impression that she never loved the guy and that was her reason for not communicating etc.

I was shocked when she cried through out that week due to the break up. I asked her she said she loved him and that was just how she was and the guy didn't understand her.

I would later go on to date this girl and this knowledge about her personality helped me understand her nature. It helped in the relationship.

What am I saying in essence...? Know and understand the partner you are with. It may not necessarily be cheating it may just be the way that person is built. Simple!

Colson:
Hard to tell, but If I were you, I would start looking for another girl.
If she truly stays for up to 4 days without keeping in touch with you, it means she doesn't love you, I'm sorry. A girl who loves you would always want your attention.

Modified: it's even a new relationship sef,chai! Normally relationships/love is sweetest in the beginning. But this your own come be like she don tire already.
Bro she doesn't love you at all, move on..

popweezy:
I regret to tell you that you're the option B or even option C if not D sef. Know this and know peace. Remember she was someone's girlfriend before you did go for her. Also, other guys have approached her countless times even after you guys have started dating. Just know that ladies love to have options. You are not the only one she has. So, what happens in the relationship she is having with other guys will surely reflect in the relationship she has with you. Especially if she is having issue with the guy she finds most wanting. The rest of you go just be like ewu Gambia for her eye. She go just dey give una some negative attitude..
Chaaii.. Boys dey suffer sha!

My bro, you have to be very focused with your life. Think of ways you can develop yourself financially and intelligently. Sensible ladies will always go for someone they think has more potentials. If a girl is not reciprocating the energy you're give her, dump her sharpally. No time abeg!

KingLander:
just over 2 months in our relationship, .

she is treating me like

I so much love her,

iam all over her

I am the one who always call and apologise for something I didn't do

KingLander:
but I don't want to apologise again this time for what I didn't do.

KingLander:
Me and my girlfriend are just over 2 months in our relationship, but sometimes her mood just changes just like that and she stops chatting, calling or picking calls.

Four days ago she picked offense on something that is not enough to get someone annoyed and for four days now, no chats, no calls. When I called three days ago, she picked and we were talking, later she complained that she wasn't hearing my voice clearly and she ended the call.

When I asked on WhatsApp why she is treating me like she wants to break up, she accused me of wanting to break up with her and said I should not conclude just like that, that everyone women are not the same, that I should give it time.

Iam still giving it time. I so much love her, but it amazes me how someone that was in love with me last week can stay for five days without calling or chatting me. I don't want to do it because its like iam all over her and she needs her space, besides this is not the first time, I am the one who always call and apologise for something I didn't do so that we settle.

Has anyone here been in such situation. Is it normal to be in a relationship and not communicate for over four days and still claiming the relationship hasn't ended?

KingLander:
Bro I have deleted her number already. It's very painful. She don't want to tell me that she broke up with me so that she can put me on suspense until any time she feels like to come back.

mariobalotelli09:
Let me give any guy reading 📖 this story a very important advice when it comes to relationships and dating. If you see a girl who like, start by been her friend. If she develops feelings for you she will be the one that will even initiate the idea of you both dating. You will hear her say things like who cooked the food for you? Hope no woman will pour me hot water if i visit you etc. What i am basically saying is she should be the one desiring you. If you make the mistake of bombarding her with attention, u may momentarily win her attention but when the man of her dreams comes she will leave you.

DonBenny77:
Small quarrel woman don use that opportunity go cheat.
You don't know that gender

Sonnobax15:

The native hens are always fond of calling it a mood swing .

But op,lemme be brutal to you here by telling you nothing but the obvious truth--"Bro, she's only keeping you as an option B Incase when her main option didn't work well,so that she can easily manipulate you into her heart again

But don't worry bro....most of us have been there once.....in fact,mine is currently showing me similar signs but I no send her papa......na how to put my life in order be the main koko right now..

Bro,move on with your life cuz these native cockerels don't worth the stress we put ourselves through because of them...

brain54:
I think people are different...

Not everyone is all mushy mushy showing their emotions. Or want to be all over the place doing lovey lovey dovey. Do you know those show of love and emotions actually irritate some people?

I like to speak from personal experiences.

I had this friend one time that could date her boyfriend for months without communicating with him. She even hardly went to see him. She just wanted to be on her own. The guy kept complaining about the issue until he finally got fed up and broke up with her.

Now I always had the impression that she never loved the guy and that was her reason for not communicating etc. Because we were close.

I was shocked when she cried through out that week due to the break up. She cried so hard her eyes were swollen. I asked her she said she loved him and that was just how she was and the guy didn't understand her.

I would later go on to date this girl and this knowledge about her personality helped me understand her nature. It helped in the relationship. If I had dated this girl prior to the other experience I would have come to the conclusion that she didn't love me.

What am I saying in essence...? Know and understand the partner you are with. It may not necessarily be cheating it may just be the way that person is built. Simple!

If you know that's the person's nature and feel you want to quit and can't cope with it then that's a different issue.

But don't always assume or generalize. Each relationship is unique.

Besides is 2 months not too soon to be mushy mushy all over a partner? Sometimes love takes time to build or get to that point!

KingLander:
Me and my girlfriend are just over 2 months in our relationship, but sometimes her mood just changes just like that and she stops chatting, calling or picking calls.

Four days ago she picked offense on something that is not enough to get someone annoyed and for four days now, no chats, no calls. When I called three days ago, she picked and we were talking, later she complained that she wasn't hearing my voice clearly and she ended the call.

When I asked on WhatsApp why she is treating me like she wants to break up, she accused me of wanting to break up with her and said I should not conclude just like that, that everyone women are not the same, that I should give it time.

Iam still giving it time. I so much love her, but it amazes me how someone that was in love with me last week can stay for five days without calling or chatting me. I don't want to do it because its like iam all over her and she needs her space, besides this is not the first time, I am the one who always call and apologise for something I didn't do so that we settle.

Has anyone here been in such situation. Is it normal to be in a relationship and not communicate for over four days and still claiming the relationship hasn't ended?

tanigororo:
Never jump into the Dangerous Sea because of a fish that doesn't want to stay on your Boat.


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