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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 12:08pm On Dec 16, 2024
Goodenoch:
See this comment from Sunday Igboho, leader of the 'Yoruba Nation' insurgency:

https://www.nairaland.com/8294082/it-high-time-president-bola

Zahra, while you seem to find all of this funny and have been saying that Goke7's points about the danger of these 'offhand' comments are far-fetched and emotional, hopefully, the above will give you at least an inkling into why people may be alarmed.

Obviously we know it isn't her responsibility how anyone uses her comments to further their own agenda, but the 'underlying issues' are very sensitive and require a lot more tact than she's displaying.
Of all the issues currently plaguing Nigeria, it's Olukemi's comments from London that are causing great alarm. Okay.

Perhaps that's why Shettima was told "to focus on Nigeria's pressing issues instead of engaging in disputes".

Kemi is not the cause of Nigeria's problems.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by babajeje123(m): 12:26pm On Dec 16, 2024
Zahra29:
Of all the issues currently plaguing Nigeria, it's Olukemi's comments from London that are causing great alarm. Okay.

Perhaps that's why Shettima was told "to focus on Nigeria's pressing issues instead of engaging in disputes".

Kemi is not the cause of Nigeria's problems.
To see many Nigerians lose their sanity and running aimlessly, just speak the truth. The peace they have from pretence would suddenly be bygone.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2024
Nothing concern Japanese and diversification

Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Viruses: 3:54pm On Dec 16, 2024
darknessbegone:
Can anyone recommend a similar platform to Vanguard? They want to start charging customers £4.00 per month if they have below £32,000.00 in their account (Stocks and Shares ISA, General Account or Personal Pension (SIPP)).
Instead of charging those with plenty money, they are charging those with small money...what kind of wahala is that grin grin
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by dustydee: 5:23pm On Dec 16, 2024
Chukwuka16:
Title of my brief this evening - Can we broaden our discussions: life has changed and is leaving us far behind

I have been away from this platform minding life and business – building an ecosystem is hard work and time!

I have recently had cause to scroll through previous pages here and I must appreciate the breadth of discussions. The OGs continue to help as always and bants continue to get thrown as usual. Nairaland still remains a melting pot for Nigerians.

However, for the last 18 months, I have suffered terribly from two things (information asymmetry and the absence of a sustainable ecosystem) that have both forced me to begin to rethink a lot of things about how I build and develop business. These sufferings I argue stem from two things I have noticed are very common in our community as Nigerians – a culture of hoarding and limited ambition.

First, I have suffered from serious information asymmetry which meant I have expended huge funds utilising consultants who are not Nigerians in navigating the landscape. This has mostly been around regulation (pursuing authorisation both in the finance, energy and ISO spaces). Now, don’t get me wrong, this is not a bad thing. What is worse is that money left our business to foreigners whereas there are Nigerians I believe who either have these skillsets or run businesses that can offer these services. I even know of one who I chatted up today on consulting for us in getting PCI DSS and the feedback justified why I will continue to use foreigners in the interim. I want to pay you to get the job done and the feedback is lacklustre. It was like I am not expected to have such. I will be reaching out today to a couple of firms to get that sorted for us – another loss of revenue to our ecosystem. I am practically weeping because my experience working with our manufacturers in China and consultants in UAE and even some of these Caucasian run consulting businesses here in the UK makes me wonder if we as Nigerians don’t want to succeed.

The second thing I have suffered is the absence of an ecosystem of familiar people on which I can build on. As a business, I have no reason to pursue financial authorisation. However, being unable to secure long-term partnerships and my long-term assessment of feedback from people I approached made me rule that a major risk hence the need to pursue that. As a business set up primarily to offer software solution in the energy space – carbon credit arbitrage from DSM and trading flexibility (we are literally building a trading platform to trade flexibility outside of smart meters), I have no business in hardware. That should be something owned by another business that they sell to customers and that I can build on. Unfortunately, I have also ruled that a major risk to prevent that aspect of the value chain cutting me off customers tomorrow. This means new manufacturing contracts to design hardware that caters for different continents, conformity tests, product design, circuit diagrams, packaging, countless emails and travel! As a business, it should have been a lot easier outsourcing my legal needs to a Nigerian-run legal firm here in the UK. Unfortunately, my last experience with a Nigerian lawyer here in the UK means I have to set up one that is in-house. When your heads of legal (finance and non-finance) either have a side gig at Oxford or worked at a leading European Fintech then you know you are toast. What about IP, we have to use US law firms to pursue patent filing and copyright protection. Thank God there is at least a Nigerian in one of the firms. These things are not meant to be so. This is what I love about the US and Chinese ecosystems (that does not include Nigerians).

I have done the numbers and all I can say is unfortunate. With regards to hoarding, I shiver. Folks I consider kin will see opportunities that will be beneficial to me and them in the long-run and keep mute. I’m younger than most so naturally I will supersede them – same way I expect younger folks than myself to exceed my achievements. However, our limited ambition means we don’t mind sacrificing long-term benefits if it will make a fellow Nigerian fail. Last night I concluded with my wife that scarcity and deep-seated jealousy is our problem. Reason why even at our parties we continue to exhibit such alien attributes in a declining country of abundance.

Why my rant this evening? If I continue like this, our businesses will fail. We are lucky to have secured funds to setup for our global rollout. We can achieve more, if we focus on what matters to us. Can we within this platform encourage anonymous discussions on Nigerians and what they do? I want to know of Nigerians who can handle accounting in the middle east – I will ditch the folks I’ve signed up with asap if I get a better deal. I want to know of Nigerians who can handle compliance or digital marketing across the UK, Europe, North America and the Middle East with budgets that are affordable (make sense) and with an attitude of seriousness. I cannot forget an experience I had some months back. Our BDM set up a meeting with a company to interview them for our marketing campaign. The rep perhaps felt that an all-black team didn’t deserve his presence and so turned off his video for the entirety of the call. That was the last time they heard back from us. I have recently held back on signing off on a report from another so-called top research organisation here in the UK because of the shoddy job they have done. By the time I am through with them, when they see a black business, they will “jump and pass”. I may be black but as a researcher and scholar, “I hold ground”.

Folks, as Nigerians we are powerless if we don’t own and run thriving businesses. Forget your high paying job, it is the businesses owned by Nigerians that gives us a voice in society. However, how can we ensure we have thriving businesses that can enable us to generate an ecosystem that enables us to keep wealth within our community. I know the health and care visa folks made a mess of things. Can we move past that and talk about the things good Nigerians do in their little corners so we can patronise and utilise them?

Today, I cringe about all the software we have bought for HR, accounting, compliance, communication, project management, etc. Some I just see the debit and am like what is this? If Nigerians had them and they were suitable for use here, I would be buying them. I want to scale from buying African food to patronising Nigerian owned businesses in marketing, consulting, research, audit, compliance, AI, etc.

Today, Nigerians cannot setup businesses easily in the UAE. If we had Nigerians owning businesses in strategic sectors, that won’t be the case. Today, for our staff to visit China, our manufacturers need to obtain letters from the government backing their own invitation letters simply because they still have a single nationality – Nigeria.

Time is moving very fast and severe structural change is coming. In our business, 99% of our staff are Nigerians. We have one very excellent chartered engineer who is European. I can enforce this because I am majority owner. Same thing with other businesses. I want to go into the city and enter a Nigerian-run finance business and see Nigerians just excelling. Please, can we broaden our discussions to include talks on this. I recall reading here of someone who was exploring building a currency-exchange business based on crypto. Next year, we would be exploring launching our own coin based on the carbon credits we generate from arbitrage. That would be a partnership worth exploring for me.

As I conclude, I recall an event held in the city in 2022. Two of my businesses had won funds in climate finance out of 30 funded across the country and we needed to attend a meeting with the Oxford folks and finance players (the major institute is based in Oxford). I have never felt out of place in my life. We were only 6 blacks in that meeting. Three from my end (including myself), two from my friend’s end who also had 2 of her businesses winning funding and 1 other guy who works with a major finance institution in the city. I vowed to avoid such meetings in the future. We may think such events will help us get networks. I laugh. My experience partnering with white-run businesses has made me realise that it is safer and better to partner with your kit and kin than with foreigners. You will appreciate this when trouble arises. Only your own will bring out their necks and reputation to defend you. I want to join in building such networks.
Welcome back. I was thinking about you some days ago and wondering if you have left nairaland finally. I agree with your points and I have been thinking of setting up a business in the field of AI consultancy but do not have the courage and self belief yet.
I like your crypto based carbon exchange. I have some level of crypto/blockchain experience and happy to be involved in bringing the idea to life.
As you have suggested, it is a good idea to share our skillsets and perhaps someone might benefit from it.
I am into process/business improvement and digital transformation and do blockchain and crypto on the side.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by seyejohn94: 6:16pm On Dec 16, 2024
Hi Guys, Please I need your advice or information on how to proceed regarding passport renewal.

I am being requested to provide sworn affidavit by a court and newspaper publication for change of name. I did not change my name and my NIN was already linked to my current passport.

However, my nin has my middle name but my passport does not. Is there a way to resolve this. I have sent emails and called NIS but no response. I am stuck in the application process and cannot proceed both on the app and web. I will sincerely appreciate every support I can get. Thank you.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Joyglo: 6:23pm On Dec 16, 2024
Hello, I got my PSW this afternoon.

I would like to visit a country in the Europe by February next year to cool off from stress. I will appreciate if anyone can share with me countries I can apply for and get the visa effortlessly abeg na beg I dey beg.

Thank you
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goke7: 6:54pm On Dec 16, 2024

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oX_eK-INFeo?si=sTHWlYotiy0xSI1S

For those who think people back home support the rubbish kemi Badenoch is saying.

That’s a media outfit that’s a fierce critic of the Tinubu govt. They even seem to understand the British political landscape better than those of us in the uk. I was stunned. I rest my case!
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m):
Chukwuka16:
Title of my brief this evening - Can we broaden our discussions: life has changed and is leaving us far behind



Folks, as Nigerians we are powerless if we don’t own and run thriving businesses. Forget your high paying job, it is the businesses owned by Nigerians that gives us a voice in society. However, how can we ensure we have thriving businesses that can enable us to generate an ecosystem that enables us to keep wealth within our community. I know the health and care visa folks made a mess of things. Can we move past that and talk about the things good Nigerians do in their little corners so we can patronise and utilise them?
Good take. I've always believed the conversations we have here would change with time.

In a capitalist society, access to the means of production (i.e capital) is a strong pillar of success. I do most of my work via my company and I can see firsthand the advantages running a business gives especially in a business friendly nation.

I take an exception to the 'health and care visa folks' phrase. To be clear, I'm not condoning certain practices.
First off, for those working in health- alot of the PR and restructuring of the Nigerian image in the UK has subtly come from folks who work in healthcare. I work in a town which would be easily >98% white. At my practice, it's s not uncommon to have 3 GPs out of a working 5 be Nigerians. The local hospitals is also heavily weighted towards immigrant professionals. Much of the populace might have deep seated racist beliefs but if the person who's treated you on multiple occasions is Nigerian, you begin to have a different view. An older colleague once told me about his dad who was a staunch racist but would now swear by his Nigerian GP.

If you're referring to the care route- look at how the British (and many others) migrated and see there is an advantage in numbers. Most of what you seek would take time and would only be achieved with the sufficient numbers. I see the qualifications and grit of a number of recent care workers and have no doubt many of their kids would grow up to be distinguished members of society and man positions of authority. I only hope those kids appreciate their background.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m):
Goodenoch:
The point remains that it's false to make it seem as if people here (and immigrants generally) are opposed to immigration law enforcement or the changing of policies to restrict entry in the perceived national interest.

In fact the most popular view here recently has been that if the UK government wants to change the laws to ban any category of immigrants or even stop immigration totally, they should go ahead and do it.
You put this succinctly. I wonder why folks wrongly think immigrants would be against immigration enforcement.

What we stand against is the folly of granting a million visas, dissipating the funds received and turning around to blame migrants for every problem in society. This allows rioters and riff-raffs to point fingers accusing productive members of society whose roles they cannot replace as being the reason for their sorry state.

Like I've long chorused, the UK needs to move on from this. They should determine what number of migrants they need and enforce it.
It's so easy- end the post-study visa, end the care visa, stop or severely cap the NHS granting visas and the numbers arriving within a year would be in the negative. I'd rather a trial of that for a decade and lets see what prosperity it brings.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m):
darknessbegone:
Can anyone recommend a similar platform to Vanguard? They want to start charging customers £4.00 per month if they have below £32,000.00 in their account (Stocks and Shares ISA, General Account or Personal Pension (SIPP)).
This has been a good resource to compare brokers though there might be a lag in updating numbers.

https://monevator.com/compare-uk-cheapest-online-brokers/

I previously used Invest Engine which is flexible and free. This year, I used Trading212 for my S&S ISA due to a rebate they were offering. The platform fee is also free so one only has to pay the individual fund fee.

My SIPP is still with Vanguard though, as I like the peace of mind it gives though I may change it soon if I see a good offer.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ukay2: 9:37pm On Dec 16, 2024
darknessbegone:
Can anyone recommend a similar platform to Vanguard? They want to start charging customers £4.00 per month if they have below £32,000.00 in their account (Stocks and Shares ISA, General Account or Personal Pension (SIPP)).
I think it is still a good deal......try and build your portfolio above the £32k mark to continue to enjoy the low charges.

I use Freetrade, T212 and Moneybox.....
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ukay2: 9:39pm On Dec 16, 2024
Viruses:
Instead of charging those with plenty money, they are charging those with small money...what kind of wahala is that grin grin
Motivation to move up the ladder....
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goke7: 10:23pm On Dec 16, 2024
jedisco:
You put this succinctly. I wonder why folks wrongly thing immigrants would be against immigration enforcement.

What we stand against is the folly of granting a million visas, dissipating the funds received and turning around to blame migrants for every problem in society. This allows rioters and riff-raffs to point fingers accusing productive members of society whose roles they cannot replace as being the reason for their sorry state.

Like I've long chorused, the UK needs to move on from this. They should determine what number of migrants they need and enforce it.
It's so easy- end the post-study visa, end the care visa, stop or severely cap the NHS granting visas and the numbers arriving within a year would be in the negative. I'd rather a trial of that for a decade and let’s see the prosperity it brings.
easy? My brother make I talk am again, sapa no get respect 😜 no take reggae spoil dem blues o
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29:
babajeje123:
To see many Nigerians lose their sanity and running aimlessly, just speak the truth. The peace they have from pretence would suddenly be bygone.
Agreed. I've come to realise that many Nigerians tolerate and pretend about negative situations, bad governance etc but it's highlighting the truth of these situations that they are unable to handle.

The impressive Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala wrote a book exposing the deep and systemic corruption in Nigeria and her experiences fighting this corruption as a public servant. Imagine if she had done a global book tour, promoting her book on BBC, CNN, podcasts etc She would likely have received similar hate for "denigrating Nigeria".

But "luckily", very,very (very lol) few Nigerians have read it or even know of its existence, and even the governors she mentions in her book are blissfully unaware, so it's okay 😂

Telling my story is risky,” Okonjo-Iweala writes. “But not telling it is also dangerous.

Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29:
seyejohn94:
Hi Guys, Please I need your advice or information on how to proceed regarding passport renewal.

I am being requested to provide sworn affidavit by a court and newspaper publication for change of name. I did not change my name and my NIN was already linked to my current passport.

However, my nin has my middle name but my passport does not. Is there a way to resolve this. I have sent emails and called NIS but no response. I am stuck in the application process and cannot proceed both on the app and web. I will sincerely appreciate every support I can get. Thank you.
Sorry about this. I recently helped someone with their NIN registration and Nigerian passport application so I know first hand how incredibly frustrating the process can be.

I'm not sure where you got your NIN from (UK or Nigeria) but have you tried contacting an NIN agent here to ask for advice on how to resolve this issue? I'm sure they've come across this situation before with all the people they see.

If you'd like, I can send you the details of the NIN agent we used - she was very helpful and knowledgeable about the NIN and passport process.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Meogom: 11:09pm On Dec 16, 2024
Compliments of the season my good people.

Please I need help with something.
I gave out a room in my rented house. Lodger is moving out and wants me to give a reference for his new letting agent. Am I qualified to give a reference? Cos I'm not the owner of the house, I'm renting. Abi how does it work, make I no go enter one chance
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by giselle237:
seyejohn94:
Hi Guys, Please I need your advice or information on how to proceed regarding passport renewal.

I am being requested to provide sworn affidavit by a court and newspaper publication for change of name. I did not change my name and my NIN was already linked to my current passport.
However, my nin has my middle name but my passport does not. Is there a way to resolve this. I have sent emails and called NIS but no response. I am stuck in the application process and cannot proceed both on the app and web. I will sincerely appreciate every support I can get. Thank you.
To be able to renew your passport due to a middle name appearing on your NIN then both the passport and NIN names must be same, that is like for like, 3 names for 3 names. …have 2 options
1. Modify the names on your NIN to remove the middle name . You go to the NIN office and enquire about modification of data to remove the middle name officially…
2. Add the middle name to your passport to go forward but you will need to still do correction/change of data and provide a court affidavit + newspaper publication to be able to add this middle name
Your family members in Nigeria can help u with the court affidavit and newspaper p as they are not hard to get or look into getting a deed poll.
But there’s no other way as the names must match- NIN and passsport
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Lexusgs430: 11:49pm On Dec 16, 2024
Meogom:
Compliments of the season my good people.

Please I need help with something.
I gave out a room in my rented house. Lodger is moving out and wants me to give a reference for his new letting agent. Am I qualified to give a reference? Cos I'm not the owner of the house, I'm renting. Abi how does it work, make I no go enter one chance
Unfortunately, you cannot give that lodger a reference.....

Is your landlord aware you have a lodger...... 😁
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Chukwuka16: 11:56pm On Dec 16, 2024
jedisco:
Good take. I've always believed the conversations we have here would chabge with time.

In a capitalist society, access to the means of production (i.e capital) is a strong pillar of success. I do most of my work via my company and I can see firsthand the advantages running a business gives especially in a business friendly nation.

I hope you don’t by any means mean that the UK is a business-friendly nation? When you have a government that is hell-bent on destroying SMEs through perverse policies and careless and inconsistent statements, you cannot identify such a country as a business-friendly country. When you hear the founder of Revolut dismiss LSE and hype NYSE, or you see the declining performance of the LSE or the miserable market caps for firms that raise funds or the abysmally low pot of government funds that exists in the UK VC/PE market, or the massive poverty the UK boasts of outside London, or the miserable outlook that the UK shamelessly presents, you cannot identify the UK as a business friendly nation.

I take an exception to the 'health and care visa folks' phrase. To be clear, I'm not condoning certain practices.
First off, for those working in health- alot of the PR and restructuring of the Nigerian image in the UK has subtly come from folks who work in healthcare. I work in a town which would be easily >98% white. At my practice, it's s not uncommon to have 3 GPs out of a working 5 be Nigerians. The local hospitals is also heavily weighted towards immigrant professionals. Much of the populace might have deep seated racist beliefs but if the person who's treated you on multiple occasions is Nigerian, you begin to have a different view. An older colleague once told me about his dad who was a staunch racist but would now swear by his Nigerian GP.

If you're referring to the care route- look at how the British (and many others) migrated and see there is an advantage in numbers. Most of what you seek would take time and would only be achieved with the sufficient numbers. I see the qualifications and grit of a number of recent care workers and have no doubt many of their kids would grow up to be distinguished members of society and man positions of authority. I only hope those kids appreciate their background.
Let me put it mildly – forget expertise or the folks as GPs, it is dime a dozen. We should be owning GPs and running them as chains. Who cares about my nationality? If you have value to offer me, I am game. Being a GP is very good, can you scale that and own the practice along with your network? You talk about kids of immigrants today becoming something tomorrow – that’s now a pipe dream.

There was a time when being a migrant was enough – the arbitrage in living standards between the two spaces meant you could exploit the advantages overseas to build massive wealth back home. Today, if you are not in the places that matter, with the network that matters, and with support that matters, life has won you. The kids of migrants will have ok educations and earn averagely. If their parents are not millionaires, they will mostly be poor or average – unfortunately. I am saying, the possibility of our kids exceeding us if we are not millionaires is now zero (rounded to 2 decimal places). You can’t be a millionaire on a salary except you are a cofounder in a start up with significant equity and you raise funds. We need to own businesses to provide the ecosystem for our kids to thrive. How many of our kids will graduate debt free if we are already asking questions about child benefit? How many will be done with university and get a check of £200k from their parents as angel investment into their business venture? Can we today as immigrants come together within our network of say 5-10 people and comfortably raise £300k to try out something or buy a business or take some risk?

We are so lost, and that realisation is driving me mad. Innocent kids of today’s migrants will enter another strange dimension of poverty in this UK that parents today will find amazing. You are watching OpenAI and xAI and the others raise $billions to carve a niche in the AI space and we are watching other monster organisations coalescing and consolidating market share and you think because my dad is a GP or a professor, I stand a chance in life? When you deduct mortgage, car note, house bills and pension how much does the professor or GP have to put in ISA for the child or themselves?
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Chukwuka16: 12:05am On Dec 17, 2024
dustydee:
Welcome back. I was thinking about you some days ago and wondering if you have left nairaland finally. I agree with your points and I have been thinking of setting up a business in the field of AI consultancy but do not have the courage and self belief yet.

Life moves so fast. If you have the skill set, please go for it. You don’t even need to worry about the infrastructure as Microsoft will finance your first $250k of cloud infrastructure (Azure) enabling you use ChatGPT and other connected services. That space is exploding in ways not imagined and only our creativity will be the limiting factor.

I like your crypto based carbon exchange. I have some level of crypto/blockchain experience and happy to be involved in bringing the idea to life.
As you have suggested, it is a good idea to share our skillsets and perhaps someone might benefit from it.
I am into process/business improvement and digital transformation and do blockchain and crypto on the side.
Great. We are finalising the first phase Jan/Feb 2025 without price volatility – aggregators create orders and users fill if happy with the fixed price. After March, we hope to move to real-time pricing and then build the crypto platform on top of the carbon credits and DSM potential the platform portends. Will be nice to explore potential partnership there.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by seyejohn94: 12:46am On Dec 17, 2024
Zahra29:
Sorry about this. I recently helped someone with their NIN registration and Nigerian passport application so I know first hand how incredibly frustrating the process can be.

I'm not sure where you got your NIN from (UK or Nigeria) but have you tried contacting an NIN agent here to ask for advice on how to resolve this issue? I'm sure they've come across this situation before with all the people they see.

If you'd like, I can send you the details of the NIN agent we used - she was very helpful and knowledgeable about the NIN and passport process.
Thank you. Please share the details of the NIN agent.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by seyejohn94: 12:51am On Dec 17, 2024
Thank you. I will consider the two options with option 2 as last resort
giselle237:
To be able to renew your passport due to a middle name appearing on your NIN then both the passport and NIN names must be same, that is like for like, 3 names for 3 names. …have 2 options
1. Modify the names on your NIN to remove the middle name . You go to the NIN office and enquire about modification of data to remove the middle name officially…
2. Add the middle name to your passport to go forward but you will need to still do correction/change of data and provide a court affidavit + newspaper publication to be able to add this middle name
Your family members in Nigeria can help u with the court affidavit and newspaper p as they are not hard to get or look into getting a deed poll.
But there’s no other way as the names must match- NON and passsport
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by babylawyr(f): 1:40am On Dec 17, 2024
Hello house,
I'm trying to apply to renew my US visa from London, can anyone kindly send me the link to the interview waiver page.
How do I pay the visa fees will that be from the same page.
Please help.
Thanks in advance
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by missjekyll: 2:04am On Dec 17, 2024
Viruses:
Instead of charging those with plenty money, they are charging those with small money...what kind of wahala is that grin grin
That's because these charges have been in place eversince for >£32000.

I like that you are looking for cheaper fees. Please share on here if you find one. Thanks
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Meogom: 3:56am On Dec 17, 2024
Lexusgs430:
Unfortunately, you cannot give that lodger a reference.....

Is your landlord aware you have a lodger...... 😁
OK, thanks boss.

Yea, landlord is aware.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Lexusgs430: 4:19am On Dec 17, 2024
Meogom:
OK, thanks boss.

Yea, landlord is aware.
Ask your LL, he/she might be nice enough to give one (think about this well though).....
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Cyberknight: 4:44am On Dec 17, 2024
dustydee:
Welcome back. I was thinking about you some days ago and wondering if you have left nairaland finally. I agree with your points and I have been thinking of setting up a business in the field of AI consultancy but do not have the courage and self belief yet.
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Can relate to this.

I know the glib answer is to say "Do your due diligence and feasibility, realistically assess what or how much you can afford to invest in the business and what you can afford to lose, and go ahead", but that, despite its glibness, really is what to do. The courage comes from a sober assessment of the chances and consequences of success and non-success (are you investing anything other than your time and effort in this, for instance) and the self-belief from clear-eyed knowledge of what you are capable of ("Am I a people person, can I go out and sell myself and my ideas/concepts to others, can I cold call, email, write blogs, press the flesh, gladhand, do whatever to recruit clients, etc." ). In any event, if you've a fully formed and assessed business concept and you think it feasible and potentially profitable, do execute it.

I've set up a business back in Naija before. It was physical, so I invested money, bought stuff, got someone to partner with (profit sharing), rented premises, etc. All from my savings. It earned some money but ultimately wasn't profitable, so I shut it down and made a loss on the whole venture. Failure makes you stronger they say.

Some time later I came up with another business idea. This time I agonised over the decision to go in or not. It was also a service based one this time where I would have to sell my services. Literally had butterflies in my stomach for a while like the first time I ever asked a girl to dance at a house party when I was 14. The day I was driving to meet my first client in VI was like the day I "entered express" for the first time as a learner driver after weeks and weeks of driving around upandan in Surulere along safe roads like Adeniran Ogunsanya, Masha and Bode Thomas.

I didn't get that first client, but kept at it, and got others. And eventually, that potential first client recommended me to someone else who did give me a good project and after that the business was off. It was a good earner for me all up to the time I left Nigeria. So, not really sure what buzzwords to use to be all inspirational and motivational, but just go for it.

Regarding the two situations above, the girl I asked to dance nailed me very fast and very quickly, so I had to do the walk of shame back to the other side of the room and my guys yabbed me solid for like two months, and the day I decided to "gather liver" and exit from Bode Thomas to attempt Eko Bridge, as soon as I got out to Iponri, and jammed correct Lagos mad drivers (this was just after they opened 3rd Mainland so I assumed that I would have a smooth ride), I fumbled the gear (one useless bus driver shouted "I can drive!" mockingly at me), liver failed me and I turned back at Costain sharp sharp.

Win some, lose some.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Cyberknight: 4:46am On Dec 17, 2024
Jamesclooney:
Kemi is atrociously bad but I agree with your general point.

Labour doesn’t feel any different these days with figures like Keir Starmer, Rachel ‘from Accounts’ Reeves, David Lammy and Angela Rayner, to name a few. Perhaps it’s nostalgia, but I miss the era of truly formidable politicians on both the left and right. The same issue exists across the pond (Trump & Kamala). Or is it that the internet has stripped away the mystique surrounding politicians/leaders? Just feels like the bar has been lowered drastically.
Lol, somebody has been reading The Telegraph.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Chukwuka16: 9:42am On Dec 17, 2024
Contextualising the UK: motivations to own and run a business at scale

Don't mind me. I like to document my thoughts as they come and this is part of that series as 2024 comes to an end.

It is not uncommon as a migrant to look around you here in the UK and feel that air of satisfaction. I mean, this hits home a lot more when you open Nairaland and you see the tales of woes that abound in Nigeria. You shake your head feeling satisfied that you made the right choice. “I have left those unfortunates in Nigeria”, you muse forgetting that you are ending up exactly like them or even worse – you just don’t know it yet.

I am a hopeless optimist but even I know that Nigeria as a country is “dead and long gone”. We need not bother anymore about the country catching up or achieving much, that window is passed – we would be colonised and used as fodder (manual labour) for the new world emerging. We missed the opportunity of harnessing our youthful population in driving global transformation in manufacturing, software development, AI, climate, creative arts and fintech. We may see attempts at patching things here and there – it won’t matter, we don enter express. I have this to say to a Nigerian Youth – You will have almost no usefulness to humanity as a Nigerian Youth if you have no chance of living in the top 20 cities globally within the next 24 months. Please note my premise – Nigerian Youth. Ask yourself, what hope lies for a youth in Somalia, Sudan, DRC, Ukraine, Syria, Libya? What contributions can such youth make in the global space in areas such as climate, space, AI, finance, technology, etc.? Don’t mention Ukraine and cybersecurity please.

To those of us here in the abroad, especially the UK, we find ourselves in almost the same predicament as a Nigerian Youth today who has no hope of escaping Nigeria. The supposed differential we think exists in opportunities here in the UK when compared to Nigeria creates the impression that we are in a far better place. There is also the notion that with hard work and diligence, we would in no time become super achievers. Of course, you get some validation for this when you get a “good job”, buy a home on mortgage, and you get that car and make that holiday trip to Paris – what more do I need in life?

Nothing is farther from the truth than the above notions. First, hard work in today’s world is useless – don’t even argue it. It is the level at which you add value that now matters. Anyone who thinks that working hard will make them successful in today’s world needs to rethink things. In fact, the harder you work, the poorer you become. Second, the UK is a country of limited vision and ambition. To many of us leaving Nigeria, the UK seems like a utopia until you realise how small the UK really is and why we must begin to think global.

Why this take this early morning? The earlier we realise that our community in this abroad is being decimated financially creating a very sure pathway to a recolonisation of some sorts for our children the earlier we can start thinking of doing things differently. We need to think strategically and fast to ensure we can preserve the future of our offsprings. Today’s world is ruled by wealth. That is why the UK, Europe, and the US will continue to make concessions for countries like China, India, Russia, GCC, etc. because these countries have wealth both within and outside their countries.

Have you heard of Nigerian investments in the US, Europe, GCC, Asia etc. Of course, you will have 1 or 2 outliers. Now compare that with the scale of investments by nationals of the GCC, India, Russia in Africa, the US, UK, Europe, etc. This is what brings them respect. This is what ensures that their offsprings will thrive and be successful in tomorrow’s world. They have used their wealth to buy access for their offsprings. They have created parallel ecosystems to enable their offsprings accelerate faster and build competence at the highest levels. They have leveraged their wealth in buying a seat at the table of decision-making. They are now equals to any comparable western nation. Little wonder, you see them having easier travel access and acceptability globally.

Nvidia, a US based company is today worth about $3.2 trillion. The UK as at 2023 had a GDP of $3.3 trillion. The LSE has a total capitalisation of $4.7 trillion. If Nvidia were a country, it would be at par with the UK (in terms of GDP). Were Nvidia to list on the LSE, it would “own” the LSE. Minimum shifts in its valuation will cause structural impacts on FTSE 100 ETFs. Take out London from the Uk economy and you begin to see a 3rd world country emerge. Today, London has a GDP of over $0.7 trillion and a per capita GDP of $80k. After that, the next is Manchester ($0.125 trillion, $43k), Birmingham ($0.11 trillion, $37k) and then Leeds (£0.09 trillion, $39k). Compare that with the US with cities such as New York ($2.3 trillion, $114k), Los Angeles ($1.3 trillion, $98k), Chicago ($0.89 trillion, $93k), San Francisco ($0.78 trillion, $164k) and Dallas ($0.74 trillion, $97k). Even Pittsburgh with a GDP of $0.2 trillion and ranked 30 has a higher per capita GDP than London ($82k versus $80k).

I do not disparage the UK – never. This country has given me more than I deserve, and I will remain eternally grateful to it. However, there is so much to live for. The dynamism in today’s world and shifting geopolitics and even changing economic systems necessitate for a very aggressive and expansive approach to doing things. The bar to even live averagely is now beyond the reach of many. What pathways our kids will follow and their socioeconomic standing in society will be determined by the wealth of their parents, the skills of the kids notwithstanding. Understanding the pivotal role we as migrants will play in the positioning of our kids means we cannot settle for less. We need to be very strategic and aggressive in how we do things to create a fighting chance for these kids.

Our kids are not welcome in the ecosystems created by the west. Their places have been determined – the engine wheels that will keep the system running. The few that will “escape” will be used as poster kids to their kiths and kin to behave well and stand the chance of one day enjoying such privilege. I have encountered 1 or 2 of them and they are a nuisance – they act as gatekeepers. It is this system that fuels the backstabbing and animalistic hatred we display against one another. The insufficiency of opportunities creates scarcity and fuels bad behavior amongst us. We serve as sport to the other folks who are amused by our wrestling and ass licking because we want to have access to such privileges. When there is abundance, many of our bad behaviours will disappear.

It was Bishop Oyedepo who in one of his earlier messages to CU students quipped – “don’t look for a platform to be relevant, create one. In the time you spend looking for a platform to be relevant, you would have created one and built relevance for yourself.

I can create my own ecosystem and decide who plays there, who I partner with, etc. This is what we should be doing. Enabling our kids play in such systems from young ages. Seeing us run small businesses and grow them. Seeing us fail and win. This is the system our kids should be growing up in. It is also the ecosystem that will stimulate productivity. The dissemination of technology and upscaling of our services become easy when we play in an ecosystem. Our kids get to learn about communication, negotiation, building networks, relationships, etc. Our kids cannot continue to be sport for the west. Our parents served them, we are most likely serving their kids (our equals) and are prepping our kids to serve their colleagues.

Our kids need to think big – not just about being an astronaut but owning a space company. They will get that thought when they have been born in a home where business is second nature. They need to be risk loving. They need to be comfortable failing. They need to understand how to navigate the business landscape and understand the role of experts in decision-making. They will never be taught any of these in school. You the parent must create that environment for them. They need to be able to manage resources and deploy them effectively. Where else to learn that than in the ecosystem we create.

Our hard work is great but will not suffice in the emerging world. Again, if we cannot create that ecosystem we can as well conclude that we have determined the future of our kids – fodder for keeping society running; sport for the west.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by willyede(m): 10:47am On Dec 17, 2024
Zahra29:
Agreed. I've come to realise that many Nigerians tolerate and pretend about negative situations, bad governance etc but it's highlighting the truth of these situations that they are unable to handle.

The impressive Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala wrote a book exposing the deep and systemic corruption in Nigeria and her experiences fighting this corruption as a public servant. Imagine if she had done a global book tour, promoting her book on BBC, CNN, podcasts etc She would likely have received similar hate for "denigrating Nigeria".

But "luckily", very,very (very lol) few Nigerians have read it or even know of its existence, and even the governors she mentions in her book are blissfully unaware, so it's okay 😂

Telling my story is risky,” Okonjo-Iweala writes. “But not telling it is also dangerous.
From this analysis, it appears that Kemi's decision to share her views via a podcast may not have been the most strategic choice. If she had instead presented the same points in a book, the reaction might have been more muted, as we are not a nation that heavily engages with reading. To speak candidly about Nigeria and avoid backlash, putting such thoughts into a book tends to be a safer and more effective approach.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by willyede(m): 10:53am On Dec 17, 2024
Chukwuka16:
Let me put it mildly – forget expertise or the folks as GPs, it is dime a dozen. We should be owning GPs and running them as chains. Who cares about my nationality? If you have value to offer me, I am game. Being a GP is very good, can you scale that and own the practice along with your network? You talk about kids of immigrants today becoming something tomorrow – that’s now a pipe dream.

There was a time when being a migrant was enough – the arbitrage in living standards between the two spaces meant you could exploit the advantages overseas to build massive wealth back home. Today, if you are not in the places that matter, with the network that matters, and with support that matters, life has won you. The kids of migrants will have ok educations and earn averagely. If their parents are not millionaires, they will mostly be poor or average – unfortunately. I am saying, the possibility of our kids exceeding us if we are not millionaires is now zero (rounded to 2 decimal places). You can’t be a millionaire on a salary except you are a cofounder in a start up with significant equity and you raise funds. We need to own businesses to provide the ecosystem for our kids to thrive. How many of our kids will graduate debt free if we are already asking questions about child benefit? How many will be done with university and get a check of £200k from their parents as angel investment into their business venture? Can we today as immigrants come together within our network of say 5-10 people and comfortably raise £300k to try out something or buy a business or take some risk?

We are so lost, and that realisation is driving me mad. Innocent kids of today’s migrants will enter another strange dimension of poverty in this UK that parents today will find amazing. You are watching OpenAI and xAI and the others raise $billions to carve a niche in the AI space and we are watching other monster organisations coalescing and consolidating market share and you think because my dad is a GP or a professor, I stand a chance in life? When you deduct mortgage, car note, house bills and pension how much does the professor or GP have to put in ISA for the child or themselves?
Your perspective raises valid concerns, but I respectfully disagree with the overly deterministic outlook on the future of immigrant families, particularly Nigerians, in the UK. While structural challenges exist, dismissing the potential of hard work, education, and adaptability would be short-sighted.

Firstly, the assertion that being a general practitioner (GP) or a professional offers no significant upward mobility undervalues the profession's stability and ability to generate income over time. Owning chains of practices and businesses is indeed a worthy goal, but the skills and networks developed through careers like medicine, academia, or engineering provide a foundation to build on. Many Nigerians are already succeeding in scaling businesses, innovating within sectors, and strategically investing their incomes—these are not pipe dreams, but tangible realities.

Secondly, the narrative that children of immigrants cannot exceed their parents’ achievements if those parents are not millionaires is both exaggerated and unfounded. History is full of immigrant families who started with little but laid the groundwork for their children to achieve financial independence and excellence through education, entrepreneurship, or professional success. Nigerian communities in the UK and the US have proven this time and again—producing accomplished doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, and tech leaders. Success is not solely determined by inherited wealth but by values, opportunities, and persistence.

The issue of debt and savings is indeed significant, but framing it as a crisis without acknowledging solutions misrepresents the situation. There are creative paths to financial stability, such as collective investments, strategic partnerships, and taking advantage of opportunities in emerging industries like AI and tech. Nigerians have historically excelled in leveraging opportunities in challenging environments; the same ingenuity can be applied today.

We must also move away from defeatist thinking that positions us as helpless observers. It is not just about raising £300k today, but about gradually building ecosystems through collaboration, mentorship, and investments—something the Nigerian diaspora has the capacity to achieve.

The future for immigrant children is not preordained by their parents’ bank accounts; it is shaped by vision, education, and deliberate action. Rather than focusing solely on the limitations, we should concentrate on empowering ourselves and the next generation to seize opportunities, innovate, and thrive, as Nigerians have done globally for decades.
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