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crackhouse:
She mess

I believe you.👍

There was a guy I once liked and I was considering on giving him a chance, until I found he was always drinking and smoking while partying almost every weekend.

I don't do baby daddies and guys who smoke and drink, even if he does drink, it has to be occasionally.

nifemi25:
She is a divorcee while am married... We are into friends with benefits..... I couldn't believe it when she called my wife and revealed to her she is the second wife... Even told her she is a friend on Facebook and will like to meet her so as to be a friend.... I sharperly blocked her on all social media and also blocked her getting access to me...

Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣

Houseofglam7:
Also here to read lies

I was loving you. But you don marry 😭

nifemi25:
She is a divorcee while am married... We are into friends with benefits..... I couldn't believe it when she called my wife and revealed to her she is the second wife... Even told her she is a friend on Facebook and will like to meet her so as to be a friend.... I sharperly blocked her on all social media and also blocked her getting access to me...

The werey think say u go follow am divorce? Why b say all divorced women na only married men dem dey follow? You can never see them following a single man and they will always tell you the reason for their divorce is because their husbands cheated

For the first time I am revealing this.
Someone I loved and met her as a graduate could neither write nor read.
To me it was unbelievable. I didnt have a job and my family was looking up to me to lift the family out of poverty having being sponsored by them through school.
I considered marrying her would be additional burden to me. I regretted my action after a while. I reasoned like a human and never trusted God.
She knew why I didnt marry her. She felt bad and some years later I realised she could now read and write but to at least JSS 3 level. Although, then what I needed was just a simple read and write.

Over-wise, emotional blackmail, anger issues

I have Neva been madly in love and I don't think I will ever be

Samantha125:
There was a guy I once liked and I was considering on giving him a chance, until I found he was always drinking and smoking while partying almost every weekend.

I don't do baby daddies and guys who smoke and drink, even if he does drink, it has to be occasionally.

I do this occasionally

Some girls don't even want you to do any of this lolz
Why do ladies get this impression that such guys are cheat?

ecomalchemistt:
She too Dey disturb me for money..

Today “Plz CaN u Do Me A faVor”

Tomorrow “My gaZ Has fINished”

Next week “I dOnT haVe TransPort Money”

Everyday na one family problem to the other, I gatts commot plug 🔌 from that relationship cause na poverty alleviation scheme be that one.

Man no go fit move forward for that kind relationship.

aybabz101:
Na God know the kind of brain wey dey the heads of these GenZs.....

the first story is quite funny and its unfortunate for ladies to be falling for this "what do you bring to the table of a thing"...

I am not against self development,...but just look at this op's first story...

Person tell u say no sex.....

U blackmailed her with "what do u bring to the table?"....

she succumbed, you chop her, and the abandoned her......

Wetin you too dey look for in a relationship?....continue oooo... just know say one day, the irreversible fit happen.....

Him no chop her, them chop themselves. Change this mindset na hookup mindset ne this.

Sunisonflex39:
I just fall in love..make I learn from Una expirence sha..

na lust you fall in. Dem no dey fall in love

Samantha125:
There was a guy I once liked and I was considering on giving him a chance, until I found he was always drinking and smoking while partying almost every weekend.

I don't do baby daddies and guys who smoke and drink, even if he does drink, it has to be occasionally.

hahaha I don't do any of that.try me you won't regret

I realized she was too short and insensitive.

I'm a Muslim though, but she as a Christian took the church going way higher than the people of Israel, I never quarrel or disagree of our differences on religion beliefs but she's too damn religious, and another thing is that she changes church like clothes, sometimes i asked if she's the only one with problems.

Being religious is not my thing abeg.

Her lies. Good lord. She lies too much. The most annoying thing is, her lies are just silly. Lol

Smithwilliams826:
na lust you fall in. Dem no dey fall in love

Oga calm down..make I learn from Una expirence

....the same thing that started it.
....playing dum and stoopeed

Sirchiboy:
1st girl: She said no sex and I asked her what does she has to offer apart from sex.
She couldn't say anything..
Very mumu girl forming big but she stay in one room with her married elder brother in Egbelu.
I like her sha and I thought I will marry her but
After I don knack her then we depart.

Second girl:Na through parole I meet her and we became friends .
One day out of the blues, she came to my house that her room mate chase out and I agreed to accommodate her but two weeks I have to chase her because she is stingy and wicked.
I gave her rules concerning food.
That we should be managing.
This girl will mix two soup together and eat.
Imagine cooking three pots of soup and within 5 days all the soup finished.
She will eat and wash plates so that I won't know .
Soap and paste will finish she won't bother to buy.
I have to chase her away. Some girls no just get sense.
Any girl i must I , must stay with me for sometime let me know her level of financial discipline and management.

I don't think you were madly in love with any of the two.

VinnyBaba:
She travelled to visit her 'Cousin' for 3weeks.

But when she came back, the Slim looking Girl was now very FAT with stretch marks and with bigger YANCH..

Was clear that the 'Cousin' Akamu that she constantly took must have been very THICK!

Hahahahahahaha, guy behave..

Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him

Wait ooo!!! so for real life, men dey wey dey like this?

maybe he notice some waka wey you dey waka, hey im not judging you, again if my wife wanna work also, i will have to really scrutinize the issue real well...but i think he loves you and dont wanna lose you

Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him

For me it's not that I think that they're cheats... The smell of someone reeking alcohol, especially beer and tobacco from smoking makes me nauseous.

I once nearly threw up as I was standing not far from someone who was smoking.

tollyboy5:
I do this occasionally

Some girls don't even want you to do any of this lolz
Why do ladies get this impression that such guys are cheat?

Sharap.... Who invited you...

Houseofglam7:
Also here to read lies

Hotspurs:
maybe he notice some waka wey you dey waka, hey im not judging you, again if my wife wanna work also, i will have to really scrutinize the issue real well...but i think he loves you and dont wanna lose you

oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning

With the way you're laughing, I don't trust you... You could be hiding some beer bottles under your bed....

hartson:
hahaha I don't do any of that.try me you won't regret

kentebemoney:
Wait ooo!!! so for real life, men dey wey dey like this?

Even worst o. And where the thing is paining me is that I was a good woman and still a very good woman. The man sha lost . He may even be reading this on nairaland and be regretting sef😄😄

She talk say I too love am that I should handle her with less love .. nah so I commot, if u no love 9ja babes nah problem, u love them nah calamity .
The 2nd babe left me bcs I was too active in bed with her , young man is just tired of thinking about love nah business dey my head
PS: I am done with any love matter with Nigerian babes 4 now bcs I can't afford any form of emotional blackmailing all in the bid to satisfy a human being like me and I need to focus on my tech startup and self-love. I also deserved to be loved and spoiled

Samantha125:
For me it's not that I think that they're cheats... The smell of someone reeking alcohol, especially beer and tobacco from smoking makes me nauseous.

I once nearly threw up as I was standing not far from someone who was smoking.

From your first statement of baby daddies. You've actually stereotyped them to having multiple partners and possibly becoming baby daddy to some other girls.
Now you're trying to be a bit nicer 😏

She is a narcissist

Second one : endured her selfish behavior for years just have to let it go.. did alot but never received any.. after everything na you not doing enough end ham ..