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delishpot:
The first girls karma will forever haunt you. What yeye table do you have that anybody will be bringing anything on? You know say you no like person then leave her with no karma attached. Right now you are battling devil's in your head, you feel like you are running in a tunnel , you can see the light at the end but you seem to never be able to reach it. It's cos of your wickedness. Your mind is playing you but you tell yourself it's just your imagination. You are a wicked person besides this girl. You are a user, you think you are smart but you know it's not smartness. You use people. It will take 17 yrs of penance for your mind to stop tormenting you. You remember king Saul? It's not about your success just like him. 17 yrs mark it.

Chairman this girl I gave her everything.
Bought clothes for her and gave her money.
She was the one that requested for exit that I don't call her or check on her.
You know Akwa igbom girls most of them don't have sense and they too mumu

TableLeg:
Ori e ti Daaaru, pelu thread oponu yi!
Foooool.
Will you get out of this forum and do something better with your life?

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Otilor.
Your brother don tumble this country.
No job.

Sirchiboy:
Chairman this girl I gave her everything.
Bought clothes for her and gave her money.
She was the one that requested for exit that I don't call her or check on her.
You know Akwa igbom girls most of them don't have sense and they too mumu

No wahala. Just be careful of the games you play. If na pkekus you want make it clear( not that I encourage sexual promiscuity) If she say no! Don't try to cajole. Even if she tries to offer it just to keep you, don't accept that offer. Cup go full for people o. Stay blessed.

Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him

There's no difference between him and the individual that started this thread.
There are no quality humans residing in Nigeria anymore.
The quality and sensible ones have all left Nigeria and what is left behind are just chaff with little or no exposure who hide under culture and beliefs to perpetuate ignorance

To have a good marital relationship you must be in good relationship with Jesus Christ already.
With Christ there is no crisis

Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him

Ma, you can try Christ.
With Christ there is no crisis

Hellisreal70:
Ma, you can try Christ.
With Christ there is no crisis

of course I have tried Christ and still in Christ. It's my lord Jesus who has been my rock and my refuge. He stood by me and sent human helpers to me

[color=#550000][/color] keeping silent for too long can be misinterpreted, a very huge barrier to effective communication 😍

DemonSlayer:
Absolutely! Huge red flag 🚩

For more context, I think she overestimated how much she meant to me. Something happened, and she demanded an apology. I didn't believe I was in the wrong, so I told her she'd wait an eternity for that apology. Unfortunately for her, she decided to use the silent treatment manipulation tactic. I ignored her, and that was when the 32 missed calls happened.

When I called back the next day, she sounded all meek, and when I noted the number of missed calls, she said she thought something bad had happened to me and that she was worried. It was still crazy, though.

ChiefDelegate:
[color=#550000][/color] keeping silent for too long can be misinterpreted, a very huge barrier to effective communication 😍

Touché

delishpot:
No wahala. Just be careful of the games you play. If na pkekus you want make it clear( not that I encourage sexual promiscuity) If she say no! Don't try to cajole. Even if she tries to offer it just to keep you, don't accept that offer. Cup go full for people o. Stay blessed.

Does women open door for financial breakthrough

Her love for head no be here oo

chrisxxx:
For the first time I am revealing this.
Someone I loved and met her as a graduate could neither write nor read.
To me it was unbelievable. I didnt have a job and my family was looking up to me to lift the family out of poverty having being sponsored by them through school.
I considered marrying her would be additional burden to me. I regretted my action after a while. I reasoned like a human and never trusted God.
She knew why I didnt marry her. She felt bad and some years later I realised she could now read and write but to at least JSS 3 level. Although, then what I needed was just a simple read and write.

You mean NCE graduate. It beat my Imaginations at what you said.

Samantha125:
With the way you're laughing, I don't trust you... You could be hiding some beer bottles under your bed....

not at all.anything ololo bottle is not for me.I am cool calm quiet guy.

SDUG:
You mean NCE graduate. It beat my Imaginations at what you said.

Bsc

Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him

He must be highly insecure and unfit for marriage

seanwilliam:
actually you shouldn’t feel bad. I think you did the right thing. Women rarely settle for less so why should you?

I was attached to her.

Mummyfour:
he was 6 years older, but like I said I was naive and I hid a lot of things from my parents because I knew that if I told them, they would seperate us. So I suffered in silence

Six years is not much. He's just a crazy person.
Pele dear

quote author=Mummyfour post=133334916] oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning[/quote]

Mummyfour:
he was 6 years older, but like I said I was naive and I hid a lot of things from my parents because I knew that if I told them, they would seperate us. So I suffered in silence

You're now off age o! 🤣
And I was saying "Pele dear", it should be "Epele Ma".
Please whatever might have been the misunderstanding between you and your husband, please don't separate your children from their father. And don't let them bear your pain against their father.
God bless you..
I've voted

Amigoss:
She tell me say make I no call am "mummy"

Lol. Na igbo girls dey talk that kind thing

Mummyfour:
see ehn!! I knew him when I was very young. He was so involved in my family and I guess I was too naive to notice the red flags then. A lot of things I saw then, I waved aside thinking that when we got older and more matured he would drop those things. Boy! I was wrong. It got worse. How does a man dish out 6 hot slaps on one side of a woman's cheeks because she confided in his elder brother to tell him to stop smoking cigarettes because of his weight. His anger was that I should not have told his brother he smokes. My face was swollen for almost a week

the red flags are always there but we ignore. You were yoked to a beast. Women too are quick to bury their own bad side to garner pity while narrating incidents like this.

Opssss....

She got too comfortable and started gaining weight.

TableLeg:
You are insane, bloody cretinous troglodyte!
Who are you? Abi oya weyrey ni? O fe soriburuku wo inu odun tuntun ni?
Basta....rd!

must a Yoruba person shout and write curses/abuses to prove a point? Disgusting!!

That's nice... The world needs more guys like you.

hartson:
not at all.anything ololo bottle is not for me.I am cool calm quiet guy.

Not madly in love but was dating.....

1) He was a mama's boy & was acting all defensive about it.

2) He was VERY selfish & stingy.
Always taking...never giving

3) He was ALWAYS pestering me for intimacy
& also bragging about his past sexcapades(maybe they were also in the present...who knows)

4) His friends were all bunch of alcoholics, womanizer & all....very bad influence

5) The last one that was the worst for me: his family had to be royalty. The kind of demand & control they exert over his life(as a first born son o) & the life of his gfs were mind blowing & almost impossible to meet.
They are the most pompous, arrogant, self centered & controlling people I have EVER seen.
And to make matters worse, the person & family they were showing off to was FAR FAR FAR FAR better than they were but were just lying low.

Sirchiboy:
Does women open door for financial breakthrough

It depends. Our angels (men&women) can make things smooth for those who make our hearts pleased; but not the individual him/herself can do it. A few things have to be in place.
Unless the individual is more advanced in spiritual realm (and even that has expiry date and subject to approval) before they can directly work financial favours. Otherwise, it's tied to the purity of the heart not necessarily the flesh. Hope you understand? I am not a spiritualist tho.

tollyboy5:
You're now off age o! 🤣
And I was saying "Pele dear", it should be "Epele Ma".
Please whatever might have been the misunderstanding between you and your husband, please don't separate your children from their father. And don't let them bear your pain against their father.
God bless you..
I've voted

Never!! Never . Infact he is the one that refuses to have any thing to do with the children. They call him to wish him happy father's day, merry Christmas and infact good wishes. But he refuses and rejects them. He doesn't want to be a part of their lives. God bless you really good for your kind thoughts and good wishes. And you voted? I am humbled and feel honoured too.
May God bless you and your family

tollyboy5:
Six years is not much. He's just a crazy person.
Pele dear

🤣🤣 thanks so much. I appreciate 🙏

Pilopher:
quote author=Mummyfour post=133334916] oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning

Are you still available?

Old gist
She said her body count is low
That I can't take care of her
Finally left her at Isolo

Ekstraz:
Are you still available?

For now absolutely not. Just trying to bring up my Children for now.