₦airaland Forum

Samfloxin:
Let him seek for refund....if she refuses , whatsoever she sees,she takes

Not necessary, man.

Besides, there was no agreement that once he's able to help her through school, she'll marry him.

Too much money, training a lady while not married to her is foolishness, she took advantage of his kindness.

Kimo21:
Don’t mind them…also when you tell them that a dress is indecent they’ll pretend like they don’t know what you’re talking about until their housemaid or friend wears that same dress near their boyfriend/husband

U dey mind dem?

Kobojunkie:
You mean a mumu wasted his resources, abi? Nonsense! Stop wasting space already!

Ok. If you call him mumu. But many ladies lost their lives through this betrayal attitude. You can't involve in your education and only to jilt me. Foul!😭

Umuinyioku:
✓ Ok. If you call him mumu. But many ladies lost their lives through this betrayal attitude.
✓You can't involve in your education and only to jilt me. Foul!😭

1. Are you seriously attempting to justify the murderous killing of women by possessive entities who think they can buy the life of another person's child with money?

2. Please, don't even bother engaging any other human being in a relationship with this level of social intelligence you display here.

Kobojunkie:
Why? On what grounds? Stop skating around the obvious here which is there are no grounds for any of what you continue to insist on.

Are you a Nigerian,or visitor?

How do you argue on issues that's bare and accepted as a norm?

You don't train a girl in school,and after the training she elopes with another man. Not acceptable practice here in Nigeria. Except you are in a different planet.

Please don't continue this argument because no Nigerian wants to hear this.

You must be a foreigner in Nigeria to understand the evolving dynamics in girls to be wife training!

Kobojunkie:
1. Are you seriously attempting to justify the murderous killing of women by possessive entities who think they can buy the life of another person's child with money?

2. Please, don't even bother engaging any other human being in a relationship with this level of social intelligence you display here.

Hmmm

Umuinyioku:
✓ Are you a Nigerian,or visitor? How do you argue on issues that's bare and accepted as a norm? You don't train a girl in school,and after the training she elopes with another man. Not acceptable practice here in Nigeria. Except you are in a different planet. Please don't continue this argument because no Nigerian wants to hear this. You must be a foreigner in Nigeria to understand the evolving dynamics in girls to be wife training!

Let me get this straight! The way you see it is that a girl is a commodity you can lay ownership to once you have paid her school fees. Is that it? In 2024, you believe you can essentially buy a girl's life by paying her school fees? 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Kobojunkie:
Have you ever met any couple who had the kind of agreement you describe there? Think carefully before responding! Also, what has A to do with B? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Ask any lawyer around you. You don’t have to have a written agreement. Any evidence of commitment like WhatsApp messages, photos etc, can confirm commitment and intent to defraud.

He should have married her first, but this is what you get when you invest in a liability.

Kobojunkie:
Let me get this straight! The way you see it is that a girl is a commodity you can lay ownership to once you have paid her school fees. Is that it? In 2024, you believe you can essentially buy a girl's life by paying her school fees? 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Your argument still baffles me.

Are you saying the lady should find another suitor when she's done with her education? If it's so easy,why didn't the parents sponsor her?

Or, why didn't the so called heartthrob she finds joy sponsor her education? Common, let's not waste our time arguing on irrelevant things. It's not acceptable to run to another suitor when the man has helped in shaping her education and future.

You must be a foreigner with your cogitations!

Eniitankorede:
✓ Ask any lawyer around you. [b]You don’t have to have a written agreement. Any evidence of commitment like WhatsApp messages, photos etc, can confirm commitment and intent to defrau[/b]d.

A verbal agreement promising marriage in the case that the man paid for her education? Who made such an agreement? Where? What year?

nwirinedu:
He should have married her first, but this is what you get when you invest in a liability.

Even if he were to marry her, she could still divorce him afterwards. It is 2024! I find it discouraging that there are still individuals out there that think of relationships in terms of slave agreements. 🙄

GOFRONT:
Your brother is truely an Acha........Achara. Baboon

Only an Achara Baboon would train a lady through school.

Now he has learnt the Hardest way

You can't even guarantee he has learned his lesson... you'll be shocked he will still repeat the same thing!

Kobojunkie:
You think the new guy is not aware of her ex funding her education? Do you folks choose ignorance for breakfast or something?

That's the more reason I pity him, cause he just bought a case load of problems for himself. You think all will go well with the marriage. Besides the girl left someone for him. When the chips are down too, she will also leave the husband for another.qed

obataokenwa:
So what am I saying? Everything about life comes with an expensive price tag. Riches attracts spirits and they may trouble you with health, children or burdens that will never leave no matter what.

I don't believe that, cause poor people suffer more from these things you mentioned

obataokenwa:
The new guy will now carry problem that doesn't concern him. There's nothing on earth will make that girl escape the consequences. Don't marry such girl cos u will regret it

Fact, but the new guy might be one innocent dude that has no knowledge of the insidious problems the lady has baked. Such people can never find happiness and unfortunately it will rub off on the new husband.

Mrfeel:
I don't believe that, cause poor people suffer more from these things you mentioned

Cos their own visible for all to see.

obataokenwa:
Cos their own visible for all to see.

Money solves majority of problems poor people suffer from

Cheeryfeet:
That's the more reason I pity him, cause he just bought a case load of problems for himself. You think all will go well with the marriage. Besides the girl left someone for him. When the chips are down too, she will also leave the husband for another.qed

Nonsense assertions! 🙄

Who is to say he won't be the one leaving her or they may truly be a match made in heaven. Why do you folks cling desperately to the stewpid generalizations even in the face of common sense? What do you gain except a mountain of ignorance and misery for it on top of that which you already had? And for what? 🙄

Kobojunkie:
A verbal agreement promising marriage in the case that the man paid for her education? Who made such an agreement? Where? What year?

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There must have been text messages, WhatsApp messages, witnesses who heard what happened. These are pieces of evidence.

Eniitankorede:
✓ There must have been text messages, WhatsApp messages, witnesses who heard what happened. These are pieces of evidence.

Heard what? An "if you pay for my education, I will marry you," promise made between this supposed couple? 😩😩😩😩😩

Kobojunkie:
Heard what? An "if you pay for my education, I will marry you," promise made between this supposed couple? 😩😩😩😩😩

If you have not been to the court in past, stop arguing.

Eniitankorede:
✓ If you have not been to the court in past, stop arguing.

Stop rambling and be specific! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

What court argued this case you pretend where a woman infact promises marriage to a man if he paid her school fees? How many years of marriage did she promise? How many kids? How much of her body was included in this promise ...🤔

Promise details already!🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Stop rambling and be specific! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

What court argued this case you pretend where a woman infact promises marriage to a man if he paid her school fees? How many years of marriage did she promise? How many kids? How much of her body was included in this promise ...🤔

Promise details already!🙄🙄🙄

Lack of knowledge of the law is your problem. Thats where lawyers make money. If you need help contact me.

Eniitankorede:
✓ Lack of knowledge of the law is your problem. Thats where lawyers make money. If you need help contact me.

I am gonna take it at this point that this is nothing but an attempt to waste my time. You offer no specifics, not even of laws to this end. Make I waka pass abeg!

Orlu13:
lolz...u women...God forbid

by d way it's good for the fool...I hope he hangs himself and die so dat we would have less fools amongst us

pls keep mocking him and others that do the same....everybody must learn d hard way

I am not mocking him. I am just saying things as they are. Take a good look at it, did he tell the lady on a written agreement that he is sending her to school so that she will marry him?

Also a woman is entitled to her life, he is just being a God sent and he played his part. He can not authoritativly tell me it was only his money that saw the girl through school.

Are we going to say other men that gave money to the lady she marry her?

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense assertions! 🙄

Who is to say he won't be the one leaving her or they may truly be a match made in heaven. Why do you folks cling desperately to the stewpid generalizations even in the face of common sense? What do you gain except a mountain of ignorance and misery for it on top of that which you already had? And for what? 🙄

Bros abeg leave me alone. Arguing with a fool is like talking to a wall. It will weary you

TheHatofEsther:
I am not mocking him. I am just saying things as they are. Take a good look at it, did he tell the lady on a written agreement that he is sending her to school so that she will marry him?

Also a woman is entitled to her life, he is just being a God sent and he played his part. He can not authoritativly tell me it was only his money that saw the girl through school.

Are we going to say other men that gave money to the lady she marry her?

jst go ur way....men like dis deserve evil women like u


I will rather dash my money to orphanage dan use it train a useless gal

Orlu13:
✓ jst go ur way....men like dis deserve evil women like u
I will rather dash my money to orphanage dan use it train a useless gal

Shame no dey even catch una say una dey talk of training another adult like yourselves all so you can then stick your dks in her as if sey she be slave wey una buy. Nonsense! 😩😩😩😩

Even the Romans who lived thousands of years ago reasoned in a more human and advanced way many of you do today.

Kobojunkie:
Shame no dey even catch una say una dey talk of training another adult like yourselves all so you can then stick your dks in her as if sey she be slave wey una buy. Nonsense! 😩😩😩😩

Even the Romans who lived thousands of years ago reasoned in a more human and advanced way many of you do today.

may u not see the end of this year if u carry dat ur cursed hands and mention me again....useless human being

Orlu13:
✓ may u not see the end of this year if u carry dat ur cursed hands and mention me again....useless human being

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