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Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Samantha125(f): 11:37pm On Dec 20, 2024
Nah, I've never seen them going houses to houses to preach... I don't see Nigerians in SA ever doing that... grin grin grin

I was never a Deeper Life member, I just happened to have a Deeper Life friend and my friends and I usually liked visiting each other's fellowships.

But my Deeper Life friend somehow tricked me in a way that I ended up finding myself taking Deeper Life bible studies and writing quizzes after every study...🤦🤦🤦... When I think about it, I'm still mad at her till this day...😂😂😂
Silentgroper:
Wow ... I'm shocked ...



I avoid those lots like a plague


Do they go from houses to houses preaching their shiit down there too??
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Silentgroper(m): 11:39pm On Dec 20, 2024
AirBere:
If you really think that girl is from South Africa then you can as well believe that Kenya will win the FIFA world cup.

No be only South Africa.
how come she knows alot about the country and happens to speak the languages spoken there..


I'd like an explanation
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Ihebu4chelsea(m): 11:43pm On Dec 20, 2024
Silentgroper:
Yep .. my bad ... But they tend to look down on other church doctrines and believe their alone is the true way of christ ...


Sometimes I can't tell the difference between the deeper life and JW .. I think they hsvr similar doctrines .. but it does piss me the fvck off when they come knocking on the door trying to preach whatever it's they preach ...


JW no fit worldwide reach all these Caucasian countries oo .. they won't last there ...

Only African countries would be their best bet...
Trying to force their teachings to every household is what i hate most about them , However they are very organized and cordinated(while preaching what they dont know) Deeper life's doctrine is far more better than Jw. Most Jw are just confused christains
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Ihebu4chelsea(m): 11:46pm On Dec 20, 2024
Nigerians and Sugar coating evil, this country will remain like this for a long time!
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Silentgroper(m): 11:46pm On Dec 20, 2024
Samantha125:
Nah, I've never seen them going houses to houses to preach... I don't see Nigerians in SA ever doing that... grin grin grin

I was never a Deeper Life member, I just happened to have a Deeper Life friend and my friends and I usually liked visiting each other's fellowships.

But my Deeper Life friend somehow tricked me in a way that I ended up finding myself taking Deeper Life bible studies and writing quizzes after every study...🤦🤦🤦... When I think about it, I'm still mad at her till this day...😂😂😂
they don't have to be Nigerians to go from House to houses except they do not have any south African member ..


Do they have a church down there or churches ??




Lol ... Their style of Christianity is depressing ...

I'd never step foot in their church for any reason ..



What church do you go to??
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 11:48pm On Dec 20, 2024
Samantha125:
Nah, I've never seen them going houses to houses to preach... I don't see Nigerians in SA ever doing that... grin grin grin

I was never a Deeper Life member, I just happened to have a Deeper Life friend and my friends and I usually liked visiting each other's fellowships.

But my Deeper Life friend somehow tricked me in a way that I ended up finding myself taking Deeper Life bible studies and writing quizzes after every study...🤦🤦🤦... When I think about it, I'm still mad at her till this day...😂😂😂
Hello Sister Samantha! Heheheheh
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by occfx: 11:48pm On Dec 20, 2024
DanOkonkwo:
We are in times where things happen fast and trends come to alter some long established cultures and way of life. the Gen Z spirit that almost what most people do today is to break previous ways of life and create ones that may look controversial.

In the picture below, you will find the guy well dressed and kneeling proposing to his fiancée whom is scantily dressed or suffice to say half naked. I came to wonder why some women believe that they should be dressed in ways that are sexually provocative and later they would cry foul. What stops this young woman from being decently dressed up. It's quite awful.

Would you allow your fiancée dress like this into the public as a guy?
You will know a foolish man by his looks
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by essentialone1: 11:52pm On Dec 20, 2024
There is nothing wrong with a lady who is dressed yet naked, so long as she is okay with it, and so long as her husband or boyfriend is okay with it.

But may misfortune never depart from the man who marries such a lady, and later start complaining that she is cheating on him. May undiluted Thunder destroy that man totally.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by horlakay(m): 11:53pm On Dec 20, 2024
Silentgroper:
they'd be our modern day Adam and Eve
Yea, I bet it fits so perfectly into that picture ....Adam being a simp to his woman, he couldn't correct her that the fruit is bad for them, so he choose to obey his wife and disobey God.....Goddam simps everywhere these days, generation of weak men
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Silentgroper(m): 11:56pm On Dec 20, 2024
Ihebu4chelsea:
Trying to force their teachings to every household is what i hate most about them , However they are very organized and cordinated(while preaching what they dont know) Deeper life's doctrine is far more better than Jw. Most Jw are just confused christains
Yeah I dislike that alot and how they make you feel you're on the wrong side of Christianity ...

I've never been to their churches so literally have no clue how organized they're ..

I don't even hear much of them these days .

I do agree with you about JW being confused Christians ... They're practically no different from these ones they called chosens ...
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Silentgroper(m): 11:58pm On Dec 20, 2024
horlakay:
Yea, I bet it fits so perfectly into that picture ....Adam being a simp to his woman, he couldn't correct her that the fruit is bad for them, so he choose to obey his wife and disobey God.....Goddam simps everywhere this days, generation of weak men
Lmao ... 😂😂😂
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Nobody: 12:05am On Dec 21, 2024
If the husband is cool with it, then that’s not an issue. Honestly, I would not wear something like that tho.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:07am On Dec 21, 2024
Temitunz:
If the husband is cool with it, then that’s not an issue. Honestly, I would not wear something like that tho.
Why won't you wear something like that? What's wrong with that dressing if I might ask?
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Samantha125(f): 12:09am On Dec 21, 2024
I don't know if they have a church because I only attended their student Campus revival.

The revival seemed to have been dominated by Nigerians and I'm sorry to say this, but it really made me feel uncomfortable as a South African, I felt like I was the only one there... I was kinda scared...🤦🤦🤦... After the revival, they offered me something to eat, but I turned down the food because I just wanted to get out of that place...🤦🤦🤦

I didn't know anything about that church until that day...😅😅😅

Well, I'm no longer a churchy type, but whenever I feel like going to one, it's Grace Family Church.
Silentgroper:
they don't have to be Nigerians to go from House to houses except they do not have any south African member ..


Do they have a church down there or churches ??




Lol ... Their style of Christianity is depressing ...

I'd never step foot in their church for any reason ..



What church do you go to??
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 21, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
Why won't you wear something like that? What's wrong with that dressing if I might ask?
Not my style actually, I am someone that believes in dressing modestly tho.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:11am On Dec 21, 2024
Temitunz:
Not my style actually, I am someone that believes in dressing modestly tho.
I like your answer tbo.

Who defines what is modest? Me, you, the church or the society?

To the lady in question, that might be her own way of dressing modestly?

What do you think?
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Nobody: 12:14am On Dec 21, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
I like your answer tbo.

Who defines what is modest? Me, you, the church or the society?

To the lady in question, that might be her own way of dressing modestly?

What do you think?
well I would say the society plays a major role in defining what is modest. Because for churches, each church has their own bench marks and principles for modesty which can differ from church to church… so if the society the lady in the picture accepts it , then she is justified
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by being(m): 12:22am On Dec 21, 2024
what does comfortable in her skin mean? She could as well not wear anything then!
Samantha125:
If you found her dressing like that, the you'd have two choices.

Either you respect her style of dressing or you hit the road.

You can't find someone who's comfortable and confident in her own skin and start manipulating her into losing her own self confidence for your own selfish reasons ... If you want a woman who dresses like Deeper Life sisters, then go to Deeper Life church and get yourself a Deeper Life sister.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:23am On Dec 21, 2024
Temitunz:
well I would say the society plays a major role in defining what is modest. Because for churches, each church has their own bench marks and principles for modesty which can differ from church to church… so if the society the lady in the picture accepts it , then she is justified
I agree that the society plays a role but there is really no way the society can enforce a certain dress code,the society can only influence through family values perhaps from a young age but for me, I have a deep seated mistrust to the Nigerian society, I believe it norms to be deeply hypothetical.
In Benin Republic for example, we have a community where women do not wear bras leaving the titles in full glare, In such society, the breast's are not so much of a sexual thing.
I only have control over myself and underage kids, I have no reason to want to control what a third party waers for example. We, as a society have to focus on what is really important and not flimsy issues like other people's clothes.

Observing from your dp, you will look beautiful in that cloth though.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Nobody: 12:25am On Dec 21, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
I agree that the society plays a role but there is really no way the society can enforce a certain dress code,the society can only influence through family values perhaps from a young age but for me, I have a deep seated mistrust to the Nigerian society, I believe it norms to be deeply hypothetical.
In Benin Republic for example, we have a community where women do not wear bras leaving the titles in full glare, In such society, the breast's are not so much of a sexual thing.
I only have control over myself and underage kids, I have no reason to want to control what a third party waers for example. We, as a society have to focus on what is really important and not flimsy issues like other people's clothes.

Observing from your dp, you will look beautiful in that cloth though.
Exactly.. I agree with your point of view too.. Thanks for the compliment anyways.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:28am On Dec 21, 2024
Temitunz:
Exactly.. I agree with your point of view too.. Thanks for the compliment anyways.
You are welcome.

Are you new on NL?

I must confess, have I have never seen your comments.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by godofuck231: 12:31am On Dec 21, 2024
How do you love a hoew, kiss the ring simp
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Threedoorsdown: 12:33am On Dec 21, 2024
Dressing modestly doesn't equate to losing self confidence. You are either being deceived by the devil or trying to deceive others as the devil

Samantha125:
If you found her dressing like that, the you'd have two choices.

Either you respect her style of dressing or you hit the road.

You can't find someone who's comfortable and confident in her own skin and start manipulating her into losing her own self confidence for your own selfish reasons ... If you want a woman who dresses like Deeper Life sisters, then go to Deeper Life church and get yourself a Deeper Life sister.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by almarthins(m): 12:38am On Dec 21, 2024
Samantha125:
If you found her dressing like that, the you'd have two choices.

Either you respect her style of dressing or you hit the road.

You can't find someone who's comfortable and confident in her own skin and start manipulating her into losing her own self confidence for your own selfish reasons ... If you want a woman who dresses like Deeper Life sisters, then go to Deeper Life church and get yourself a Deeper Life sister.
Are you in nigeria?
This wey deeperlife matter don enter this discussion so.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by almarthins(m): 12:45am On Dec 21, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
Why won't you wear something like that? What's wrong with that dressing if I might ask?
Which kind question be this?
You put ur eyes inside ur pocket ni?

Abi u can see that the lady is scantily dressed while the mumu man is well dressed.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:47am On Dec 21, 2024
almarthins:
Which kind question be this?
You put ur eyes inside ur pocket ni?

Abi u can see that the lady is scantily dressed while the mumu man is well dressed.
She is overdressed in my opinion. I cannot accept that dressing from my woman.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by franvincoop: 12:51am On Dec 21, 2024
Abeg who fit Google the name of the person wey bring this tradition for kneel down for woman?
That inventor really do men strong thing cuz I can't find the inventor in the Bible or Koran.
Na who really invent this thing?
Na Galileo or Vespucci or na Drake?
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by almarthins(m): 12:52am On Dec 21, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
She is overdressed in my opinion. I cannot accept that dressing from my woman.
If no be say I go school small, I for just think say the lady where Ankara, come guard am with abaca and flamboyant lace, now that is overdressed for me. No be this one wey I don see her unclothedness finish.
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 12:55am On Dec 21, 2024
almarthins:
If no be say I go school small, I for just think say the lady where Ankara, come guard am with abaca and flamboyant lace, now that is overdressed for me. No be this one wey I don see her unclothedness finish.
What exactly did you see looking at the lady?
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by AirBere: 1:03am On Dec 21, 2024
Silentgroper:
how come she knows alot about the country and happens to speak the languages spoken there..


I'd like an explanation
I've been in Scotland since 2001 and can speak Scots Gaelic, I understand the culture very well and can show you round town. Does this make me a Scottish person? I doubt they'll see me as one and I have no problem with that.

Samantha isn't South African. Na naija girl.


Meanwhile, when did you have a physical conversation with her to ascertain that she speaks the language. And what and what did she do that can prove without reasonable doubt that she knows South Africa.

Anyways....to each, their own!

Peace ✌️🕊️
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by MrJames007: 1:04am On Dec 21, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I will never go down on my knees before any banny angry
Please calm down cheesy
Re: Would You Allow Your Fiancée Dress Like This? by bentenny(m): 2:01am On Dec 21, 2024
I have no pity for guys who permit their woman whom they would be probably spending the rest of their lives together dressing this way!
Nah their type after less than a year of marriage go tell relationship bloggers to hide their ID or make them anonymous!
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