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Samantha125:
I want to understand what made you an addict in the first place.

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Lack of girl in his life

Samantha125:
I'm not saying I'm a marriage expert, in fact, I'm far from being one... But if she's not interested, then ask her what she wants because it's possible you've been neglecting her feelings and only giving her your full attention when you want to shaboink.

Some of you men like to think that because you're paying the bills, then the women in your lives should be happy and satisfied... But sometimes we just want that intimacy from you guys... When was the last time you complimented your wife for looking nice or for doing something nice? When last did you tell her that you love her? Even if you can't tell her, show her, when last did you take her out on a date or bought her something of sentimental value? The gift doesn't have to be expensive.

I once heard a woman who's been married for ten years plus complaining about how her husband never compliments her despite her always trying to look good for him or do something nice for him... According to her, he'd even make a mockery out of her and that alone crushed her spirit.

Ladies do not realize men can be emotional too. If I am not happy with you, I find it difficult to give a positive compliment and I cannot say "I love you" when I do not mean it.
I hate going out with her because right there in the restaurant, she will either be on her phone or receive a long call from a friend and will continue talking non-stop. I hate the love making because it is one sided only design to satisfy her only and she does nothing while I do all the work.

I now go on international vacation alone for my own sanity and enjoyment and each time I complain, she never sees anything wrong in those actions.

It has led me to the conclusion that people dont change, they are simply who they are. I am not complaining as I have devices lots of ways to cope and enjoy myself.

What if you guys were never compatible from the beginning, but you still decided to go ahead and get married to her because you thought you could change her?

And it also seems like the both of you have got some unresolved issues, but are too egotistical to admit it... How about you get a mediator to intervene? And make sure that it's neither a family member or one of your friends because he or she will just be biased.

Sp1ritHusband:
Ladies do not realize men can be emotional too. If I am not happy with you, I find it difficult to give a positive compliment and I cannot say "I love you" when I do not mean it.
I hate going out with her because right there in the restaurant, she will either be on her phone or receive a long call from a friend and will continue talking non-stop. I hate the love making because it is one sided only design to satisfy her only and she does nothing while I do all the work.

I now go on international vacation alone for my own sanity and enjoyment and each time I complain, she never sees anything wrong in those actions.

It has led me to the conclusion that people dont change, they are simply who they are. I am not complaining as I have devices lots of ways to cope and enjoy myself.

Samantha125:
What if you guys were never compatible from the beginning, but you still decided to go ahead and get married to her because you thought you could change her?

And it also seems like the both of you have got some unresolved issues, but are too egotistical to admit it... How about you get a mediator to intervene? And make sure that it's neither a family member or one of your friends because he or she will just be biased.

You I right, I told her we were not compatible and the wedding should not have taken place in the first place. I was deeply religious then and that was my biggest consideration. Also, at 22 was also very naive as it was my first relationship and I know better now. I don't think a mediator has the power to change people into what they are not.

In live you win some and lose some and I am ok with that. I am presently plotting and exit strategy that is favorable to all parties.

Oh! So you were one of those religious guys who thought they knew better... Immediately you saw your wife in church quoting few scriptures from the bible, you thought she was the one, and her being a godly virgin was cherry on top...

Good for you...

Sp1ritHusband:
You I right, I told her we were not compatible and the wedding should not have taken place in the first place. I was deeply religious then and that was my biggest consideration. Also, at 22 was also very naive as it was my first relationship and I know better now. I don't think a mediator has the power to change people into what they are not.

In live you win some and lose some and I am ok with that. I am presently plotting and exit strategy that is favorable to all parties.

Samantha125:
Oh! So you were one of those religious guys who thought they knew better... Immediately you saw your wife in church quoting few scriptures from the bible, you thought she was the one, and her being a godly virgin was cherry on top...

Good for you...

And then I saw a virgin and lost my senses. Imagine, a combo of a Godly lady who was a virgin made me lose my senses and suspending the evaluations of other qualities on my checklist.

Reason I am now advocating for men to marring in the early 40ies where you are able to make better decisions.

I deply regret my religious background. Lol.

Lol... I was once a religious fanatic like yourself during my university days... But as time went by, I started getting depressed because I felt like I was living the life I didn't want for myself in the long run... The leaders were privately living their lives to the fullest while expecting us to live a certain way.

I might've probably made the same mistake as yours had it been that I continued with my fanaticism, one junior pastor was already showing interest in me.

Sp1ritHusband:
And then I saw a virgin and lost my senses. Imagine, a combo of a Godly lady who was a virgin made me lose my senses and suspending the evaluations of other qualities on my checklist.

Reason I am now advocating for men to marring in the early 40ies where you are able to make better decisions.

I deply regret my religious background. Lol.

Samantha125:
Lol... I was once a religious fanatic like yourself during my university days... But as time went by, I started getting depressed because I felt like I was living the life I didn't want for myself in the long run... The leaders were privately living their lives to the fullest while expecting us to live a certain way.

I might've probably made the same mistake as yours had it been that I continued with my fanaticism, one junior pastor was already showing interest in me.

You are lucky you retraced your steps, I was not allowed to have a relationship with the ladies all through my universities as it was considered a single.
I was made to believe the world was coming to an end and till date, I never forgave my parents for my religious upbringing.
I would have dated a lot of ladies before marriage and gained valuable insights into the dynamics of relationships.
I lost out a lot and would give anything for a do over. You are lucky your eyes opened on time.

I was also single until my final year, I had already started backsliding when I got into a relationship.

But before then, if I was not doing my school work, I'd be doing church related stuff... And even though I wasn't a Deeper Life member, one Deeper Life pastor that I was acquainted with made me study half of the bible and I'd write quizzes afterwards, I was taking the whole thing seriously...

I also wish I could've explored more during my university days, but so far I'm happy with my life and don't have any regrets... I'm not from a religious family and I was the one who decided to become born again Christian in my late teens, my family didn't have issues with it.

Sp1ritHusband:
You are lucky you retraced your steps, I was not allowed to have a relationship with the ladies all through my universities as it was considered a single.
I was made to believe the world was coming to an end and till date, I never forgave my parents for my religious upbringing.
I would have dated a lot of ladies before marriage and gained valuable insights into the dynamics of relationships.
I lost out a lot and would give anything for a do over. You are lucky your eyes opened on time.

Samantha125:
I was also single until my final year, I had already started backsliding when I got into a relationship.

But before then, if I was not doing my school work, I'd be doing church related stuff... And even though I wasn't a Deeper Life member, one Deeper Life pastor that I was acquainted with made me study half of the bible and I'd write quizzes afterwards, I was taking the whole thing seriously...

I also wish I could've explored more during my university days, but so far I'm happy with my life and don't have any regrets... I'm not from a religious family and I was the one who decided to become born again Christian in my late teens, my family didn't have issues with it.

The first 20years of my life was in deeper life. The reason. I have come to detest religion and churches in general.

I deeply apologize for my country exporting that horrible denomination to SA. Hehehhe.

Samantha125:
I was also single until my final year, I had already started backsliding when I got into a relationship.

But before then, if I was not doing my school work, I'd be doing church related stuff... And even though I wasn't a Deeper Life member, one Deeper Life pastor that I was acquainted with made me study half of the bible and I'd write quizzes afterwards, I was taking the whole thing seriously...

I also wish I could've explored more during my university days, but so far I'm happy with my life and don't have any regrets... I'm not from a religious family and I was the one who decided to become born again Christian in my late teens, my family didn't have issues with it.

I felt I was very happy 3, 4 , 5 years after marriage. The regrets came later. You are lucky not to have made an important life decision such as marriage while still being deeply religious. A lady took interest in me and I simply cut of the attention all because of my religious inclinations at the time. It is recommended to date extensively before marriage.

The Deeper Life pastor was a Nigerian Yoruba... I met him when I visited the Deeper Life Campus revival through a friend.

My friend however forgot to tell me her church's dress code because my church didn't have issues with how we dressed given that we're dressed decently, I showed up during the revival in my blonde box braids and I was wearing jeans...🤦🤦🤦... I was basically wearing casual wear since it was during weekdays and not a Sunday service.

I was really embarrassed... I'm sure they thought I was the devil's daughter.

Sp1ritHusband:
The first 20years of my life was in deeper life. The reason. I have come to detest religion and churches in general.

I deeply apologize for my country exporting that horrible denomination to SA. Hehehhe.

Then I'm guessing you gonna have to endure the marriage for the rest of your life because divorce is ungodly, somebody shout AMEN!!!

Sp1ritHusband:
I felt I was very happy 3, 4 , 5 years after marriage. The regrets came later. You are lucky not to have made an important life decision such as marriage while still being deeply religious. A lady took interest in me and I simply cut of the attention all because of my religious inclinations at the time. It is recommended to date extensively before marriage.

Samantha125:
Then I'm guessing you gonna have to endure the marriage for the rest of your life because divorce is ungodly, somebody shout AMEN!!!

Hahahah. Not for me.

I will be divorcing soon, and I started the discussion already even though she does not want to entertain the notion.

I have since made a 360-degree turn on everything I had previously believed, and I can tell you for a fact that there is nothing ungodly about divorce. I have spoken with an elderly lady who found love in her third marriage and has been happily married for the past 30 years. As humans with no benefit of hindsight, we often make mistakes and errors of judgment, and that does not mean we are to condemn ourselves to a life of misery. I am no longer a churchy person and do not have to listen to them anymore.

Samantha125:
If he's bored, he can talk to his wife and suggest that they try something new to spice things up... The wife can't always deny him sex unless he has done something unforgivable to her.

It's your duty to introduce those adventures into your love life... Do role plays, get a strip pole installed into your bedroom if possible...🤭🤭🤭... And if your children ask why there's a pole in your bedroom, tell them it's for working out, because exercise is good for everyone's health.

Are you married? if your answer is no, you won't understand until you get married...

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minasu190:
Should in case you mastubate,remember you owe me 7k be that
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All sent .

I viewed porn by mistake .


7000 ÷ 3 = 2,333.33

Now, I have to starve today . Next fine will be N10,000. Stick around.

SuperOnyi:






Now, I have to starve today . Next fine will be N10,000. Stick around.

Keep up the good work

SuperOnyi:



All sent .

I viewed porn by mistake .

7000 ÷ 3 = 2,333.33

Bro if small remain, show me love
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SuperOnyi:




All sent .

I viewed porn by mistake .


7000 ÷ 3 = 2,333.33

Really, I thought you were joking.
Thanks,with this,you will stop in no time.

SuperOnyi:






Now, I have to starve today . Next fine will be N10,000. Stick around.

God no go shame you.
But you owe me

SuperOnyi:




All sent .

I viewed porn by mistake .


7000 ÷ 3 = 2,333.33

Thank you

SuperOnyi:




I just finished masturbating few hours ago.

I have always noticed this but whenever the urge comes back, I slowly throw this reminder in the gutter. When I watch porn and eventually masturbate, I lose my sense of focus and direction, and start drowning in the sea of doubts. This is not just about quitting an addiction but testing my self-discipline. After documenting a book on the secrets of the bad guys, I found out that I had the power to quit this act.

The problem is me. It's clear that I'm afraid of success, and I just don't understand the reason. I have come to realize that this is why a lot of people are broke, the fear of success is one of the reasons they lose focus and give in to procrastination.

I have decided to grab my problem by the pússy, and promise to give away 7K naira every time I go back to this addiction. I'll be trying this for 30 days, if it works, then I have a system that would help millions of people someday.

This has been a journey I have been documenting for a long time now. Let's see if I'm stingy enough to defeat my addiction .

Cancelled ❌❌❌.

Samantha125:
I don't understand what you're saying... Pidgin is still giving me a hard time.

Will advise using Google translate for use in future

Type the pidgin in and convert to English

Why should I waste my data on Google translate when I have you guys?🤔🤔🤔

J2ff:
Will advise using Google translate for use in future

Type the pidgin in and convert to English

OP thinks his problem is spiritual and bro is sharing money hoping it helps him put a stop to it and I have a feeling his problem is about to get even spiritual cuz alot of hungry guys now be praying for him to fail daily so the cash distribution goes on daily 😂😂

Jb95:
OP thinks his problem is spiritual and bro is sharing money hoping it helps him put a stop to it and I have a feeling his problem is about to get even spiritual cuz alot of hungry guys now be praying for him to fail daily so the cash distribution goes on daily 😂😂

I'm just having fun, besides, I have cancelled it yesterday. I wanna concentrate.