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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by skywalker240(m): 7:32am On Dec 22, 2024
Sirchiboy:
I am aware of my mental health issues, sir, but I lack the funds for an evaluation.
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by meobizy(m): 7:33am On Dec 22, 2024
The point of this useless story is?
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op): 7:35am On Dec 22, 2024
meobizy:
The point of this useless story is?
It is time to swallow your pride and move on.
You are too big to be playing games.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Drella: 7:36am On Dec 22, 2024
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op): 7:36am On Dec 22, 2024
skywalker240:
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Chinedu I lie?
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ibechris(m): 7:39am On Dec 22, 2024
LivingSage:
Stop discouraging people from marriage, the story can't all be thesame
I am not discouraging him but a honest advice...we can't keep allowing people delve and expand their poverty often just because they got married.

The truth is,most people can feed themselves why add more mouth?

Is a dangerous precedent especially in this Tinubu's govt.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by figment232(m): 7:41am On Dec 22, 2024
PlanetZero:
Just travel out
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by skywalker240(m): 7:44am On Dec 22, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Chinedu I lie?
Osakpolor I no come know again ooo grin grin grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by AngelicBeing: 7:56am On Dec 22, 2024
MT:
He should know success is not a function of age.

He should stop self pity, dust himself up and learn sellable skill to build capacity.

He should look around him and provide solution to what people are struggling with in his neighbourhood. People only pay problem solvers.

If he has a degree, he shouldn’t allow that degree to be a blocker by stopping him from doing certain jobs. Most degrees earned these days can’t even solve current human problems. Such a waste.

Age can never stop you, you can only stop yourself.
People pay problem solvers, Gbamsulotely, end of thread, next news jare, 😂
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by dauntless15(m): 7:59am On Dec 22, 2024
skywalker240:
That op is clearly not even up to 40

He is really funny and confused
Even if he's not, he should get his act together before he clocks forty.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by skywalker240(m): 8:18am On Dec 22, 2024
dauntless15:
Even if he's not, he should get his act together before he clocks forty.
I agree with you

A word is enough even for a fool cool
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by omoharry(f): 8:25am On Dec 22, 2024
Iweakbro:
End it, bro. It's not worth it. You've tried. It's time to go home. Greet my grandma for me.
You nor serious ooo!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by NaijaCover(m): 8:33am On Dec 22, 2024
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Hassanmaye(m): 8:41am On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran away when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.
You are scaring me o
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Reverseng:
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by tyinfinity: 8:54am On Dec 22, 2024
He should know that if you make it at 20you can die at 25
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by gtassure: 9:04am On Dec 22, 2024
BrotherJapa:
These kind of stories are why Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world. It is straight from the book of Lamba, Chapter 10, verse 5!
Honestly, people are daft! Nigerian believe God control everything yet, God has not control prosperity for them!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Malroux: 9:07am On Dec 22, 2024
Cc factcheck001, sharpsharp00123. You see where joblessness has landed helinues? Someone that I've been advising for over a decade on this forum, to get a job and stop idling away on nairaland everyday. If you can learn from him now and get a job and be useful, the better for you.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Malroux: 9:08am On Dec 22, 2024
Softmirror:
SUPERSTITION!!!
That is helinues speaking. He has wasted his life on nairaland and he is now seeking for redemption.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Blaqputin(m): 9:10am On Dec 22, 2024
AllenSpencer:
Take bigger risks. At 40, you have nothing to lose.
Really ? Nothing to lose !
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Softmirror: 9:11am On Dec 22, 2024
Malroux:
That is helinues speaking. He has wasted his life on nairaland and he is now seeking for redemption.
You are so obsessed with helinues lol.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Malroux: 9:13am On Dec 22, 2024
Softmirror:
You are so obsessed with helinues lol.
So you are still doubting he isn't the one? Continue supporting him to continue wasting his life and time on nairaland everyday.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Softmirror: 9:19am On Dec 22, 2024
Malroux:
So you are still doubting he isn't the one? Continue supporting him to continue wasting his life and time on nairaland everyday.
Malroux malroux lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op): 9:21am On Dec 22, 2024
Malroux:
That is helinues speaking. He has wasted his life on nairaland and he is now seeking for redemption.
Who are you Young lady
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by plankyjacky(m): 9:22am On Dec 22, 2024
1. Do not condemn your self.dont kill yourself if u try and failed tomorrow will never finished . It gives you an opportunity to start all over
2 Be a person of vision and passion . Identify things that kill your passion and make efforts to avoid them
3. Don't chase many dreams . While doing this be calculative and objective , Be strategic in simple things and your result will be great
4. You can get married at your level .It has nothing to do with plenty miner Get it right with your choice and it will get better . Remove all prejudices about women this and that . That will help you
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ibechris(m): 9:37am On Dec 22, 2024
Hassanmaye:
You are scaring me o
Don't be scared...rather be scared of the economy and those who have ruined it.

Just don't go into it if u are not mentally and financially prepared.

Good luck my brother.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by rajiedreez: 9:54am On Dec 22, 2024
First of all repair your mind and mentality, there's no perfect formula to success, all advices you get will only guide towards success but not guaranteed. But with a repaired and positive mind and mentality, even if you're not as wealthy as you'll like to be yet, you'll see progress and appreciate little wins more.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Ernesthugo(m): 10:04am On Dec 22, 2024
dull brain, when u get married u have exposed yourself to another family that will be willing to help, the friend in quote may have been married to a woman who have a reputable family who have cash or alias like uncles to the wife,they may come to the picture to help and assist in all, anyway your brain is like that of the nigerian police all success is juju but have never seen any one use juju money to just a royce rolls abi una juju no sabi where luxury car dealership them they stay. lol
Dollarboss93:
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by icankel: 10:11am On Dec 22, 2024
Take that bold step, marry u and ur family will be fine. Those advising you not to marry are all married with kids and they're all enjoying their. Don't wait until u have millions because time waits for no one. Have a blessed 2025
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by 4KNGOAT: 10:14am On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
It is not marriage that to do family.
U're so rightly wrong
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by 4KNGOAT: 10:16am On Dec 22, 2024
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by 4KNGOAT: 10:16am On Dec 22, 2024
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