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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by SenecaTheYonger: 8:41am On Dec 24, 2024

Goodmarlian:
Its seems most men on earth are unattractive to women only a few are,I know very handsome guys who get rejected like trash and I also know handsome guys who women chase like flies,I know ugly guys who women despise like shitt and I know ugly guys women love like crazy infact leaving their handsome boyfriends for them my question is why is it so? are some guys more lucky with women than the others is there any mysterious phenomena attached to it?

They’re handsome to you not to women

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by emmy512(m): 8:56am On Dec 24, 2024

Ouchbabe:
Not lucky with your wife? Please stop there. You made your choice so live with it.

A guy I really had deep feelings for way back felt I wasn't good enough for him. He made his choice and I moved on.

Years later, he started stalking me via every known means online and offline. Telling me missing me was a mistake. I gave him the warning of his life.

I heard his marriage crashed without any child ( I really felt bad for him because he was a nice person).

So Nnamdipapa enjoy NnamdiMama.
Compliments of the season

You got me rolling

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by Harddiskng(m): 9:19am On Dec 24, 2024

ItisWell22:
Same way some amazing women are single to stupor, or with beasts called men.

It’s called life.
It’s not black and white.

One thing most people don’t know is that the universe hears you. You mind has the power to create your reality.

Make my post. If you keep hoarding in your mind “beasts called men”. If you get married you’d get married to a beast called a man.

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by DeeScan: 10:48am On Dec 24, 2024

If we're to use the word "lucky" then any female would be the lucky one to have me ..

Nnamdipapa has a similar story to mine .. in my case , we never end up dating ..

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by LordIsaac(m): 7:25pm On Dec 24, 2024

otipoju:
Confidence and humor with a touch of choco.

Confidence will attract, humor and small choco will retain.

Also when you are desired by many, you automatically become desirable by any.

And be good at something...and be known for it.

Fighting, playing instruments, making women orgasm, singing, academics, smooth talking..anything etc.

Women do not like ordinary men. Most men are ordinary and bland. Nothing exciting about them in any way.

Why should anyone seek to be liked by women? It's the most shallow and useless attention ever! Quote me daily; twice on Christmas.

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by otipoju(m): 7:31pm On Dec 24, 2024*

LordIsaac:
Why should anyone seek to be liked by women? It's the most shallow and useless attention ever! Quote me daily; twice on Christmas.

I agree there are better things to do.

Life na stages. I've managed to build a mental and emotional fence to keep them out...but I did my bit in my time, so I can judge anyone.

Na the conclusion from my own experiences na him I put there so.

Be confident, and they will be attracted. Make them laugh and get small choco for head and the will stay because they love a nit of drama and tension.

Finally be good at something and be well known for it and she is all yours.

But you see that humor, don't underate it's power at all. Most women no matter the age just want to play and be happy and be excited at their very core.

A man's money cannot really do that, but they will take it as it allows them to buy stuff to oppress/impress their fellow women.

Kaka had money but was no longer exciting for the wife and she left.

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by DAramis: 10:46pm On Dec 24, 2024

Ouchbabe:
So Nnamdipapa enjoy NnamdiMama.
Compliments of the season

😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

I am finished with this comment though not about me.

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by Ouchbabe(f): 11:00pm On Dec 24, 2024

DAramis:
😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

I am finished with this comment though not about me.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me sef weak

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by DAramis: 9:31am On Dec 25, 2024*

Ouchbabe:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me sef weak

Take it easy with the vawulence 😉😊
Merry Christmas to you and your immediate family.

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by Ouchbabe(f): 9:59am On Dec 25, 2024

DAramis:
Take it easy with the vawulence 😉😊
Merry Christmas to you and your immediate family.

Merry Christmas to you and yours too

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by badblackgod: 1:52pm On Dec 25, 2024

ItisWell22:
Same way some amazing women are single to stupor, or with beasts called men.

It’s called life.
It’s not black and white.

These one don chop breakfast tire 😂

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by Bonab: 6:32pm On Dec 25, 2024

I have a cousin,he is so brilliant and cute ,but he lacks confidence while talking even with his fellow men. He's an extreme introvert. He hardly makes friends, and no gf

Back to you question. There are so many things that can attract the opposite gender to you beside looks and appearance. A girl may like an ugly guy because of his confidence and charisma. His ability to solve problems and to be on top of the situation.

Work on yourself especially your mindset and see things change.

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by drstranged: 7:07pm On Dec 25, 2024

Only a jobless man would spend his time thinking of how to get a woman or even open a post here asking how he can get them. Please know this... you as a man are the prize! You're the trophy! The moment you stop giving a shit about them and chasing your dreams they're the ones that will chase you. All you'd have to do is mumble a few words and they'd fall for you. You don't have to start chasing. Please give yourself some dignity. Don't make them look so high and mighty or like something big. The more you keep doing that the more you reduce your value before them

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Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by Nyascobar1414: 8:32pm On Dec 25, 2024

Nnamdipapa:
Sorry for the cryptic writeup. I mean it's not that of a big deal to score on ladies.

I have a natural good look that turns head wherever I go, a pointed nose and square shoulder like a gym enthusiast.

When I was in primary 5 preparing for my common entrance exam, I could remember my elder bro telling me girls in the secondary school were gon be crazy over my looks and I didn't know what he meant at the time.

All through my life, ladies have constantly made remarks about my looks to my face both home and abroad.

I am a naturally shy person who will never ask a lady out but my conversation and spoken communication skills are top notch.

I carry myself with confidence and good with nonverbal communications like eye contacts, coy smile with a side of of the lips, head nods which usually encourages the ladies to make passes at me and I take it from there.

I also forget to add that I have signature haircut which fits my face so well that I have been stopped more than 10 times on the road and strangers had made remarks on my hair, some said they watched my movies and I laughed telling I was not an actor.

To summarize, I would say my looks, how I carry myself and my conversation skills have made it easy for me to hold my ground with them ladies..

Nice read, thanks 👌

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by stanvesco(m): 12:43am On Dec 29, 2024

otipoju:
Lol. Even able to speak big English sef na asset.

Women love words...and you can use it to take them places deep inside them.

Long short be her safe space.

Yeah. True. However,be careful as safe spaces may often become safe dumping buckets! You can end up picking up too much negative energy

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by otipoju(m): 2:53am On Dec 29, 2024

stanvesco:
Yeah. True. However,be careful as safe spaces may often become safe dumping buckets! You can end up picking up too much negative energy

I.umderstand. Going forward I have resolved to be more selective as to who I allow to stay in my space.

I've given way too much of myself to people who needed a lift. Family, Friends and Aquintances.

This has really been draining and the next 3 to three to five years is for the sponge to cleanse itself.

I realize that majority of my friends and family expect me to "fix it"for them and have become used to it ,to the point that they find it hard to believe that I might even be going through anything at all. I even seem to attract people that I can pour into.

Its all good. Everything has its own season. The next five years is all about me and me alone.

Re: Why Are Some Guys Lucky With Women And Others Aren't? by stanvesco(m): 1:29am On Jan 01, 2025

otipoju:
I.umderstand. Going forward I have resolved to be more selective as to who I allow to stay in my space.

I've given way too much of myself to people who needed a lift. Family, Friends and Aquintances.

This has really been draining and the next 3 to three to five years is for the sponge to cleanse itself.

I realize that majority of my friends and family expect me to "fix it"for them and have become used to it ,to the point that they find it hard to believe that I might even be going through anything at all. I even seem to attract people that I can pour into.

Its all good. Everything has its own season. The next five years is all about me and me alone.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm
Your shoe fits my feet perfectly!

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