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It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Bookhub(op): 10:27pm On Dec 26, 2024
grin
I don't know if its me or the economic situation on ground, but it seems getting a girlfriend or wife is now so hard these days unlike before,some say yahoo boys have destroyed the relationship market by spoiling our girls with expensive materials ,girls these days no dey wan hear anything looks like they know what you are after even before you talk,
Years back ladies fall for my sweet mouth and swag plus little money ,but this current generation of girls don hard like akpor,is it that men have showed them pepper by chopping and dumping that they are just interested in money and money ayam not understanding..
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 10:29pm On Dec 26, 2024
Nobody wants one either.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Love800(m): 10:31pm On Dec 26, 2024
Girlfriends are useless.

When you have money, find a wife and start-up a family!
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by illicit(m): 10:33pm On Dec 26, 2024
U go dey find girlfriend...
U get mind o


😳
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by mymadam(m): 10:42pm On Dec 26, 2024
illicit:
U go dey find girlfriend...
U get mind o
😳
😂
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Sonnobax15(m): 10:59pm On Dec 26, 2024
Love800:
Girlfriends are useless.

When you have money, find a wife and start-up a family!
You're certainly one among the few remaining wisest men on earth bro....
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Peakdesign23(f): 11:00pm On Dec 26, 2024
Very soon people will loose interest in marriage.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by MindHacker9009(m): 12:18am On Dec 27, 2024
Love800:
Girlfriends are useless.

When you have money, find a wife and start-up a family!
Why are people so obsessed with starting a family. Relationship or marriage is for free sex and not starting a family unless you are like Dangote, Bill Gates, Elon Musk etc
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by IfyAwazie(f): 5:03am On Dec 27, 2024
Wetin you won use girlfriend do? Alone with God sure pass...
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by helinues: 5:45am On Dec 27, 2024
Go and get money first and see how easy girls are lately
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Love800(m): 7:47am On Dec 27, 2024
Lol!

I appreciate.
Sonnobax15:
You're certainly one among the few remaining wisest men on earth bro....
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by idahme(m): 7:48am On Dec 27, 2024
helinues:
Go and get money first and see how easy girls are lately
That's of you are looking for love peddlers, they are everywhere..

Then you remove the money how many woll come around? Those ones who stay are the potential girlfriends this is what the op is talking about and not throwing money to women who then flock around you.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Love800(m): 7:50am On Dec 27, 2024
Hello.

I don't seem to understand your comment.
MindHacker9009:
Why are people so obsessed with starting a family. Relationship or marriage is for free sex and not starting a family unless you are like Dangote, Bill Gates, Elon Musk etc
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Lurdd: 7:54am On Dec 27, 2024
Peakdesign23:
Very soon people will loose interest in marriage.
Honestly, because marriage only favours women, I don't see any single gain for men in marriage
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Elzazzi: 8:07am On Dec 27, 2024
Dem still dey find Nigerian girlfriends wey be liabilities these period huh grin
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Reza69(m): 8:13am On Dec 27, 2024
Do you know how many of them I have on pending?
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Ringstonermasks: 9:20am On Dec 27, 2024
b4 Yahoo, boys would complain that Cultist and bad boys are taking all the gals, d advent of Yahoo has brought a new narrative... Stop blaming people. You are doing something wrong and still doesn't know it yet... Meet someone to hook u up with another gal and make sure u seek advise on how to proceed for lyk 5 months
Bookhub:
grin
I don't know if its me or the economic situation on ground, but it seems getting a girlfriend or wife is now so hard these days unlike before,some say yahoo boys have destroyed the relationship market by spoiling our girls with expensive materials ,girls these days no dey wan hear anything looks like they know what you are after even before you talk,
Years back ladies fall for my sweet mouth and swag plus little money ,but this current generation of girls don hard like akpor,is it that men have showed them pepper by chopping and dumping that they are just interested in money and money ayam not understanding..
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by EmperorCaesar(m): 10:01am On Dec 27, 2024
Why would you want to be in a committed relationship if you dont have plans to marry anytime soon?



Its actually easier to get a girl if you approach them all with the intention to just knack,some go dey beg for relationship

Thats how i do it and no, dem no be your regular street girls wey go dey bill you. Na working class wey still dey hope say her CEO go marry her one day

Street girls no be am
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Nobody: 10:16am On Dec 27, 2024
EmperorCaesar:
Why would you want to be in a committed relationship if you dont have plans to marry anytime soon?



Its actually easier to get a girl if you approach them all with the intention to just knack,some go dey beg for relationship

Thats how i do it and no, dem no be your regular street girls wey go dey bill you. Na working class wey still dey hope say her CEO go marry her one day

Street girls no be am
How do you get them? The working class i know replies chats late and ends up frustrating the whole communication
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 10:38am On Dec 27, 2024
Elzazzi:
Dem still dey find Nigerian girlfriends wey be liabilities these period huh grin
White babe? undecided
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 10:39am On Dec 27, 2024
Reza69:
Do you know how many of them I have on pending?
Only you,... You see 👀
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Elzazzi: 10:54am On Dec 27, 2024
MondayOmoAdugbo:
White babe? undecided
Other African countries babes are still better too. But if you can get a white babe. Good.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Ibkay32(m): 11:00am On Dec 27, 2024
Elzazzi:
Other African countries babes are still better too. But if you can get a white babe. Good.
Is there a link or dating app we can get a white babe?
I'm asking for MondayOmoAdugbo 😂
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by FayaBall: 11:14am On Dec 27, 2024
Bookhub:
grin
I don't know if its me or the economic situation on ground, but it seems getting a girlfriend or wife is now so hard these days unlike before,some say yahoo boys have destroyed the relationship market by spoiling our girls with expensive materials ,girls these days no dey wan hear anything looks like they know what you are after even before you talk,
Years back ladies fall for my sweet mouth and swag plus little money ,but this current generation of girls don hard like akpor,is it that men have showed them pepper by chopping and dumping that they are just interested in money and money ayam not understanding..
Of course na, kon abuse dem join, kon still tell their guys that this girl dey available for chopping o, get passed around, come old quick and yet nothing to show for all the wasted years.

So of course these generation of girls saw what happened to their elders and swore it would never happen to them.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by MondayOmoAdugbo(m):
Ibkay32:
Is there a link or dating app we can get a white babe?
I'm asking for MondayOmoAdugbo 😂
Noooo😹😹💔.... I dey for Quora I dey for Tinder.... I dey bomb locations 😂😂😹


Oh 😳 and I'll take a White any day over Dem🤝

It's a personal choice though, I gotta do what I gotta do for myself and the future tho you get.


By the way I've got a 9ja girl F,... Nothing serious we good 😊


If you don't getit...
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by LoveJesus87(m): 11:47am On Dec 27, 2024
Love800:
Girlfriends are useless.

When you have money, find a wife and start-up a family!
I have never seen a more sensible post than this since I joined nairaland
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by effixxyguy1: 11:51am On Dec 27, 2024
illicit:
U go dey find girlfriend...
U get mind o


😳
Haha 😄 😆
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by effixxyguy1: 11:53am On Dec 27, 2024
Because boys are after de-flowered and girls after raba🌹💰
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Lifemanage: 11:56am On Dec 27, 2024
Peakdesign23:
Very soon people will loose interest in marriage.
Not at all. Humans are not programmed to live alone, hence their need for marriages. Misunderstanding the individual roles and purposes of individuals in marriage is the reason for the seeming rate of distrust and divorces.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Lifemanage: 11:59am On Dec 27, 2024
Lurdd:
Honestly, because marriage only favours women, I don't see any single gain for men in marriage
Mens need for companionship is why the market of bars and joints works for men alot. They get temporary companionship at bars.
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Benniemannz(m): 12:02pm On Dec 27, 2024
Bookhub:
grin
I don't know if its me or the economic situation on ground, but it seems getting a girlfriend or wife is now so hard these days unlike before,some say yahoo boys have destroyed the relationship market by spoiling our girls with expensive materials ,girls these days no dey wan hear anything looks like they know what you are after even before you talk,
Years back ladies fall for my sweet mouth and swag plus little money ,but this current generation of girls don hard like akpor,is it that men have showed them pepper by chopping and dumping that they are just interested in money and money ayam not understanding..
Nope. Getting a girlfriend is as asy as drinking water but finding a wife in present day Nigeria is like waiting for the Dollar to be equivalent to Naira. Understand the difference. Na only you know why ordinary girlfriend dey hard you. Wetin mem dey reject. But wait oo you really dey find girlfriend for this period huh 😂
Re: It Seems Getting A Girlfriend Is Hard These Days . by Gbadugbakun(m): 12:05pm On Dec 27, 2024
Let's wait for what Zonefree has to say. undecided
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