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ebubeson:
This same lady may be pestering her partner for early morning prayers, reading devotional and attending fellowship. She may be acting like a good homely partner. As a man, you may need do DNA if your spirit is not at rest.

Ladies before you marry, prayerfully flush out everything sexual and emotional about your EX in your soul, spirit and body. Also pray for grace and power to develop strong bond with your husband.
Several people probably lost their marital power or maybe grace during dating and sex before marriage. Dating and sleeping around have probably exhausted several people. They may not have much to offer in marriage. If such people exist, they need to pray so much and tell God to help them have bonding power.
DNA issues and adultery in marriage may have most of its root in premarital sex, dating etc.

ebubeson:
This same lady may be pestering her partner for early morning prayers, reading devotional and attending fellowship. She may be acting like a good homely partner. As a man, you may need do DNA if your spirit is not at rest.

Ladies before you marry, prayerfully flush out everything sexual and emotional about your EX in your soul, spirit and body. Also pray for grace and power to develop strong bond with your husband.
Several people probably lost their marital power or maybe grace during dating and sex before marriage. Dating and sleeping around have probably exhausted several people. They may not have much to offer in marriage. If such people exist, they need to pray so much and tell God to help them have bonding power.
DNA issues and adultery in marriage may have most of its root in premarital sex, dating etc.

advanceDNA:
You'd be surprised that...she and most of her gender still thinks she's a victim in this issue.....and as usual when a man exposes their BS...they call u immature, hateful...

purples25:
Even if it is my son I will advise him to cut all dramatics and get to the point. Call her and sit her down, confront her and make plans on if you're divorcing, plans if any for the kid and what not and also lay down your feelings in a non dramatic manner. That's what a man also expects a woman in that position to do. Theatrics don't help anybody or change anything. My son can have a friend around him in case she starts acting violent physically, that's all.

Alakoriomo:
Yes she is. And I am a man. what an insensitive man you are. Why divorcing your wife just cuz she brings kids from other men who are sleeping with her? Instead of apologising to her maybe there’s something you did wrong. It’s your responsibility to take care of her and those kids regardless. If you want, u can also start footing responsibility of the other men sleeping with her, but that’s not compulsory

Dragunz:
Sorry but you are mad for this deceptive write up you just posted.

purples25:
Is he not talking to her already in the video? Communicating with her about the divorce papers, isn't it talk? I don't see the need for the drama because you guys claim you are polygamous and women have to swallow so much when you do it as if it's normal so he should also handle it with maturity.

Dragunz:
Sorry but you are mad for this deceptive write up you just posted.

See her tryna play down the whole issue when in real life, you would have gone wild like a bull dog.

Alakoriomo:
Omg what an insensitive man. Why divorcing your wife just cuz she brings kids from other men who are sleeping with her? Instead of apologising to her maybe there’s something you did wrong. It’s your responsibility to take care of her and those kids regardless. If you want, u can also start footing responsibility of the other men sleeping with her, but that’s not compulsory

purples25:
Is he not talking to her already in the video? Communicating with her about the divorce papers, isn't it talk? I don't see the need for the drama because you guys claim you are polygamous and women have to swallow so much when you do it as if it's normal so he should also handle it with maturity.

AllBlack:
watch how some 'wise females' will call him PETTY

Flangelo12:
Who has a problem with this?

jojothaiv:
Unfortunately, that's their headache.

What must be done must be done.

Ringstonermasks:
dix can be very painful for d man.

I know how it feels, d first time a gal cheated on me as a teenager, i nearly committed suicide cos i felt she loved me with everything she got.

Growing up, i began to realised how women come and go, they are just extra in the scene of life. However, loving is a good feeling, but the devastating hurt of betrayal, that's something a man should never go through.

Maybe it just me though. Maybe i was too emotional as a young man. I fell in love in Primary sch and did blood covenant in pry 5 first term, cos i heard my siblings talking abt how to do it.

It a good feeling to be wanted by a woman. You feel important that someone cares for you than anything else on earth. So imagine how a husband feels after spending 10yrs with a supposed wife and two kids, only to discover d woman was in luv with another guy that was coagulating their marriage for dem.

Anyways, my wife wouldn't dare nd i av 100% confident in her. But if she does, i will gladly leave d house for her and relocate. I won't send her away, i will gladly leave d house for her and advise her to send my bride price money(180 Naira) when she is abt to marry someone else. Cos dat money is spiritual.


Then again, in my culture, when a wife cheats, d deity attacked the man and the children rendering them sick for some time and eventually killing them unless the woman confesses. So imagine how u could loose ur life cos ur woman couldn't buy diildo to please herself or go to the cinema when she was bored





As-salaam-alaikum

Alakoriomo:
Yes she is. And I am a man. what an insensitive man you are. Why divorcing your wife just cuz she brings kids from other men who are sleeping with her? Instead of apologising to her maybe there’s something you did wrong. It’s your responsibility to take care of her and those kids regardless. If you want, u can also start footing responsibility of the other men sleeping with her, but that’s not compulsory

purples25:
Is he not talking to her already in the video? Communicating with her about the divorce papers, isn't it talk? I don't see the need for the drama because you guys claim you are polygamous and women have to swallow so much when you do it as if it's normal so he should also handle it with maturity.

Angelfrost:
Divorce is Divorce! How the papers are served is irrelevant to you and anyone else.

We can't dictate how people express or react to disappointments. Dramas will always happen regardless of how we feel about them.

The bottom line is that the marriage ended the moment the hidden truth came to light... Everything after that becomes a mere process.


Cheating is terrible and many of us are guilty of this... But saddling and hoodwinking a man into catering for another man's child is just diabolical!

MondayOmoAdugbo:
The kid is not his.

Beuberry:
men like you deserve women that will chop ya money

Beuberry:
Yenyenyen. What stopped you from being a nice man and helping without demanding from women?