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YoungBTCxchange:
na small boy nah, this one nor no anything. Which matured guy go come nairaland dey talk this kind talk self

I mean you want to report your cheating dad to your mom 😂 😂 I can't relate I'm from a polygamous family 😂... I know my step Mom very much 😂 again I can't relate

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

OP you no get sense

Sucre6:
My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂

Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said

You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂
His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I miss my papi seriously

Na that kind papa I get, I miss though.

purples25:
See what men are saying about a cheating man, unlike what they want for a cheating woman in the other thread.

Somebody even said men's cheating does not destroy the family unlike women's 😂

Same people wey attack me die because I said the man in the other thread should handle the female cheat calmly.

Men are selfish and self centered.

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

Small pikin de worry U. Shataap

wany:
Men are selfish and self centered.

Most of the time, they put a lot into the marriage and get little in return. Cut men a little bit of slack will ya?

ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.

What morals do you have in wanting to MURDER your own grandmother

Don’t you see that you are a horrible hypocrite?

ChizzyBuna:
I went back to village today in a very very good mood
And left village feeling angry

My grand mother and grand father are lovebirds.

She meet him when they were small. They are both from same village.

They are a typical example of rpmeo and juliet love.
They have been married for 62 years.
Anywhere ypu see my grandpa
U gp see her, dem be like 5&6
Unfourtunately 2023 june
My grandpa passed away

Ever since my gramd pa died
My grandma has been in depression. Serious depression

She fit sidon for one spot looking at nothing for hours.
Eat food, she no gree
Oya make we take you go Abroad
She no gree

Everytime she says she wants to die and join grandpa.
Sometimes she will starve for days until we force her to eat.

She has been on watch
She tried overdosing on prescription pills.

Basically, she is tired of life
She keeps wishing to die and join her husband.

I dont know the kind of mumu love these old people carry for head.

Out of anger, i told to go and die and allow us to hear word.
Everytime she will be talking about grandpa. And the man died a year ago.

I'm just tired of her threatning to kill herslf. That she cant live without grandpa.

Should we off her?
Or allow her to wallow in misery until her natural time of death?

As things are, we would be very happy if she dies.
So she can finally go and meet grandpa. Their love na die

I never see this kind mumu love

ChizzyBuna:
Now i know why nigeria is doomed
Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women.

I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father

Nigeria is not doomed anything bro, this thing happens everywhere! Not just Nigeria


You caught your dad, u could have taken the decision yourself without coming here to look for any, cos the truth is . You will end up destroying a happy home and I hope you can bear the consequences?

Talk to your dad , if he doesn’t change then , u can take your action

You can do whatever you like cause it doesn't matter. Your mother must have learnt to live with it or at most she'd seek a divorce and give him enough space for more cheating while she cheats her own. Africa is a polygamous society hiding in monogamy

You want to report and you think your mom is not aware. Better respect yourself if you want your Dad to clock 90 years.

Know it today, MEN do not cheat.

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

It is not in your place to interfere. If you destroy your parents marriage tru this, your life if Gona be in a much messed up situation afterwards. Stay away from adults bizness..

A word is enough for the wise.

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

Shey Omo ni eleyi, abi Omolangidi ?

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

Did you just call your father 'that man' ? Shior, mummy's boy,come on,go and report 'that man' to your mum nah! How old are you,boy? If you can't discuss this with your dad alone, maturely so and without the knowledge of your mum,then you must be a toddler!

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

So far he is doing his duty as a father wetin concern you with his sexual life ... You know maybe mama no dey give am enough sex ? You fit dey double like that sef but pointing fingers

illicit:
If it's my father, he has no worries

So are u a saint?

The boy na mumude

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

Go tell your mama na , mumude ... Who dey hold you

ChizzyBuna:
Now i know why nigeria is doomed
Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women.

I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father

Tell your mama na

G0Oodharddick:
You're a very fuuulish man

Oga, men do not the cheat. It is the nature of a man to have as many women as he wants and sleep with them all , and heaven will not fail. David, Solomon, Abraham, etc all had numerous women in their lives and heaven didn't fall.

What you call cheating in a man is completely different from women's cheating. Once a woman cheats, the family is completely destroy

Clap to your stupidity, and when he infect the mum with a deadly disease, the family will not scatter right.

ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.

You are not up to 25 sef as i dey look you , you too mumu sef

Goodluck to you. But just be sure that your mother is financially independent. Africa is not Europe or America.

ChizzyBuna:
This will be the last i will reply a kid like you.
Their is a proverb
" When the carry another person dead body. For your eyes it will look like they are carrying wood.
Until you carry dead body of your family member, you will see how painful it feels"

I wont go back and forth with a kid
Until it happens to you
Then you apply all that rubbish you just wrote

You are very foolish

PeterObi4Presid:
Oga, I'm not a child or baby.....I don't have to reveal too much about my experience with women and use of wisdom to relate with ones father. See u will only understand the worth of your father when u are well grown into marriage or after u must have lost him to death......by then it will be too late cos I can see ur mother has brainwashed u soo much that u have little respect or consideration for your father...
The question is, why do u hate ur father and decide to always side with ur mother?
Wetin dat man do u? Does he beat ur mother? Din't he pay ur school fee or care for the family? Aren't u proud of his success and achievement? So wetin dat man do you that u believe telling on him is the best way to repay his fatherhood over u....
.
U see the language I use? It's intentional cos I know ur type.....
Ur type re the ones who usually do mumu mumu to their girlfriend, who usually simp for women, who only learn the hard way..
Regardless of what ur father may have done, learn to forgive or learn to draw close to him to ask him question when he's still alive, at least to understand him and hear his side of things and also learn wisdom. ...
As a son u need more wisdom cos u are the husband and father to ur mother as well as ur dad's heir if paraventure he leaves u today.....so how will u show leadership btw ur mom and ur wife when u become their only husband?
Grow up....and stop seeing everything from ur mother's point of view alone. If u are a man and sad about ur father's behavior....FUCKING CONFRONT HIM RESPECTFULLY WTH WISDOM AS AN AFRICAN CHILD! .....and stop whining like a baby

Boy wey no get brain

Sucre6:
your dad is an adult and can decide to do whatever rocks his boat, Think about things that will better your 2025, don't be a snitch, reporting him is foolery, your dad can even decide to marry her officially and you can't do nothing about it,

When I was n the university like 10 years ago, ASUU was on strike and I parked my stuff and went back home, as I approached my street leading to our house, I saw my dad dropped off a girl before heading to the junction that led to our street, I flagged him, and he gave me a lift, the ride was a quite and awkward one until my dad stopped and started pressing his phone, after a few minutes he said to me, check your phone, I did and he had sent me money, he said remember that shoe u told me u like, go and get it for your self, and remember, you saw nothing I answered yes boss 🙌😂,

He's an adult, and I can't tell him what to do, me snitch on my dad ke, I dey mad ni 😂😂😂😂😂

That boy no get sense se

Yes naa, report him to your mum.
Hope your mum is financially comfortable to take care of herself and your siblings when baba decides to chase you guys from he house. Lol
It happened to my friend back in the day. His loaded dad had a solid country home in their village somewhere in Ogun state, apparently close to his sons school. His sons will take their friends to party there during weekends since it had a pool, cook etc. Basically a village mansion.
Na so my guy land with his friends one weekend only to Jamb popsi with his friends all parting with bus loads of campus small small girls. Lol.
Baba called his 2 kids, told them if they dare, make them tell their mamas, that he will pursue the two wives along with all the children then marry 2 new smallies! He put hand for pocket give the wad of cash and told them to go back to campus.
Omo those guys kept their mouth shut. Lol

ChizzyBuna:
Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

No sir, ky jelly is equally used as a lubricant in vagina sex

illicit:
So u will report ur mum to ur dad...?

So that he can divorce her or what?

Men, these people are older than u, they have been doing their stuff before u turned up and u will do urs or doing it already...

So no go dey form holy holy

I won't involve myself
I was just asking

You dont even know if your mum has been denying him sex for months, or your mum is always not in the mood etc. Na oyinbo "civilization" kuku cause this nonsense. Normally in africa, at his age he will confidently pick another young wife to meet his needs while still maintaining his dignity and social status. He has to sneak around to do this and you his son cant respectfully approach him to understand what is going on and probably learn vital life lessons for your future. All you think of is how to tell your mum. pele o mama's boy. Do you even understand the dynamics of their relationship/sexual life at that age?

Foock off!

This Op doesn't have sense to start with

Yomit71:
This Op doesn't have sense to start with

He is mentally unstable

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

How old are you?
You obviously don't have sense.

So you brought this here so that the girls will clap for you se?

If your father lived all his life and you had no idea of this then you'd have been more senseless. So you're lucky.

Mind your business. Wait till you get to his age before you have right to judge him. Sebi you get prick. Time will tell.

tunjilana:
You dont even know if your mum has been denying him sex for months, or your mum is always not in the mood etc. Na oyinbo "civilization" kuku cause this nonsense. Normally in africa, at his age he will confidently pick another young wife to meet his needs while still maintaining his dignity and social status. He has to sneak around to do this and you his son cant respectfully approach him to understand what is going on and probably learn vital life lessons for your future. All you think of is how to tell your mum. pele o mama's boy. Do you even understand the dynamics of their relationship/sexual life at that age?

Someone that has prick o and haven't seen anything in life is judging another! Mumu, he has no sense. He'll most likely do more than his father.