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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Brilliancepower: 1:30am On Dec 28, 2024
Maybe your mother is the one feeding him🙄
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by seanery: 1:33am On Dec 28, 2024
NA SENSE U TALK THERE




PeterObi4Presid:
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U are a foooolish son..lol
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I'm telling u what to do and the implications of what u are about to do, yet u are still capping
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It shows u are not even a man, and u don't understand men.. probably u are a mamas boy who has been brainwashed by his mom
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Wake up....ur father kmew what he did was wrong.....but u don't have to escalate the whole thing into disaster. even if he doesn't know its wrong the last thing he expects on a son is to tell on him.....u will lose the mans respect and love cos he will believe u are a very foooolish son...
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The best way to handle this issue is to confront him like a man, and he will respect u the more... Don't tell on him...what if he had done it in the hotels outside ur knowledge wud u have known?
Have sesne little boy.... don't be too emotional over women issues....u will grow up too and have better understanding of why men do certain things and the regret or torments they suffer from
Follow my advice if u are a man. A man don't gossip, they confront and resolve issues.....gossip is for little stvpid sisters..leave it to them...... don't complicate the life of that breadwinner u and ur mother still have....
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by maybet081: 1:35am On Dec 28, 2024
PeterObi4Presid:
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U are a foooolish son..lol
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I'm telling u what to do and the implications of what u are about to do, yet u are still capping
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It shows u are not even a man, and u don't understand men.. probably u are a mamas boy who has been brainwashed by his mom
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Wake up....ur father kmew what he did was wrong.....but u don't have to escalate the whole thing into disaster. even if he doesn't know its wrong the last thing he expects on a son is to tell on him.....u will lose the mans respect and love cos he will believe u are a very foooolish son...
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The best way to handle this issue is to confront him like a man, and he will respect u the more... Don't tell on him...what if he had done it in the hotels outside ur knowledge wud u have known?
Have sesne little boy.... don't be too emotional over women issues....u will grow up too and have better understanding of why men do certain things and the regret or torments they suffer from
Follow my advice if u are a man. A man don't gossip, they confront and resolve issues.....gossip is for little stvpid sisters..leave it to them...... don't complicate the life of that breadwinner u and ur mother still have....
Just a boy , he knows nothing about life.
If this boy live long enough and I pray he did , he will become guilty of the same sin.
Life is not 1+1=2
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by darthv: 1:35am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat?? angry

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense sad
You no just get sense, how old are you? Go and report it na. Scatter the family.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by seanery: 1:38am On Dec 28, 2024
BOY, GO TELL UR MOTHER AND STOP DISTURBING US HERE.

WE DONT CARE HOW IT ALL ENDS.




ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by otherway: 1:40am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
When you grow older, you will weep for yourself for posting this rubbish
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by seanery: 1:41am On Dec 28, 2024
LOLS
THIS IS DEEP, I LOVE THIS.



PeterObi4Presid:
Oga, I'm not a child or baby.....I don't have to reveal too much about my experience with women and use of wisdom to relate with ones father. See u will only understand the worth of your father when u are well grown into marriage or after u must have lost him to death......by then it will be too late cos I can see ur mother has brainwashed u soo much that u have little respect or consideration for your father...
The question is, why do u hate ur father and decide to always side with ur mother?
Wetin dat man do u? Does he beat ur mother? Din't he pay ur school fee or care for the family? Aren't u proud of his success and achievement? So wetin dat man do you that u believe telling on him is the best way to repay his fatherhood over u....
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U see the language I use? It's intentional cos I know ur type.....
Ur type re the ones who usually do mumu mumu to their girlfriend, who usually simp for women, who only learn the hard way..
Regardless of what ur father may have done, learn to forgive or learn to draw close to him to ask him question when he's still alive, at least to understand him and hear his side of things and also learn wisdom. ...
As a son u need more wisdom cos u are the husband and father to ur mother as well as ur dad's heir if paraventure he leaves u today.....so how will u show leadership btw ur mom and ur wife when u become their only husband?
Grow up....and stop seeing everything from ur mother's point of view alone. If u are a man and sad about ur father's behavior....FUCKING CONFRONT HIM RESPECTFULLY WTH WISDOM AS AN AFRICAN CHILD! .....and stop whining like a baby
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by FameGlory(f): 1:42am On Dec 28, 2024
Whether you cheat through the Asshole
Or
You cheat through the Pussyhole,
The truth is that you are a SERIAL CHEAT and you are a SINNER who have sinned.

Sinners shall not go to heaven.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by otherway: 1:42am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat?? angry

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense sad
If you are a lady I will understand your foooolshness but if you are a guy, you must be the biggest simp the world has ever seen.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by almarthins(m): 1:44am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH angry
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms angry angry
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again
You no fit know wetin dey go on with pop man and your mother. May be the man is not getting enough sex ur mum, but that is not an excuse sha.

If I were you I will be wise enough to open my mouth wa wa. Try and talk to old man without second 3rd party. Be mature to chose your words carefully. Talk to am like guy man, the man go fall yakata for ur hand, no go dey talk like say na your papa and mama together. If you try do that, the wahala wey go follow you u no go fit handle am. Me I pay heavy price for my stupidity, no let ur own be like my own.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by maybet081: 1:46am On Dec 28, 2024
The boy is an already mother spoiled child, harbouring evil intentions against his father, now he thinks he is got an opportunity to fight the father.

My happiness is that even though he is a boy now but he is still a man. One day he will remember this his senseless outburst on nairaland.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Flamemignon1(m): 1:52am On Dec 28, 2024
PeterObi4Presid:
Lols....ur papa na bad guy.....
Thank God u were a wise son
I can bet that even if u had not received any shut-up-cash , u wouldn't have told on him....unlike this OP wey no one geh sense....lol...
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If it's a woman, she's a LovePeddler but if it's a man, he's a bad guy and it's justified? Well-done on your standard Nigerian misogyny
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by seanery: 2:05am On Dec 28, 2024
If you want peace, prepare for war.



VicM6:
sorry to say, In every relationship, 95% tends to cheat on their partners...isn't a new thing...I did advise u move on and just keep a close watch....But if u want the opposite side, check what this means on Google first..'' Si vis pacem, para bellum.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MrPresidon: 2:30am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
The mistake you made is bringing the issue to Nairaland, all you'll get is insults and mockery. People on here are damaged bitter souls, a direct reflection of how damaged the Nigerian society is, and a concrete proof that Nigeria is indeed a sad nation.

Now to the topic, as someone coming from a very dysfunctional family, I will tell you this; do not tell on your dad, instead confront him first and let him know how hurt you feel about him cheating. Ask him if he still loves your mum, and his children. If he answers positive, ask him if he knows how hurt your mother will be if she knows that he's cheating on her, and could destroy their marriage and the family. Be very calm and mature about it, then go further to tell him to stop otherwise you will tell on him, then watch how the situation goes.

Like I said earlier, I come frome a very dysfunctional family. When I was still a child, I used to watch other kids being loved up in their family and wish I could be like them. This is to tell you how valuable a peaceful family is, and shouldn't be taken for granted.

I know it might be hard for you. As a child, I used to see my dad beat my mom, I used to watch them fight and all I could do was cry. Don't be the one that disrupts the peace in your family, instead be the glue that unites everyone.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Morbeta11(m): 2:38am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
How old are you?
See as a mumu son wants to put sansan for his father's blood tonic......
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by AirBere: 2:49am On Dec 28, 2024
YoungBTCxchange:
na small boy nah, this one nor no anything. Which matured guy go come nairaland dey talk this kind talk self
Four things are involved here; number 1 is the most likely.

1. This story is made up in order to farm engagement.

2. A girl, probably a feminist owns the moniker and trying to see the reaction of the men

3. A man child trying to form woke.

4. A kid, like someone below 18.

I still think it's an engagement tactics. However, if the story is indeed true then that boy abi man child is an absolute Edeeot, utter brainless!
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by manmade(m):
Pls report him to your mother, take the snapshot of the weak evidence and add salt plus pepper to spice it up , how else would they understand that the bastard in their house has matured?
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by adetayoonas(m): 3:42am On Dec 28, 2024
People are giving this op advice, yet he is still adamant and arguing with them. Don't destroy your dad's peaceful home.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by lildush(m): 3:53am On Dec 28, 2024
At this point u just need to mind your business. Stay away from anything that will cause problem for the family.. if it bodas u much . Talk to your father about it.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by NovusHomo(m): 3:57am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
Be a man; go ahead and tell your mother. Omo ale jati jati.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Pat081: 4:04am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
Do you know maybe he use to use it with your mum huh? Or your mum know about it too huh After you do that hope your mum will add to your food huh Do not be the black goat in your family or how do they use to call it and your father has every right to do it so far is not your mother that is given him money or your mother is the father and your father is the mother at home
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by nolzautoz(m): 4:07am On Dec 28, 2024
Honour your father man. He’s not your mate. Let him live his life. Imagine he was a bad father and ordered your abortion before birth, you for no dey Nairaland dey talk all these trash. Go and talk to him as a son to his father’s and stop behaving like a teenager.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by livebullet(m): 4:14am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
What makes you think your mother didn't impose fatherhood on him with a lie... Just allow sleeping dogs lie before the cat bolts away from the bag. You may be surprised your mother cheated to conceive you...

Let the man have peace. Most times na women dey start all these nonsense.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by livebullet(m): 4:17am On Dec 28, 2024
Flamemignon1:
If it's a woman, she's a LovePeddler but if it's a man, he's a bad guy and it's justified? Well-done on your standard Nigerian misogyny
Who is this simp? Licking p*ssy wont fetch u long life sir
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Badtman(m): 4:36am On Dec 28, 2024
Your own kids will destroy your home too if far destroy your mom love life or you think she’s aware but have to move on but you wan carry matter wey nor concern you as far your own benefit no stop
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by AMI3(m): 4:41am On Dec 28, 2024
Children like this op are the type that has been scattering their parents marriage.
Thank God he brought it to nairaland if not by now his family could have been on fire

If only he will listen.

The fact is that op u are still a child wait till u get married then u will understand better that even u can do worst than ur father
Pray u don't marry a woman that will frustrate u sexually.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Emperordynasty: 4:43am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
Are you a slowpoke,.what will you achieve by immediately reporting him to your mum

Wisdom should tell you to talk to your Dad about it first

If he is remorseful it his place to confess to his wife

Better not be the reason your father's house tears apart before your very eyes

And besides you Did not Catch him with any woman, so better thread carefully na wah o
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Omonigeriarere: 4:45am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
The sexual life of your father is none of your business. How on earth the first thing that came to your mind is to report him to your mother?

You need to grow up, and stop acting like a manipulated child.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Dumfrank(m): 4:46am On Dec 28, 2024
His father needs to do a DNA test to confirm if that's his son.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by frozen70(f): 4:49am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
Your mother knows that your dad cheats, so reporting him to your mum will add to the family problem

Dont worry your mum will get hold of him one day and that is the day you will prove to him that he is a cheat

But bringing a woman to the house was just an insult to the family
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by nams77: 4:51am On Dec 28, 2024
PeterObi4Presid:
Oga, I'm not a child or baby.....I don't have to reveal too much about my experience with women and use of wisdom to relate with ones father. See u will only understand the worth of your father when u are well grown into marriage or after u must have lost him to death......by then it will be too late cos I can see ur mother has brainwashed u soo much that u have little respect or consideration for your father...
The question is, why do u hate ur father and decide to always side with ur mother?
Wetin dat man do u? Does he beat ur mother? Din't he pay ur school fee or care for the family? Aren't u proud of his success and achievement? So wetin dat man do you that u believe telling on him is the best way to repay his fatherhood over u....
.
U see the language I use? It's intentional cos I know ur type.....
Ur type re the ones who usually do mumu mumu to their girlfriend, who usually simp for women, who only learn the hard way..
Regardless of what ur father may have done, learn to forgive or learn to draw close to him to ask him question when he's still alive, at least to understand him and hear his side of things and also learn wisdom. ...
As a son u need more wisdom cos u are the husband and father to ur mother as well as ur dad's heir if paraventure he leaves u today.....so how will u show leadership btw ur mom and ur wife when u become their only husband?
Grow up....and stop seeing everything from ur mother's point of view alone. If u are a man and sad about ur father's behavior....FUCKING CONFRONT HIM RESPECTFULLY WTH WISDOM AS AN AFRICAN CHILD! .....and stop whining like a baby
I just dey laugh. If this op story is true, then he is a fvcking fooool. and a simp. He will find out the hard way about women. I don't even have any advice for him. Let him go and report to the mum, pastor and elders in the village.
Someday, he will understand.
My dad when he was alive was a bit of a lady's man. I never saw him but I knew. Nothing concern me. He was a loving, caring and wonderful father. I will choose him over dangote sef but I will never expose him. We share a special bond no one can break.
The op will find out about life and women when he mstures
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by allthingsgood: 4:53am On Dec 28, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??
Go and tell your mum jor
She deserves to know no peace. Let her suffer some heartbreak this Xmas season. At least you will succeed in destroying your home. Cheers dear
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