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Sucre6:
My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂

Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said

You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂
His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I miss my papi seriously

Na me be that. My father was that kind of man too. My son go understand say him papa na OG when the time comes

Oga you better mind your business, your father has the right to as many women as he want, the only blame I have for your father was not taking the lady to a hotel, bringing her to his matrimonial bed is total unacceptable, you telling your mum will put you in a big trouble and your mum will still blame you. Trust me, you will also cheat on your wife.

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

No be you post you yelled at your Father for correcting you for driving roughly? and the Guys were hard on you for lack of respect and reverence for your Dad? I was even considering whether your Dad was too high handed and no one is perfect,now you want to go tell on your Dad and scatter the amiable union between your parents?

Not condoning cheating but wisdom is profitable to direct and to think you are even being incorrigible to go about it the right way shows you are dumb, stubborn and disrespectful as the commenters implied on that your other thread

Who knows if it's real self? you and your false stories.

Factcheck0001:
let him go n tell him mama now n the man will shock them by marrying a second wife

The worst they will do is shout n the man will shock them more by selling the house they are in n go n buy another one him n d new wife will live n he will write his will without including any of them

U Igbos n your nzogbu nzogbu, taking actions before u think

No wonder the other guy that told his father to keep shut while driving is also Igbo, by d time Igbo parents realize they are training arrogant n senseless kids it will b too late to reverse cos by then their children won't see beating them as big deal

It's d strong head n nzogbu of not listening to elders that destroyed d south east n made nnamdi kanu n ekpa get locked up

When the children say their fathers are stupid n they can do things themselves, that's what happens n u can see how messed up d south east is

He is the same Guy nah

Bonab:
Old habits are hard to overcome.You might be surprised to know that your mum maybe away of your Dad's issues with women; typical of a Nigerian woman to stay in marriage because of her children.

Instead of telling your mother about it,talk to your Dad. Let him know respectfully how disappointed you're, and that you would want him to change. Don't shout at him or insult him(African Father's have pride).

Men, please let's do better. Those things you do in secret,one day your children may get to know about it, and just like the OP they won't feel happy about it. Be a good model to them.

Olorun maje. You've forgotten we are in Africa and we have a different set of cultural values. How can you talk to your father about his sexual activities?? It should be the other way round.

Hian. Una go just dey give funny advice sha.

Op, you're obviously still a very young adult, which is why you have created this thread to display the rashness and foolishness of youth. In time, you will grow older and get sense by force.

That is if this story is true sef. Una too dey lie on this forum

ISellBeer:
OP you no get sense

No single sense

nams77:
Na me be that. My father was that kind of man too. My son go understand say him papa na OG when the time comes

Aswear down

Sucre6:
My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂

Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said

You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂
His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I miss my papi seriously

you really cracked me up

VaginaAcademic:
Na so your papa go take catch HIV AIDS from olosho go give your innocent mama. Una papa wan turn una to orphan because of smelly public toto.

So you didn't read he saw packs of used condoms?there abi the Man no dey play safe enough?

When you become a man,you will understand the meaning of your father action.How old are you?

When last has your mother allow your father to sleep with her?,,,,,,??try to find out..

Telling your mother will only increase whatever pressure currently being internally managed by your parents.Call your father,as a son,not as your mother,he would give u an excuse. Take it and advise him accordingly.

Be a man,not a boy.

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

Attention seeker

Won't you stop all these shiits before 2025?

Bold of you to think that your mom is unaware of her husband's cheating habits.

Most of the advice on this thread will scatter your home.

So, what can you do? ignore.

Can you respect him despite this discovery? No, you can't.

Will you also cheat on your spouse someday? 85% yes, and that's when you will begin to "respect" your father again.

Factcheck0001:
let him go n tell him mama now n the man will shock them by marrying a second wife

The worst they will do is shout n the man will shock them more by selling the house they are in n go n buy another one him n d new wife will live n he will write his will without including any of them

U Igbos n your nzogbu nzogbu, taking actions before u think

No wonder the other guy that told his father to keep shut while driving is also Igbo, by d time Igbo parents realize they are training arrogant n senseless kids it will b too late to reverse cos by then their children won't see beating them as big deal

It's d strong head n nzogbu of not listening to elders that destroyed d south east n made nnamdi kanu n ekpa get locked up

When the children say their fathers are stupid n they can do things themselves, that's what happens n u can see how messed up d south east is

Birds of a 🪶, very useless bunch of agbo gazzling nymphomaniacs.

Thunder go fire if u try am......all the angels go gather meeting for ur head.........last last ...wen u grow up u go understand the reason y ur papa dey misbehave.............if u get the mind talk to him about it and make him see reasons y he need to be moral.......don't go talking....ur father will hate u for life and hide his inheritance from u

Bro you done reach 20yrs old ?

ChizzyBuna:
This will be the last i will reply a kid like you.
Their is a proverb
" When the carry another person dead body. For your eyes it will look like they are carrying wood.
Until you carry dead body of your family member, you will see how painful it feels"

I wont go back and forth with a kid
Until it happens to you
Then you apply all that rubbish you just wrote

Smilleydr:
waiting dey pain me be say you carry this matter come nairaland and Nairalander dey advice you but you come still dey proof your stupidity here, oga comont go settle your family problem and leave us alone.

. Just leave the boy alone. He should report to his mother and destroy the marriage and live in regret for the rest of his life. Am 51 in case you think it's GenZ that is commenting. And I don't cheat on my wife but since you don't wanna handle things maturely you will pay for your stupidity by choosing the wrong approach.

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

Ekpa Dem dey talk to u .....ur still arguing......them say make u talk to that ur yeye shameless father so that he will know that is actions is bad ... FIRST OOO......
DONT BE A SISSY stop crying like homosexual about telling on ur dad.......talk to ur dad man to man..............perfect human

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

It's not but the person should handle it maturely make he/ she no go scatter their family, again how does he/ she know it was used on another woman, what if it's used by the couple

ultraviolet27:
So you didn't read he saw packs of used condoms?there abi the Man no dey play safe enough?

e get how e go sweet dem reach the man go remove am knack the bitch raw. Shebi dem no dey kiss or suck.

ChizzyBuna:
Now i know why nigeria is doomed
Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women.

I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father

Bro u wanted advice that's why you came to public forum to drop ur problem. Why insult people dropping advice dat don't go well with you. U better go and do what is in ur mind and bear the fallout

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

When you scatter una family, your body go rest..
If you are man enough, talk to your father first

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

U re the one that is an Ewu here...ewu Gambia.

Leave the poor man and his wife alone and goan face ur dwind.ling life

Because you found KY gel and condom in his room, that is not an avidence he is cheating on your mom, what ever the case may be, you are a man, you too will one day cheat on your wife

ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.

Oya run to the village and tell your mum why seek for other people's opinion since you already have an idea. If it happens to be a stubborn man your reporting won't change anything. Better listen to wise counsels of some real men here, have a chat with your dad and make him see reasons why such behavior is terrible and the consequences.

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

Many men don't retire from that kinda game.

The day I caught my dad, or was it nearly caught, with another woman.... Me I be kogberegbe o, I beat the woman and walked her out of the house.

The young lady he cheated with or about to cheat with is a known single mother in our former neighborhood. We've just gotten a new and bigger house not very far from the old house. In between us moving to the new place was when it happened. She left and went to see my dad in the new place. Unfortunately for her, I needed to pick a dress that we have moved to the new place already. They both didn't know anybody will be coming there. I went with my kid sister.
On getting there, I didn't see my dad, I don't know where he stepped out to. I saw only the woman and immediately, I knew she could be there only at my dad's instance. He is the Father Christmas and the Father Theresa of the community. Me, I didn't even waste time, I gave her one, two! Oya move! She was trying to say gibberish like she only needed money for her baby....blablabla...You can beg for money anywhere; you don't have to come here, weyrey. I followed her to our old neighborhood and disgraced her there too. The thing be say her attitude no good before so I no pity her at all.

Of course I told my mum. I don't know how they (My dad and mum) both sort themselves out. My Dad never said a word about it to me till tomorrow. Yeyenatu!

Sucre6:
your dad is an adult and can decide to do whatever rocks his boat, Think about things that will better your 2025, don't be a snitch, reporting him is foolery, your dad can even decide to marry her officially and you can't do nothing about it,

When I was n the university like 10 years ago, ASUU was on strike and I parked my stuff and went back home, as I approached my street leading to our house, I saw my dad dropped off a girl before heading to the junction that led to our street, I flagged him, and he gave me a lift, the ride was a quite and awkward one until my dad stopped and started pressing his phone, after a few minutes he said to me, check your phone, I did and he had sent me money, he said remember that shoe u told me u like, go and get it for your self, and remember, you saw nothing I answered yes boss 🙌😂,

He's an adult, and I can't tell him what to do, me snitch on my dad ke, I dey mad ni 😂😂😂😂😂

ur matter get as e be oooo....
Ur dad bribed u so he can continue cheating on ur mom...

How old are you? And what gender?

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.


Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

You will soon grow to understand why..,.....

efemena5050:
ur matter get as e be oooo....
Ur dad bribed u so he can continue cheating on ur mom...

Its a dysfunctional family.
For u to have even likened ir father to a goat says it all.

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

Nawoo for you

Please leave that old man alone.
Do you know whether he used those condoms on your mom.
Stop disrespecting and dishonoring your dad.

[quote author=ChizzyBuna post=133464416]So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense [/quote

honestly i don't support infidelity but you coming online to announce it is a BIG NO for me, it's just like you coming here to tell us your father always come home drunk, pls learn how to keep somethings to your self