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ednut1:
Most of the guys who went to uk on study /care visa are complaining of lack of sex. If 9ja guys are in demand why is that so

In America sha there is surplus women/ sex to go round for the average 9ja guy 😂

If I dey that UK I go Bleep pieces. Na the same thing they tell me before I come Chile. One guy in Santiago, he say make I Bleep all the Bleep wey I wan Bleep for Naija say Chilean women no like black man yet this people wan use love finish me here

You go abroad , to barb hair you go press calculator they do exchange . Buy better clothes you go press calculator . Buy perfume you press calculator. last last you go come make them they say you be like black bushy monkey. Oya take a stroll make you still see life , problem . Only school and work na be your daily routine why konji no go kee some boiz

ednut1:
Most of the guys who went to uk on study /care visa are complaining of lack of sex. If 9ja guys are in demand why is that so

In America sha there is surplus women/ sex to go round for the average 9ja guy 😂

It is not simply about the lack of sex because you can actually have all the sex you want

I know of guys who change women every weekend or marry british women in one year of being in the UK

Like me wey like OLOSHO well well, I fit pay for 30 mins or 1 hour

Na just the social lifestyle that is not comfortable. NO STEEZE

I am very sure its Nigerian ladies that started this foolish rumor of black men not being loved abroad

tensazangetsu20:
I am very sure its Nigerian ladies that started this foolish rumor of black men not being loved abroad

happy birthday tensazangetsu20

OYENIYIJK:
happy birthday tensazangetsu20

Thank you. Have a terrific day.

Cousin9999:
lol

I hope no one actually believes this.

Actually he’s lying. I saw your analysis up there and you’re right

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in terms of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

I told you earlier it was Nigerian women that turned themselves into monsters, you said it was Nigerian men's fault.

How?

We are cursed to have the most useless bunch of females. You only need to step out for a Nigerian man to see his full dating potentials.

Karleb:
My guy cross border, he become supermodel.

Because he was as poor as a church rat when he was in Nigeria

NEUDUDE:
Lol fruity clean girls ooo, abroad sweet lol, no be those ones back home wey infections don destroy dem finish and dem go still dey gallivant, me no dey send dem normally lol

Is it those hood rats you're fûcking that's giving you false confidence of desirability?

PantShifter:
Because he was as poor as a church rat when he was in Nigeria

This is not true though.

PantShifter:
Because he was as poor as a church rat when he was in Nigeria

I was rich in Nigeria at least by Nigerian standards but I lived modestly

tensazangetsu20:
I wasn't poor in Nigeria. I was earning well by Nigerian standards too.

Stop lying, if you were earning well when you were in Nigeria you would have been getting quality women

PantShifter:
Stop lying, if you were earning well when you were in Nigeria you would have been getting quality women

Lol how did I get money to japa if I wasn’t earning well in Nigeria how did I japa lol 😂

This topic of dating and money has been going on on Twitter for some hours and it's sad to see it being re-enforced here.

Money is equal to romance for us here.

Quite sad men.

PantShifter:
Is it those hood rats you're fûcking that's giving you false confidence of desirability?

Lol you sound pretty certain, so sure, well you are pretty confident, your mum and sisters are the hood rats me is fvckn , and trust me they aren't desirable at all lol

Karleb:
But when it's hurting your chances and lifestyle, common sense would require that you integrate. Migrating as adult shouldn't be an excuse.

Me like this, I'm like water. As long as the environment is favorable, I'll blend. The last atom of attachment I had for an ethnic group (mine, Yoruba) was shattered when they supported T-pain.

You're wise

tensazangetsu20:
One of my gfs here is a medical doctor and medical doctors in Chile are highly fucking paid . Specialists get equivalent of 20000 usd a month. Another girl coming from her city to mind tomorrow is a nurse and nurses are fucking well paid in Chile. Infact I am the one that begs them to let me spend sometimes especially when we go out. Chilean women never let you spend your money. Also I don't know what part of south America you are talking about but Chilean citizens have visa free access to every country on earth that matters including the US, Canada and all of Europe.

Can this apply to Brazil and what about job availability? thanks

lordwoz:
Can this apply to Brazil and what about job availability? thanks

The Brazilian passport is good. Visa free access to 170 countries but I don’t know anything much about Brazil with regards to the labor market.

tensazangetsu20:
If I was in the west, I will get western women too. I have gotten western women here too. They call them gringos lol 😂😅. They are everywhere here.

The truth is that a lot of Nigerian men abroad are very fat liars. They say no job. You know how many jobs I have. They say no woman. Woman wan kill me for Chile and this is Chile o. Country that is not even an a list country. Then if I dey Canada, Germany and such places, I will be a dollar millionaire in 3 to 5 years.

any idea if Brazil is good in terms of job availability

tensazangetsu20:
The Brazilian passport is good. Visa free access to 170 countries but I don’t know anything much about Brazil with regards to the labor market.

alright thanks

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in terms of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

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Are you still in Chile?

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in terms of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

Arobake:
Are you still in Chile?

Yes

Come to the Uk soon by God's grace.

tensazangetsu20:
Yes

Arobake:
Come to the Uk soon by God's grace.

God forbid. Chile is a better country than the uk 100 million times 🤣

tensazangetsu20:
God forbid. Chile is a better country than the uk 100 million times 🤣

How is chile better than UK though?

All right Ooohh, if you think so. The truth about Uk, though, is how one enjoys (or not) this country depends absolutely on the route one came in through.

However, you've fans here in the Uk, who will like to meet you.

May the Lord make wherever you are a land oozing of milk and honey for you in Jesus Name🙏🏽

tensazangetsu20:
God forbid. Chile is a better country than the uk 100 million times 🤣

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in terms of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

Ladies abroad are fascinated the "traditional man" concept which is in scare supply in todays western society. A man not looking to split bills shamelessly and wont treat his wife in a gender-blind manner.

Many western ladies also are not sure what to expect when they meet a darked-skinned person, probably because they have not interacted with many closely and hold presumptions based on baised media reporting.

so when they get the chance to interact closely with one and find out you are witty or intelligent, they get blown away.....like they have met a superstar. I have noticed this quite often

So if you are in a country where they havent met loads of dark-skinned people and arent strongly racists, you may have hit the jackpot as a single guy

That's white girls for you!

Most of them look beyond physical appearance but consider a guy's intellect unlike our shallow-minded ladies. If the guy come fine (like us *winks*), na bonus be that.

Tenza, you need to be more specific when you are talking about dating abroad as a Nigerian man. "Abroad" is any country outside Nigeria. Even Cameroon (believe or not) is abroad. Dating in Chile, where you are based, different from dating in the UK or dating in Canada, or dating in Finland, or dating in Germany, or dating in Ireland. Each country's dating dynamics is different.

Cousin9999:
South America...has a lot of problems.

When a male goes there and raves about the women, he's likely clueless about how messed up the country and/or society is, or he's a lowlife that thinks exploiting poor women is okay.

If you're a guy and you go to one of those countries, these are some of the reasons women will be all over you:
-She wants to set you up to get robbed.
-She's a hooker.
-She's a known hooker and no other men will date her.
-She's bait for human trafficking.
-She thinks you make at least 40,000USD annually, which is a ton of money to them. And you're her potentially "rich" boyfriend to squeeze money from that her and her local boyfriend/husband spend.
-In her insanely racist/colorist country, the fact that she's slightly darker than an albino causes all kinds of problems in her life, and she knows she'll get the opposite treatment from you. But the fact is, she's racist as well.
-She thinks you're her ticket out of the hellhole country she's in.
-Men in those countries are known to smack women, and she's trying to escape that culture by marrying you.
-It's a purely sexual relationship that will go nowhere because she will only or already has married a local.

ETA: It doesn't matter what one of these women does for you or how many different ways you have sex with her, she's still racist.

All these things you are saying are saying arw far worse in Africa. Passport Bros are in South America and Asia.