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| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Factcheck0001: 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
bukatyne:Avoid long talk, if it happens to u walk away n let's see who will lose. Even if u see ordinary text on your husband phone walk away, the street will b willing to take u back Many of u are still kids, I won't b surprised u ain't married Get married first n have first hand experience n see life from different angle A man can marry a million times n he will b fine but a woman herself will b tired when she has to marry the third husband 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ahamonyeka(m): 2:41pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna: |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nickymichy(m): 2:52pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
You entered his room, condoms not well disposed, bottles of beer scatter on the floor. He didn't border to clean up the room, what does that tell you? What if he used those things for your mom? A man that is cheating would have cleaned all evidence. You won't even see anything. He still traveled to village without cleaning up the room. Common. Two things,1) your mom is aware of his escapades, she has been managing him. 2) He actually used those stuffs for your mom. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 3:06pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
bukatyne:Read again. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by purples25(f): 3:22pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
bukatyne:They are very bold about it. They mostly don't believe in fairness. You said it all. Is it these people that I want to follow and argue? They think women are inferior beings to them. Despite women birthing them. Many women have internalized misogyny. They might even be the bigger promoters of all these injustices. Sad. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by CLRF: 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:Leave your father alone in peace. Just tell him you helped him clean up the room, but you felt unhappy about it. Both of you will become close friends later, he might just open up the reason why he did. Temptations is everywhere 2 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PantShifter(m): 4:44pm On Dec 28, 2024*. Modified: 9:10pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:Na fûck he fûck he no kill person 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PantShifter(m): 4:45pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:When you get to his age you will understand  1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by PantShifter(m): 5:00pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
Sucre6: 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Maski87: 5:01pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
How do you know your mum is not also cheating 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Clazzone(m): 5:26pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
I swear down, the OP is the real bastard 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by G0Oodharddick: 5:34pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
bukatyne:Im surprised how you vvomen left the personalities I mentioned and started attacking irrelevant topic. David, Solomon, Abraham etc all had numerous women and concubines in their lives and it was never regarded as cheating. A man is polygamous in nature. He has the full right to get as many women as he wants and sleep with them. For as long as a woman is under a man's roof she's restricted from doing such. If you want to cheat madam, leave the man's house and start living alone. Take care of yourself and pay your bills yourself by so doing you can cheat around in peace without any disturbance |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 5:37pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
purples25:Nobody is saying that the cheating was good. And nobody is saying that only men can cheat. The main wahalla here is this... Once you cheat and you got caught (whether you are a man or a woman),, then the repercussions are severe.. Either it leads to an unhappy home, or to a divorce, or to something in-between these two options.. That is why most commenters are trying to let the guy know that he can make his father to stop this nonsense and save the family.. Or expose the man and let the consequences start already.. The woman will definitely not take things lightly if she was never aware that her husband used to be that carefree with his sexuality and lifestyle. She may even have HBP sef join. It's up to the guy though.. If it was his mom that he caught,, and his father was not aware,, I will still tell him to go and talk to the mom and let understand that she's doing wrong.. Because, if he rushes to report the mom to the dad,, the family will never be the same again. And that's not wise too.. It's not about gender. It's about handling things in such a way that it wouldn't burst and scatter. The mistake is there already. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Esthered: 5:49pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
Acidosis:Why this assertion sir? |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ukeme8: 6:07pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:Are you ok. You just want to destroy your home abi? What happens to talking to your dad about it, or you just shut up 😡 |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by delpee(f): 6:39pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:Talk to your Dad. He'll likely come clean to you. You don't even know if the items seen are used with your mum. Whatever the case is, don't create problems for your parents. You may not like the end result. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by bukatyne(f): 7:39pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
Factcheck0001:Strangely, the opposite is what obtains in real life. Men wail with thousands of podcasts dedicated to the lonely old man and how men are loved for what they have and not who they are bla bla bla. Perhaps those podcasts get something right: there is nothing absolutely loveable about the Character most of you have displayed on this thread. The only thing to love is your 'money' for those lucky enough to have it. I understand your views have been coloured by the women of old and I don't fault you: they let the men of old get away with all sorts of nonsense and delayed their punishment till their kids were grown. Women of today have the ability of walk away from situations that doesn't work for them anymore. And it is not out of malice; it is knowing their worth and deciding not to be a part of the shenanigans. If they want other partners, cool; if they don't, they are buoyant to care for themselves and their kids. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by CLRF: 7:57pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:Wetherby your parents or others, never get involved in marital issue in supporting one party, when they settled, you will regret ever getting involved. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by okezuoemmanue(m): 8:20pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
 Sucre6: |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by sulakishop(m): 8:36pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
I wonder why people don't mind their business |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by cardoctor(m): 11:16pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
You saw your father not you caught your father. Are u a hunter? |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by linearity: 3:14am On Dec 29, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:From you post, it appears you had something against your father before now. You despise him, and totally preferred your mother. You can go ahead and report him to your mother to validate your disposition towards him. The truth is, you reporting would not make anything better, it is even possible your mom already knew and he been ignoring him or looking the other way. Inserting yourself right in the middle of this adult husband and wife situation might not be the best. If I was in your shoes and are concerned, I will confront my Dad first….and please stop referring to your Dad as a goat, let that come from outside…and the end of the he is still your Dad and the Bible say we should respect them so that our days on earth will be long, it is the only Commandment that came with a reward….act wisely. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ouchbabe(f): 3:29am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Nnamdipapa come in here. What do you have to say sir? |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nnamdipapa(m): 3:44am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Ouchbabe:My dear, I believe the young lad should learn to mind his bidness. It is between is ma and pa and the biggest mistake is to tell to the mother. Once in a while, the dad has to enjoy himself and God knows what he is enduring at home. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ouchbabe(f): 3:54am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Nnamdipapa:I wasn't disappointed at all Because men are polygamous in nature right? Do you have an idea what some women endure at home too but won't cheat because we took a vow? |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Thoughty2(m): 3:57am On Dec 29, 2024 |
ChizzyBuna:Ok go and tell your mum... Mr morals. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nnamdipapa(m): 4:11am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Ouchbabe:Do you know why the life expectancies of men are lower? Men die first because of stress. If I tell you what I passed through in life to make others happy, you will open your mouth. Sometimes, a man deserves a little happiness in this life. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ouchbabe(f): 4:19am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Nnamdipapa:Not just stress my dear, sometimes what you people download in your system all in the name of flexing is scary....the beer, gin, hot, whisky, weed, meth, loud, skunk ...the list is endless. As for a man deserving happiness, all the happiness he needs is at home waiting for him. |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by YoungBTCxchange: 4:20am On Dec 29, 2024 |
MondayOmoAdugbo:some people and their young rich dad smoke and club together self Dey play 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nnamdipapa(m): 4:36am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Ouchbabe:You are a lady and can never see things from the perspective of a man. You have to listen to him and understand him. The biggest mistake a woman will make in marriage is to think and assume to understand the thoughts process of the man. Yes, I drink occasionally and once in a while take recreational weed(It is legal in my country) That's all, I don't womanize, I don't party and keep friends. I was all for my family. I clean and cook for the family occasionally. I made sure everyone in my family had dual citizenship but I realize I get nothing for all my efforts as the sole provider of the family. Every year I pay for vacation for my wife and kids to different parts of the world, this year, wife and daughter were in the UK and Florida for vacation. She drives an almost brand new SUV without working. I am not a bad man and not asking for too much. Now, I have just one side chick on the side who treats me like a king. I am still better than King David and Solomon in the Bible. By the way, why are you up this ungodly hour, shouldn't you be sleeping? |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Chinny024(f): 5:35am On Dec 29, 2024 |
illicit:😎😎🧑🎄🧑🎄🧑🎄 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Acidosis(m): 6:51am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Esthered:"Lion no fit born goat" 🙂 |
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