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Flamezreal:
Marriage can't solve lack of pain any. You might be married and still be staffed. Ask married men and you'll be marveled at the number of sexually starved married men.

The married men who get starved of intimacy are generally weak men who lack knowledge in the art and science of subduing a woman....it's really not that hard to get a woman to open her legs...
or they married the wrong women.
Men erroneously think women are all the same but the truth is that just like men,women are different. Some with high libido, some with low libido others somewhere in between...
Men should marry women who match their libido

Poverty die die die

CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil

Lust. Lack of self control.

Free2Fly:
Don't generalize things about all men with your yeye personal experience

If you're older than 36 you may have a decline in testosterone so it's okay if you don't feel the same way after abstaining.

bixton:
This your personal experience is from the angle of an unbeliever unbelieving christian.
Give your life to Jesus Christ.

I don't mean any insult but You sound illiterate and superstitious. How do you join the dots btw something as banal as sexual needs a d spirituality?

bixton:
This your personal experience is from the angle of an unbeliever unbelieving christian.
Give your life to Jesus Christ.

I don't mean any insult but You sound illiterate and superstitious. How do you join the dots btw something as banal as sexual needs and spirituality?

I think these arguments depends on individual because I will use myself as an example, I can go for months without sex/masturbating and nothing of these signs will come to me, sometimes I stays like 2-3 months without having any urge for sex self
Most men will claim that once they take alcohol the next thing is urge to have sex and they will last longer than normal but in my own case once am drunk my urge for sex will be zero, even these aclaimation that normal men have erection every
early morning, my dear I hardly experience morning erections oo
Some people may be thinking that I am not normal but far from it I am very Okay noting is wrong with me, it is my nature
The point I am trying to prove is that all men can never be the same, some men can never stay one week without sex but some can stay one year without sex, some are with high labido while some are with low labido, some are sex addicted some are not.
So for myself I stay in a room, living happily and sleeping in one bed with a woman for two weeks without demanding for sex, I don't even like sex that much and for masturbation I hate it with passion

AlphaHakimi:
Sex is just like every other urge/need of a human body. The urge to sleep, to eat, to drink etc are all the same.

Men/women need sex as often as they want to just like nobody will purposely deprive themselves of sleep, or food or water. The problem is that alot of people secretly satisfy their sexual urge and come openly to condemn others. This is why I advocate for masturbation when you can't have sex.

Masturbation helps you to make good judgement.

Shalom.

Masturbation is good to temporarily relieve yourself b4 but it's a short relieve as it makes you want the main action -- sex because one probably jerks off to sexually explicit materials.

Besides the energy and high testosterone that comes with abstainance is great

Mine is over 6month now, I no dey even see girls not to talk of talking to them self. Na money I dey find and when it set, I can start again with a decent girl. Girls don't give money, they only collect. So hustle and make the money so that you can have a happy home

Mimiranky:
This one just dey develop stroke, him no know... If stroke never hold one person wey dey abstain from sex, the rest no go get sense

Mine is 9 months.

shoboy9:
It's simple. The seducing spirits don't like letting go of their property so they make you more aware of opportunities to have sex, especially illicit sex without any form of commitment. Once you become obedient to their wishes and start banging who they prefer you to bang, the pressure will reduce. Until you try to stop. Especially without spiritual strength to toss them out and keep them out.
The blood of JESUS was shed for all our sins, so we can be free.

Can you pls STFU! Thanks

Harddiskng:
Lmao 🤣

I would only give you this piece of advice, however you know the saying you can force a horse to the river but you can’t force it to drink water.

Make sure your boyfriend or intended husband truly has low libido just like yourself. Sexual incompatibility is real, cuz one-day for whatever reasons you might get the idea of faking it throughout a relationship; so you can get married.

If you marry a sexually incompatible partner lol. Don’t think it is just to deny him sex, you would know how to spell “unhappiness” in different languages.

Sex is NOT as important as you think.
A HAPPILY married elderly couple, one day the wife was very sick but refused to let the doctor examine her down there. She was tricked and drugged and when he finally examined her, he discovered she was still a virgin!

Joblessness is your problem, oga.

BigDawsNet:
And with that.. he no stop ham from becoming the world richest 😁😁😁

And no be only him. Infact sometimes it seems womanizing be requirement to be successful man!

You are getting wet dreams because you are still thinking of woman, me stay 2 years without i nor die, nothing happen....sex is overrated, when you get very busy, sex nor go dey your head, wet dream nor go come, that's my thought and experience.

Lalami3232:

Thanks for sharing your experience with us, OP. But I think it has to do with individuality sha because I don't experience wet dreams no matter the period of abstinence. Probably because I'm a techie, hence I have bigger bugs to fix than to imagine sex. But let me ask you a question sef: after sleeping with most of these girls freely like "free to air channels", do you think you can trust a woman? Whatever your answer may be, it's fine sha but don't trust to the extent that you won't go for a DNA test especially if you met her as a non-virgin aka borehole.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga today starts a new year. Go online and get a tech skill or crypto or forex and thank me later. You need to earn in dollars because the economy is messed up

On crypto pls can u enlighten me 08071797459

Go make money first . When you get money toto no get stress. You can fvck any pretty girl you want to fvck. when I started making millions na then I know say toto cheap. I no dey toast na I wan fvck you tell me wetin you want make I give you. I fvck many guys pretty girl friends. The real is same day meeting same day fvcking

Hmmmm

All these things you mentioned are not true. I have went for 3 months without sex.

CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil

Don't project your reality on others. I have abstained from sex for more than a year and at no point did I feel like sexualizing any action of a woman I saw. That's just plain wrong.

Mckraz01:
No mind em
As he abstain from the sex, did he die?
All these boys sef....
Focus on making progress for yourself then women, I mean women will flock around him...

#Fact

zombieHUNTER:
This is the summary of his problem

Guys stay without sex for years and they don't feel all this stuff he's yapping about

Comprehension is a terrible issue with Nigerians. He mentioned he was sexually active prior to moving into a shared apartment. Because of the shared apartment, he couldn't bring in girl diminishing his sexual activeness. So Mr know it all and Mr you have all the money in the world, where did he mention he doesn't have money.

It's people like you that broke because you fail at simple comprehension.

DaddyCoool:
And no be only him. Infact sometimes it seems womanizing be requirement to be successful man!

lol, sharp! 😎😎😎

Carndidlaydid:
hmmmmm


the first day of the see what mods are pushing to FP

yeah we know you didnt have sex for close to 2months but failed to tell us how times your helped yourself in shower... you dey massssturbate still clamining celibate
show me a man that can live without sex or selfservice then iwill show a fish that can survive on land

you need help

I've gone 20months without it. I experienced wet dreams once in a while truly but I don't do self service
That was around 2017 to early 2019

Greenfusion:
You are getting wet dreams because you are still thinking of woman, me stay 2 years without i nor die, nothing happen....sex is overrated, when you get very busy, sex nor go dey your head, wet dream nor go come, that's my thought and experience.

It's also the experience of celibate monks and priests over the centuries

Been celibate for a while . Had sex once last year and that was in April.
Op I agree with you on the admiration of female. I get to stare and admire for a while, it made me feel awkward that I get uncomfortable going outside to buy stuffs.
I haven’t experienced wet dream and I hardly dream sef.
Waiting to get my shit together and then meet a female, that likes me as much as I like her…

CandyOps:
I don't mean any insult but You sound illiterate and superstitious. How do you join the dots btw something as banal as sexual needs a d spirituality?

If I sound illiterate can you tell me the definition of you who is literate?

VaginaAcademic:
you're 100 percent right brother if you add another month seeing panties hung on the line or a slight nipple bulge can make you cum in your boxers add 2 months you fit start to dey craze for street

lolssss our problem no too much ......wahala

DaddyCoool:
It's also the experience of celibate monks and priests over the centuries

interesting, so what behind it, or is it that they have been carrying the thought of sex..

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Thanks for sharing your experience with us, OP. But I think it has to do with individuality sha because I don't experience wet dreams no matter the period of abstinence. Probably because I'm a techie, hence I have bigger bugs to fix than to imagine sex. But let me ask you a question sef: after sleeping with most of these girls freely like

Pls I need something like that and can you put me through . Wanna double my hustle salary nodey reach to solve problems

CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil

Poverty is a curse.