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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by gigabyte13: 5:01pm On Jan 01, 2025

SUPERPACK:
How dare you call a graduate with even Master degree a village girl, this is a crime. I assume you have a doctorate degree

For where ..... huh

Who dash am
If l dey lie make he post the certificate.
If the lady open mouth talk now
All of una for nairaland go gather stone , stone am..........
No smoke without fire
No dey hear one sided story for marriage ooo
Never ever.
Especially the one that firstly come to cry on social media
Man for that matter
Na lie he dey lie.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Judolisco(m): 5:02pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

you can get infection from so many places.... Read about toilet infection.... Be careful with the way u use public toilets.... You and your wife and always clean the one you use at home properly.... Thank me later

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by DMCY: 5:05pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

You could have taken her to the hospital to get her treated and cleaned up yk? But you kept telling us you’ve been treating yourself AlonE by context of what I read up there.

Let the girl go back village Oga, you too hate that girl😅

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by translux(m): 5:06pm On Jan 01, 2025

I was a little bit disappointed with the OP though, this issue shouldn't have gotten to a public space and also I understand what the writer was going through whilst he referred to his wife as an ugly village girl, please you need to understand that virgin ladies are not fully exposed to the bedroom fantasies and styles, you have to be her teacher please

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by deeway200(m): 5:09pm On Jan 01, 2025

AlphaNugget:
Superstory!!

Lies upon lies

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Usmanovic95(m): 5:14pm On Jan 01, 2025

Village girl this and that dey make me cringe, no be one village you sef come from. The love has always been absent since day zero.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Afolue(m): 5:14pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

young man stop spreading your family’s dirty linen in public. What do you want the public to do for you?

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by jaxxy(m): 5:20pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

If she's infecting u with stds and u are treating it but she's not getting treated then ure gonna get reinfected no doubt...

Ure mum got u a village girl and u accepted the nonsense arrangement? Its OK to try out ur mums option as dating but if it's not working don't go ahead with any marriage.

The problem here here is u don't know what u want and u are not a man. U are a MOMMY'S BOY.. I'm sorry to say.

And the unpopular opinion/truth is our mother's can't always be right in everything so u must also have ur sense to apply wisdom without offending them.

And who a grad with a masters? U or she?

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Fiscus105(m): 5:24pm On Jan 01, 2025

trium:
So this is an annual ritual

Your last topic was December 2023 and now part 2 skipped December 2024 to enter the first day of January 2025. Hmmm

How old are you again? Maybe this is part of you growing but I refuse to hear a single-sided story. E get why. From time, we know that only a foolish elder hears one side and judges. Your story has looss ends. You are in the hospital for what? Were you sick, did you have an accident or was it due to the infection? Where is she now? Isn't your life more important to you than danger? What did the doctors say about your infection or are you just suspecting her without evidence? Can you marry another woman? Why is your mom so involved in your family/love life? You sound like you take orders and this is someone who has seen your weakness. You are not your own man.

I only see women here. Your mom and the lady. Be a man and take charge of your house. Men fix the house, they don't advertise the problems of the house. You decide how you want to see your house ran. Women like men who remind them of their fathers? You know why? They love security, structure and order so you need to tell yourself what you want to see in the mother of your children and Prime Minister of your house.

You supposed to have known imagination from true life story, this type of story is to give argument and by extension traffic.

FOR ME, I LIKE TO READ REAL COMMENTS UNDER THIS TYPE OF FAKE STORY.

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Bobbynobobby: 5:27pm On Jan 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
You didn't expressly state if the infections are sexually transmitted or not.
Well, just because you were the first person to tick a box doesn't mean other pen can't tick.

Please louder...for the benefit of the hardworking simps who see marrying a virgin as final

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Jerry2i(m): 5:30pm On Jan 01, 2025

madone:
na graduate with masters you calling village girl? Guy mind yourself oo. Carry that lady to the hospital for proper treatment jare. Your eyes still dey outside Ashawo man

No kind am.
Him no wan talk the real koko

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Rooneyx(m): 5:31pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.
They need to moderate some topics. Any mumu am just open thread with fake just to get likes. Anumanu aka monkey OP

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by flokii: 5:34pm On Jan 01, 2025

Maybe she got the infections from toilets and improper hygiene.. you know the female body is more prone to infections than males.
She should have gone for test and treatment before getting close to you the spouse.

@OP You both better submit yourselves to any government hospital for proper treatment.. they have to treat you both if not, the both of you will keep infecting one another everytime you meet.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by buhariguy(m): 5:35pm On Jan 01, 2025

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by akseph1: 5:40pm On Jan 01, 2025

<b>I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl.</b>

I was not happy with you when you said that what I quoted in your first post. It is like you are casting all blame on the lady in question. If you can find your way, you will want to marry another person.
Most times I see many young people going into marriage without preparations. What do you know about a woman before you get married? what do you know about family and what do you know about children as a man?
Kindly ask yourself this question because if you don't understand them, you will continue to struggle with them.

Now to your problem of infection. You must know that infection can come not through sex alone, it can come through other means. It come through toilet, wearing a dirty pants or other things that touches the private part. It can also be transferred from a dirty husband. I am not saying husband that look good, spray perfume and other things but husband who does not take his personal hygiene serious. Please check yourself and help your wife out to ensure she stay hygienic.

The different between men and woman when they contact infection is that for a woman, infection can be in her body without she know. It could be there in their body for up to 3 months before they will start noticing the symptoms, this is the reason I advice women who are single to go for test or treat Infections often because of these can be dangerous. for men, it is immediate maybe 3days, 1 week as the case maybe and the reason for this is that woman have urethra for urinating and vaginal for reproduction separated but for men it is thesame duct that is used for reproduction and urinating.

If you are going through the treatment alone, it will always come back. Go to the hospital with her. Ensure both of you go through the treatment together.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by fitinwell: 5:44pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

Hello mister... U re the dull and confused husbandman here...

because u meant her during her menstruation doesn't make her a Virgin ooo...

Na u loose guard... Why don't you take her for complete check up , before passing blamee on her ... If she as a Masters qualifications then she is not dull as you claim...

Settle down your restlessness mind and bring out the beauty in your woman...

And stop acting like mummies boy....

You have a gift at hand but don't have the brain to manage your wife...

I don't know you from Adam... But i can tell...

You don't deserve this lady....

You are not appreciative..... A lady cooks , washes and cleans your house...

You didn't tell us how you toook good care of this lady...

You don't give her Money to take good care of herself...

Now u blame her for alll the bad experiences...

Then let her go back to her parents house..

And you marry your mother...

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Okonsbecky: 5:48pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

Very irresponsible of u Sir, ur wife can be infected from and old undies,toilet and even her life too, take ur wife for proper medication and treat urself.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by DigitB: 5:52pm On Jan 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
You didn't expressly state if the infections are sexually transmitted or not.
Well, just because you were the first person to tick a box doesn't mean other pen can't tick.

How else does a woman give a man infection if not through sex?

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by AirBere: 5:56pm On Jan 01, 2025

AlphaNugget:
Superstory!!

He's learning how to write. Pure lies!!!

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by REALretep(m): 6:08pm On Jan 01, 2025

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

[color=indigo]This your story is actually better now that you both are yet to bring children to this planet to suffer in the loveless marriage.
Therefore, whatever you have to do, you better do it now and take full responsibility.
But I do understand this is going to be a tough decision for you especially because your mum is involved. Sorry bro.

You should get God involved to help you...if you can
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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by eepeepook: 6:08pm On Jan 01, 2025

So-called “engagement” for children on Nairaland.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by micflo28(m): 6:11pm On Jan 01, 2025

How do you treat your infection and you don't treat hers? You are sounding like the village guy here. She has masters degree and no ambition, so you want her to go and rob a bank. You are the one who will set her up with a skill or business. The way you are sounding, she seems submissive and willing to take your directives, sending her back home will delist you from the list of real men. You are both the war and the warrior here. If she doesn't cheat, it must then be toilet infections which can be transmitted as STIs. You have an issue with hygiene in your house, buy hypo and izal and wash your toilets clean, get her enough underwear and sanitary pads with good soaps to have her regular bath, check the water you guys bath with. Go and treat her of STI and then go to a fertility hospital, that must be the reason she hasn't conceived. Set up a business for her. Take care of your woman to get the best from her. You guys are meant to complement yourselves, what she lacks, you cover up for her. Don't come here barking like a Chihuahua poppy with the threat of sending her back to her parents. If you lose her, another man will pick her, love-vendor her and enjoy her. Woman wey dey give peace of mind for marriage don scarce ooo....

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by dauntless15(m): 6:12pm On Jan 01, 2025

I realized that when you don't like someone everything they do is offensive in your eyes, even if they brought Jesus from heaven you'll see something else, what your hate is forcing you to see, you fit see say she bundle Satan from heaven, even if she bundled Satan which is something to be happy about you'll still find it offensive, reverse is the case when you like someone, when that person farts it smells like roses, I could bet my balls she didn't do half of what you're complaining about, but you already hate her and you're finding the silliest excuse to send her packing, oga an infection is not a good enough reason for this outburst, learn to love her, the fancy wife you're fantasizing about will send u to an early grave faster than the village girl you see as a nightmare, because other than the ugly you're shouting upandan I Neva see the your problem yet, a submissive, virgin, master's degree holder in this Nigeria and you still find a way to be whyning like a child.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Snowx: 6:16pm On Jan 01, 2025

Contradicting yourself..how can someone hold a master's degree and You said she's dull and a village girl

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by justtee42k: 6:17pm On Jan 01, 2025

Lol
So funny .
Well, this is my candid advice to you sir.
As long as she has the willingness to change and learn that help her for now and teach her consistently .
Be a husband and not a boss in the house .
Don't wait for her to do everything, do them yourself.
When the toilet is dirty, wash it don't wait.for her.
When the bedsheets is dirty, remove them and lay a new one, don't wait for her.
Teach her personal hygiene.
Before having sex, tell her to go and bath , after sex , make sure she wash herself up immediately before the next one.
Teach her how to take care of her self properly and with time she will adapt.

My marriage at first was also full of complains , till I decided to start doing things myself to be happy..
Recently, I told someone that just because a girl is perceived good does not mean she qualifies to be married to.
I have seen a very good girl that is so so lazy and won't do anything than to sleep press phone and pretend not t9 be feeling well once he hears the footsteps of the husband.

I have a seen a good girl that does not like going to church or pray .

So at the end, I decided that my happiness is the most important thing so I don't wait for my wife and I do what makes me happy rather than waiting for her.
If I get back home and she didn't make me a meal, I will go to the kitchen and cook.
If the cloth bin is full and becoming irritating because she doesn't want to wash her clothe4s , I will go there and wash her clothes for he4 than to keep complaining and fighting every day.

Marriage can be something else

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by bamasite2: 6:17pm On Jan 01, 2025

If you are not just chasing clout, email me and I will make sure everyone in the family is happy again, starting from you!

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by jojothaiv(m): 6:27pm On Jan 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
You didn't expressly state if the infections are sexually transmitted or not.
Well, just because you were the first person to tick a box doesn't mean other pen can't or didn't tick after.

OP!

Condolence.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by eagleu: 6:29pm On Jan 01, 2025

Before you return her to the village, make sure that you are not the source of the infection. How about going to see a doctor, both of you?

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by Namigotalktru: 6:31pm On Jan 01, 2025

Marry who fit you. You red pillars will not hear. Oya solve your life problems with her virginity now.

That’s why you should be from a good religion where you get rewards for marrying divorcees and widows you for dey enjoy marriage

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Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by nwirinedu(m): 6:43pm On Jan 01, 2025

Did you both go for HIV and std testing before marriage. Or you just took her because mummy said so.

Most of these so called village girls are prostituttes, they re not clean , your mum is forcing you to marry out of obligation.

Re: I'm So Frustrated In My Marriage by davolas(m): 6:47pm On Jan 01, 2025

You didn't state treating infections together,if both have been,moreso you didn't state that kinda of reoccurring infections,bro hospital is still the best place for a proper solution,but I smell hates in the marriage already

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