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GboyegaD:
Are you treating the infections individually? Like many have suggested, take her to the hospital for both of you to be comprehensively tested and treated.
As for the no ambition, do you try to encourage her to work? One thing about our women, particularly those who grew up in the hinterland, is that they don't have much inertia but once you help them start, you will see how determined they are to succeed. How often do you seat down to talk about what she would like to do or what options are available for her? Get more involved in her life than sex as you both should be working on building a successful home together.

saddler:


This your matter tie wrapper

But how can a graduate with masters just be a stay-at-home wife?

How did she get her master's degree?


And you called her dull in your description...how can she be dull and have a Masters?

No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

omooba969:
It's possible for a Nigerian to be a master's degree holder and also an illiterate (village person). Look around you, evidence stares you in the face.

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

madone:
na graduate with masters you calling village girl? Guy mind yourself oo. Carry that lady to the hospital for proper treatment jare. Your eyes still dey outside Ashawo man

AlphaNugget:
Superstory!!

Allthingswork:
Pray tell, can you tell me what your spirit, or, the spirit, is saying, or, can tell you about me?
I suppose you are one who gets revelations from the realm of the spirit. So, what do you see?
Share. Good evening.

November24:
Goodmorning.
I just saw your message.


Give Me tonight, tomorrow I will be tell you here

Ilekokonit:
You mean say dem connive use alum do natural (albeit temporary) vaginoplasty for the puna to deceive baba and baba ate the forbidden fruit and thought she was a virgin

This world is "deep" o.

dauntless15:
I realized that when you don't like someone everything they do is offensive in your eyes, even if they brought Jesus from heaven you'll see something else, what your hate is forcing you to see, you fit see say she bundle Satan from heaven, even if she bundled Satan which is something to be happy about you'll still find it offensive, reverse is the case when you like someone, when that person farts it smells like roses, I could bet my balls she didn't do half of what you're complaining about, but you already hate her and you're finding the silliest excuse to send her packing, oga an infection is not a good enough reason for this outburst, learn to love her, the fancy wife you're fantasizing about will send u to an early grave faster than the village girl you see as a nightmare, because other than the ugly you're shouting upandan I Neva see the your problem yet, a submissive, virgin, master's degree holder in this Nigeria and you still find a way to be whyning like a child.

Meteng:
I tire o. Graduate with masters come be village girl? You sure say dem no rub alum for puna on that first day give am make him knack?

tivity101:
I wonder how people bring their insensitivity to social media. How can you call your wife ugly village girl? I wanna believe you were raised in New York City. Foolish boy

November24:
Goodmorning.
I just saw your message.


Give Me tonight, tomorrow I will be tell you here

brain54:
Your mindset will never change...

I am always the last to advise a divorce but It's best if both of you stop frustrating each other in a loveless union. Especially now kids aren't involved. I think this is the first time I will do if infidelity isn't the case. But it's better than getting to the extent of ridiculing your own wife in public as an "ugly village woman". You go don frustrate her tire.

As for the infection there could be underlying health issues since you are sure both of you are faithful partners. And presumably you both treat yourselves together when infected so as not to experience re-infection from the other untreated person?

Allthingswork:
Okay. Just loggin in right now, to see your reply.

I am also gifted with dreams/night visions, so I would know if what you reveal is in tandem with my revelations.
Let's connect on WhatsApp, if you won't feel it's invading your privacy. Let s rub minds.

Good evening.

Caseless:
Don't announce this.

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!