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richmond500:
I am currently dating single mother of three.

tell us when you are done eating the coochie,and run away.

You better let the single momma be,than adding to her baggage

richmond500:
She gives me peace though and is very understanding.
The sex is great, the communication is topnotch, affection is mutual, the caring is too much sha, maybe because she is a mother.

I just like older women, so I am comfortable with her for now

Wife her first and then see yourself repeating all these characteristics in the opposite

D111:
let connect
My email: tiamiyudauda1986@gmail.com

you sef wan partake


Wuked boy

tiswell:
Wife her first and then see yourself repeating all these characteristics in the opposite

I don't plan to marry a single mom, but she's a good woman.

richmond500:
I don't plan to marry a single mom, but she's a good woman.

and that's what they are good for,fvck dem while it lasts.



Being a single momma automatically sentence you to become an alpha widow.

Samantha125:
It's not a crime... Maybe you should go for single fathers as well.

I had also always made sure to keep away from single fathers because I don't want to get in between someone and his or her father.

I'll only consider them if one day it happens that I'm also a single mother myself.

Samantha,

Stop whining. The other day, I told you let's get married, and you were indecisive.

Single father or single guy, you're not ready to marry.

You prefer to marry your cats, and give birth to cats.

Yahayaaminat123:
Thank you ... I really appreciate it...

Moreso , how you live your life while you're a single mother matters a lot and will determine if a good man will accept and values you again because people are watching every single of your steps . Even sometimes your baby father could reconsider you base on good life and reports he heard or seen while you're away .

Very funny...😂😂😂

onlinestaff247:
Samantha,

Stop whining. The other day, I told you let's get married, and you were indecisive.

Single father or single guy, you're not ready to marry.

You prefer to marry your cats, and give birth to cats.

Samantha125:
Very funny...😂😂😂

Samantha,


Are you a virgin? When would you get married? Don't forget that you ain't getting young anymore, right?

Once again, I would really love to be your soulmate and husband this year, and I mean it, sweetheart.

I love you so much!

I'm married...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

onlinestaff247:
Samantha,


Are you a virgin? When would you get married? Don't forget that you ain't getting young anymore, right?

Once again, I would really love to be your soulmate and husband this year, and I mean it, sweetheart.

I love you so much!

Samantha125:
I'm married...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Samantha,

You're not married. Stop telling lies, except maybe you're married to your two cats.

They are bittered people with baggages especially those who were once married. They become wise after foolishly loosing their marriage. Run away from them.

tiswell:
and that's what they are good for,fvck dem while it lasts.



Being a single momma automatically sentence you to become an alpha widow.

I just want a lady that will give me peace and not ask me for money

Yahayaaminat123:
He ran away

then what if or when you eventually found and marry a genuinely caring man.

And later same period your baby daddy comes back to take you back with cash, professing love to you. What will happen.

If you dodge this question, then that's another major reason men look away from single mothers

Yahayaaminat123:
Is single mom a crime or a deadly disease??

It's quite unfortunate but you allowed yourself be in this situation and the bitterness made you make that vow.

Answer some essential questions commenters have asked you and maybe just maybe, you may just have a bit of luck.

Namaster:
The issue is that my unfortunate ex boyfriend impregnated me and left me three years ago and since then I have vowed not to have anything with guys again...

This is MY point!

A woman who WILLINGLY lets an "unfortunate" man inseminate her is ALSO an "unfortunate" woman.

Irresponsibility is like a BODY ODOUR. You can NEVER hide it.
Even if it's masked with cologne, sooner or later it'll OOZE out like water out of a broken dam.

A man who will ABANDON his child will have a TON of red flags. Yet a woman still CHOSE to fucck him WITHOUT condom. And WITHOUT taking any birth control pills.

This points to a level of MENTAL INFIRMITY that sensible men must AVOID.

A single mother makes TERRIBLE choices.
They can INFECT you with their terrible decision -making and turn you into an "unfortunate" person like them.

Plus, a LOT of single mothers have a personal VENDETTA against ALL men. They think ALL men want to ABANDON them like their babby daddies did.

That TRAUMA makes them unhappy. They CANNOT allow themselves to be genuinely happy with ANY man because they think it's just a matter of time before he takes off.

They are JADED!
They are sentient BLACK HOLES that suck out positivity, excitement and happiness.

They laugh with reserve!
They love with reserve!
But they HATE with the fury of a thousand suns!!

ANY man who enters into a serious relationship with them will ATONE for a sin he did NOT commit.

Such a man will become like Jesus but WORSE because instead of becoming a Messiah in the end, he just becomes a LOSER.

A LOSER who pays and pays AND PAYS for a crime he did not commit.
He will WASTE his life to PROVE himself worthy to an UNWORTHY woman.

Dating/marrying a single mother is a life for the LOWLIEST of all LOSERS.
NOT for sensible men.

I love your constructive criticism, use of words, sentence construct and overall articulation.

You're prolly good at putting words together and it's evident in both of your submissions.

I doff my cap, OG!

blackgold2018:
then what if or when you eventually found and marry a genuinely caring man.

And later same period your baby daddy comes back to take you back with cash, professing love to you. What will happen.

If you dodge this question, then that's another major reason men look away from single mothers

Omo, see reasonable question potential partners suppose dey ask.

Jaapu:
Omo, see reasonable question potential partners suppose dey ask.

and she dodged the question finally🤣

To tell most ladies if not all cant get over completely of their baby daddy

Yahayaaminat123:
Is single mom a crime or a deadly disease??

It is a crime as it speaks to your mental abilities and decision-making process. Why get pregnant and have a child when you are not financially and emotionally ready to carry the responsibilities? I tend to avoid people who dont make good decisions like single mothers.

TheFinesseKid:
She already has. But she just doesn't know it yet. Or better yet is taking him for granted.

You no lie o....

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It’s not a crime..It’s just the stories concerning single mothers is alarming..

Chaiiiiiii guy you are just too merciless with this analysis ooo. But most of your points are hard truths

Namaster:
Single-motherhood is NOT a crime.
It's a DISEASE!

A highly CONTAGIOUS and DESTRUCTIVE disease.
Like LEPROSY on steroids.

MEN who avoid them are SENSIBLE men.

Being a single mother means YOU decided to have UNPROTECTED sex with an IRRESPONSIBLE man who ABANDONED his own child. UNLESS the father is dead.

IF you can make such a DEBILITATINGLY horrendous decision that alters your BODY and LIFE in unimaginable ways, then you can NEVER be trusted.

And that includes trust in your ability to be FAITHFUL.

Single-motherhood is PROOF that you make BAD choices.

In fact, it's proof that you made a SERIES of bad choices including:
1. Failure to use condom.
2. Willingness to fucck an irresponsible man.
3. Failure to use morning-after pills.
4. Putting pleasure OVER commonsense.
5. Fucking an irresponsible man WITHOUT condoms means GOD only knows how many STDs call your body home.

Apart from the above, ANY man who gets serious with a single mother will be OUTNUMBERED in his own family.

He's NOT marrying a woman. He's marrying a NUCLEAR family. That is father, mother and their BASTARDS.

He'll become the BREADWINNER of another man's family.

In short, single mothers are BAD NEWS in TOO many ways.

Smart men must DODGE them.

No be this Op dismantle Tenrack heart? 😂😂😂

You have really spoken well bro

Rich4god:
Sorry to say, but the experience people have with single moms is what is fueling the stigma on single mom.

A greater percentage of single mothers are toxic, wicked, loose and cant take care of the home. They can't even bring up their children in a morally way/manner.

Emphasis on "GREATER PERCENTAGE ". Especially those who are single mom out of wedlock or via divorce. Those who are single mum through death of their husband usually have the husbands family to help look after her and put her in check.

Before you come for my head, my comment is based on real life experience as it's part of what I do. I have even written a thread about it .

As a lady, the best thing you can do to your self is to avoid being a single mother.