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kestolove95:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating

immortalcrown:
Tell us what it is, so that we will know it.

kestolove95:
saving her d stress

cutecommend:
As a married person, do you face temptations to cheat or is it scarce in marriage? Is there pressure to cheat in marriage or is it minimal?

Samantha125:
I've never been tempted to cheat, but I have had some secret crushes here and there.

I think that's just part of life, there'll always be that one person that you find to be very attractive out there apart from your husband or wife... What matters is how you handle that crush.

Jesuspistol:
That one person for women. For men, it's usually not a one person thing. It's anywhere he feels sexually and respectably fulfilled.

Samantha125:
Same thing also applies with women...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Jesuspistol:
No. Monogamously, women cheat with who loves or gives them material things more.

No monogamy rules of nature for men, men are not obsessed with receiving things and men don't need love

Samantha125:
Then why do you think there are so many paternity frauds?

Jesuspistol:
Cus women cheat for the reason I mentioned earlier

Samantha125:
Sometimes is because they don't feel sexually fulfilled in their marriage.

Jesuspistol:
Ok true. Some women have strong sexual needs too but they usually get attached to one cheating partner unlike men.

Samantha125:
But we can still have various crushes even though we might be attached to one...

kestolove95:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating

mighty5050:
I know your wife. Let me forward screenshot asap.

kestolove95 How about she does the same thing to youpost=133589280:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating

kestolove95:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating

july21st:
Is that you in the picture on your profile. I like your booty. Can I be your crush. You can crush me with that booty. I don't mind. Crush me to death. Something must kill a man. 😍

blessedinnoma:
Am done with cheating this year. I have been cheating on my wife for 3 years now . Cheating is expensive and takes your peace of mind. Family! Family!! and family!!! 2025 and beyond.

Samantha125:
I've never been tempted to cheat, but I have had some secret crushes here and there.

I think that's just part of life, there'll always be that one person that you find to be very attractive out there apart from your husband or wife... What matters is how you handle that crush.

Namaster:
27% of DNA tests in the US prove that some man is raising a BASTARD.

That means if you know 4 married men, at least ONE of them is raising a BASTARD.

Put differently if you know 4 married women, ONE of them has cheated or is ACTIVELY cheating on her husband.

It gets CRAZY when you consider that NOT all fuccking leads to the birth of a child. Some use condoms. Some get abortions. Others are INFERTILE or just plain lucky.

So IF 27% is evidence that's backed by CHILDBIRTH, imagine the SHEER number of cheating that doesn't result in a child.

If you adjust for cheating that don't result in a child, the REAL number of women who has fucccked a man other than their partner is closer to 50%.

Factor in cheating from the HUSBANDS and the percentage of infidelity would be hovering around 70% or more.

Point is married people face temptations to cheat REGULARLY and MOST of them give in to the temptation.

But the BIGGER point is that marriage is an ANACHRONISTIC concept that does NOT belong in the society today.

essentialone1:
Temptations to cheat can arise in any relationship, including marriage. The likelihood and intensity of these temptations can vary greatly depending on individual circumstances, personal values, and relationship dynamics.

Some factors that might contribute to temptations or pressures to cheat in marriage include:

1. Unfulfilled emotional or physical needs: Unmet expectations or unresolved issues within the relationship can create vulnerabilities.
2. Opportunities and exposure: Increased social interactions, travel, or online connections can present opportunities for temptation.
3. Personal struggles or crises: Individual challenges, such as low self-esteem, stress, or addiction, can weaken one's commitment to their partner.
4. Lack of communication and intimacy: Poor communication, emotional disconnection, or decreased intimacy can create an environment where temptation may arise.
5. Societal and cultural influences: Exposure to infidelity in social circles, media, or cultural norms can desensitize individuals to the consequences of cheating.

It's essential to recognize that temptations are a normal part of life, and it's how individuals respond to them that matters. Couples can work together to build a strong, resilient relationship by:

1. Maintaining open communication: Regularly discussing feelings, needs, and concerns.
2. Fostering emotional intimacy: Prioritizing quality time, affection, and emotional connection.
3. Establishing trust and boundaries: Setting clear expectations and respecting each other's needs.
4. Cultivating a strong support system: Surrounding themselves with positive influences and supportive relationships.

Ultimately, whether temptations are scarce or plentiful in marriage depends on individual circumstances and relationship dynamics. By prioritizing communication, intimacy, and trust, couples can build a strong foundation for a healthy, faithful relationship.