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Nezy4Real:
I’m trying to move on but it’s difficult. Her mom and sisters know me very well and we have come a long way. I wanted to 4get her past life and move on with her but she is not helping matters. The chat I read about the abortion she did in the past is the most disturbing thing to me now.

She will kill you without thinking twice. U see red flag, you still want to enter the trap. Someone that did abortion, risking her own life. You want to mess up your own life

Nezy4Real:
I’m trying to move on but it’s difficult. Her mom and sisters know me very well and we have come a long way. I wanted to 4get her past life and move on with her but she is not helping matters. The chat I read about the abortion she did in the past is the most disturbing thing to me now.

Sorry my friend, how old are you? Are you currently doing something? This will help me to advice you better.By my age, l have long experienced in life, as an elderly person.

Nezy4Real:
This is someone I wish to marry. If I can’t be assured of her loyalty shouldn’t I be worried?

stop it and leave her alone,women are loyal to their feelings forget love na trap.

It is far less stressful to find good people than trying to change people into becoming good. Corrolary : there are no ideally good people.. there is always the animal side.. can u endure this animal side ?. Marriage is a dark market , until u re living together and pressure and fire and heat comes, u won't see this side. Can u endure a whoring animal side?

Nezy4Real:
I’m trying to move on but it’s difficult. Her mom and sisters know me very well and we have come a long way. I wanted to 4get her past life and move on with her but she is not helping matters. The chat I read about the abortion she did in the past is the most disturbing thing to me now.

True, the abortion issue should be disturbing to you because you don't know if that is the only abortion she has done and whether her womb is still intact.
Though it's difficult,try to forget her and move on.Since she is unwilling to change, you have to leave her and move on.
You can't put your life on hold because of her.
You will definitely meet a better person.

The two of you are birds of the same feather... Advise won't work on you both. Just continue deceiving yourselves. God go help una

Ringstonermasks:
is her name Silvia, so dat i can advise u from there.


Run from any Ijaw gal name Silvia, unless u wan die prematuredly..



Anyways, it not easy to find peace when u are dating a Nigerian gal. I could have been in the USA by now if not for my ex in the University. She plummeted me to the past lyk 5 years behind... If not for my current wife, my ex emotional damage to me would have driven me to utter madness.


In sincerity, this is a common thing in a gal. Any gal that tells u she is holy or av a tiny titties for moral is either lying or she has Insomnia thus forgetting her own life.

U need to do like the way guys lyk us do. We lure dem with luv and fucck and move on. Only my wife means something to me.

I can't even count the number of married woman i av touched in Abuja. Even a neighbor close to my office that is always proud of his wife, well, i had my pounds of flesh from her and since then, she has been showing me attitude cause i discarded her.


If u invest ur feelings in a woman, d only interest you will get is heart break. D only good gals are the dead ones. The ones that died during the civil war. Of cos except my wife, my mother and sisters...

If u are in Abuja, i can link u up with any spec of lady u lyk... bt get ur pocket ready to settle bills lyk a real man and to pay for hotels... u don't av to give dem money.

If u are ugly and dirty, don't just bother.

we Dey fu.C ur sisters here bro dem no holy pass

Nezy4Real:
This is someone I wish to marry. If I can’t be assured of her loyalty shouldn’t I be worried?

Rule no.1.... you can't wife a LovePeddler⚠️

Rule no.2.... once a girl turns a LovePeddler she's a LovePeddler forever!!!!


You should be so worried about making money in this life, because as a man 99% of how good your life will be after school is only dependent of whether you make money or not.

I can deduce that op is a simp!

Nezy4Real:
This is someone I wish to marry. If I can’t be assured of her loyalty shouldn’t I be worried?

Obviously U are the famous simp. Don't marry

Nezy4Real:
This is someone I wish to marry. If I can’t be assured of her loyalty shouldn’t I be worried?

Abort such mission please, your regret it if you marry her, she needs therapy not marriage...

YoshihideSuga:
For you to mention the bold, it means you don experience some things 😂😂😂

Desusi:
Sorry my friend, how old are you? Are you currently doing something? This will help me to advice you better.By my age, l have long experienced in life, as an elderly person.

I’m 27 years old. Yes, I’m currently employed.

Augustine2244:
True, the abortion issue should be disturbing to you because you don't know if that is the only abortion she has done and whether her womb is still intact.
Though it's difficult,try to forget her and move on.Since she is unwilling to change, you have to leave her and move on.
You can't put your life on hold because of her.
You will definitely meet a better person.

Exactly why I am really disturbed. Anytime I confront her with this issue she always cry her eyes out and apologize remorsefully. My major concern now is the issue of the abortion in the past.

While the comments were pouring in here, she came to my house to talk things through. I asked her if she cares about herself why is she going back to the people that caused her pain. She keeps begging that I should forgive her that she doesn’t chat them up except they message her. I asked why she still has their contact even after 4 years, she tried to give one excuse or the other. My final comment to her was, I don’t have any response for her that I will have to do my own consultations from family and friends before I know the next line of action.

Nezy4Real:
Hmmm! I want to move on but I don’t know how to. But anytime I remember those things she did my heart break.

youngman, did you say you don't know how to move on?
let me tell you this about yourself that you don't know. By true assumption

1. You are older than her by age
2. You are more logical than her
3. You are morally upright than her
4 You are more sound academically than her
5. There are better gals you should take focus to but you don't want to

But ironically you don't talk and look like sm1 that posses all these features.

If you are asking the qtn of weda to move on or not then the education you received should be questioned.

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Nezy4Real:
I This is the same person I took to see my dad last week. I’m in such a dilemma right now, either to end things with her and move on or to bullshit those things and continue dating her.

Please guys I need your contributions

U found out u are dating a prostituté...good for you....many men like you never found out until it was too late.....so what dilemma are you in ??
Is the pvssy that sweet?,


Are you 45 years old u don't know how to start with another decent lady??
have you invested 30million in her life ?
or it's just lust thats controlling you head...??

U are trying to form good boy by not judging her past... wèrèy...ur egungun don nearly reach express

.pvssy wey every body dey chop waka...e reach your turn..u wan die there.... Well done....

gerizzim:
youngman, did you say you don't know how to move on?
let me tell you this about yourself that you don't know. By true assumption

1. You are older than her by age
2. You are more logical than her
3. You are morally upright than her
4 You are more sound academically than her
5. There are better gals you should take focus to but you don't want to

But ironically you don't talk and look like sm1 that posses all these features.

If you are asking the qtn of weda to move on or not then the education you received should be questioned.

Thank you for this. I will have to do the needful.

Nezy4Real:
Exactly why I am really disturbed. Anytime I confront her with this issue she always cry her eyes out and apologize remorsefully. My major concern now is the issue of the abortion in the past.

While the comments were pouring in here, she came to my house to talk things through. I asked her if she cares about herself why is she going back to the people that caused her pain. She keeps begging that I should forgive her that she doesn’t chat them up except they message her. I asked why she still has their contact even after 4 years, she tried to give one excuse or the other. My final comment to her was, I don’t have any response for her that I will have to do my own consultations from family and friends before I know the next line of action.

Is there any thing to consult in this mata.?

you are the one that is the problem to yourself not even the gal. As sm1 said above me, advice won't work on you.

Was once hoe,is always a hoe.Young men,do not be deceived by them, saying they're changed now o..

@OP Don't ignore red flag.. that girl won't change.
All your sermon fell on deaf ears, so what makes you think she'll behave herself when you marry her?.. You were busy forming counsellor while the girl was thinking about the next gbola she'd jump on, complete waste of time and energy.

Nezy4Real:
Hmmm! I want to move on but I don’t know how to. But anytime I remember those things she did my heart break.

seems you are desperate to settle down before you met this slut.

You maybe one of the guys who value biig yansh and fucking skills on a girl above self respect, trust, loyalty and truth from a partner. Also, she may cry when you confront her and blackmail you subtly by wondering why you will breakup instead of fighting for her. You are emotionally weak to have even seek our validation before doing the needful.

Marriage cannot last because you will forever not trust her. She is not going to change because women like her do not change- they only become more creepy and sneaky that you will never catch her though she continues

You will die of STD or be childless if you marry her and that will make you more frustrated about the marriage.

Now forget the fact that you are 40 years and there is pressure on your head to settle down. Go for another girl. Expand your fishing net outside your limited religious or tribal circle. Don't ever go for a campus gurl or dullard again. Do you want her to born dullards for you? Look for single working class ladies.

Don't you like a good life?

zed7:
Do you know the meaning of marriage? If you are considering marrying someone like that, it shows you have a low IQ.

He's mid and a simp also. His type do learn the hardway

Sleeknigga:
we Dey fu.C ur sisters here bro dem no holy pass

eyah, my sister is in The United States and South Africa, both of them are happily married.


You can not even approach them with ur wretchedness and poverty stricken stench.

Instead of u to think of how to improve ur life and take urself from poverty, you're busy saying nonsense that u can never do in life.

na poverty to kee u

Ringstonermasks:
eyah, my sister is in The United States and South Africa, both of them are happily married.


You can not even approach them with ur wretchedness and poverty stricken stench.

Instead of u to think of how to improve ur life and take urself from poverty, you're busy saying nonsense that u can never do in life.

na poverty to kee u

southafriva wey hiv choke your sister is a carrier wether you accept or not
The one wey for US wey don carry belle for exconvict turn baby mama mumu man

Olachase:
if we study case of things very well this girl is more intelligent than you,

Like you won marry public hotspot 🤣🤣

So mumu men till plenty for this Life na WA hoo

men like that place too much value on damaged products thinking they can mend them

Ode say him heart break no go make more money ...

Nezy4Real:
Hmmm! I want to move on but I don’t know how to. But anytime I remember those things she did my heart break.

Amsickindahead:
That bitch belongs to the street bro,she ought to be ur sex slave by banging the shit outta dat hoe instead u thinking bout wifey her..U got a very low street OT.

e fit shock you say him never even f.uck her

Keep on digging your grave because it's this kind of nonsense relationship you are born for, abi?

Nezy4Real:
I make sure I use every chance I get to counsel and advise her not to make same kind of mistakes that brought her back in her new school and she also felt she will never do such again considering what she has passed through.
But yesterday as I was going through her phone I was shocked to see that this girl still occasionally chat with one of her exes. I could remember it was the same person she lied to me to go and see in another state while she was battling her probation issue in school. I was so furious and felt stupid. I decided to dig deeper into her Facebook chat history and what I saw break me so bad. Since yesterday I haven’t felt okay. Apparently she was seeing different men and exchanging nudes with them, sex chatting with one. I also learnt she was pregnant at some point and aborted for one from the chat. Some of these things happened while we were already friends while some happened before I met her. I didn’t want to judge her but this new information I discovered about her past life is killing me. This is the same person I took to see my dad last week. I’m in such a dilemma right now, either to end things with her and move on or to bullshit those things and continue dating her.

Please guys I need your contributions

Contributions? We should come and fu(c)k het too?

Sleeknigga:
southafriva wey hiv choke your sister is a carrier wether you accept or not
The one wey for US wey don carry belle for exconvict turn baby mama mumu man

lol

e pain u... see ur dull come back