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Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 10:19am On Jan 09, 2025
hopedey:
I preferred bj than sex
BJ?

If am a woman, i can never give any man BJ not even my husband.

To contact infection orally is the worse
Re: I Hate Sex by hopedey: 10:20am On Jan 09, 2025
Bendeco02:
BJ?

If am a woman, i can never give any man BJ not even my husband.

To contact infection orally is the worse
You're saying this because you're not a woman
Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02:
hopedey:
You're saying this because you're not a woman
Oga
Do women derive pressure in BJ too?

Foolish women are just doing it for money

Mouth is meant for only kiss while making love not to insert your gbola

I imagine how some of them even feel comfortable eating with same mouth after they swallor prick undecided

All of these is just for lust. The mind control everything

How will BJ satifies you? As you say you like only BJ

Someone like me, if you give me BJ for 10 hours i can never ejaculate. Have tried it two times, she said it will make me ejaculate as we nack for over 1hr but no feeling.
Re: I Hate Sex by tctrills: 10:26am On Jan 09, 2025
Bbb007:
Ok you prefer to be a male simp he go*t than being a decent human.
Enjoy your brothels business.
Let's educate ourselves a bit before making comments here. It's not healthy to hate or dislike sex. As humans, we are created to love sex. Your sexual organs are rich in nerve endings. You have hormones that secrete and increase sexual pleasure.
When you no longer enjoy sex, that's a problem.

Here are simple reasons why someone might hate or dislike sex:

Bad Experiences:
If someone was hurt or abused in the past during sexual experiences, they might fear or hate sex.
Mental Health:
Feeling stressed, anxious, or depressed can make sex unappealing or stressful.
Not liking how you look or feeling bad about yourself can make sex less enjoyable.
Physical Pain:
If sex hurts because of health problems, like painful conditions, it can make someone avoid it.
Medications:
Some medicines, like those for depression, can lower your interest in sex.
Not Feeling Close or Attracted:
If you're not emotionally close or attracted to your partner, sex might not feel good.
Beliefs:
Growing up with strict religious or cultural views about sex can make you feel guilty or ashamed.
Being Asexual:
Some people just don't feel sexual attraction, so sex isn't interesting to them.
Relationship Problems:
If you're fighting with your partner or not communicating well, sex can feel like a chore.
Feeling Too Much:
For some, the sensations of sex might be too overwhelming, leading to discomfort.
Pressure from Society:
Feeling like you have to enjoy sex because everyone else does can make you dislike it if it's not what you want.

If you feel this way, talking to a therapist, especially one who specializes in sexual issues, can help sort out why you feel this way and what to do about it.
Re: I Hate Sex by WeNoGoDie(m): 10:40am On Jan 09, 2025
The most overated empty but demon influenced activity on earth.
Re: I Hate Sex by ezegenigbonine: 10:45am On Jan 09, 2025
This guy or girl have not had good sex. Maybe the partners you have sex with is too open that you did not enjoy it. You need ikpu na agba mmiri guy
Re: I Hate Sex by GloriousGbola: 10:54am On Jan 09, 2025
ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..

Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 10:57am On Jan 09, 2025
ezegenigbonine:
This guy or girl have not had good sex. Maybe the partners you have sex with is too open that you did not enjoy it. You need ikpu na agba mmiri guy
Whether igba mmiri or not
Will the mmiri enhance the enjoyment if your mind is not fully there?

You're enjoying the mmiri because your mindset has been channeled there. It can irritate some people.

One of the thing i hate after sex is the feminine/pussy smell. After taking my bath, it will be as if am still perceiving in around me
Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 11:00am On Jan 09, 2025
Sex is just overrated

Someone like me, the only thing that can attract me to a girl after sex is her personality/character.

Once i have sex with a girl, no matter how beautiful or endowed she is, i will just loose interest in her. May not call her again unless she calls

And i can't stay with a particular girl for more than three days. She will just loose value for my eyes

I wonder how i will cope with marriage sha
Re: I Hate Sex by hopedey: 11:11am On Jan 09, 2025
Bendeco02:
Oga
Do women derive pressure in BJ too?

Foolish women are just doing it for money

Mouth is meant for only kiss while making love not to insert your gbola

I imagine how some of them even feel comfortable eating with same mouth after they swallor prick undecided

All of these is just for lust. The mind control everything

How will BJ satifies you? As you say you like only BJ

Someone like me, if you give me BJ for 10 hours i can never ejaculate. Have tried it two times, she said it will make me ejaculate as we nack for over 1hr but no feeling.
Girl na suck your balls
Re: I Hate Sex by doncartel: 11:12am On Jan 09, 2025
My own fear is to die on top woman. I feel the hottest part of hell is reserved for men who died on top of woman.

That’s where you meet people like Abacha, King Solomon, Baltazar, Tpain and others. They also receive 24 strokes daily there.
Re: I Hate Sex by danzaki63: 11:12am On Jan 09, 2025
God, dont allow us lose this one to the left !!!!!!! this is how they start.
Re: I Hate Sex by Helloworld123: 11:13am On Jan 09, 2025
Iweakbro:
Little kid. From all the bullshit you typed, you're scared of responsibilities and consequences for your ACTIONS.

As for money, we will all spend money on something we like, clothes, accessories, cars, drinks, smoke, women, supplements, hairs, phones, etc. The excuse of wasting money and time is a dumb one too.

Only a food will make statements without research. Sex has lots of benefits for your body. As for infection, you could get a consistent sexual partner and run periodic tests and treatment if necessary.

For viruses, all you need do is get vaccinated for HPV and the like. For HIV, get your PreP and take it as directed.

If your reason wasn't based on fear, I wouldn't quote you, but I hate to see a weak male who chickens out at the slightest discomfort.
What about herpes, hepatitis and many others? How often do you recommend taking pep after every exposure? Have you even used it before?

I think it's just irresponsible to parade one's self as a strong adult to justify putting one's self at all these risks for a pressure of 10 mins max.
Re: I Hate Sex by BABANGBALI: 11:17am On Jan 09, 2025
Sex, the sweetest thing in the world especially if you do am with Calabar girls, idoma girls, tiv girls, Ondo girls, ijebu girls, Kaduna girls, igala girls, Borno girls and two others wey I don forget
Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 11:43am On Jan 09, 2025
BABANGBALI:
Sex, the sweetest thing in the world especially if you do am with Calabar girls, idoma girls, tiv girls, Ondo girls, ijebu girls, Kaduna girls, igala girls, Borno girls and two others wey I don forget
You're just typing according to what you heard?
Have you had sex with women from those states? undecided
Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 11:44am On Jan 09, 2025
BABANGBALI:
Sex, the sweetest thing in the world especially if you do am with Calabar girls, idoma girls, tiv girls, Ondo girls, ijebu girls, Kaduna girls, igala girls, Borno girls and two others wey I don forget
Re: I Hate Sex by Tegabadguy(m): 11:46am On Jan 09, 2025
ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..
i swear both of us are the same .......i hate sex
Re: I Hate Sex by Opeyemic01: 11:51am On Jan 09, 2025
TotoIsGud4boy:
Toto is Good for Boys!!! You haven’t had a girl 4uck you in a way that just mentally corrupts you and takes you to another realm. Else you won’t be making such baseless and foolish statements.
This is so true; a lady Bleep me wetin no good, I enjoyed it; the irony is now that we are no longer an item, I enjoy the memory more than having to do it again with her. Sex is psychological.
Re: I Hate Sex by Tegabadguy(m): 11:53am On Jan 09, 2025
tctrills:
Let's educate ourselves a bit before making comments here. It's not healthy to hate or dislike sex. As humans, we are created to love sex. Your sexual organs are rich in nerve endings. You have hormones that secrete and increase sexual pleasure.
When you no longer enjoy sex, that's a problem.

Here are simple reasons why someone might hate or dislike sex:

Bad Experiences:
If someone was hurt or abused in the past during sexual experiences, they might fear or hate sex.
Mental Health:
Feeling stressed, anxious, or depressed can make sex unappealing or stressful.
Not liking how you look or feeling bad about yourself can make sex less enjoyable.
Physical Pain:
If sex hurts because of health problems, like painful conditions, it can make someone avoid it.
Medications:
Some medicines, like those for depression, can lower your interest in sex.
Not Feeling Close or Attracted:
If you're not emotionally close or attracted to your partner, sex might not feel good.
Beliefs:
Growing up with strict religious or cultural views about sex can make you feel guilty or ashamed.
Being Asexual:
Some people just don't feel sexual attraction, so sex isn't interesting to them.
Relationship Problems:
If you're fighting with your partner or not communicating well, sex can feel like a chore.
Feeling Too Much:
For some, the sensations of sex might be too overwhelming, leading to discomfort.
Pressure from Society:
Feeling like you have to enjoy sex because everyone else does can make you dislike it if it's not what you want.

If you feel this way, talking to a therapist, especially one who specializes in sexual issues, can help sort out why you feel this way and what to do about it.
how come you known all this ....
Re: I Hate Sex by tctrills: 11:56am On Jan 09, 2025
Tegabadguy:
how come you known all this ....
Just read and you will know. Knowledge is not hidden.
Re: I Hate Sex by tctrills: 12:01pm On Jan 09, 2025
Bendeco02:
Sex is just overrated

Someone like me, the only thing that can attract me to a girl after sex is her personality/character.

Once i have sex with a girl, no matter how beautiful or endowed she is, i will just loose interest in her. May not call her again unless she calls

And i can't stay with a particular girl for more than three days. She will just loose value for my eyes

I wonder how i will cope with marriage sha
If sex is overrated, are you willing to collect N100,000 and never have sex again?
Re: I Hate Sex by Tegabadguy(m): 12:02pm On Jan 09, 2025
tctrills:
Just read and you will know. Knowledge is not hidden.
after reading what you wrote.is like you are taking to me
Re: I Hate Sex by freakyavia: 12:03pm On Jan 09, 2025
Bbb007:
Ok you prefer to be a male simp he go*t than being a decent human.
Enjoy your brothels business.
you are being giving options you are lashing out
you are suicidal that's my opinion
Re: I Hate Sex by imustsaymymindo: 12:06pm On Jan 09, 2025
"All energies are sexual" - Sigmund Freud.

The energy from arousal and the eventual pleasure of sex are two things that can keep you in a sane mind in a cold world.

For infections, don't be scared. The approach I think can work is, if you have multiple sexual partners, only one should be raw at a time - others done with protection. That raw one, do the viral and other tests for the person. The viral results are released immediately, so you can knack raw when confirmed negative - given that other factors seem good(such as a hole with a nice scent, no discharges, and you can guarantee she doesn't leave your sight for the period). Worst case scenario, if any of the other tests such as any of the bacteria come out positive after 3 days, you can begin treatment immediately - at that point, the concentration shouldn't be high and can be attacked early. Even the viral can be suppressed within the 3 days if the test is done after the knacks. Replace the person you have raw sex with once they are not in your sight - and repeat the test process for the next choice of raw. You would be surprised that in committed relationships and marriages that should ordinarily be safer, people still contract STDs steadily due to blind trust. Sex is expensive, but constant testing is worth it anyway- the tests might even reveal other symptoms of underlying sickness you or your raw partner may have. So that one day, they won't just mistakenly die in your house. grin The logic is, that the individuals who have more tests and take care of their sexual health would have fewer infections. That's why you could even be safer in the arms of a prostitute grin. At least we are better than our ancestors, who only must have had sex raw - even maybe with prostitutes. grin.

For getting pregnant with the one you are having raw sex with, have some sexual education on ovulation, safe periods, etc. Don't behave responsibly and behave broke if you can grin. No one wants to be pregnant by an irresponsible person, even when they mistakenly do - they may push it to the responsible person grin, Let her know your other sexual partners - you may even have 3somes and n-somes and show how irresponsible you are.

For emotions - what sort of emotions do you want during or after sex? Leave the lovey-dovey for women. The feeling of dominance, the rush of oxytocin, dopamine, and others that come with sex are beautiful rewards you get for it.

For waste of time and money - You are probably spending too much time and money for the sexual value you are getting. You can't blame sex for this. You can only blame you. Fix your habits. Learn game.
Re: I Hate Sex by josh123(m): 12:07pm On Jan 09, 2025
ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..
Sex is overrated, the only thing that tempt a man is their feminine body and shape but once u enter there u go see say na notin dey there. There is no sweetness when u go in and out, the only sweetness is when u are about to cum, that's all...
Re: I Hate Sex by BABANGBALI: 12:08pm On Jan 09, 2025
Bendeco02:
You're just typing according to what you heard?
Have you had sex with women from those states? undecided
ignored button activated
Re: I Hate Sex by tctrills: 12:10pm On Jan 09, 2025
Tegabadguy:
after reading what you wrote.is like you are taking to me
Really? How so?
Re: I Hate Sex by Tegabadguy(m): 12:13pm On Jan 09, 2025
tctrills:
Really? How so?
i hate sex ..
Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 12:16pm On Jan 09, 2025
tctrills:
If sex is overrated, are you willing to collect N100,000 and never have sex again?
Is like you have comprehension issue

That something is overrated doesn't mean it's not sweet. We have been programmed by our creator that we must need it.

What is 100k for not to have sex again.

You should have said 100k to not have sex for two weeks. I can accept it
Re: I Hate Sex by Bendeco02: 12:19pm On Jan 09, 2025
BABANGBALI:
ignored button activated
You type never even had sex outside your tribe grin
Una go just dey open mouth online
Re: I Hate Sex by tctrills: 12:22pm On Jan 09, 2025
Bendeco02:
Is like you have comprehension issue

That something is overrated doesn't mean it's not sweet. We have been programmed by our creator that we must need it.

What is 100k for not to have sex again.

You should have said 100k to not have sex for two weeks. I can accept it
So when you say something is overrated, its value is much less than its present going rate. If you value sex more than 100k then it may not be overrated as you say. Since you say 100k is too small how about 500k? Or let's go straight to a million naira. You should rate a million naira more than sex, right?
Re: I Hate Sex by tctrills: 12:23pm On Jan 09, 2025
Tegabadguy:
i hate sex ..
Wow. It is not natural?
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