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Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Talkisneeded(m): 2:25pm On Jan 06, 2025
This kind of scam still exist sha, one of guys felled for it in 2020..

I sell herbs tho
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Tegabadguy(m): 4:20pm On Jan 06, 2025
grin grin grin grin grin grin NUGU
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by tojahh(m): 12:01am On Jan 07, 2025
She never talk true. She still pay 3rd billing. Shame no let her talk am lol grin
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by meobizy(m): 8:31am On Jan 11, 2025
These young women just want to be men's liabilities. Sadly, men their ages can only offer sex and nothing else.
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Ishilove: 8:33am On Jan 11, 2025
This format don cast since na. Mscheeeeeeeeeew
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Ofadaman(m): 8:35am On Jan 11, 2025
He didn't scam her, she fell to her on greed, she wasn't doing it out of love ,she wanted the package and that's how she fell for the old time scripted scsm
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Ishilove: 8:36am On Jan 11, 2025
dominique:
One of the oldest scam formats, nobody should be falling for such in this 2020s
As in. I'm surprised Nigerians are still falling for such an ancient format
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by PulaPower: 8:37am On Jan 11, 2025
dominique:
One of the oldest scam formats, nobody should be falling for such in this 2020s
No be everybody dey up to date o..
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by redcliff: 8:39am On Jan 11, 2025
DaddyCoool:
I just don't understand how a person can set out to scam another human being
You did it in your own little way, did you ever steal from your mothers pot? Did you ever inflate the price of school materials or fees or did you also try to outsmart someone ypu had a dealing with? No matter how small it is, you did thr exact thing like that giy but onna lower dimension.
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Bar1941(m): 8:45am On Jan 11, 2025
You should be happy he didn’t scam your body as well.

Mumu girl, why should anyone send £200 with such package when he can easily send it to your account. That should have been a red flag!
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by epainos: 8:45am On Jan 11, 2025
Most victims of Nigerian scams lose either by becoming victims of 419 or by losing good people in the name of caution. To detect relationship or friendship fraud is simple, but greed is one of the causes. That lady could have consulted someone who could have guided her, but she wan chop the whole gifts without sharing. Lol. Did I even blame her? Other girls are ready to snatch London or US bobo from her if she let the cat out of the bag. Lol. And then, those over cautious ones .....chai! They still feel they are not victims, but what those people have lost.....mehn.

I value relationship, loyalty, friendship, companionship so much, so, I can't afford to lose my Jonathans. Now that technology has eliminated traditional methods of introducing partners to one another, you should take full advantage of it. If you find a Jonathan who is committed to your Davidic mission, do not let him or her go. However, some people who live abroad and have never visited Nigeria consistently prove to be more intelligent than everyone else. Going from one person to the next, checking everything and even cross-checking with everyone they encountered. Lol. Those ones are the real victims. Losing a wonderful friend is tragic.

God bless you all.
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Ringstonermasks: 8:50am On Jan 11, 2025
lol

Man nor die, man nor rotten
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by lexy2014: 8:52am On Jan 11, 2025
DaddyCoool:
I just don't understand how a person can set out to scam another human being
why was she expecting free things?

Jude claimed he was based in the UK and mentioned he would be visiting Nigeria for Christmas. He even offered to bring her gifts and asked what she would like. She requested a bag and a dress, and Jude promised to deliver.

A few days later, he told her he had already shipped the items, even sending her a tracking link. To her surprise, the package seemed much more elaborate than she expected. Along with the bag and dress, the tracking information showed an iPhone 11 Pro Max, shoes, perfume, chocolates, and more. Jude explained that the package had been shipped to Abuja instead of Lagos, so she needed to arrange home delivery herself.

She called the courier service and opted for delivery by road, paying ₦12,500. However, things quickly became suspicious. The courier called back, claiming the package couldn't pass through the scanner due to its contents. Jude then revealed that he had placed £200 in cash in the package for her expenses—but also included some "drugs." Alarmed but still trusting him, she paid an additional ₦35,000 to "settle" the situation.
she saw "drugs", and she went ahead to pay N35,000 because she wan collect free 200 pounds and iPhone.

you have never met a man physically and you want to collect free gifts just like that. is that not being fraudulent?

her greed got the better of her
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Greenback: 9:01am On Jan 11, 2025
Dem scam her of her hair and pedicure money 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by soojar(m): 9:04am On Jan 11, 2025
Glimpsetv:
A young lady has shared her unfortunate experience of being scammed by someone she met on Tinder. The story highlights how trust and excitement can be manipulated by online predators.

It all started in 2021 when she matched with a man named Jude on Tinder. Their conversations were great, and they quickly transitioned to chatting on WhatsApp. Jude claimed he was based in the UK and mentioned he would be visiting Nigeria for Christmas. He even offered to bring her gifts and asked what she would like. She requested a bag and a dress, and Jude promised to deliver.

A few days later, he told her he had already shipped the items, even sending her a tracking link. To her surprise, the package seemed much more elaborate than she expected. Along with the bag and dress, the tracking information showed an iPhone 11 Pro Max, shoes, perfume, chocolates, and more. Jude explained that the package had been shipped to Abuja instead of Lagos, so she needed to arrange home delivery herself.

She called the courier service and opted for delivery by road, paying ₦12,500. However, things quickly became suspicious. The courier called back, claiming the package couldn't pass through the scanner due to its contents. Jude then revealed that he had placed £200 in cash in the package for her expenses—but also included some "drugs." Alarmed but still trusting him, she paid an additional ₦35,000 to "settle" the situation.

The next day, a supposed delivery rider contacted her, saying he was on his way with her package. Hours passed, and when she called him, he claimed the police had stopped him, searched the package, and confiscated it after finding drugs. The rider demanded more money to retrieve the package, claiming it was a federal crime.

At this point, the lady became suspicious. She asked for the officer's number and called, but the person on the line demanded ₦250,000 to release the package. Realizing the absurdity of the situation, she reached out to Jude—only to find that he had blocked her.

Reflecting on the incident, she described how the scam unraveled: "This idiot blocked me, and that was when it hit me—I had been scammed!"

Her story serves as a cautionary tale about being cautious with online relationships and transactions. Please, let’s all be careful out there.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwBZfcTNrxU
The section in bold above shows the kind of person you are. Somebody said he included drugs in your package and you still went along to send money to get the drugs delivered to you. What did you intend to do with the drugs or you don't know you are indirectly confirming that you are criminally minded yourself?

You may cheat an honest man but you can NEVER dupe an honest man.


We learn every day
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Arrowhead71: 9:05am On Jan 11, 2025
haphizz57:
Swear u neva chop man transport or airtime b4.
2/4 no issue
what are you saying, the scammer has use this method to scam many people, and a scammer will never give a victim money because they don’t have money and mind you those scammers are in Nigeria not based abroad
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Nukilia: 9:06am On Jan 11, 2025
It's only a matter of time, the scammer will be charred at the stakes no matter how old he becomes...
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Arrowhead71: 9:12am On Jan 11, 2025
Psady:
You hear drug is in the package and still carried on ... See how the love for money and material things render this one senseless.
the drug format was included after she made the first payment of 12,500, and she just feel like her money should not be lost, but the overall thing is when a package is sent to you by a supposedly generous giver and require you to pay any money, just know at that point that the whole thing is scam
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Uranos: 9:20am On Jan 11, 2025
It's a matter of the hunter who became the hunted 😄😄😄
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by omoadeleye(m): 9:21am On Jan 11, 2025
AdolfHitlerxXx:
Materialistic girls sicken me.

Tinder in most countries is a lot of fun except in Nigeria.

Girls in MOST countries are upfront about what they want - sex, relationships or transactional.

Nigerian girls on Tinder, 99.9999% say " I'm stubborn" , "I'm a gold digger" and "I'm here to eat your money"

How would you expect anything positive after that ?
Even Dangote, a trillionaire wouldn't want to hear "I am here to eat your money"
You haven't watch TINDER SWINDLER before you conclude that only Nigerians use the site to scam.

Most ignorants like you are one of the problems Nigeria is battling with
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Chetas81(m): 9:22am On Jan 11, 2025
DaddyCoool:
I just don't understand how a person can set out to scam another human being
Those are the demoralise citizens living in Nigeria
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by jojothaiv(m): 9:26am On Jan 11, 2025
IfyAwazie:
Trust nobody
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Codes151(m): 9:40am On Jan 11, 2025
she iss a greedy thief
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Monday60655(m): 10:07am On Jan 11, 2025
Both of you are all scammers, just that you were scammed by a bigger scammer.
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by udemzyudex(m): 10:10am On Jan 11, 2025
Lol.. This format still dey catch people?
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by BoldBrainz(m): 10:14am On Jan 11, 2025
This is actually an ongoing fraud scheme and I encountered a real-time victim just four days ago.

A friend messaged me on WhatsApp asking if I could help track a package that had arrived Abuja from South Africa. He sent me the courier manifest but curiously, there was no tracking number. Just an Abuja address was attached.

As I no dey Abuja, I rang up a homie and sent him to the Garki address affixed. The office didn't exist and apparently, the girl whom the package had been meant for, had already paid about 35K to some make-believe delivery guy for the iPhone 14 she was about to receive, even before the whole affair got to me.

These fraudsters seem to be targeting young women and desperation is making a lot of them fall easy victims.

I sha made sure they covered my homie's transport cost for that small waka. Some women can be dull sha.
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by pretydiva(f): 10:22am On Jan 11, 2025
This format is stale nau. Who still falls for this or Abi na old news be this ni?🙄🤷‍♀️
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Hisroyalbadmeat(m): 10:27am On Jan 11, 2025
Her mouth is too wide,Her Local government area go wide too, undecided
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by Snowx: 10:30am On Jan 11, 2025
You hear he dey UK..your head bursted... hahahahhahahahah...Tinder ladies Na hookups..just few like 5% are real
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by YaQsGaYa(m): 10:33am On Jan 11, 2025
You never see anything
Re: Lady Scammed By A Guy She Met On Tinder (Photos, Video) by dominique(mod): 10:43am On Jan 11, 2025
Ishilove:
As in. I'm surprised Nigerians are still falling for such an ancient format
Greed and desperation blind the eyes to a lot of things.
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