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SIMP!

udomonday:
➜You have the mentality of a kid.you are not ripe enough for marriage.in marriage people come together to compliment and support one another.you don't marry a woman to take care of her as if she is a sick and disabled person. any woman that goes into a relationship with the mentality that the man is supposed to sorely take care of her every need and want is not a good choice for a wife.

This notion is very wrong! 😏

As you rightly said, in marriage people come together to complement and support each other. Nothing wrong for a man with money to marry himself a woman whom he would support financially for her to complement and support him in other ways. I mean look at someone like Ned Nwoko and that gal he married. He provides her financial support while she supports him in other ways.

OP's particular issue here is that, without having the ability to financially provide he chose to date a woman who desires to have a man who will provide her with financial support. And after discovering this, rather than disengage, OP continues to hold on to her against common sense! The woman's desire isn't the problem but rather OP refuses to let go of what he is aware he cannot handle. Of course, the woman should also consider letting OP go but that does not in any way remove OP from fault here.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

I know you're in your 20s.... That is how you boys think. Don't love blindly.

Namaster:
Women never DEMAND money from a man they love.

She'd accept your little support if you offer it but she'd NEVER demand it.

Instead, she will make EXCUSES for your lack of money.
A woman who loves you is SATISFIED with your body and attention.

But when love wanes, the DEMAND for money takes its place.

OP you see this point, listen to it very well. It is very true.

Stupid SIMP

She is a gold digger. You will be better off nipping your relationship with her in the bud to protect your finances. Don't hesitate.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

No kill yourself because of any woman. No be you cause her financial lack and if you break up today she will move on to another man to provide her needs.

You are not her God and she should ask her God to provide her needs. No kill yourself because you feel that she is the best thing in your life at the moment.

We Nigerian men need to break out of the messiah / saviour complex we have ALL been conditioned with by our society to think that we have to be responsible for ALL of our woman's financial needs even if it means denying our self many things just to please a woman and in the process, we carry too much load that God had not placed on our head and we almost worry ourselves to death trying to satisfy a woman's needs.

You're just a fool...
There are signs she's showing you to let know to her be in her place for your sanity, but love no go gree you get sense..lol

U wan marry girl wey need money.
Sha don't sell ur kidney

Hello pls I need a car to drive for Uber / bolt work , I have a guarantor and I live in a secured environment for car safety ..

Pls I need to work and we can talk on weekly remittance

God bless.

Mumu man!

Ndubuisi,pls run oooh.

I won't say more than this.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Nairaland and mumu topics to move traffic…. Ah…..

Flee my brother..

Bros na Lot later born you, cos I see now that you are going through a lot.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Bro that girl you love you o. na your money she dey find.
And you sef you never jam girl wey love you before na why you never know. Anyways dem no dey advise for dey in love

Marry her, na. Make we see if happily ever after will be your portion.

She does not love you. At best she likes being around you. But she is with you because she needs a provider and you seem to be the one that she can manage. That's not necessarily bad but if it's proving difficult for you, you better end the relationship and know that you will not die. It will shock you how fast she too will move on.

Ignore the wisdom of the elders at your own risk.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

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Anu kobo spent on a woman that isn't your wife is a waste.... You open your two blind eyes now Wanarry liability.... You go soon wreck and she go move on to the next guy...

Sell your house and give her the money, she will love you without demanding for anything

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

This is 2025

I don't want to see this kind of rubbish post again from you

Run

yomi531:
Big lie. Say u be Ramsey Noah or wetin? Naija girls will always demand. No deceive urself

It's obvious You've never been with a girl that TRULY LOVES you.

If you dey with babe wey truly love you,she fit dey collect from outside come give you.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Mugu that's all she sees. A lady that truly loves you wouldn't demand so much because she knows you don't have. Instead she'll work hard to get them herself or manage the ones she has.

You are her ATM ,once you no give she go leave you find another ATM

Kobojunkie:
This notion is very wrong! 😏

As you rightly said, in marriage people come together to complement and support each other. Nothing wrong for a man with money to marry himself a woman whom he would support financially for her to complement and support him in other ways. I mean look at someone like Ned Nwoko and that gal he married. He provides her financial support while she supports him in other ways.

OP's particular issue here is that, without having the ability to financially provide he chose to date a woman who desires to have a man who will provide her with financial support. And after discovering this, rather than disengage, OP continues to hold on to her against common sense! The woman's desire isn't the problem but rather OP refuses to let go of what he is aware he cannot handle. Of course, the woman should also consider letting OP go but that does not in any way remove OP from fault here.

So you still carry this your mumuness enter 2025...it is finished

Looks like she loves your purse!

Namaster:
Women never DEMAND money from a man they love.

She'd accept your little support if you offer it but she'd NEVER demand it.

Instead, she will make EXCUSES for your lack of money.
A woman who loves you is SATISFIED with your body and attention.

But when love wanes, the DEMAND for money takes its place.

PURE FACTS, MOST GUYS ARE SO FOOLISH. WOMEN OPENLY SAY THIS, THAT GUY THEY LOVE THEY WILL MANAGE AND EVEN HELP HIM BUILD. HOW MEN MISS IT IS AMAZING.

yomi531:
Big lie. Say u be Ramsey Noah or wetin? Naija girls will always demand. No deceive urself

Demand here simply means

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Alusiizizi:
Trust me when I tell you that you need to leave this parasite alone. The other thing, love is an absolutely worthless emotion, and besides, if she really loved you she wouldn't take a kobo from you(except if she has a problem that she desperately needs to solve) .

You say that you're not financially stable enough to provide for here, which probably means that you've not yet achieved financial freedom, meaning that you should be more worried about bettering yourself instead of the whims of some parasite.

Or even thinking about getting married in the first place

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