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Ole gbe, Ole Gba!

It is well.
Pls I need a car to drive for Uber / bolt work , I have a guarantor and I live in a secured environment for car safety, in Lagos ..

Pls I need to work and we can talk on weekly remittance

God bless.

Soneh:
Dem nack mine for free. She even fetches my food and take to the bast*d

Na prank you wan prank us abi

Hmmmmm...m
This is called Billing...

I would rather used it to establish her than sending it to her account...

If she doesn't like it. I will tell her to go and bill her FATHER instead.

Guys please pay attention to your legally married wife than all this side chick or girlfriends...

Farfalla will cover her face, her gender are staining her already stained cloth.

iLegendd:
People better and smarter than me are paying for oxygen at the hospital to survive, but I'm privileged to have it for free, so I'm alright, my chairman.

Good to hear boss, stay safe king

Why front page? Nairaland was asked before crediting her.

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday

You are correct 💯
Yo have Sense o👍.just an overnight enjoyment or waiting?

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday

Emphasis on sane. The boy is obviously not sane 💁‍♂️

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

How much has he sent for his Mum's birthday

Because he did not work for the money. Shebi you saw where he said he collected 3k from his maga, he then became maga to another girl. Life no just balance

You go play old oyibo woman collect 3k dollars, young black girl play you collect 500k leave you with enough change you still dey complain...

iLegendd:
Most of our men from age 16 to 35 have no business with relationship wisdom. Even if you tell them the truth, they'll go and tell her what you said.

It's not a man's job to fall in love, but to provide protection, but men won't listen.

Stay away from emotional attachment from both women and money and watch how you'll have peace of mind.



A woman operates based on emotions. Whatever you've done for her doesn't matter. In fact, the less you want her, the more she wants the little you have to offer over the might goodies the person who wants her offers.

Now this is practical wisdom relevant to present times. However the Bible instructs men to love their wives specifically! So I'm thinking, is your thesis applicable to married couples? Or couples in courtship! Nevertheless, it is what it is

iLegendd:
Have you dated foreigners before? When you tell these local fowls info they jump in with Nigerian mentality. This is why they feel Nigerian girls' hungry attitude is universal.

How far has Nigeria grown with our mentality? We're the smartest, but look at how we suffer in almost everything, except music.

We're still among the most struggling nations. That should tell you a lot that we need a mental shift. Every woman should have a skill and fend for herself or the man who brought her into this world should do it.

He's only obligated when she has a child for him and DNA has proven it.

Have I given women money? Foreign women, no. Naija women, yes. Out of pity, not to buy love or induce her to love me.

When you have money and a living thing (women or men) needs help, you give, but most of you are giving in exchange for sex or to be loved.

That is what I'm against.

Nigerians smartest? In what aspect

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

So you didn't enjoy it too,talk true,nah you shout pass.

Soneh:
Dem nack mine for free. She even fetches my food and take to the bast*d

Hahaha hahahaha please My stomach

I pity nigerian men a lot....Some men in this country have never experienced true love.

Relationship here is transactional and women manipulate men a lot in this country.

I experienced true love when I travelled to Gambia in 2005....It was a pity I couldn't marry the lady back then cos of circumstances.

THE SIMPING IN NIGERIA IS DIABOLICAL.

People come from America,Uk,Canada to marry brothel hoes....Not to talk of Online Simping where you see high vibrational,high valued men complimenting, praising and hyping a hoe who's not only available for anybody but don't give a fvck about them.

SIMPS are irredeemable in this country so just let women use them anyhow.

You stole money from a white woman to give to your black girlfriend but your black girlfriend come run you street.

Or rather she still ran back to the Streets cuz she has always been for the streets. Na you nor gree wise.

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

crude sense of logic

Men? Stop that nonsense!

Next time say "Some Men Can Never Be Wise"


Foolish guys that can't send their family members 5k will be sending oloshos 500k.....If this mumu boy guys tell am to buy dem beer he go say he never see money since dem born am.

PissInside:
I pity Nigerian men a lot.

I experienced true love when I travelled to Gambia in 2005....It was a pity I couldn't marry the lady back then.

THE SIMPING IN NIGERIA IS DIABOLICAL.

People come from America,Uk,Canada to marry brothel hoes....Not to talk of Online Simping where you see high vibrational,hig valued men complimenting a hoe who's not only available for anybody but don't give a fvck about them.

SIMPS are irredeemable in this country so just let women use them anyhow.

Omo truly ehn,as a Nigerian man you need to look outside to experience love in it's true and purest form.

Naija girls dey truly love o(rarely) but e nor dey pure like that.

Soneh:
Dem nack mine for free. She even fetches my food and take to the bast*d

LMAO

Damn! Boys are not smiling anymore oh!

PissInside:
I pity nigerian men a lot....Some men in this country have never experienced true love.

Relationship here is transactional and women manipulate men a lot in this country.

I experienced true love when I travelled to Gambia in 2005....It was a pity I couldn't marry the lady back then cos of circumstances.

THE SIMPING IN NIGERIA IS DIABOLICAL.

People come from America,Uk,Canada to marry brothel hoes....Not to talk of Online Simping where you see high vibrational,high valued men complimenting, praising and hyping a hoe who's not only available for anybody but don't give a fvck about them.

SIMPS are irredeemable in this country so just let women use them anyhow.

People come from the western world to wife up brothel hoes? Playa,Are you trippin?

Simps like these don’t deserve pity. They need to learn the hard way.

HantaVirus:
People come from the western world to wife up brothel hoes? Playa,Are you trippin?

Go figure.

Women are the price in this country.

They manipulate men a lot.

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday

By their earnings, you sha know them.

Someone who makes money legitimately won't do that.

THE POWER OF FRAUD MONEY!

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

You can make a living by working as a gigolo you know!

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

You are fvking low value women or hookers.

We are talking about high value women.

Bendeco02:
Stop showing yourself.
Most guys always say this but not actually true.

If you send only transport for your babe. You may actually assist her in other things. Abi you pays rent for her?

Don't mind him jor,most times his type are the worst simps indoors only brag endlessly on anonymous forums.

iLegendd:
We tend to emulate foreign cultures excessively, but if our women must imitate, they should adopt the "Miss Independent" ethos and the industrious, skillful mindset of Chinese women.

Unfortunately, many focus instead on embracing the more superficial and destructive aspects of Western culture—obsessing over Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs), skin lightening (often tied to a misguided sense of superiority), and other damaging trends. "Miss independent" wey dem suppose emulate, 98% of them no fit.

Nigerian men, on the other hand, are complicit in this by financing these pursuits, often in a desperate bid to earn affection or love.

I no talk say make you no spend o. It’s fine to spend on a woman if you have surplus wealth, like Burna Boy perhaps, but never as a transactional effort to secure love. The chat of that ₦500k man in tears is a cautionary tale—he "invested" emotionally and financially, expecting love in return, only to be left heartbroken by a 25 kpa rendezvous.

Wise men, however, have already distanced themselves from such illusions. Even before entering a relationship, they harbor no expectations, recognizing the cultural shift that has normalized the Americanized "my body, my choice" mantra. This mindset has made emotional commitment increasingly precarious.

When a woman eventually acts in ways that align with these expectations, the wise man isn’t surprised. He either disengages or relegates her to a non-primary role, all while encouraging her to explore other relationships. Such men are detached from materialism, physical desires, or the pursuit of romantic validation.

If you aspire to live a long and stress-free life, adopt this pragmatic approach. Free yourself from overblown expectations, for unmet expectations are the root of heartbreak—a slippery slope to emotional devastation and even physical ailments like depression and hypertension.

Stop using AI to craft your message.