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Sharpsharp00123:
sex with tap water?

I don't get abeg

IamMoses123:
I've tried this once though, didn't sleep at home, though she wasn't moved, but i think I need to do this often.

Sonnobax15:

The fear of another C.S should another pregnancy evolve must be one of the reasons behind how she's treating you

BTW,why is it that men are becoming more sexxx starved these days? What could be the cause? Abi the Tinubu economy policies wey suppose to dey kill men sexual libido come turn around to dey increase am? .

Ayam not understanding at all

Sonnobax15:

The fear of another C.S should another pregnancy evolve must be one of the reasons behind how she's treating you

BTW,why is it that men are becoming more sexxx starved these days? What could be the cause? Abi the Tinubu economy policies wey suppose to dey kill men sexual libido come turn around to dey increase am? .

Ayam not understanding at all

Starz825:
➜Economy or no economy...man must nak him wife... Na normal stuff

Divaan:
Sir, be real to yourself, have you ever cheated on your wife during these 2 years period and been caught and forgiven?
Did your wife have any complications during pregnancy?for example, a woman who has had cervical cerclage done during pregnancy probably realises that her life is worth more than 10 mins round of sex with someone who probably will marry someone else when she's gone. Same with many pregnancy complications.
What is the foundation of your marriage? You have just told us this little stuff, we do not know the nitty gritties that may have hardened your wife to make such resolve. For example, a divorcee kept cheating with his ex wife under the disguise of seeing/ supporting his ex children. The wife being a lover of peace didn't bother to stop him. She was even glad to have someone out there helping her out in that department. Their sex life suffered just like yours as the wife completely lost sex interest in her own husband.
Another question I have for you is do you insult your wife(sexually) whenever there's a quarrel or make her look like a prostitute due to circumstances you met her,etc do you give her money or meet the house or family needs?. All these and more can make a woman resolve never to have sex with her husband again but will continue living in peace with you.

DarkPheonix:
The child is probably not even yours and your wife is getting sexually satisfied without you, the opposite of love is indifference.
Did she marry you cause she loves you or??

IamMoses123:
Hmm, i don't know if you are married and if you are married and your sexual life is the way you want it, then congratulations to you.
But if a man comes out and tell you his challenge in his home for almost 2 years, you should know this is a serious matter. Sleeping on same bed everyday for two years and can't even make attempt because it will be a failed one.

For God sake, this is my wife and not my girlfriend, and I am not demanding for sex daily.
I beg you, don't judge please, sex is an integral part of marriage.

IamMoses123:
Please guys, I need your help, I am really going nut and I am loosing my mind, got married February 2023, and our sex lives was very great, we had fun almost on daily bases. She took in that same month of our marriage, but since then, having sex with my wife has been a huge task, through out the 9 months pregnancy I only had sex with her twice. Which I tried to understand with her, because some women's body react differently.
She gave birth November 2023 though through C.S, i gave her enough time like 4 months before I started making attempt again, and I felt everything will return back to normal, but it was as if the child birth aggravated the whole thing, she turns down every attempt with almost no excuse. She just gives flimsy excuses that she's not in the mood. I have had series of discussions with her on how I have been frustrated and she down plays all my serious feelings. I even jokingly threaten to get it from outside, yet she still doesn't take me seriously.

Sincerely, I have suffered emotionally and mentally.

Mind you, I provide for the family to my very best and i am very sure she doesn't cheat on me. Please guys I need help on this, I am really loosing my mind.