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A Nigerian lady has sparked a debate after advising unmarried women aged 37 and above to consider having children, even if they are not married.

In a video posted on TikTok, Mrs. Sugar argued that it is better to have a child than to wait indefinitely for marriage.

She described having a baby out of wedlock as a practical choice for women approaching their 40s or beyond, emphasizing that it is not a bad decision.

“See my sister, I know you are waiting on the Lord to give you the right partner. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but as marriage never come, my sister, born pikin [have a child],”

she said.

Mrs. Sugar further encouraged women to explore legal and ethical methods of conception if they do not want to conceive with a random person.

She added that having a child before marriage does not prevent future happiness or relationships, as women would still find fulfilment knowing they already have children.

Children needs both parents in their life. So you won come born for another person husband come dey bill am while you're sleeping around.. Hmm

My brothers if U are staffing any babe over 30 or she seems desperate to have kids, Baba strap up or U become a by force baby daddy. A word is enough. These hoes don't care about U but themselves just like the Op posted that's how 90% of them think. They will never consider Ur opinion on it. STAY PROTECTED!!! STAY STRAPPED!!!

A frog who failed to get married by the age of 37 is not fit to be a wife. Tomorrow she won't even be fit to be a mother.

You go cry pass the baby.

Don't let depression put you in more misery instead of giving you a solution.

Many can’t take care of themselves. Its not a must to born biko

You can adopt as well.

Yeah I support her, she's right. That's what I'll do, lady in my church said that she regrets not having a baby, she does not regret not having a husband. Me I'm not getting married I'll have a baby mama.

See the person wey there talk sef

At 37...that one is a old babymama

If she has made money, I mean money… you can fvck her brain out and give her a child if not don’t fall for that trap as a man… remember how some women make you think they’re not demanding or after your money when the relationship is about starting, only to lure you and finish you midway.

The same applies here, when reading what a woman says, always put it in front of a mirror in order to see the reverse message, that reverse message is the real message

And that is how bastards are born, Genz girls wey never clean yansh finish won become mothers

floss:
If she has made money, I mean money… you can fvck her brain out and give her a child if not don’t fall for that trap as a man… remember how some women make you think they’re not demanding or after your money when the relationship is about starting, only to lure you and finish you midway.

The same applies here, when reading what a woman says, always put it in front of a mirror in order to see the reverse message, that reverse message is the real message

good talk my brother, nasoo Dem dey do ooo starting point once there desperate to have it them go do like say na Dem go do everything all like say Dem no go need you and once you enter it.....tie fo niu

Lmao.. As a man, do not be the man she traps to give her a child even if she tells you no problem, that she will take care of the baby by herself.


All lies.

Baronthecelebri:
Yeah I support her, she's right. That's what I'll do, lady in my church said that she regrets not having a baby, she does not regret not having a husband. Me I'm not getting married I'll have a baby mama.

Then you bring a baby that you can't take care of into the world. What kind of stupid standards are we setting in our society today?

It's not wrong to have a child, but it's also not a "do or die" affair. Do all you can to get married (to a responsible person of course), so that when you get a child, you can raise him/her properly.

You people don't reason the consequences of some actions, you just think you have to do it because it's a norm. Do you have an idea what children with a single parent go through? They might cope, but all these things are unnecessary.

Things should be done properly, taking an easier and shorter route is unnecessary and basically selfish.

Run oooo

If she has her own business and is wealthy, why not.

It's a win win for both of us anyway.

Someone I know irked with did this. Got fired when stomach was large.

One woman bring a child in this hash economy.

If U are above 35(f) and U get a man that agree to knack. Propose marriage to him don't wait.

Misery always loves company…take advice from a damaged woman in and out at your own risk

true because of old age o! Bring up your kid in a good manner and watch him/her never depart from you

Na person wey Dem fxck fiy get belle.


'FIY'


and terms and conditions still to apply.

I agree

But how about MEN approaching 40??

How?

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Na person wey Dem fxck fiy get belle.


'FIY'


and terms and conditions still to apply.

Pregnancy can be achieved without sex.....Intrauterine insemination (IUI) . The sperm is placed directly into the uterus, without the physical presence of the man.

Wetin person no see or hear on top social media

o boy what's going on

Now they are getting to accept that they need men.

Many who said marriage is not an achievement have suddenly realized that marriage is a huge achievement.

Humans are inherently wicked. All about themselves. What happens to the baby you born into this wicked world filled with sorrows and suffering is nobody's concern.

Natalists don't cease to amaze me

Become a Baby mama she meant