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He should also ask when he fvcked last, stupid man.

blackgold2018:
no, it's only weak men that cant Stand women that "WORTH it" with high standard.

But those that doesn't worth it its regressing. What happens when this same ladies should take the right decision right from when they attend puberty. It's there choice.

Whats the meaning of bride pride??
Does it make sense to you when a lady's family demand millions for pride price, plus a befitting wedding for their daughter but the daughter isn't a virgin or has devalued her body in the past?

If you feel morally disturbed. Then trust me, it's not right.

If people turn a new leaf they can make themselves worthy. A person that has changed and has remorse can have the bride price and every good thing. Our final judgement is not on this earth so no man or woman should make it seem so by being a casual judge.

purples25:
If people turn a new leaf they can make themselves worthy. A person that has changed and has remorse can have the bride price and every good thing. Our final judgement is not on this earth so no man or woman should make it seem so by being a casual judge.

u just deh this thread deh masturbate on this topic since.

Tueh

purples25:
You guys cannot bear that a woman has standards. You want to be the only ones confident enough to have value for yourselves and standards. Hence pulling out that card of how promiscuous a woman has been when she presents herself with a self appreciative value.

Why not learn to be happy for women with standards along with yourselves? You can't stand a woman you don't rate trying to hold herself up and do better in her choices. It's scary, as if you have the right to judge and tell another human being what they deserve based on your perception of them.

A woman who has standard must be a good example to a man with standards

I am a guy and the questions are not bad for an Intentional suitor.

richmond500:
The father should first find out how many body counts his daughter has, cos all the conditions no make sense

No naaaah. You want to give the man heart attack ni?

tollyboy5:
A woman who has standard must be a good example to a man with standards

Yes, that's true. Even if you guys don't apply it to yourselves when looking for virgins and remaining promiscuous.

She can be a good standard even if she has had a bad past by changing. She can be a good standard by keeping to the right path from puberty. All join. As long as at that moment she's asking, she reflects the kind of thing she wants in her partner.

GistMedia0:
A Nigerian lady has sparked online buzz after revealing the 20-question PDF her father sent her to complete about her boyfriend before she could introduce him to the family.

Sharing the list on social media, she wrote:
"My dad sent me a 20-question PDF about my boyfriend that I have to answer before I can introduce them. Half the questions are medical history and blood work!"

The questions ranged from his personal history to his habits and medical background, including:

1. What are important personal stories that shaped who he is today?

2. Where did he go to school, and did he graduate?

3. Does he have a family history of diabetes, blood disorders, sickle cell traits, or cancers?

4. Does he have any past surgical procedures?

5. When did you start dating him, and how many girls has he dated prior to you?

6. Does he smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol (state frequency and how many drinks per occasion), or use illicit/recreational drugs?

7. What is he doing for a living?

8. Who does he live with?

9. Why did he break up with his last girlfriend?

10. Does he make you feel supported and safe?

11. What do you like most and least about him?

The question was not meant for the Boyfriend. The questions were meant for the girl to answer.

She would need to find out the answers from her boyfriend.


The answer she gets depend of how smart she is. The Father truely care about his daughter!

purples25:
You guys cannot bear that a woman has standards. You want to be the only ones confident enough to have value for yourselves and standards. Hence pulling out that card of how promiscuous a woman has been when she presents herself with a self appreciative value.

Why not learn to be happy for women with standards along with yourselves? You can't stand a woman you don't rate trying to hold herself up and do better in her choices. It's scary, as if you have the right to judge and tell another human being what they deserve based on your perception of them.

Is it only women that should have standards?
He raised a valid question that any man with standards should have, what is wrong with that?

illicit:
Why didn't he ask, if they use condom...

Nonsense

if a father doesn't ask 7 out of the 11 questions it means he is tired of you .

If I'm the boy in question ... I go just reply with go and marry your dad

Papa fit dey ask all these questions sef when the daughter don troway womb for hospital via multiple D&C.

If that guy mama write her own 5 questions only, the relationcanoe go just sink.

Drella:
Is it only women that should have standards?
He raised a valid question that any man with standards should have, what is wrong with that?

Men are always loud about their standards, on this forum alone, not to talk of outside. Is it not one guy that goes round here, or even several, screaming about how men must marry virgins? They do it on every thread, reminding guys of virgins, rich women or DNA. Women on this platform have left them alone. So I am surprised that a man made a low blow with a comment like that. This question about having a problem with another genders' standards should therefore be directed at you guys.

purples25:
If people turn a new leaf they can make themselves worthy. A person that has changed and has remorse can have the bride price and every good thing. Our final judgement is not on this earth so no man or woman should make it seem so by being a casual judge.

NO, the worthiness only lies in the eyes of the beholder.

We reap what we sow. That's the rules of Nature. We should accept reality first.

Grace and luck can still find such people, not because she turned a new leave. We should be able to leave with our consequences.

Past can never be erased. Stop twisting Nature, but embrace it. It will be kind to you. God is not a man you deceive. You can be praying with tears for years. But he alone knows what lays in our heart.

You only make aggressive prayers to God when you WORTH something. You can only beg him for forgiveness and mercy, that's the right prayers

blackgold2018:
NO, the worthiness only lies in the eyes of the beholder.

We reap what we sow. That's the rules of Nature. We should accept reality first.

Grace and luck can still find such people, not because she turned a new leave. We should be able to leave with our consequences.

Past can never be erased. Stop twisting Nature, but embrace it. It will be kind to you. God is not a man you deceive. You can be praying with tears for years. But he alone knows what lays in our heart.

You only make aggressive prayers to God when you WORTH something. You can only beg him for forgiveness and mercy, that's the right prayers

I hope this applies to you guys as well. Because many guys believe they deserve a virgin with a clean life after being community dicks.

purples25:
Men are always loud about their standards, on this forum alone, not to talk of outside. Is it not one guy that goes round here, or even several, screaming about how men must marry virgins? They do it on every thread, reminding guys of virgins, rich women or DNA. Women on this platform have left them alone. So I am surprised that a man made a low blow with a comment like that. This question about having a problem with another genders' standards should therefore be directed at you guys.

There’s freedom of expression.

As far as that is a very good approach, it can't still bring the desire result especially since question about his faith in God is not among the question. Many men that cheated easily before they graduated will not find it difficult to tutor the father with lies to get his daughter. Most men don't even need to waste time answering the questions in pretence since AI is there to perfect their answers for the man. In as much as God is absent in the questions, the outcome can be a game of chance in getting good or bad husband. Or are you saying yahoo guys that scam even big corporate organization in America without leaving trace will not find the questions laughable.

The father has good motive and care for the daughter, but unfortunately; this can't be a good measure to get good husband. Getting good husband is not from Jamb multiple questions. He should just keep praying for the daughter and let the daughter herself know God so that birds of the same feather can flock together in relation to getting good husband.

Drella:
There’s freedom of expression.

Yes, we are all expressing ourselves here and exploring opinions.

purples25:
Yes, that's true. Even if you guys don't apply it to yourselves when looking for virgins and remaining promiscuous.

She can be a good standard even if she has had a bad past by changing. She can be a good standard by keeping to the right path from puberty. All join. As long as at that moment she's asking, she reflects the kind of thing she wants in her partner.

Know this and know peace.
Life is not equal, it is not right for both partners to cheat but the judgement for cheating are different.
The guy will always have an upper hand. So you don't set a guys standard base on that.
But you have to set woman standard based on that.
The girls I see now flexing and enjoying themselves will never stop even after marriage.
Because their slightest escape to financial burdens is to spread legs

Obviously, she's not yet graduated into Evening Newspaper Club

That's probably why she's having fun sharing such information

Ask the long time members of the Evening Newspaper Club how go dey go

God bless you for this.
Ordinary question about her cooking experience will cause problem between her and the mother in-law .
That when you will begin to hear mother in-law is intruding into their privacy. Smhhh

marlow1962:
Now when the man's mother does the same, you will see many illiterate ladies frowning their face.
The man dy talk e dy sweet am, but forgot to ask her own daughter the same crucial questions.

tollyboy5:
Know this and know peace.
Life is not equal, it is not right for both partners to cheat but the judgement for cheating are different.
The guy will always have an upper hand. So you don't set a guys standard base on that.
But you have to set woman standard based on that.
The girls I see now flexing and enjoying themselves will never stop even after marriage.
Because their slightest escape to financial burdens is to spread legs

Will you be happy with this arrangement if you were a woman? If this arrangement was turned on men, will they accept it?

purples25:
Will you be happy with this arrangement if you were a woman? If this arrangement was turned on men, will they accept it?

There's no equality in life.
Will you be happy if it were women fighting at every war front?
Look at the Russian and Ukraine war, how will you feel if men sit at home and women die at the battle field while men sit at home?

Stop forming woke. You're a lady and you have limitations, and it comes with some advantages too.
While men privilege comes with more responsibility and pressure many woman can't withstand

tollyboy5:
There's no equality in life.
Will you be happy if it were women fighting at every war front?
Look at the Russian and Ukraine war, how will you feel if men sit at home and women die at the battle field while men sit at home?

Stop forming woke. You're a lady and you have limitations, and it comes with some advantages too.
While men privilege comes with more responsibility and pressure many woman can't withstand

It is even because as men die at the war front protecting life, that's how women die a lot giving birth (life). We are not at the war front because we are taking care of the community, homes and most importantly the future generations of those fighting on the front lines. Or would you prefer that your generations die and your kids at home don't receive motherly care because we want to switch roles?

The roles men and women play are equally important and straining. I noticed guys downplay the effort and roles of women because they seem easier to them when in fact a woman's role has its own hazards and death rate.

We are equal while life is not fair so we should give ourselves same standards to the greatest extent that it is possible.

Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks

illicit:
Why didn't he ask, if they use condom...

Nonsense

Keep shut he is the her father not you.

dauntless15:
He should also ask when he fvcked last, stupid man.

Kwayet, when you've your own daughter you can give freely.

Waste of time. He can lie in all the answers. No evidence

GistMedia0:
A Nigerian lady has sparked online buzz after revealing the 20-question PDF her father sent her to complete about her boyfriend before she could introduce him to the family.

Sharing the list on social media, she wrote:
"My dad sent me a 20-question PDF about my boyfriend that I have to answer before I can introduce them. Half the questions are medical history and blood work!"

The questions ranged from his personal history to his habits and medical background, including:

1. What are important personal stories that shaped who he is today?

2. Where did he go to school, and did he graduate?

3. Does he have a family history of diabetes, blood disorders, sickle cell traits, or cancers?

4. Does he have any past surgical procedures?

5. When did you start dating him, and how many girls has he dated prior to you?

6. Does he smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol (state frequency and how many drinks per occasion), or use illicit/recreational drugs?

7. What is he doing for a living?

8. Who does he live with?

9. Why did he break up with his last girlfriend?

10. Does he make you feel supported and safe?

11. What do you like most and least about him?

As we can see,, the Family is rich..

The man wants a husband who can support the daughter..
Amd not a blood-sucker.

purples25:
It is even because as men die at the war front protecting life, that's how women die a lot giving birth (life).
We are not at the war front because we are taking care of the community, homes and most importantly the future generations of those fighting on the front lines. Or would you prefer that your generations die and your kids at home don't receive motherly care because we want to switch roles?

The roles men and women play are equally important and straining. I noticed guys downplay the effort and roles of women because they seem easier to them when in fact a woman's role has its own hazards and death r

@bolded My friend's mum who has 11 children disagree with you. Bless her soul.

Female roles are easier and if you're Christian then you should know the Bible called them weaker vessels.
Their roles in the society are important but not equal to men's role.
Wtf! You equating child delivery to dying at war front!
What an hypocritical comparison

tollyboy5:
@bolded My friend's mum who has 11 children disagree with you. Bless her soul.

Female roles are easier and if you're Christian then you should know the Bible called them weaker vessels.
Their roles in the society are important but not equal to men's role.
Wtf! You equating child delivery to dying at war front!
What an hypocritical comparison

I'm happy for your mom's friend, but really, we cannot ignore the mortality rate of other moms out there due to her good luck.

Well, you've never experienced it so you would call it a hypocritical comparison. I'll come for your opinion after you've given birth.

Meanwhile, men on the front are absolutely honorable, however, there are a few women out there experiencing same too. Countries now have female soldiers. I have never seen a man give birth though.

The lady must be a virgin to warrant the questions