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Samantha125:
I'll tell him to follow his heart.

Mariangeles:
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Genesis 2:24

Mariangeles:
You actually think it's that easy?

purples25:
Some men think what makes them strong men is being able to insult and degrade a woman boldly to the extent that they want and regardless of the woman's emotions.

razzydoo:
She won't get a response. I'd probably yawn.

Starzo:
Una sabi quote bible when e favour una.


But when it gets to the part of wives being completely submissive to their husbands,una go begin talk another thing.

BABANGBALI:
you sure sey you be man?

doctor306:
Its not easy one bit but its what needs to be done cus if you stay in that marriage your few years away from the ground

razzydoo:
yes. Silence is golden.

Samantha125:
Which pain?

Nonexisting1:
Why will you tell him something different from what you are telling other people's sons here? You tell us that our mothers are our fathers responsibilities but you will tell your own son to follow his heart. You now see why I call your gender out. There are no better hypocrites that you women.

IgboGoat:
In reflecting on the hypothetical question of choosing between my mother and my wife, I have come to the conclusion that, in such an unlikely scenario, I would prioritize my mother. This decision stems from a few key observations:

1. Unwavering Support: Mothers consistently give to their children, regardless of their age or circumstances. For example, when I recently embarked on a challenging journey to pursue my master’s degree, my mother contributed significantly, providing financial support of approximately 2 million NGN and foodstuffs for my travel. In contrast, my wife did not contribute to this endeavor but instead focused on financial demands and obligations I needed to fulfill before leaving.


2. Differing Priorities: I have observed that my wife tends to prioritize her family of origin over our household. Her financial contributions often lean toward supporting her parents rather than addressing our shared responsibilities at home.


3. Constructive Support vs. Criticism: A mother’s nurturing nature often involves understanding her child’s weaknesses and helping them grow. Conversely, my wife has been more critical of my shortcomings and has, at times, shared these with her family members, which can feel undermining.


4. Unconditional Love: A mother’s love is deeply rooted and unconditional, while affection in marriage often seems conditional, influenced by circumstances or expectations.



These reflections highlight the enduring sacrifices and selflessness of a mother, making her irreplaceable in my life. While this is a personal perspective, it underscores the unique and invaluable bond between a mother and her child.

Share your views

BABANGBALI:
you sure sey you be man?

BABANGBALI:
you sure sey you be man?

dynicks:
u should be scared of what lies inside of that "yawn" bro........don't take the silence of some men as cowardly or weakness......E go shock u say wetin fit follow that yawn Na for the woman to see herself for her village junction the next day......no be say her village ooo!....but the junction that leads to her village...

NwaliE01:
My darling. It's so sad to see someone competing your position in one's child's life.
The bond a child shares with his mom is beyond umbilical cord.

Mariangeles:
Wetin you want make im do? Beat im wife?

BABANGBALI:
ok now

Samantha125:
Keep trying to twist my words...😂😂😂

BABANGBALI:
choose him mother and damn the consequences. Who wife epp?

Nonexisting1:
You know one thing I've noticed and liked about you is that you don't lie. I never twisted your words, I simply quoted them verbatim. You gave me an honest answer and I caught your hypocrisy in it, that's all. You women have hypocrisy in the DNA so it's not personal. I won't hold it against you.

pongwa:
Omo ale, I'll choose my parents anyday

Mariangeles:
A wise mother would want her son to be happy with his wife. Except the wife is troublesome.

BABANGBALI:
na sign of fear be dat jo

Samantha125:
What if her father's business is far from your house, but closer to her father's house and the position her father wants to give her comes with a reasonable salary?

What will you then do? Because there are some ladies who are in this situation as we speak.

Mariangeles:
The truth is, if your wife ever asked you such a question, you gave her reason to. Except she's excessively possessive.
No secure wife would ask her husband that.

Olufemiolaolu:
You are a simp