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I greet o…
Good morning 🌞
My babe is now addicted to TikTok live after realizing there could be money in it.
Y’all might say “She owes me no reason whatsoever not to behave as she wants, as she’s not my wife, only a girlfriend”…
I’m not even bothered about the TikTok monetization, because this is someone I’ve invested money in. In 2023, before prices started spiking, I established a business for her that’s worth roughly a million. This is because I don’t want her demanding whatsoever from me. I don’t pay heed to her basic demands like hair, bags, etc etc…

But she’s not serious with her business. She’s still in school so there’s no physical shop, but online.
She’s not consistent in posting her business. Sometimes I’m the one who even reminds her to post and it pains me that she doesn’t care about my investment.

Recently she met her girl friend and she was convinced by the friend to start a TikTok live that she, the friend gets paid some token from it.

But u know how this online stuff works? It’s her seeking validation from guys and Gifters. Most times she’s even forced to answer naughty questions from guys like “what kind of p£nis do you like” … I really got irritated that she’s comfortable with it.

My own is I’m not scared to lose anybody… if someone is on the opposite side of my standards and lifestyle, they seriously have to go. But it’s a 2 years relationship, I’m considering so many things…

But I just might break up with her

She doesn't care about you bro, sadly. She's still a student and the odds of you guys ending up together is magnificently slim. She doesn't have prospects or attributes of a wife yet. She's till young and naive . Stop spending on her now. Cut your loss now and detach your emotions because she's already positioned herself for the highest bidder , and soon enough you'll be replaced by one rich and foolish simp. It's a good initiative you have there. Leave her now.

Once I see my woman frequently posting on social media, she's definitely on a validation seeking spree. She could say NO to 50 guys, but there'll be one guy she wouldn't be able to deny access, probably because he possesses characteristics you do not or he's more buoyant than you are. You cannot control such outcome. If you try to, you'll be termed possessive. The best option is to detach and walk away.

This is why some of these girls end up in wrong hands, they mess the good guys up and go astray.

See, girls of nowadays are something else, you can never satisfy them, they want quick money without much stress just like yahoo boys and such mentality isn't good, social media is littered with them, they want to be like Korra Obidi, I see impending disaster in few years time if there's no mental shift among our youngsters.

If you intend to marry her, then she must listen to your advice or you leave her before it's too late.

You've invested almost a million and more in a girl whose maturity about life can not secure a relationship.

Your case is like Christmas chicken that's well fed and now thinks it's owner loves him.

Break up now instead of soon. Are you threatening us that you’ll leave your girl? Wait, I’m looking for an ounce of empathy.

Sadly bro.

Your investment is gone.

Move on now, with your head held high.

I made same mistake with far less with a girl and later regretted it by ignoring obvious signs

Everrich96:
She doesn't care about you bro, sadly. She's still a student and the odds of you guys ending up together is magnificently slim. She doesn't have prospects or attributes of a wife yet. She's till young and naive . Stop spending on her now. Cut your loss now and detach your emotions because she's already positioned herself for the highest bidder , and soon enough you'll be replaced by one rich and foolish simp. It's a good initiative you have there. Leave her now.

Once I see my woman frequently posting on social media, she's definitely on a validation seeking spree. She could say NO to 50 guys, but there'll be one guy she wouldn't be able to deny access, probably because he possesses characteristics you do not or he's more buoyant than you are. You cannot control such outcome. If you try to, you'll be termed possessive. The best option is to detach and walk away.

Initially when I was in my finals, before we started dating she was a social media freak, but she dropped those things as she was very happy with US. Intimacy was somewhat frequent then too…
Now she’s still well cultured, but she’s straying.

Id have spoken to her about it now, but I’d rather watch her and see how she behaves on her own… this is because every woman gets to a stage where they become nonchalant of their partners advise.

I’d rather not speak to her now, because I’m not her life/behavioral supervisor. Especially when she’s back in school, or when she’s on her own. I need to observe the things she’ll do on her own.

Now I’m masterminding the situation, I’m even playing along. I needed to know how much she tolerates from other guys when I’m not around. I’m not possessive, neither am I reacting in any way about her current behavior…
But it’s quite irritating.

God1000:
This is why some of these girls end up in wrong hands, they mess the good guys up and go astray.

See, girls of nowadays are something else, you can never satisfy them, they want quick money without much stress just like yahoo boys and such mentality isn't good, social media is littered with them, they want to be like Korra Obidi, I see impending disaster in few years time if there's no mental shift among our youngsters.

If you intend to marry her, then she must listen to your advice or you leave her before it's too late.

She listens to me. If I ask her to stop, she’ll stop immediately. But in my books that’s not loyalty. Make I just watch and listen first before I act

Fuckallmods:
Initially when I was in my finals, before we started dating she was a social media freak, but she dropped those things as she was very happy with US. Intimacy was somewhat frequent then too…
Now she’s still well cultured, but she’s straying.

Id have spoken to her about it now, but I’d rather watch her and see how she behaves on her own… this is because every woman gets to a stage where they become nonchalant of their partners advise.

I’d rather not speak to her now, because I’m not her life/behavioral supervisor. Especially when she’s back in school, or when she’s on her own. I need to observe the things she’ll do on her own.

Now I’m masterminding the situation, I’m even playing along. I needed to know how much she tolerates from other guys when I’m not around. I’m not possessive, neither am I reacting in any way about her current behavior…
But it’s quite irritating.

Bro she is for the street
all these your playing along blah blah blah won't help matters
Forget about your investment and move on

Jesuspistol:
You've invested almost a million and more in a girl who's maturity about life can not secure a relationship.

Your case is like Christmas chicken that's well fed and now thinks its owner loves him.

Why is investing in someone wrong? I want to see her make it too… asin u no go like make ur sister boyfriend still invest in her too?
but ur problem is me investing in my girlfriend? Go and sit down

Fuckallmods:
Why is investing in someone wrong? I want to see her make it too… asin u no go like make ur sister boyfriend still invest in her too?
but ur problem is me investing in my girlfriend? Go and sit down

Boss I weak for these guys o, is it a crime to help even a stranger talk more of your girlfriend. In as much as it won't hurt your livelihood and it is convenient for you, please help as much people as you can.

Fuckallmods:
I greet o…
Good morning 🌞
My babe is now addicted to TikTok live after realizing there could be money in it.
Y’all might say “She owes me no reason whatsoever not to behave as she wants, as she’s not my wife, only a girlfriend”…
I’m not even bothered about the TikTok monetization, because this is someone I’ve invested money in. In 2023, before prices started spiking, I established a business for her that’s worth roughly a million. This is because I don’t want her demanding whatsoever from me. I don’t pay heed to her basic demands like hair, bags, etc etc…

But she’s not serious with her business. She’s still in school so there’s no physical shop, but online.
She’s not consistent in posting her business. Sometimes I’m the one who even reminds her to post and it pains me that she doesn’t care about my investment.

Recently she met her girl friend and she was convinced by the friend to start a TikTok live that she, the friend gets paid some token from it.

But u know how this online stuff works? It’s her seeking validation from guys and Gifters. Most times she’s even forced to answer naughty questions from guys like “what kind of p£nis do you like” … I really got irritated that she’s comfortable with it.

My own is I’m not scared to lose anybody… if someone is on the opposite side of my standards and lifestyle, they seriously have to go. But it’s a 2 years relationship, I’m considering so many things…

But I just might break up with her

You are dating a student, up to the extent of establishing a business of one million for her... Funny people 😂

We must learn a lesson.

Dump her. U can't force a horse to drink water.

iamdocToyemi:
Boss I weak for these guys o, is it a crime to help even a stranger talk more of your girlfriend. In as much as it won't hurt your livelihood and it is convenient for you, please help as much people as you can.

Like bro… I Neva really get money self but she go enjoy my money when I finally make am. Even she go enjoy my money just like my children.

Fuckallmods:
Why is investing in someone wrong? I want to see her make it too… asin u no go like make ur sister boyfriend still invest in her too?
but ur problem is me investing in my girlfriend? Go and sit down

iamdocToyemi:
Boss I weak for these guys o, is it a crime to help even a stranger talk more of your girlfriend. In as much as it won't hurt your livelihood and it is convenient for you, please help as much people as you can.

Oga it's the truth that will help you that I'm sharing with you.

Your first investment bro, should be to groom her view and attitude towards life to soothe your lifestyle... That's the first thing men do. Where did your own masculinity come from.

Financial investment has a sole unarguable goal...To make profit, irrespective of relationship! So the relationship matter should be well grounded first. Why do you think men don't send girls to school except she's bethrothed to them.

How can you expect her to make profit when she doesn't even understand commitment. You just wasted investment. Imagine! Woman weh you no marry or relate to.. Nawa to you o!

you opened a business for her so she doesn’t ask you for money. smh signs of a finished man

As a man always Invest in yourself first.

If she blow on TikTok you think she won’t get better guys

Anyways I hope she blows up. God bless her hustle.

Arrange guys make them steal her TikTok phone

Break up now

Fuckallmods:
I greet o…
Good morning 🌞
My babe is now addicted to TikTok live after realizing there could be money in it.
Y’all might say “She owes me no reason whatsoever not to behave as she wants, as she’s not my wife, only a girlfriend”…
I’m not even bothered about the TikTok monetization, because this is someone I’ve invested money in. In 2023, before prices started spiking, I established a business for her that’s worth roughly a million. This is because I don’t want her demanding whatsoever from me. I don’t pay heed to her basic demands like hair, bags, etc etc…

But she’s not serious with her business. She’s still in school so there’s no physical shop, but online.
She’s not consistent in posting her business. Sometimes I’m the one who even reminds her to post and it pains me that she doesn’t care about my investment.

Recently she met her girl friend and she was convinced by the friend to start a TikTok live that she, the friend gets paid some token from it.

But u know how this online stuff works? It’s her seeking validation from guys and Gifters. Most times she’s even forced to answer naughty questions from guys like “what kind of p£nis do you like” … I really got irritated that she’s comfortable with it.

My own is I’m not scared to lose anybody… if someone is on the opposite side of my standards and lifestyle, they seriously have to go. But it’s a 2 years relationship, I’m considering so many things…

But I just might break up with her

I don't know y I feel irritated when I hear guys say they invested in girlfriend

Op just wait till she meet better people online n they show her real cash n u go know say she no send u

Fuckallmods:
Initially when I was in my finals, before we started dating she was a social media freak, but she dropped those things as she was very happy with US. Intimacy was somewhat frequent then too…
Now she’s still well cultured, but she’s straying.

Id have spoken to her about it now, but I’d rather watch her and see how she behaves on her own… this is because every woman gets to a stage where they become nonchalant of their partners advise.

I’d rather not speak to her now, because I’m not her life/behavioral supervisor. Especially when she’s back in school, or when she’s on her own. I need to observe the things she’ll do on her own.

Now I’m masterminding the situation, I’m even playing along. I needed to know how much she tolerates from other guys when I’m not around. I’m not possessive, neither am I reacting in any way about her current behavior…
But it’s quite irritating.

someone u can't predict what she can't do when u ain't there is who u are worried about?

Omo so this is how people live their life n make some bad choices n later come here to create thread after thread when they forcefully used money to marry someone who doesn't love them

Ask yourself, what if u travel out n she decides to open a different account u don't know about to do whatever she wants?

What I want to let u know is that u can't tame a beast, it's just a matter of time before she mess u up

If u keep telling her to be decent n she's managing to listen to u now, one day she will get tired of listening to u n do her own thing which obviously u won't b able to stop

Fuckallmods:
Like bro… I Neva really get money self but she go enjoy my money when I finally make am. Even she go enjoy my money just like my children.

same person wey dey answer guy with the kind prick she like in your presence?

So for your mind she won't send nudes to them if u ain't there

Now I am beginning to see life from different perspectives, I always wonder y we have so much divorce around before then now I am getting to know better now

U are bragging u will spend more on who doesn't send u, for your mind u think u can use your money to make her do your wish right?

Let's see how it unfolds

Rodimi20000000:
you opened a business for her so she doesn’t ask you for money. smh signs of a finished man

As a man always Invest in yourself first.

If she blow on TikTok you think she won’t get better guys

Anyways I hope she blows up. God bless her hustle.

Amen o

Sharpsharp00123:
I don't know y I feel irritated when I hear guys say they invested in girlfriend

Op just wait till she meet better people online n they show her real cash n u go know say she no send u

Foolish talk…
Whether u invest or u no invest, if she meet better people offline or online she fit still leave u, depending on her personality.

It’s my personality to give. This festive period I paid someone to cook for all the children in my church, but nobody knew I was the one who funded it, except the cook and pastors.

U think I care if she finds someone better? I be spec my bro. Na who no know himself Dey fear whether woman wan leave am

Fuckallmods:
Foolish talk…
Whether u invest or u no invest, if she meet better people offline or online she fit still leave u, depending on her personality.

It’s my personality to give. This festive period I paid someone to cook for all the children in my church, but nobody knew I was the one who funded it, except the cook and pastors.

U think I care if she finds someone better? I be spec my bro. Na who no know himself Dey fear whether woman wan leave am

shebi u don swear say na she go chop all your money

We are waiting for more threads from u

Greatresearcher for here do pass u, even give full house to woman.

He post court case tire for here

Stupid simp.idiot.
But if a guy in need asked u to help him with 50k. Ud tell him stories
Idiot

2cribz:
Stupid simp.idiot.
But if a guy in need asked u to help him with 50k. Ud tell him stories
Idiot

bro, no need for these insults now. It’s his money, and he can do whatever he wants with it. If u don’t have any advice for him, just read comments and move on, life is not hard.

Let her live the way she want na.
"I established a business for her that’s worth roughly a million", ask her to pay you back na.


I no want see any relationship palava abeg

In 2023, before prices started spiking, I established a business for her that’s worth roughly a million

This is someone's son.

Just wait for that question: what did you do for me?
Maybe that's when you'll understand your loss

Fuckallmods:
But I just might break up with her

Mr Investor. You can't break up with her.

If you could, then you would not be here typing 100 pages because of a girl.

2cribz:
Stupid simp.idiot.
But if a guy in need asked u to help him with 50k. Ud tell him stories
Idiot

Funny enough sensible people don’t keep friends who need urgent 2k or 10k. As a friend you’re either within my standards/ above me, or you’re working with/ under me.

You can’t be useless to someone and expect urgent 50k out of the blue.

I know ur among the categories of ppl who ask for money from their friends, most especially the ones you don’t keep in touch with. You might not message them about their wellbeing regularly, but as soon as needs arise, that’s when u remember “this person” can lend u 50k.
Lmao 🤣
I know ur type nor worry… but when God bless you, take care of ur woman u hear? Na brokeness Dey do u like dis , wey personal investment on babe Dey bite u for body. Take care of ur community too. 😂😂
Anyhow u wan spend ur own money no really concern me like dat

Stfu,hell bound simp

Fuckallmods:
Funny enough sensible people don’t keep friends who need urgent 2k or 10k. As a friend you’re either within my standards/ above me, or you’re working with/ under me.

You can’t be useless to someone and expect urgent 50k out of the blue.

I know ur among the categories of ppl who ask for money from their friends, most especially the ones you don’t keep in touch with. You might not message them about their wellbeing regularly, but as soon as needs arise, that’s when u remember “this person” can lend u 50k.
Lmao 🤣
I know ur type nor worry… but when God bless you, take care of ur woman u hear? Na brokeness Dey do u like dis , wey personal investment on babe Dey bite u for body. Take care of ur community too. 😂😂
Anyhow u wan spend ur own money no really concern me like dat