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Auxtan:
I was with my friend today and she said something that is concerning to me that I don't really know what to advice her because to me it really doesn't look good.

She said, the guy she is looking to settle down with is from a polygamous home. That the guy's mum (of blessed memories), married the guy's father (of blessed memories too), as a second wife to the man.

She also said, that before the guy's mum married the dad, she already married a different man that she has given birth to children for before they separated before she now married the guy's father and gave him his own children.

I don't know o, but I just feel for this my friend and don't really know how to advice her to be careful of what she's getting herself into. She has dated this guy for close to 5 years and they met in high school.

immortalcrown:
What exactly is that thing that is concerning to you?
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Educationalserv:
Busy body

samwash:
All of una wen they do BabyMama & BabyDaddy these days, you will see a lady have five children for five different men & a guy will have five children from five different ladies, so what do you have to say concerning that?
What is the difference with polygamy.
...And what is your concern if your friend is getting married to a person coming from a polygamous home or broken home.
Every guy or lady has his or her own person who they will get married to, why disturb yourself.

Samantha125:
Why are you her friend in the first place? I thought you guys are against the idea of women being friends with the opposite sex.

Chances are you'll end up being a problem to her marriage in the long run... Go hang out with your fellow bros.

Auxtan:
If she could end up being one of a man's many wives in the future

immortalcrown:
She dates him without considering it. Why not be consistent?