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Streak47:
All the best @AlphaNugget with your current & future endeavours.

Let me just chip in into the topic a little.

If truly she aborted it. I repeat if truly she aborted it. Whether she was coerced by her mother or not. Infact the best decision was really to end it.
If only we men know the extent to which ladies can go far and beyond for a guy. We will stop making excuses for women. If woman dey feel u, I tell you not even her mother or father can interfere. Them go collect. I've seen this in real time.

Do you think if the unborn were to be CR7's, Messi's, WizKid, Davido etc she will abort it? Even without any marriage rights & yeye conditions.

Again all these lovey-dovey stuff cohabiting etc aren't defining factors to know whether a lady really digs you. Infact they're very good in that. A woman could be all lovey-dovey my bae this that etc..all over you and you will be surprised inside of her you're really not it. And another might not be but she really digs you. It is in critical matters like this you know the ones that dig you or not. The ride or die type.
All those cohabiting when Una do she wan say she know really knows the thing you can do or not. She wan say she doesn't trust you to know whether you go disappoint am or not.

We men should learn to value ourselves oooh. You're also a Messi, CR7, WizKid etc in ur own way. Any woman that cannot see you as her king in your own small hut, free them. We have billions of people in the world. Move on to the next. I bet u, there are thousands of women out there ready to be in such positions.

You sef na king. We think women don't know what they're doing that's how the disrespect will start. It's start subtle. From aborting innocent unborn to more & more disrespect later on.

Do you know what it means for them to remove your baby behind your back if truly they did? They have no utter regard for you & your seed. No be same women they huzzle sperm from billionaires condoms to conceive. Ahaaa.


Men abeg make una see una sef as kings even u dey sell pure water for street. There are many women out there for you. You get to call the shots not a random girl. Have a big ball.

CaveAdullam:
Another day to remind you all that - you should only date women or be with women who have genuine desire for you.

Rather spend 1-year scouting or opening yourself to a woman like this than spend 1 year frolicking with many women.

It's not a matter of fvcking many different women.

As a man, you need to experience genuine desire from a woman.

You need to see a woman do anything for you. Not because of your wealth or status. But for your personality and whole being

There can be sex without genuine desire.

But there's no genuine desire without sex.

If you're not her crush, she will crush you.

Stay blessed.

JESHAL007:
1. Women easily get sex, but not commitment.
2. Nature is kind to women, but harsh to men. Time is harsh to women, but kind of men. Mother Nature, Father Time.
3. When a woman says that she can't find a men, she doesn't mean that guys don't talk to her... Hell nah... There are legions of simps dying for her attention in her DMs. What she means is that she can't find the man that she wants, not necessarily a man that wants her.
This is an example... How many simps do you think DMs this specimen per day?

JESHAL007:
By default, a woman is emotionally stronger than a man, while a man is physically stronger than a woman.

JESHAL007:
Be wary of the way you build rapport with females, to avoid things like this. Familiarity gets into their heads easily; like play like play, dem no dey know their mates again. Familiarity breeds contempt; avoid familiarity and see finish. If a girl appears to be rude, cut her off. No need to reply her impertinent remarks. Reserve friendship for your fellow trustworthy males. As for females, leave the ones that serve, or will serve, your aim as amiable acquaintances. Finally, don't talk too much each time when discussing with females, keep it brief and don't say more than necessary.

This is how I roll in real life and I still get along with both genders.

Nb: I didn't go into details, but I hope you get the drift.

AlphaNugget:
Bro.....
Last year I thought I have met the love of my life, it was as if we were perfect for eachother, so we decided to get married; fortunately our parents agreed.

She moved in with me and we cohabited for 8 months - March - October, during that period it was all love, we did things together.....she made numerous promises, the love was intoxicating, we made other people envious because of our public display of affection, we were young couples (she was 20, I was 26).

It was all fun, we planned our future kids and wrote names for both genders; then she was pregnant, the pregnancy lasted for 4 months, but the 3rd months was hell, her mum started acting up and we started having issues....we fixed wedding for November because of some financial constraints which my ex was well aware of, but her mum was saying that I only want the baby, that I will travel out of the country and leave the daughter, her mum wanted to hasten me but I just don't like being rushed into doing things because the year was coming to an end and I already have everything planned......we had this serious issue which led to her going back to her mum's house, that was when she aborted the baby of 4 months (although she said it was miscarriage and she pleaded that it was miscarriage).

Her mum was the weapon formed against us and unfortunately she succumbed to everything her mum planned.

I decided to end everything by December despite her pleas because I felt hurt by the fact that she could abort my first fruit despite everything I spent during her 1-3rd trimester, it hurts man, it does.....she went amok and was lamenting against me and all....it was not funny.

I decided to move out of that zone and relocate to another state just for my peace, I trashed my old SIM card and deleted every memory about her.

We were lovers with plans, we were supposed to be parents this year.....but now we are strangers. It is sad but I am now focused on my next journey out of this country, I pray the outside world favour me.

Dizzyyish:
They say marriage is the biggest investment a man makes in life... you wouldn't put your entire life savings into a business venture without knowing the nature and risks, would you?
So why do men do this in regards to marriage?:
Love and lack of understanding of female nature. These two things are mutually inclusive. It is not a coincidence that within this era of masculine weakness/misunderstanding there is also a huge surge of young guys rushing headfirst into marriage.

The most important thing right now is to not let what has happened weigh you down. Just focus on bettering yourself. Don't let women or other distractions stray you from your path.

JESHAL007:
The Redpill is a lifetime drug. I try my best to maintain my daily dosage. Fighting against one's biology and social conditioning is not an easy feat.

Smartb0y:
Attraction for women for the most part is psychological.

Women seek strong character attributes from men in order to be attracted to such a man.

The weak man would term a woman as money lovers because they got manipulated and exploited easily with minimal effort

Women don't have the muscle to beat a man into submission, figuratively speaking of course,what they have is the cunning to beat you as a man into submission.

A man in such a state is called a SIMP.

A man who has lost touch with nature,a lost deer being ravaged by merciless wild cats.

If she's not genuinely interested in you,which one concern you as a man,you go your way ,she goes her way.
No love lost
No passing blame

At this stage,you understand yourself as man who knows there's no gain in dealing with such women.
You understand the game,how social preference works.

This understanding makes you stand out from countless men.
The conditioning by society nowadays is for men to be submissive to women.

When you go against it,it creates a mystery around you, and yes women love mystery.

Like fish to a bait, they'll come knocking.

Something is always chasing something in this thing we call life.

Chase your purpose,women will chase you.
Chase women, who will chase your purpose

The first, you're putting in little or no effort to get women.
The second you're maxing out effort to get women... effort you should be directing to something meaningful and productive that'll add value to your life.

Sometimes men are their own undoing.
They don't even understand themselves,so they look for the next best thing to blame
Women!

Dizzyyish:
Truly, you either love women or understand them, never both. It's easy to be of the opinion that women are emotionally stronger but in truth they just lack the capacity for love. Their main advantage towards men (besides sex) is that they're followers by nature and men are leaders - when a man starts demonstrating his love she just follows his steps like a chameleon, so nothing feels out of place for both parties. When she then acts in her self-interest against the interest of her lover or branchswings she does so seamlessly because there was no love to create friction in the first place.
What many men call "love" from a woman is just sexual attraction or being addicted to the emotional roller coaster of a particular guy (She's loves the experience/feelings he gives her, not him as a person). And what many men see as a woman adhering to "morality" or "honor" is just fear of consequence/accountability.

Women have no value for a man's love beyond what it can do for them. How often has one heard women chastising other women that "If you love him you'll do or not do this (even if it's disadvantageous to you)"? but you'll definitely hear "If that man loves her he would have done [this or that] for her (even if it's disadvantageous to him)" and they'll say it with certainty.
And I don't mean most or majority of women - I mean ALL. It's simply their biological wiring to make up for being physically and cognitively weaker in contrast to men. If women, being the weaker sex, could love then that would be greatly detrimental to them, like predators having very fragile teeth and claws for hunting.

A woman's mother is, in many ways, an accurate indicator of how she will be years into marriage. No matter what she learns from her father, she still needs to learn how to navigate life as a female from a female, and the mother is typically the source (in this case her mom is basically a single mom).
If you had married that girl your life would have been hell on earth (and this would very well be the case seeing how strongly you were under the influence of love). And this might sound effed up but it was for the best she didn't end up being the mother of your child. She probably would have been influenced by her mom to separate from you and poison your child's mind, thus repeating the single mom cycle.
So in a sense, her mother's meddling was more a blessing than a curse in hindsight.

She also tried to stab you and you were still entertaining the thought of marriage? Omoh things dey happen oh . If my own blood actually tried to stab me, no matter how heated the quarrel is, I'll distance myself from that person, let alone someone who is basically a stranger to you. Love really makes men tolerate things that shouldn't be tolerated.

Also, at the risk of making a long comment even longer you're not a woman nor an old man. There isn't much reason to be rushing into marriage like your biological clock is ticking. Personally, I strongly advise against marriage but if you must marry for whatever reason then take your good time and understand female nature. They say marriage is the biggest investment a man makes in life... you wouldn't put your entire life savings into a business venture without knowing the nature and risks, would you?
So why do men do this in regards to marriage?:
Love and lack of understanding of female nature. These two things are mutually inclusive. It is not a coincidence that within this era of masculine weakness/misunderstanding there is also a huge surge of young guys rushing headfirst into marriage.

The most important thing right now is to not let what has happened weigh you down. Just focus on bettering yourself. Don't let women or other distractions stray you from your path.

Badmashiii:
Senior man i gbadun wetin you caprison. You be correct manchi.

As a man you're created to be a head. As men,we should always keep this in mind. Any banny wey try to criticise or reject this your right make sure you free am instantly.

CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.

Martinez39s:
My bad. I thought you were seeking guidance on what to do next after the redpill. I thought you assumed upping your game with the redpill was automatically the next step, and I was merely pointing out that it isn't.

MGTOW is a lifestyle that shuns marriage, cohabitation with women, and romantic relationships with women (short and long term). Such lifestyle doesn't fault or forbid men from using escorts, prostitutes, and porn. A mgtow man can have sex with anyone he wants as long as the sex is consensual. Such a man can have sex with prostitutes, his neighbor's grown daughter(s) (or any girl next door), his course mates (or any Bleep buddy) etc. It is not limited to prostitutes, porn and escorts. Personally, I find paying for sex to a foolish thing, but any mgtow man is free to do such if they want... it's their money. It also doesn't condemn a man for being sexually aroused and having sex.

Men don't NEED sex. A man won't die if he doesn't have sex. In accordance with tenets of self-improvement, a man must reach a level where his sexual desires, which will always be there, cannot influence him against his will and always dictate for him. Such a level is possible as every man is ultimately responsible for his actions even when Hot. Can a man stay for many decades without having sex with a woman? Yes. If I can do it, what's anyone's excuse?

Stop this misinformation. Being sexually aroused doesn't mean you must find a release [with a woman]; and sexual starvation isn't the driving force of rapists. I have never had sex in my entire life, I never plan to, and I have never thought of raping any woman. Konji are like waves— they always come and go. Sexual desires will always be there, but it's up to you to determine whether you succumb to them or not. Even when Hot, you are still responsible for your actions. What kind of life would a man live if he succumbs and seeks release to every fine pùssy and konji that rises in his body? Too bad males are not taught the vital discipline of mastering themselves and maintain their ground during sexual arousal; instead, males are praised for their high body count.

Whether one likes it or not, konji will always come once in a while, but it will die down shortly (usually when you have made up your mind not to succumb and let the little man lead). The longer you have practiced being in control of your decisions even when on heat, the lesser the grip of your sexual desires on your decisions; I speak out of experience. A man need not be a slave to his inherent sexual impulses. If men can learn to master themselves during heat (a act that is very possible), and stop being smitten by any fine pùssy, part of his problems with women will be eliminated.

As far as I can tell, no one (at least not mgtow men) shame men for being Hot. Being Hot is something that will always happen once in while. Higher testosterone levels is not an excuse to let your sexual desires be your master. Sexual desires will always be there, but a man must be the master of his decisions and resolutions even when on heat. I ask again, what kind of life would a man lead if he succumbs to every fine pùssy and seeks release for every konji that rises in his body?

NB: I am not against men being involved in the game. However, let's not be misinformed and be slaves to something (our sexual desires) that we are supposed to be masters of. Cheers.

Skepticus:
Saviolamemphix, it's the same thing Junnior and a few others are hinting on. There is no 50/50 equality in marriage. Anyone who believes that is very ignorant. One would exceed each other. In this case, it's my advise for men to take the highest share while the woman takes the a minimal portion to be "invested" except you are super-rich or being born into wealthy royalty where the woman doesn't even have to drop a kobo or do domestic duties (like a trophy wife) and won't also cheat as there are severe social consequences of she doing that.

DEMZEE is talking about total dominance - Hard Patriarchy which is highly impracticable in the 21st century except you are going to pick a wife from some pre-modern society in the amazon or some hyper-rural parts of Africa. Even to the woman, he is still a HIGH VALUE SLAVE trapped in the insecurity of his ego. With the modern woman already exposed to tropes of women liberation and feminism, it's a waste of valuable time and unnecessary accumulation of mental stress for a man to seek total domination of a woman. It's possible though but you have to work yourself flat out to be mega rich which is not entirely within your control.

Money makes a lot of thing easy for a man and men must strive to make it, though in reality, only a minimal percentage of men would make money to last his lifetime and death. There would always be rank and class among men. The basic thing for a man is to have his own space (SHELTER either yours or rented) and a means of earning income. If you are not there yet, strive to achieve this, from there, you can move into building bigger things within which time, chance and effort can afford you.

That said, I'll clear things up here being red pilled means putting your own needs first as an individual whether rich, managing or flat out broke. I see people talk about making money and self improvement (which is very good) but those are not exclusive to the red pill. Miserable blue pilled SIMPs can find the motivation (like every other men) to make money and self improve. There are a lot more of these types, than rich red pilled dudes. I've also seen super-broke young men who don't seem to chase money or even self-improve but put themselves first among their peers and in their relationship with women - the core of the red pill. To the surprise of some men who think they are high value because they are super-educated and wealthy, they see so-called "low lives" run their own space with beautiful submissive women at their beck and call. It's the same thing that happens when some folks see motor park touts getting wealthy and being influential in society and think because they have PhDs, they deserve to be rewarded more. The reality of life doesn't work that way.

Go for what you want and get it. Even though factors beyond your control may sometimes get in your way, at least you know that you tried. However, in what ever state you find yourself, try to be in control of what is within your limits (taking responsibility), try to get some influence among your peers and strive to get better. A man in charge of his life, space and pushing his needs regardless of what society thinks is HIGH VALUE.

ChristianBen:
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