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Lol.... Single mothers are only meant to suck ur dick, then u bend them over for serious weeping,... Give them money anr chase them out of ur house.... Till u need them again.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

Tueh for OLOSHOes

I can do anything sexual to a single mother but to marry,Tufiakwa.

I believe it is about "judging a book by it's cover". It is true that this society looks down on single mothers because they believe every single mother is as a result of being unmarried and sleeping around....and every single mother is a prostitute. It is always because of their loose living .... or infidelity. If they were married and became a widow doesn't matter .... a single mom is a single mom and every single mom is a LovePeddler period ... well ....except one's family member. With this mentality .... sooo many men will dump a single mom ...never mind they see she is a good person... and marry one who is childless but had countless abortions .... and after marriage... not only can't she bear children but her true colour comes out ... bottom line ... got married to an undercover LovePeddler . Then what? Not saying all single mothers are good .... many are indeed loose and don't know who really is th baby father .... but saying we shouldn't paint them with a broad brush .

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

that survey was really done in your backyard.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

It's not situation that make men to become single fathers.??

Have you ever imagined what could ever make a woman to leave her baby (or babies) in the hands of a man, which made the man to become the single father.??

You're here creating topics and writing whatever you like, just to paint a narrative.

A man raising a child he didn’t make is the man that same woman would not have accepted if she had no kids. Usually doesn’t end well

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

Just package yaself well

No body hate single mothers. Everyone just have to take responsibilities and consequences of their actions.

One man I know who hit jackpot when he married single mother was seargent Harrison aka the adopted father of Shaquille o Neal. That man chop millions of dollars till he die. Na enjoyment kill am

As I type this my wife is currently in battle with her younger brother who brought home a single mother of 2 and introduced her as his fiancee, she has gone ahead to dig up her dark secrets and sharing it amongst her siblings to stop the marriage from taking place.
Women love talking that way until its time for their brother or son to get married and they declare war on the single mother.

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

where did u get that figure?

U just pull figures out anyhow

That quality you want other men to have but your father or brother shouldn't have

MoonWater:
You people with self deception all the time. There is nothing cool about being a single parent as a father. But it's easier for a man to provide for his child conviniently without doing hookup and troubling the society with all sorts of infections

By the way, that twitter post is stylish trying to manipulate men taking care of bastardssss.

Some real men will fall for the gimmick, not me Sha, I'm fake as the word.

Nicepoker:
They will be asking you to start taking responsibilities for a child you never had. I send you to spread legs without thinking twice?

I wonder o.
I would rather remain single than marry single mother. I made that mistake before and I WONT make that mistake again by God's grace

Originalsly:
I believe it is about "judging a book by it's cover". It is true that this society looks down on single mothers because they believe every single mother is as a result of being unmarried and sleeping around....and every single mother is a prostitute. It is always because of their loose living .... or infidelity. If they were married and became a widow doesn't matter .... a single mom is a single mom and every single mom is a LovePeddler period ... well ....except one's family member. With this mentality .... sooo many men will dump a single mom ...never mind they see she is a good person... and marry one who is childless but had countless abortions .... and after marriage... not only can't she bear children but her true colour comes out ... bottom line ... got married to an undercover LovePeddler . Then what? Not saying all single mothers are good .... many are indeed loose and don't know who really is th baby father .... but saying we shouldn't paint them with a broad brush .

The reasons I can never-ever get married to single mother are two.
1 Children upbringing,: She wont allow me to chastise/discipline her kids the way I will like to do for my own kids. Infact, her kids would ultimately lead to fight and separation.

2. If her ex husband still alive: Marrying a single mother in which her husband still alive, is synonymous to be in polyandry with such woman, the space of her ex, can never completely eraze in her heart. The ex would still have access to her body if he knows how to play his game Wella. I have witnessed countless of such cases.

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

Meaning women dominate the economy. The same women will turn around and claim patriarchy is keeping them down. This gender eh!

Good For Them

We all view things differently, for me I am married to a single mother and today we have two kids together. If I am giving a second chance to marry again, I will still marry her. So, is not about hating on single mothers or abomination, it's all about personality and where one finds love.

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

This is not true according to NBS the figure is 22.3%.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

Even some single mothers themselves are a living hate. Some of them are not lovable at all, some men realise this aspect after the pregnancy or after a brief married life together.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

The only single mother I can respect

IS

1. THE ONE THAT THE HUSBAND DIED

2. SHE WAS FAITHFUL WHILE HE WAS ALIVE

3. AND SHE DIDNT KILL HIM/HAD NO HAND IN HIS DEATH

4. AND SHE KEPT HERSELF PURE EVEN AFTER HIS DEATH!


Since I can’t prove 2,3,4 I would continue to avoid them forever to the best of my abilities.

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

Your stats are wrong Ma'am.

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

Nothing like that..... I be single dad and nothing you fit tell me, i nor de follow old and expired women in the name of sugar moms to feed my kid..... A lot have tried no avail now look at the opp gender... Single moms... arhhhhhhhhhhhhh Every tom, dick, harry, papa, uncle, granpa etc etc have rode through that tunnel. Well you are right about wives been bread winners but na south south sha. Ehen.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

I knew you were a single mother all along.

No wonder you have so much hate for men. Sorry o.

Single mum's are not for commitment.

They are for recreational use only.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

The only single mother I can respect and that is worth respecting is:

1. THE ONE THAT THE HUSBAND DIED

2. SHE WAS FAITHFUL AS A WIFE WHILE HE WAS ALIVE

3. AND SHE DIDNT KILL HIM/HAD NO HAND IN HIS DEATH

4. AND SHE KEPT HERSELF PURE EVEN AFTER HIS DEATH!

THAT IS THE ONLY SINGLE MOTHER WORTH RESPECTING !


Since I can’t prove 2,3,4 I would continue to avoid them forever to the best of my abilities.
It is my choice. You cannot force your choice on us and then still want to make us change our choice to suit you. Take accountability.

No matter how much you have or how you package yourself, fact is that as long as a man has pumped sperm into your womb and you produced a child then “Haunty” go and meet that man Biko, no sensible man will take you seriously.

You women are always thinking you can misbehave and not face the consequences! No. Only a simp and fool will consider a woman run through by another/other men so much that she gets pregnant and bears children. Some even have more than one man that they have kids with outside of wedlock. Shows very poor and horrible decision making with no care for consequences and accountability. Shows the poor mindset. As men we ask ourselves that what does such a woman know or have to teach our kids and to run our homes?! What?Lack of self control and common sense? Tufiakwa!!!!

As for those out of wedlock, they should go and meet the man they decided to open their filthy legs for (shamelessly) to be with him so he takes them seriously. Unless they will mainly just keep being for recreational use only. NO MAN WILL/SHOULD TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY. I would also keep advising other men not to touch them even with a stick or pole. I don’t want to be in a serious committed relationship with and see someone who daily reminds me of her stupid and bad choices and the result(s) therefrom! Daily reminder of poor and bad decisions. If you can easily open your legs, expose your private parts to a man who is not your husband and hasn’t performed the necessary things as per tradition on your head, and you got get pregnant and bore a child, it simply means you rebelled against all the rules and instructions by your father, mother, society, religion, to keep your stinky legs closed.

I have nothing against you single mothers. Just go back to the man you readily opened your damned legs for. If he doesn’t want you anymore, then be alone and enjoy the consequences of your actions and don’t expect any man to ever take you seriously. Ever!

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

Only in your dream

I was given birth by a single parent but I can never marry a single parent. They're lot of problems around them

saphiere:
nlfpmod lalasticlala seun why do men hate single mothers this much?

PerfectStranger:
Every woman wants a simp until its their brother.

You should bolden this thing.

This feminist ur mumu never do, that dido go break inside ur wide pvssy

verdad00:
Take it or leave it. A single mother loves her child more than you, the husband. No matter how much you try to please her.

Have you ever seen any single mother that has ever said anything good about the father of her child?

Women that will never want their brother to marry a single mother.

verdad00:
Take it or leave it. A single mother loves her child more than you, the husband. No matter how much you try to please her.

Have you ever seen any single mother that has ever said anything good about the father of her child? 

Well, only if the cause of separation was untimely death sha