₦airaland Forum

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

80% you say?

If women are this much a breadwinner, why do they need men who you classify as being 80% liability?

Why are you clamoring for the liabilities to marry single mothers who are obviously 80% providers?

Do you think your brain is working at all?

PerfectStranger:
Every woman wants a simp until its their brother.

You will be shocked by how sound their arguments can be 😂

idahme:
but ij reality men run away from troublesome women

Na so.

Kavod:
Nothing like that..... I be single dad and nothing you fit tell me, i nor de follow old and expired women in the name of sugar moms to feed my kid..... A lot have tried no avail now look at the opp gender... Single moms... arhhhhhhhhhhhhh Every tom, dick, harry, papa, uncle, granpa etc etc have rode through that tunnel. Well you are right about wives been bread winners but na south south sha. Ehen.

You are against single mothers, what happened to you leaving your woman, you couldn't wife her, you jilted after you go her pregnant, so who will get married to your baggage. With this narrative that is been pushed blames are always on the women, what about the men.
I won't get married to a single mom, if I get a woman pregnant I would wife, you guys are the reason these topics are created

powerkey:
Read your post over and over again and you'll see reasons why no responsible man will marry an epic Single mother like you with five children.... Who be their papa? Does having 5 children from 5 different men make any sense to you?

Abeg shift.... Let your brother marry you.

There's one in my neighborhood, she dey do Shakira give guys sef.

Divoc19:
Because it is the woman’s fault that it didn’t work out.

It is not about being d woman's fault or not. It is about tricking a man into raising a child that il never see him as a father, a child that il go back to his or her father once he or she becomes an adult

Rich4god:
A woman's greatest mistake is to be a single mother...

Except in event of death of spouse, a woman should avoid being a single mother.

And for the good of the society, a woman should try and avoid been a single mother cos they hardly raise children with good moral standard.

Words on marble.

Dpharisee:
As I type this my wife is currently in battle with her younger brother who brought home a single mother of 2 and introduced her as his fiancee, she has gone ahead to dig up her dark secrets and sharing it amongst her siblings to stop the marriage from taking place.
Women love talking that way until its time for their brother or son to get married and they declare war on the single mother.

They declare fatwa

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

What a silly lie

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

Including your home, mostly your mom feeding your dad and taking good care of the home

Gggjhhj:
You are against single mothers, what happened to you leaving your woman, you couldn't wife her, you jilted after you go her pregnant, so who will get married to your baggage. With this narrative that is been pushed blames are always on the women, what about the men.
I won't get married to a single mom, if I get a woman pregnant I would wife, you guys are the reason these topics are created

At least i nor burden am with the day to day activities of my kid nor asked her for one penny. Abeg i nor like stress, i nor de AGAINST single moms na the truth i talk.... My pikin mama nor be single mom bcuz she nir de with the pikin and people hardly know. Single moms with their kids do too much vanity to cater for their kids.

The statement below is the reason I broke up with a single mom i dated last year. She kept putting her child needs over me. We can't plan anything without the child been involved. It was becoming a burden. And that's why I told myself I can never date a single mother. Only for knacks and snacks

verdad00:
Take it or leave it. A single mother loves her child more than you, the husband. No matter how much you try to please her.

Have you ever seen any single mother that has ever said anything good about the father of her child?

Every single mother will preach that there's nothing wrong with marrying a single mother, but will discourage their brothers from marrying same.

A single mother is a no no
.

Because once debe, always debe


Once a members is always a member

Okafor's Law ⚖️

Facidio:
Lol.... Single mothers are only meant to suck ur dick, then u bend them over for serious weeping,... Give them money anr chase them out of ur house.... Till u need them again.

Lwkmd

saphiere:
nlfpmod lalasticlala seun why do men hate single mothers this much?

Will you allow your brothers marry single mothers?

MoonWater:
You people with self deception all the time. There is nothing cool about being a single parent as a father. But it's easier for a man to provide for his child conviniently without doing hookup and troubling the society with all sorts of infections

By the way, that twitter post is stylish trying to manipulate men taking care of bastardssss.

no mind the werey that made that post on Facebook. 'Oro rirun' as we call it in Yoruba parlance. They are trying to whitewash smelly sturvs...lol

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

Do you even know the meaning of hate? You need to stop exaggerating your situation. Just because I don't want to marry a single mom doesn't mean I hate her.

[quote author=LoveJesus87 post=133782430]I wonder o. I would rather remain single than marry single mother. I made that mistake before and I WONT make that mistake again by God's grace [/doing?]

Give us gist abeg.

I have nothing against single mothers but check out their attitudes, lifestyle and ask why didn't they end up with their baby daddy. That will be ur guide.

2ndly ask these women if they were single can they raise a baby they didn't birth?

Kajaard:
I knew you were a single mother all along.

No wonder you have so much hate for men. Sorry o.

Single mum's are not for commitment.

They are for recreational use only.

Hehehe

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

Most single mothers are terrible women. They're mostly the reasons they are single. Some even go as far as pushing the men out and cutting them off from the kids just so they can live single and meet other men while trying to raise the child on her own. And when it gets critical they begin to conjour all sorts of stories to the child so the man who probably has no idea how or where they're will be seen as the devil. Although some few men outrightly abandoned their kids and women but most times these women initiate the break up so they can cut be prostittuttting around as they're still not really ready to abandon that life

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners.

Where you get your stats from?
You no even get shame..
Try and become a single mother and find out

saphiere:
It's not about providing here. A lot of those mothers can feed the child and even the so called man.

The issue is them being looked down on. No man wants to marry them.

Most of you men are liabilities we all know that.

If you carry out a survey in Nigerian homes, 80% of the homes the wives are the breadwinners .

Hahahaha which Nigeria? This one is highly delusional

DisLifeSha:
I was given birth by a single parent but I can never marry a single parent. They're lot of problems around them

Self realization is the key. You got it on time.

jericco1:
Where you get your stats from?
You no even get shame..
Try and become a single mother and find out

No mind her. Na tout she be

Ebubu6:
You should bolden this thing.

Italize and bolden am. Then increase the font.

Football match wey start at 0-2 na handicap

Calitoscassius:
No way in hell! I am marrying single mother or be in a relationship with her. But rather i will get her pregnant so she can have a child or 2 for me adding the ones she already had from another man or men.. all i have to do is take care of my own child/children she had for me financially. Let the other father/fathers take care of their own. I didn't start these baby mamarism trend i am not the one to finish it.

E be like you just like stress all your life.

saphiere:
We see being a single parent as a man as 'Cool' but being a single parent as a woman as an abomination.

Why they hate?
Even when we know that most single mothers and good women. Situations put them in that position.

I tare for my naija guys o.

If I am your immediate younger brother or child as a young man would you have allowed me father a child I didn't give birth to

Originalsly:
This is exactly what I'm talking about ...painting with a broad brush. Your choice ...but let's discuss. Providing your way of upbringing and chastising a child is reasonable ... how do you know no single mom would allow you to? No doubt ...there are mothers even in marriage that do not allow the husband to chastise their precious never do wrong children. The same can happen to the non single woman you marry .... can cause fights between you and her over chastising your own kid. So would you even consider marrying period?
If the single mom's husband is still alive .... then you should know the risks involved including the risk to life. Again.... can't paint with a broad brush .... many have married under such circumstances and went on to have better lives and relationship than many that marry virgins or those with no history of relationships.

I read only one paragraph of ur thrash before I comment for the last time, I won't be surprised if your upbringing is hogwash and I can seeeeee, you are a type who like to deceive himself.

No woman will give you chance to scold her children if you aren't their biological father, as your own child, even biological father still struggling atimes in the hands of mother.

Anyway, you might be talking from the angle of limited experience sha.

I give you this simple assignment, try to scold kids around your environment whenever they err for 3 months continuously and come back and share ur experience.