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What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op):
What do men gain for being in a relationship?

On a more serious note, men gain absolutely nothing in relationships. The illustration below explains it all.

If you say sex, then understand that your babe enjoy that sex more than you. It has been scientifically proven several times that women enjoys sex far more than men. The difference is that men are loud and outspoken when it comes to sex, but in reality, women want it more, they enjoy it more than you do as a man!

Imagine a girl who says "so I should be opening my legs for you and you won't take care of me? " , ordinarily, such girl is considered a parasite and a complete liability, however, this is to tell you that women are in relationship because of what they're benefiting from you. They know men are loud when it comes to sex so they use that weaponize men. The average Nigerian girl sees no reason of being in a relationship with you the moment you stop sending her gifts and giving her money.

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Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:30pm On Jan 18, 2025
lipsrsealed
Absolutely nothing..

I've sat my assss down multiple times just to ask myself this one deep question,but I've come to fully understand that men gains nothing from being in relationships, especially when you're in it with the wrong woman........
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by dawnomike(m): 6:35pm On Jan 18, 2025
Well, it all depends on your perspective... Everything about been in a relationship does not resolve around 'sex'.
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 6:36pm On Jan 18, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Absolutely nothing..

I've sat my assss down multiple times just to ask myself this one deep question,but I've come to fully understand that men gains nothing from being in relationships, especially when you're in it with the wrong woman........
I have even asked women, the sincere ones said men are really suffering because they gain absolutely nothing for being in relationships.

The girl uses the man to elevate herself, exploits him financially and gave him sex in return, the mugu is happy for getting sex, something the girl enjoys far far more than he does! Why couldn't she financially care for him too?

The earlier men understand that they're being used and exploited the better for us all.
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 6:39pm On Jan 18, 2025
dawnomike:
Well, it all depends on your perspective... Everything about been in a relationship does not resolve around 'sex'.
To Nigeria girls, the moment they have sex with you, they believed they have paid you for whatever help you have given them.

To the average Nigerian girl, it's all about sex and money with numerous benefits (this is what they're benefiting from dating you as a man). Whereas the man benefits absolutely nothing!
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by Fahvvy: 6:07am On Jan 19, 2025
Whilst it is true that the majority of the modern-day woman is a parasite with absolutely nothing to offer, the reality of the matter is that, there are exceptions to every rule undecided...

Find that exception (however rare and difficult it may be) and threads like this won't be commonplace undecided...

And besides sef, most modern-day men no really comot road like that, let's be real here undecided...
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by mosicola(m): 9:42am On Jan 19, 2025
I blame my prick for all these nonsense. It has refused to get sense even after several pieces of advice
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 9:51am On Jan 19, 2025
Stress... If we don't stress you, who will?
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by TheSourcerer: 11:56am On Jan 19, 2025
Samantha125:
Stress... If we don't stress you, who will?
Life I believe
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 12:32pm On Jan 19, 2025
We're part of that life... grin grin grin
TheSourcerer:
Life I believe
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by poshestmina(f): 4:10pm On Jan 19, 2025
Nothing oh my brother 😂,even the segz,we give it only Seven Eke market days .

How about you men stay on your own,with una tables as we no dey gree bring anything to the table..for peace to reign?
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by ukaface(f): 5:46pm On Jan 19, 2025
G0Oodharddick:
What do men gain for being in a relationship?

On a more serious note, men gain absolutely nothing in relationships. The illustration below explains it all.

If you say sex, then understand that your babe enjoy that sex more than you. It has been scientifically proven several times that women enjoys sex far more than men. The difference is that men are loud and outspoken when it comes to sex, but in reality, women want it more, they enjoy it more than you do as a man!

Imagine a girl who says "so I should be opening my legs for you and you won't take care of me? " , ordinarily, such girl is considered a parasite and a complete liability, however, this is to tell you that women are in relationship because of what they're benefiting from you. They know men are loud when it comes to sex so they use that weaponize men. The average Nigerian girl sees no reason of being in a relationship with you the moment you stop sending her gifts and giving her money.
Oya na
No do relationship again

Una too Dey complain like woman
Abegi
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 5:54pm On Jan 19, 2025
ukaface:
Oya na
No do relationship again

Una too Dey complain like woman
Abegi
As expected.

Already feeling emotional just like the emotional being u are.

The guys above gave a very logic reply. E reach ur turn you started feeling emotional over it. Pathetic!

What do men Gain for being in a relationship with you? That was the question
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 5:56pm On Jan 19, 2025
poshestmina:
Nothing oh my brother 😂,even the segz,we give it only Seven Eke market days .

How about you men stay on your own,with una tables as we no dey gree bring anything to the table..for peace to reign?
It has been scientifically proven that If men choose to stay on their own, ur gender will all die of hunger.

If men decides to withdraw their attention, ur gender will probably die of lack of attention from guys as this is a known fact that women feeds on men's attention
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 5:58pm On Jan 19, 2025
Samantha125:
Stress... If we don't stress you, who will?
Glad you know ur gender has absolutely nothing valuable to offer a man in a relationship
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by ukaface(f): 5:59pm On Jan 19, 2025
G0Oodharddick:
As expected.

Already feeling emotional just like the emotional being u are.

The guys above gave a very logic reply. E reach ur turn you started feeling emotional over it. Pathetic!

What do men Gain for being in a relationship with you? That was the question
How is that being emotional?

Stop gaslighting Abeg

THERE IS NO GAIN FOR MEN WHILST IN A RELATIONSHIP

That is the most logical reason

Giving reasons is only an avenue to keep talking without getting to no point
First it was ‘ what are women bringing to the table?’ That one never do Una
Na to Dey ask this one now

Simple: No gain
Y’all should stay by yourself, it can’t be too hard, can it??
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by ukaface(f): 6:00pm On Jan 19, 2025
G0Oodharddick:
It has been scientifically proven that If men choose to stay on their own, ur gender will all die of hunger.

If men decides to withdraw their attention, ur gender will probably die of lack of attention from guys as this is a known fact that women feeds on men's attention
How many your attraction don feed?
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 6:21pm On Jan 19, 2025
ukaface:
How many your attraction don feed?
Ur gender can die from lack of attention, if she doesn't get it from men in 3 months!

Some even goes online to ask if something is wrong with them? And why are men refusing to chase or give them attention!

That's to tell you the length of how frustrated ur gender can get to, if they don't attention from Men.
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 6:23pm On Jan 19, 2025
ukaface:
How is that being emotional?

Stop gaslighting Abeg

THERE IS NO GAIN FOR MEN WHILST IN A RELATIONSHIP

That is the most logical reason

Giving reasons is only an avenue to keep talking without getting to no point
First it was ‘ what are women bringing to the table?’ That one never do Una
Na to Dey ask this one now

Simple: No gain
Y’all should stay by yourself, it can’t be too hard, can it??
Ranting as usual.

The above picture in the Post is a clear point to note. Instead you left it and started ranting as usual.

If you can't provide an answer, I'd suggest you stop commenting
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by ukaface(f): 6:25pm On Jan 19, 2025
G0Oodharddick:
Ur gender can die of lack of attention, if she doesn't get attention from men in 3 months!

Some even goes online to ask if something is wrong with them? And why are men refusing to chase or give them attention!

That's to tell you the length of how frustrated ur gender can get to, if they don't attention from Men.
How many you hear say don drop dead because of lack of attention





Fvck!!!! I just realized your moniker
Fvck!!!! Why the hell am I replying you??
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by Samantha125(f):
Stress is valuable...😑😑😑

If we don't stress you, you wouldn't be motivated to look after yourselves, you wouldn't have that drive to work harder and be more successful in life.

Even English says behind every successful man, there's a woman who's been stressing him to be better in life... If a woman doesn't stress you, she doesn't love you.

There's this woman who was just telling me about how her fiance doesn't like bathing, she basically has to prepare the bath for him and force him to go and bathe like a young boy... Whenever she's not around, the entire house would be a mess, but when she's around, he tries to keep it clean.

Most of the time you can tell when a guy is single from a distance, they always look a mess.
G0Oodharddick:
Glad you know ur gender has absolutely nothing valuable to offer a man in a relationship
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by plessis: 6:37pm On Jan 19, 2025
There is a level you will carry yourself and you will realize that men need to withhold their semen from these present crop of women. Let them die off. These crop of women deserve to die alone. They don't care about everything. They want to destroy every single moral structure that is fundamental and foundational to our society.

Men need to restart women. Get the homely, traditional women and wife them. Let them produce homely daughters again. Let the spoilt crop of hoes die off.
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by TheBreastSucker(m):
Even if it's only to suck breast, that one is good enough for me grin
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by TheBreastSucker(m): 6:44pm On Jan 19, 2025
ukaface:
How many you hear say don drop dead because of lack of attention





Fvck!!!! I just realized your moniker
Fvck!!!! Why the hell am I replying you??
Why are you shouting "fùck" all over the place?

If you want him to fùck you just say so.

Me sha want to suck your breasts grin
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:19pm On Jan 19, 2025
TheBreastSucker:
Even if it's only to suck breast, that one is good enofor me grin
As the say "instead of full cow to run, cut the tail and do cow tail pepper soup"

grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: What Do Men Gain For Being In A Relationship? by G0Oodharddick(op): 11:00pm On Jan 19, 2025
plessis:
There is a level you will carry yourself and you will realize that men need to withhold their semen from these present crop of women. Let them die off. These crop of women deserve to die alone. They don't care about everything. They want to destroy every single moral structure that is fundamental and foundational to our society.

Men need to restart women. Get the homely, traditional women and wife them. Let them produce homely daughters again. Let the spoilt crop of hoes die off.
Swears!
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